Very good time to report in there. .5 at the door, standard tip.
HE,FS, etc.
Thank you DeezNuts
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Very good time to report in there. .5 at the door, standard tip.
HE,FS, etc.
Thank you DeezNuts
Very good time to report in there. 5 at the door, standard tip. HE, FS, etc. Thank you DeezNuts. Was surprised to see it was open, after seeing no lights on display. This was circa 2pm.
I visited Bay Spa on Artesia in Redondo Beach. RA was a middle-aged asian woman who gave a good legitimate massage, nothing more nothing less.
[QUOTE=Apple Jack]I visited Bay Spa on Artesia in Redondo Beach. RA was a middle-aged asian woman who gave a good legitimate massage, nothing more nothing less.[/QUOTE]Lesson #1. If you don't like the vibe or the way the provider looks. If you feel it's going to be without extras and/or if you have any reason to feel you are about to waste your time and money just ask for your $ back if you gave it and leave. You can seed this "out" if you want by saying at the beginning that you are looking for someone in particular you had last time who's name you forget and then give a description that would suit half of Korea town. When the person they assign you is not to your liking, say that's not who you want and that you'll come back. Then get your money back and leave. It's easy. They will ALWAYS give you your money back (if you immediately ask for it before anything starts). I've done it a hundred times. There's no reason to go thru the hastle and expense. It's your money! If you want to bail, get your money back (be cool and nice. They will give it back. Say you want to come back later/tomorrow, whatever).
[QUOTE=Apple Jack]RA was a middle-aged asian woman [/QUOTE]What does RA mean?
[QUOTE=Total Pkg]I'd like to report a very good session here in Gardena. 5 plus the standard tip. HE, FS, DS and more. By Coco thanks to Deeznuts. She was very good. Nice body.[/QUOTE]
For the price these places charge I'd rather drop an extra $ and get a nice asian gfe for an hour in west la.
lets face it without the buffet of options at le sun these places just aren't worth it!
[QUOTE=Monster Cock]Lesson #1. If you don't like the vibe or the way the provider looks. If you feel it's going to be without extras and/or if you have any reason to feel you are about to waste your time and money [/QUOTE]Very true, good point. While I sometimes go for full menu, at other times I'm in the mood for a decent massage plus HE. She looked about right for the second category, but there are no guarantees in this hobby. There are other AMPs nearby with reviews, which I'll try.
Play safe, guys!
[QUOTE=CrackBack]What does RA mean?[/QUOTE]
RA = relaxation assistant
Misfit
***Resume***
Introduction:
Still a part time grasshopper to the scene, hoping to become a full time Horndog. :)
Flavor:
I love all kinds L B W A, I hate chubby chicks. Loves MILF. I'm an ass and boob man.
Experience:
Discovered USG a year ago and is now an addict. I enjoyed reading people's reports, great entertainment while looking for some decent amps.
*A_y Acc @ Gardena:
Been there several times. Seem there is only 3 or 4 KTechs working. That place is heaven for me after some stress or being sore after working out. Every time a tech tells me to lay down and she hops on me wearing a long tight dress ready to give me a massage, I always have a huge grin on my face with sparkles in my eyes lol (felt like a kid watching his first porn vid while parents are gone).
COST: 50 door + $. TECHS: 6(f**kable) MASSAGE: 8.5 SERVICE: 7(fs) Health: A grade (clean and safe)
*Hwiai Tehatre @ COI:
Strip club next to an amp. Been there once. I was walking towards the club and some short drunk looking white dude who just came out of the amp next door start taking pictures of me with his cell and asked me if I'm the owner of the AMP (I'm asian) He tells me he's going to post my picture on the web, I told him to f*off... drunk. He got in my face and tells me if I want it to go down right now and goes on and tells me that this is America I'll show you how to fight like an American (something like that). I saw mamasan running out asking for money (I guess he didn't pay) It cooled down a little and we backed off from each other. I would love to have an old fashion fist fight with him but I don't know how far he would take it. I mean come on, I was born here, I am an American, what a dumbass.
So right off the bat, bad start. Went in the club sat down got a lap dance offered FS + Greek from a white chick. I know this tread is for amps but since it's related I decided to post the details on the club.
COST:$$.5 (I got hassled) GIRLS: 6(f**kable) SERVICE: 5(a chair is not exactly a bed) HEALTH: C grade (Those chairs don't look so clean and the drunk was a little dangerous)
I'll post more of my experience later. I'm interested in going to that one Normandie Accu people are talking about can someone tell me the exact location, I searched and there are several at normandie.
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Also, you might want to put future posts from there in the COI strip club reports section
I was out looking to monger on Friday and found several mp in gardena closed. Eun and Kim's Accupunture. Ended up at Amy's and was amazed.
From what I remember kim's/amy's have been closed for a while now.
EUn is open, but you must enter through the side/back area
Thanks
[QUOTE=JankyFreak]I was out looking to monger on Friday and found several mp in gardena closed. Eun and Kim's Accupunture. Ended up at Amy's and was amazed.[/QUOTE]Who was your provider @ Amy's? I heard there's a technician also moonlights @ a AMP in Lomita.
[QUOTE=Mazda05]From what I remember kim's/amy's have been closed for a while now.
EUn is open, but you must enter through the side/back area
Thanks[/QUOTE]Tried that but lights were off and open sign not lit. Ended up walking around whole complex. Trying to figure out who was open. I bet the hair salon folks were like huh?
Could be possible that it was closed that day or closed early
Because business is slow.
Oh the endless days and the memories of Le Sun. Where did the time go and when will those days come again!
The Tall Man
[QUOTE=JankyFreak]Tried that but lights were off and open sign not lit. Ended up walking around whole complex. Trying to figure out who was open. I bet the hair salon folks were like huh?[/QUOTE]
JF, I live very close to both of those and I'm sure the hair salon has gotten quite used to the wandering mongers. BTW the video and cleaners parking lot is a good place to park when your there.
Last week went to see one of my tried and true from the good old OA days. Still the same banging hot body a little softer then 8 years ago but still looking hot. Nice tan. She recognized me immediately (even remembered my name).
Off to the shower and back to the room. A soft knock on the door, she enters. Drops off the fresh towels on the massage table and immediatly drops to her knees and takes my member in to her mouth. Ahh. Just like the old days.
About 10 minutes (I kid you not) of great oral, with some deepthroating as I hold the back of her head and slowly fuck her mouth. I pull out and motion to the massage table. She pulls out a condom and applies it with her mouth then moves on to the table and lies on her back. I enter her missionary. She is tight (must be all that exercising). She grabs my ass and pushes me close to her, grinding her clit against my pubic bone. I can feel her muscles contract around my cock. REally I don't care if she is faking it, it's perfect.
We screw like this for the next 15-20 minutes. Then I pull out. Turn her over for a doggy and bang her hard comming within 3 minuites of that.
She gets up, motions for me to remain on the table. Runs to get some warm towels. Cleans me up and gives me her signature HARD massage.
I am happy. I am smiling. I can handle my life for a bit longer. She smiles at me and says come again soon.
I know I will.
You senior memebers know exactly what I"m talking about. Peace.
AmpAddict
[QUOTE=AMPaddict]Last week went to see one my tried and true from the good old OA days. Still the same banging hot body a little softer then 8 years ago but still looking hot. Nice tan. She recognized me immediately (even remembered my name).
Off to the shower and back to the room. A soft knock on the door, she enters. Drops off the fresh towels on the massage table and immediatly drops to her knees and takes my member in to her mouth. Ahh. Just like the old days.
About 10 minutes (I kid you not) of great oral, with some deepthroating as I hold the back of her head and slowly fuck her mouth. I pull out and motion to the massage table. She pulls out a condom and applies it with her mouth then moves on to the table and lies on her back. I enter her missionary. She is tight (must be all that exercising). She grabs my ass and pushes me close to her, grinding her clit against my pubic bone. I can feel her muscles contract around my cock. REally I don't care if she is faking it, it's perfect.
We screw like this for the next 15-20 minutes. Then I pull out. Turn her over for a doggy and bang her hard comming within 3 minuites of that.
She gets up, motions for me to remain on the table. Runs to get some warm towels. Cleans me up and gives me her signature HARD massage.
I am happy. I am smiling. I can handle my life for a bit longer. She smiles at me and says come again soon.
I know I will.
You senior memebers know exactly what I"m talking about. Peace.
AmpAddict[/QUOTE]
Yes, I remember her from the good ole OA days. She was tight and had great control. I bet she does those Kegel excercises. She could make me cum whenever she wanted, just by pulsating her pussy in a certain way. And I always had the hardest hard-ons with her. I guess her pussy is similar to how those penis pumps work. It would just suction your member, creating a vacuum and drawing the blood in...LOL
Is she still working at OT?
At the old OA Sophia used to be my favorite. I never had the pleasure of meeting Paula. She sounds good, is anal on the menu?
Misfit
I remember Sophia, not a great looker, but she compensated for that with performance. Never tried greek with Paula, somehow never got the vibe that she would like that.
[QUOTE=Misfit]At the old OA Sophia used to be my favorite. I never had the pleasure of meeting Paula. She sounds good, is anal on the menu?
Misfit[/QUOTE]
No anal on the menu.
[QUOTE=AMPaddict]I remember Sophia, not a great looker, but she compensated for that with performance. Never tried greek with Paula, somehow never got the vibe that she would like that.[/QUOTE]
Yes, Sophia compensated with performance. Everytime I would make an appointment ahead of time to go see her. I would get there to find a waiting room full of mongers waiting there turn to get in. I would wait a few minutes & then the guy in charge would let me in to her own personal room. The fellow mongers would eat me alive with the jealous stares. She would provide entry to all her holes & even did a nice strip tease for me, to her own korean pop music on her boom box in her room. After that made it a habit to keep seeing her. After the mighty were fallen, I lost touch with her.
Misfit
So I dropped by Amy's in Gardena last week and had a tech named Bebe.
The place was just way too noisy next door with my constant music blaring for me to return.
She gave me a less than stellar massage covering her hands with the towel! I just showered so that was a turn off.
Anyways I decided to just get a bj and paid .60
There was 2 there that I saw one big boned...and Bebe...I'd say Bebe is at least a 7.5 service 5.0
GL!
Rreviewing an AMP without naming it seems like a waste of time for the reader.
That said, I visited a place that recently amazed another reviewer. For reasons that should become obvious, I cannot name it.
I paid $50 for hh and left $50 more on the counter in the room. I saw B, a tight spinner with a pretty face (30-ish), and she gave me an incredible massage, parts of it body-to-body, followed up with an incredible [omitted]. There was no discussion of money at all, and she seemed pleased with her tip.
What is most interesting is the environment at this place... Before and during my session, I could clearly hear other providers through the walls - kissing, slurping, moaning, f***ing - there was no soundproofing at all, and no effort at being quiet about it. Any LE who walked in could pretty much arrest everyone present based on listening, without even having to walk into a room! :) Is "earwitness testimony" admissible in court? :)
Good times.
As she walked me out, B said for $100, we could have much more fun next time.
I hope this review isn't a waste of anyone's time.
I was in town last week and only could get out for a couple of hrs. Decided to go to ACE. My first time there but one review caught my eye and decided to give it a try. Got there around 11a. Was greeted in the back door by mamasan. She said. 5 for 1/2 hr. I agreed and she showed me to a room.
Walked into a room with a mirror next to bed. Great sign. Took off my shit and laid there with only a towel.comes in a Ktech, with her short, white tech uniform. I would rate her a 5. She was just a bit too skinny for me, and no boobs or butt. But what she lacks, she made up for being really nice and accommodating.
She begins with me on my stomach with medium pressure. Then proceeded to light touching on my back and ass. She then left the room to get something. Returned and continued light touching with light kissing on my back.
On the flip. She kisses my lower half and puts on the parachute. Proceeded to CG, Doggie and then happy ending.
She later tells me that her name is Tammy, total damage, . 5 house, $ her- $. 5 total.
Not bad experience, but would like a better look provider next time. She says she is there on Thursday only. Didn't get to see any other providers.
Might come back if I'm in the area again.
Choi
Have been to a couple of places in Gardena/Torrance with mixed luck, went to a place in Torrance on the corner of Anza and Del Amo next to the 7-11 twice with no luck. The place is run by a couple of older Asain ladies who will tease as they are rubbing you down but will not provide any extras.
The other place visited was in Gardena on Redondo Beach Blvd 1 block west of western, the only thing on the menu is a hj. The interesting part there is that you are charged by the minute, if you want a 30 min massage it is $30 + tip so I usually can get out of there for .5 - .65 for 30 or 45 min.
I'm starting to notice on CL 3 gardena AMP's are advertisting. Has anyone tried out any of these places?
I've been MIA for a while here, but I've actually been mongering around the So. Bay area for a w/rub & tug in a once a week. PM me if interested.
But Tue night I decided to try this place in San Pedro AMP I haven't been before. Paid $.5 for an h w/$.1 discount. MamaSan was my technician. Coco, around early 40's ,c-tech, b-cup, okay behind, wearing a summer dress (looks-7, attitude-8) . Room is very comfy, dim lighting, clean sheets. Put towel on my behind and waited 7 minutes. As she entered the room, she removes the towel, and ask what type of massage I wanted. I ask for hard, and proceeds to put out on my back. Very decent massage on back which lasted 30 minutes. Couple of times while she had me spread my legs, she brushed against manhood which got me aroused. She left to get hot towel to clean me up. And ask to flip. Right when I flip, she tried to negotiated me for $.6 tip for me to touch her, but I told her I only had $.4. She was okay w/ that. As she applied lotion for HJ, I was under her dress roaming inside her panties and such. After 10 minutes, she got me to bust, she then left the room for a hot towel. While she was cleaning me up she ask if okay to still massage me cause of the extra time I still had. She started light touches on my chest and caressing deez. This is were it gets interesting. Not even a minute goes by, she decides to get more lotion, and goes at it again. Totally shock on the situation. She got me to bust a total of 3 times!!! She too couldn't stop talking about it. At this point I time over 15 minutes. A total of 1.15!! I decided to tip her $.5 for her efforts. She told me if I cum back next week, she'll try for 4. I'm still in shocked at this time.
Interesting. C. HJ / Massage joints are popping out all over the Westside as well. The quality is spotty (some are clean and offer a good massage + HJ, others are. Well. Not so much.
Looks like a trend to me. The C owned FS places shouldn't be far behind (perhaps they are here already and I just don't know about them).
Ampaddict
[QUOTE=Deez Nut]I've been MIA for a while here, but I've actually been mongering around the So. Bay area for a w/rub & tug in a once a week. PM me if interested.
But Tue night I decided to try this place in San Pedro AMP I haven't been before. Paid $.5 for an h w/$.1 discount. MamaSan was my technician. Coco, around early 40's ,c-tech, b-cup, okay behind, wearing a summer dress (looks-7, attitude-8) . Room is very comfy, dim lighting, clean sheets. Put towel on my behind and waited 7 minutes. As she entered the room, she removes the towel, and ask what type of massage I wanted. I ask for hard, and proceeds to put out on my back. Very decent massage on back which lasted 30 minutes. Couple of times while she had me spread my legs, she brushed against manhood which got me aroused. She left to get hot towel to clean me up. And ask to flip. Right when I flip, she tried to negotiated me for $.6 tip for me to touch her, but I told her I only had $.4. She was okay w/ that. As she applied lotion for HJ, I was under her dress roaming inside her panties and such. After 10 minutes, she got me to bust, she then left the room for a hot towel. While she was cleaning me up she ask if okay to still massage me cause of the extra time I still had. She started light touches on my chest and caressing deez. This is were it gets interesting. Not even a minute goes by, she decides to get more lotion, and goes at it again. Totally shock on the situation. She got me to bust a total of 3 times!!! She too couldn't stop talking about it. At this point I time over 15 minutes. A total of 1.15!! I decided to tip her $.5 for her efforts. She told me if I cum back next week, she'll try for 4. I'm still in shocked at this time.[/QUOTE]
Does Ace Accu in RB have showers in the rooms?
No, they don't have them in the rooms.
At least not the one I was in.
They're out in a separate room.
[QUOTE=Michael J]Does Ace Accu in RB have showers in the rooms?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Deez Nut]She got me to bust a total of 3 times!!! She too couldn't stop talking about it. At this point I time over 15 minutes. A total of 1.15!! I decided to tip her $.5 for her efforts. She told me if I cum back next week, she'll try for 4. I'm still in shocked at this time.[/QUOTE]
My cock and nuts would feel and look like ground beef after 3.
[QUOTE=BenderOver]My cock and nuts would feel and look like ground beef after 3.[/QUOTE]
LOL! I just spit my water all over the desk!
[QUOTE=BenderOver]My cock and nuts would feel and look like ground beef after 3.[/QUOTE]
Sublime - Caress me down.
"so she told me to come over, and I took that trip
and then she pulled out my mushroom tip,
and, when it came out, it went drip, drip, drip
I didn't know she had the G.I. Joe, kung-foo grip
[Chorus:]
and it went - uhh
and the girl caress me down- uhh
and that’s that lovin’ sound- it went uhh
and the girl caress me down- uhh
and that’s that lovin’ sound"
Sorry just reminded me of the song.
Sboard (does her right hand know what her left is doing?)
I recently visited my new favorite amp for the second time. I asked for the same provider as last time, but she was, "on vacation." I agreed to a substitute, and bought the half-hour for $50.
After taking the shower, I entered the room, and as I was hanging my robe, the provider "accidentally" walked in on me. She was a very slim, 30-something spinner, with beautiful, long hair. What's funny is my previous provider was B., but this one was C. (Basically the same name with C replacing the Bs in the name.) I wonder if the other girls at this place are arranged alphabetically?
Anyway, I had already put my $50 on the counter. Cece immediately got on the table and walked on my back. Wow! It was by far the best backwalk massage I have ever had. I love it when they let their feet "roll" off your sides to the table. She was sitting on my back when she leaned over and said, "Just massage, or more?" I pointed the to $50 on the table, and she said, "OK, just hand?" I agreed.
She left the room for a moment. When she came back, she did something I've never experienced before, which was to strip naked. Wow! She had a very nice, almost too-skinny body, with great abs, and a chest like a greyhound. Nice breasts. She crouched on the table at my feet, (basically putting herself out of reach) and went to work. I finished all too soon, and she dressed, then left to get a hot towel.
Unlike my last few experiences, she did not continue the massage after I finished.
It was nice, but I would request my B. again next time, or maybe see if D, E or F are available. (Actually, given the lower quality, maybe I should ask for A.)
I noticed a door open that is the only full-size door in the place. (The others are open at the top and bottom.) This door is labeled "Employees Only" and the room contains an actual bed, which was unmade. At first, I thought, "That's the room I want next time!" but then I realized it is where the employees sleep between shifts. This made me sad. Is it possible this place is trafficking in women? I would really hate to think I was contributing to that. B. seemed happy and at least pretended to enjoy her work. C. seemed melancholy and mechanical.
Not to put a buzzkill on your day, but has anyone on this forum ever considered the possible moral implications if your favorite amp was dealing in human slaves? I would find it depressing and of course, completely unacceptable. If I had any real inkling of that, I would promptly turn them in, even at the risk of my own privacy. I've often considered asking the providers, "Are you here of your own free will?" but I figure most of them don't understand English well enough, and who knows if the front office is listening in... I've even thought of having a Chinese friend write the phrase down for me. The only question is: If I did turn them in, would the girls just be deported? Would they be better or worse off?
Well, gotta go... I just noticed there is a label at the top of the screen that says, "Private Messages: 13". Holy crap! I never noticed that before!
Yes, I'm that clueless.
[QUOTE=Mr Sixty]This door is labeled "Employees Only" and the room contains an actual bed, which was unmade. At first, I thought, "That's the room I want next time!" but then I realized it is where the employees sleep between shifts. This made me sad. Is it possible this place is trafficking in women? I would really hate to think I was contributing to that. B. seemed happy and at least pretended to enjoy her work. C. seemed melancholy and mechanical.
[/QUOTE]
Mr. Sixty,
1. Most of the women are in this business of their own free will. There is actually very little human trafficking. They keep trying to justify busts based on human trafficking or on reports of human trafficking to get fed funds, but have found this is true in only a tiny fraction.
Many of these women are overstaying here on tourist or educational visas and want to make money fast, perhaps to send home, perhaps to have the good life. They have few, if any relatives here to shame or disappoint so they go for it.
2. Perhaps C was a bit melancholy because she is only making $50 for a handjob of which she will have to share with the house instead of making more money for full service. That might be why she stripped naked for a HJ, hoping you will change your mind. And usually places will assign girls in order so she lost her chance at making a bigger tip.
Just as likely, she is not good at acting or giving good customer service (or is new or young).
3. Almost all massage places have a room for the masseuses to sleep, eat, chat and hang out when not with their customers. This includes totally legit places with no extras. They work long hours and there is a lot of boring waiting for customers.
Giving a good massage is tiring work. Gals who do legit Thai massage try not to do more than 4-5 hour-long massages per day because they get too tired.
4. In most places, they don't continue massage after you have popped.
ICE press release
[url]http://media-newswire.com/release_1076639.html[/url]
Owner of string of brothels sentenced to 18 months on interstate commerce charges
Jong Ock Mao, 50, a.k.a. "June," appeared this morning before U.S. District Judge James V. Selna. Mao pleaded guilty to two felony counts in August - conspiring to use interstate commerce to promote prostitution and using the proceeds from her six brothels to purchase real estate. As part of her guilty plea, the naturalized Korea native agreed to forfeit more than $10 million dollars in property and assets she derived from the prostitution scheme.
(Media-Newswire.com) - SANTA ANA, Calif. - A West Covina, Calif., woman, who ran a string of brothels out of chiropractic offices, acupuncture clinics, "spas," tanning salons and massage parlors in Southern California and Dallas, was sentenced today to 18 months in federal prison for her role in the scheme.
Jong Ock Mao, 50, a.k.a. "June," appeared this morning before U.S. District Judge James V. Selna. Mao pleaded guilty to two felony counts in August - conspiring to use interstate commerce to promote prostitution and using the proceeds from her six brothels to purchase real estate. As part of her guilty plea, the naturalized Korea native agreed to forfeit more than $10 million dollars in property and assets she derived from the prostitution scheme. The forfeited properties include four private motocross tracks in California, Texas, and Florida operated by MX Oasis, a company owned by Mao.
Today's sentencing stems from an investigation by U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement ( ICE ), IRS-Criminal Investigation Division, and the Los Angeles County Sheriff's Department.
"This case led to the breakup of one of the most lucrative prostitution schemes ever uncovered in Southern California," said Robert Schoch, special agent in charge for the ICE office of investigations in Los Angeles. "Given the huge profits generated by this illegal enterprise it is fitting that this defendant is paying a high price for her crimes."
"Today's sentencing represents the outstanding work in this joint investigation that halted one of Southern California's most lucrative prostitution operations," said Catherine D. Tucker, acting special agent in charge for the Los Angeles field office for IRS-criminal investigation. "IRS-Criminal Investigation's financial expertise led to the forfeiture of more than $10 million in assets that Ms. Mao purchased with illicit funds generated by her prostitution operation."
Mao's plea agreement details how, in the late 1990s, she began operating a series of establishments purporting to offer massage therapy, acupuncture, chiropractic services, and tanning. In reality, the businesses, five in Southern California and one in Dallas, offered customers sexual services. In April 2006, Mao and three other defendants were indicted for their role in the scheme.
There were three other defendants charged in the case. Edward Lutt, 45, of Paramount, Calif., whom investigators allege oversaw the day-to-day operation of the brothels. Lutt remains in federal custody pending his trial, which is scheduled to begin Feb. 24, 2009.
The remaining two defendants are Charles Fields, 51, of Long Beach, Calif., and Randall Johnson, 54, of Los Angeles. According to the case indictment, Fields and Johnson obtained the business licenses for Mao's establishments. In August 2007, both men entered guilty pleas. Fields pleaded guilty to two felony counts, conspiracy to use interstate commerce to promote prostitution and conspiracy to engage in money laundering. Johnson pleaded guilty to one felony count, conspiracy to engage in money laundering. Both men are awaiting sentencing.
According to the original indictment in the case, Mao operated brothels in three Los Angeles area communities, Baldwin Park, Inglewood and South Gate, as well as an establishment in Dallas known as the Paradise Spa.
-- ICE --
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[QUOTE=Mr Sixty] ........ Not to put a buzzkill on your day, ..............[/QUOTE]Mr. 60. I have had similar misgivings when I fist started with the hobby.
As I came to know a few providers, after chatting with them on more then a few occasions (you'd be surprised how frank they can be once they feel comfortable in your company) my concerns evaporated.
For most of the providers this is just a well paying job, and like every job it has it's ups and downs, good and bad bosses and good and bad customers. For some of them this line of work is preferable to being a housewife, bearing children and doing dishes, or the back breaking alternative of being a farmer, or factory worker in their respective country.
There is way less drama to this then the "feminazis" and their equivalents on the right would like you to think.
Enjoy your hard earned money and do what you can so the providers enjoy your company. It's that simple.