[QUOTE=TimWatley1973;3667385]Well, I guess I've never really had that problem at all. Women asking me for additional money or to come and spend extra time with them. I'm a business man by nature and training and treat this hobby as such. A business arrangement. The phone number I use and the name I give them are both something that is never used in my daily life. Both are only used when I'm "hunting". A girl messages me and asks me if I want to visit, or spare extra money (that only happened once), or whatever I simply tell them the truth. I don't live anywhere near you (which in all but one girl I've seen is the truth), I only see girls when I travel, and I only check my phone when I want to make a date which is why I didn't respond when the message was sent.
If you don't want a knock on the door from police NEVER involve your personal life with your fantasy life. And that's what all of this is, a fantasy, correct? My contact number is a phone app (actually two different) that is used on an iPhone that is password protected and isn't connected at all to a cellular network. I connect using the hotspot on a personal phone. My iTunes account is connected to an email I use only for the hobby and never has my personal information connected to it. The credit card linked to it was a prepaid credit card purchased with cash over 2 years ago, good luck trying to find a trail back to that purchase even if they do find the card number. Video footage at most retail store is dumped after 60-90 days, 1 year tops. That's a whole lot of warrants to try to get information to try to connect me to a burner phone number, used on a phone that has never been registered to me, supported by an account not linked to me, connected via wifi from a different phones cellular network - 5 layers of security before I'm even remotely involved and I seriously doubt they could trace it back that far.
I was actually followed and stopped after a visit that didn't go so well some time ago. I was in the house for only a few minutes and left when things started to seem strange. Walked away from my donation. Got in my car and was followed immediately by a passing police car. Stopped me going into a Walgreens 3 blocks away and asked me what was going on and where I just was. I said I was on my way to purchase nasal spray (as I blew my nose) - they responded with why was I just at the house I left. I told them I stopped at the house in response to a craiglist ad I had responded to several weeks before and only now was I able to travel to (the city I was stopped in) to view the item. Told them the item wasn't as advertised and I left. They pretty much told me I was full of shit and asked to see the ad, phone conversations, etc. I responded that the ad was no longer up and, that if they are questioning my authenticity then I don't need to answer any more questions and, since you know where I was coming from, you have every opportunity to go and question the residents of that house to get their story. I knew she left the house immediately after I did as I know it wasn't her house. 3 minutes later they said I could leave.
Moral of this story, don't be afraid to walk away from ANYBODY if you feel somethings wrong (I had a buck twenty into her). I had read on another site that there were a couple of providers / customers that were feeding info to LEO in this city and at that moment, thought this was a real possibility and given that the police were already driving by when I was walking out less than 5 minutes from arrival I'd say it happened here. Play safe, stay safe and do what Lefty says. Keep these girls at arms length and be very certain about anyone you choose to bring into your world.
Now go get some.[/QUOTE]In total agreement. I've walked away leaving donation behind, scared like cat. I'm sure that won't happen to either of us again.