Do AMP or escorts discriminate old and fat guy?
Hey, your post included reference to lying down because you're fat. This prompts a question as I am fat also, plus being old. I'm 65 yrs old.
What has been your experience with AMP, independants or escorts and whether they don't wan to do you because you're too big? (body, not cock).
I'm married but was seeing another woman up til about 2 yrs ago. I was with her for about 7 yrs. It's been like this for last 20 yrs with other women. I never had a problem before, even though I was fat. I did loose 80 lbs in 2018 and even then couldn't find another married woman to hook up, not even one my own age. I'and last 8 months, I've been on Adult FF, then on Ash Madison with no luck. Previously, all of the women (4 over 20 yrs) I had a thing with were 12 to 20 yrs younger. And no, I'm not some God's gift to women or have a huge dong. (It's actually on the smaller side of normal). I never paid for sex before in my life. I did have massages but for theraputic, not happy ending.
So here I am wanting to get off with a soft touch or wet lips and dumbfounded on how to make it happen. I see lots of ads on skip games but when I text or email, I get replies from what I think are bots wanting me to join some date / hookup site. They say it's for their protection but I just don't want to join or waste money for yet another dating site, which is ironic because these sites are the same as AFF or AM. Why should I have to pay for a site to find women so I can pay them for sex?
Any thoughts appreciated.
[QUOTE=Sub69;5017586]I just need to get some things off my chest. These are just personal opinions and I welcome any discussions, but I mainly post them so I can remember at a later date.
I have been going to erotic massage parlors for at least 25 years. I have been to places in several states, countries, and continents. The places I go now are all Asian because of where I live.
1. The language barrier is almost too much at most AMPs. I can never seem to get exactly what I want in terms of the massage. I prefer a slow, soft, teasing (erotic) massage. I even try to demonstrate on their arm, but no one ever gets it right. I have thought about trying to write a note that explains exactly what I want, but I don't know what language to put it in. I visited a MP in a different country where the lady spoke no English and I got the best massage ever.
2. I usually try to save time and money by getting the shortest massage. Which probably doesn't help when I want to get a massage like I described in point 1.
3. I don't think I have ever left an AMP happy with the HJ. I usually think I paid too much for an unpleasant experience. Most of the time I almost want to stop them and do it myself because I can give myself a better one. They usually just try to violently get it off, I don't think they really know how it works.
4. Table showers. Most of the places now have the portable type showers. I really like the rooms that are more purpose built. Mainly because I am fat and I like laying on something solid.
5. Location. They should have a semi-private location. I never would have gone to Q massage when it was open because everyone could see you and your vehicle from War Memorial.
In conclusion, my recommendation (to my future self) and others is to go when you have lots time available. Pay for the full hour. Be prepared to pay for FS if it is offered, or at least pay for as much as they will offer. My personal favorite in the area is Hong Kong in Bloomington, even though it has been a few years.[/QUOTE]
Massage therapy peoria heights.
4229 and Prospect Rd.
Peoria Heights, Illinois 61616.
Anyone know if this place got any better?
Fat guys and discrimination?
I don't know your situation, but I am about 270. My first session with a provider is ALWAYS awkward. I have found in my own experience that the more you return to a provider, the more "friendly" they become, especially if you tip well. My suggestion is that you find a place that you like and repeat as much as you can afford. All it takes is time and money.
I have not had any luck with other sites either. Most strike me as bots or in it only for the money. I did hook up with someone from Fetlife on one occasion. It is a more a social networking site for fetishes, as opposed to a dating site, but there are classified ads and you might get lucky. After all, being a **** is fetish!
Good luck!
[QUOTE=Albert65;5081626]Hey, your post included reference to lying down because you're fat. This prompts a question as I am fat also, plus being old. I'm 65 yrs old.
What has been your experience with AMP, independants or escorts and whether they don't wan to do you because you're too big? (body, not cock).
I'm married but was seeing another woman up til about 2 yrs ago. I was with her for about 7 yrs. It's been like this for last 20 yrs with other women. I never had a problem before, even though I was fat. I did loose 80 lbs in 2018 and even then couldn't find another married woman to hook up, not even one my own age. I'and last 8 months, I've been on Adult FF, then on Ash Madison with no luck. Previously, all of the women (4 over 20 yrs) I had a thing with were 12 to 20 yrs younger. And no, I'm not some God's gift to women or have a huge dong. (It's actually on the smaller side of normal). I never paid for sex before in my life. I did have massages but for theraputic, not happy ending.
So here I am wanting to get off with a soft touch or wet lips and dumbfounded on how to make it happen. I see lots of ads on skip games but when I text or email, I get replies from what I think are bots wanting me to join some date / hookup site. They say it's for their protection but I just don't want to join or waste money for yet another dating site, which is ironic because these sites are the same as AFF or AM. Why should I have to pay for a site to find women so I can pay them for sex?
Any thoughts appreciated.[/QUOTE]