We have spotted the enemy and WE are it!
I think one of the greatest risks to our diversion is when one or more of us gets drunk or high on something and then stumbles in and around a spa making a mess and being noisy.
Might I suggest that after a night of hitting the sauce we just go home and sleep it off rather than cause the disturbances we hear about so often.
Maybe we could find a trash can to put the empty can or bottle in? Perhaps we could all take a piss BEFORE leaving the bar rather than using the stairwells?
Of course, we cannot control what the homeless folks do but we CAN contol what WE do!
If no one complains we will have much less to be afraid of when we visit our friends.
Just one (horny) man'e opinion...
JJ