Seeking Arrangements

I definitely do as much research as possible prior to meeting. But I don't hold it against them if they have a past. The key for me is to make sure it is the past, and not the present.

Because what I have found is that the past is often a result of the company they kept rather than a reflection on their own personality. Case and point is Olive in RI. There are many more examples. If they were stellar at managing their lives and careers, they would likely not be seeing us. There are very few who are in the game just because they love it. Often we have to be content with those who at least don't hate it.

[QUOTE=Spill;3841471]How many of you perform even a basic background check on a potential SB? While I do not always have the opportunity to perform one, it does sometimes present itself. I've also noticed that, on many occasions, I find the potential SB has be arrested. Most time for drugs, but sometimes for theft and assault. I know many of you do not care about spending time with drug users (I do not knowingly see them), but I am curious as to everyone's thoughts on this.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Spill;3841471]How many of you perform even a basic background check on a potential SB? While I do not always have the opportunity to perform one, it does sometimes present itself. I've also noticed that, on many occasions, I find the potential SB has be arrested. Most time for drugs, but sometimes for theft and assault. I know many of you do not care about spending time with drug users (I do not knowingly see them), but I am curious as to everyone's thoughts on this.[/QUOTE]I always do it. And it's not usually the POT I'm worried about it's the company she keeps. Was getting ready to see a girl in Worcester and the night before I found her FB page. She had told me she was single but on FB she clearly has a boyfriend. Lots of recent pics of them together. So I looked him up on InstantCheckmate and he has a massive rap sheet. In and out of prison. Lots of arrests for possession of drugs, weapons etc. I asked her about him and she said she still lives with him "But we're not together". Yeah thanks but no thanks.

Stay safe.

[QUOTE=Pacifier;3841491]I definitely do as much research as possible prior to meeting. But I don't hold it against them if they have a past. The key for me is to make sure it is the past, and not the present.

Because what I have found is that the past is often a result of the company they kept rather than a reflection on their own personality. Case and point is Olive in RI. There are many more examples. If they were stellar at managing their lives and careers, they would likely not be seeing us. There are very few who are in the game just because they love it. Often we have to be content with those who at least don't hate it.[/QUOTE]Thanks for your thoughts on this. I have one potential that has a shoplifting arrest. She cannot host and I am not sure I trust her in my house. I guess I am looking for the very few in the sugar bowl because they love it.

Yeah SA is up to 90 a month. I've had some success on SA and like it that I can contact many people for a one time fee. But lately I've come across a lot of scammers, drug users and time wasters. But there are some nice ones too. The way it is with SB is that it costs to meet each person. Too much. I had better luck with SA than SB but haen't been on SB for about a year.

[QUOTE=TRex69;3813095]I can't believe SA is up to $90/ month.

Is that true?

It served me well back in the day when I had the house to myself.

I saw an earlier thread on SB. Looks like that is paying points for initiating contact. Looks like the cost is $6 per initial contact. Once you have contact it's indefinite but by that point you'd probably have a number. Any other feedback on SB?

I'm deciding with things being challenging again and a lack of central location for fishing I need to expand my net.

I loved CL for posting for non pros from time to time particularly when I traveled. Now what?

Is it worth getting back onto SA if I can't host and don't want to pay $$ per meeting. I used to average under $$.

Any positive experiences on Seeking Benefits?

If anybody wants to share reliable civilians I will as well.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Aimstraight;3843597]Yeah SA is up to 90 a month. I've had some success on SA and like it that I can contact many people for a one time fee. But lately I've come across a lot of scammers, drug users and time wasters. But there are some nice ones too. The way it is with SB is that it costs to meet each person. Too much. I had better luck with SA than SB but haen't been on SB for about a year.[/QUOTE]Having tried both I would highly recommend SA over SB. SB economics don't work out escpecially if you don't click with the girl.

On SA. It's a true numbers game. Find the profiles with a little (not zero) detail. Ask for pics (who cares if they think that's rude). Hide and block those that you aren't interested in to thin out the herd.

One thing that worked amazingly well for me was to put up a very detailed profile of exactly what I was looking for and a few blurry pics. THEN put something at the top like " Due to overwhelming interest I have to decline any further SBs as I have selected 2 and will be supporting them for the forseeable future. But you can try to persuade me I should look at you too. * My inbox was filled nightly with people vying for my attention. Was pretty cool.

Good luck!

[QUOTE=Aardvarks;3843756]One thing that worked amazingly well for me was to put up a very detailed profile of exactly what I was looking for and a few blurry pics. THEN put something at the top like " Due to overwhelming interest I have to decline any further SBs as I have selected 2 and will be supporting them for the forseeable future. But you can try to persuade me I should look at you too. * My inbox was filled nightly with people vying for my attention. Was pretty cool.

Good luck![/QUOTE]Awesome strategy, Aardvarks! I might have to borrow that one from you. I try to read all of the SB on USASG nightly, looking for golden nuggets just like this. Thank you sir!

Safe mongering and sugaring!

Had talked to her elsewhere online prior to meeting and then found her SA profile, if anyone is out in the springfeld area, she's a bit shy in person but has a great body she likes showing off.

Any info on her?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1c358c0b-851e-4d90-a2be-de866d031671[/URL]

Going back and forth with a SB this morning. And she kept asking me "What's your ideal situation?" "What would be the most incredible arrangement you could come come up with? She just kept going so I wrote:

"Well if you're asking hypothetically the most amazing ultimate arrangement would be to be able to have sex with someone as beautiful as you whenever I wanted to without all this financial commitment nonsense."

And she went absolutely ballistic. Copying and pasting her response. By the way she was being really sweet and flirty before this message.

"You f*cking motherf*cker. This isn't f*cking Tinder you *sshole. If you want to just screw pretty girls for nothing then SA is not the right site for you. You should know this. *sshole."

But surprisingly she didn't block me. We're still chatting. LOL.

Stay safe!

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c3094cb2-7479-483d-b4d1-b05263a4e744[/URL]

She has sent me nude pictures of herself but continually asks for money to help fix her car before a first meetup. She has an incredible body, says she's in Vermont even tho it says Florida on her profile. Just curious if anyone knows if she's a rob.

Dude, do not send her any money. Move on.

[QUOTE=MrLink;3847179][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c3094cb2-7479-483d-b4d1-b05263a4e744[/URL]

She has sent me nude pictures of herself but continually asks for money to help fix her car before a first meetup. She has an incredible body, says she's in Vermont even tho it says Florida on her profile. Just curious if anyone knows if she's a rob.[/QUOTE]

It says she's looking for mentorship. Anytime I see that, I move on.

[QUOTE=SixPacking;3845445]Any info on her?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1c358c0b-851e-4d90-a2be-de866d031671[/URL][/QUOTE]

I had this one a while ago. $$$ BBBJ, DATY, Kissy, CFS. I wanted to see her again, but she had a messed up situation. She told me she was separated, but it sounded fishy so decided not to see her again. She's attractive though. Girl next door type. Really into sex.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a4d7fc7b-ef37-4e24-9cc5-fbf3f0cefacb[/URL]

I joined up the site because I'm sick of all the nonsense with escort sites and doublelist and thank god I did. In 2 days on being on already got 7 phone numbers, 3 solid girls who are ready to meet and this afternoon had this 19 yo emo chick white 110 lbs very petite for some fun. Condom full service but BBBJ, and was up for anything except anal for 100. Ill post a pic later and update or something but for anyone whos not on the site and reads this, join, pay the 90 bucks and you will not regret it. So many non pros, girls next door types and college woman who are very attractive and clean and you may think nobody wants to have sex or everyone wants like 500 and its just not true, youd be surprised how many are down for sexual fun and on the cheap.

Former adult actress on SA and she started messaging me. Asking what I'd like etc. I recognized her and said from her profile she's pRobably out of my league in terms of spend. She asked me what I'd do and I said $3. 50. She now she thinks I'm offering 3. 5 k per meet and won't stop messaging me. Sent me her phone number told me where she lives. I don't have the heart to tell her she's off by 10 x. What to do.

If anyone wants the link to her profile PM me.