Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[QUOTE=DollarBill50;3443162]I'm a member of the AF web site. After I got rid of all the girls that want money after a couple of text messages (These type of girls kill me) I met this young girl on the site. She is about 19-20 years of age. We went out a couple of times for dinner. Not expenses dinner either. She is a buffet type of girl. Really, that is where she likes to eat. She is pretty cool to talk with. Now she want to go to another level with me. She wants to have sex. We haven't started talking about any arrangements yet and she has brought it up. So I mentioned it the last date we went on. She ask me to name a price. But she just wants to go on trips and weekend getaways sometimes. But she does want sex also. (Her words) My question for you guys. How do I hit it without feeling like the creepy old guy down the street wanting sex from the young high school graduate who just left home? I had to card her just to make sure she was over 18. That's how young she looked. But she is cute. I can say that. But every time I think about getting it, it hits me that she is 19-20 years of age. (I'm 50). Should I just let her go and move onto something a little older? And this is after complaining about all the girls on AF want is money before even talking to you on the phone. Should I hit it and just close my eyes while doing it, not looking at that young face? (Kidding on this statement). Just a little help on this one guys.[/QUOTE]What had you originally planned to do with her? She's young, but she is an adult. As long as she's consenting and you're willing to provide what she wants, there's no problem. Yeah, there's the creepy guy factor, but there are also lots of men with much younger paramours (one of them is in the White House). It's only creepy if you're manipulating her or taking advantage of her (or spying on her when she pees). Otherwise, the way I see it, it's too adults enjoying themselves.

Just my 2 cents.

[QUOTE=DollarBill50;3443162]I'm a member of the AF web site. After I got rid of all the girls that want money after a couple of text messages (These type of girls kill me) I met this young girl on the site. She is about 19-20 years of age. We went out a couple of times for dinner. Not expenses dinner either. She is a buffet type of girl. Really, that is where she likes to eat. She is pretty cool to talk with. Now she want to go to another level with me. She wants to have sex. We haven't started talking about any arrangements yet and she has brought it up. So I mentioned it the last date we went on. She ask me to name a price. But she just wants to go on trips and weekend getaways sometimes. But she does want sex also. (Her words) My question for you guys. How do I hit it without feeling like the creepy old guy down the street wanting sex from the young high school graduate who just left home? I had to card her just to make sure she was over 18. That's how young she looked. But she is cute. I can say that. But every time I think about getting it, it hits me that she is 19-20 years of age. (I'm 50). Should I just let her go and move onto something a little older? And this is after complaining about all the girls on AF want is money before even talking to you on the phone. Should I hit it and just close my eyes while doing it, not looking at that young face? (Kidding on this statement). Just a little help on this one guys.[/QUOTE]Just go for it. Yes she's young but not too young. Right? Not too young for what?

I'm a few years older than you and I would do her, if that's what I had set out to do in the beginning. And I think you have plans.

Just make sure you have actually talked and met in person. Don't trust texts, it could be anyone. If you feel like you're about to get setup, don't reveal the name or location of your hotel ahead of time. And definitely don't take her to your home on the first few times. Anytime your spidey sense tells you to stop then stop. A hot little piece of action might not be worth the consequences if LEO, Dad, or a big BF are waiting for you somewhere.

Now onto the creepy part. Do you sound like a creepy old guy down the street wanting sex from a young high schooler who just left home? Yes you do. We're everywhere. But you have the means to do it with a willing and legal participant. Everyone in this hobby can feel creepy at times but that's just what we do. Of course if it really bothers you then don't do it. Just stay in touch with her and be respectful. It might get you a lot further in the long run.

Keep us posted. Sounds like you found a good one.

GB40.

[QUOTE=DollarBill50;3443162]I'm a member of the AF web site. After I got rid of all the girls that want money after a couple of text messages (These type of girls kill me) I met this young girl on the site. She is about 19-20 years of age. We went out a couple of times for dinner. Not expenses dinner either. She is a buffet type of girl. Really, that is where she likes to eat. She is pretty cool to talk with. Now she want to go to another level with me. She wants to have sex. We haven't started talking about any arrangements yet and she has brought it up. So I mentioned it the last date we went on. She ask me to name a price. But she just wants to go on trips and weekend getaways sometimes. But she does want sex also. (Her words) My question for you guys. How do I hit it without feeling like the creepy old guy down the street wanting sex from the young high school graduate who just left home? I had to card her just to make sure she was over 18. That's how young she looked. But she is cute. I can say that. But every time I think about getting it, it hits me that she is 19-20 years of age. (I'm 50). Should I just let her go and move onto something a little older? And this is after complaining about all the girls on AF want is money before even talking to you on the phone. Should I hit it and just close my eyes while doing it, not looking at that young face? (Kidding on this statement). Just a little help on this one guys.[/QUOTE]Damn, that's what we are all looking for isn't it?

[QUOTE=DollarBill50;3443162]I'm a member of the AF web site. After I got rid of all the girls that want money after a couple of text messages (These type of girls kill me) I met this young girl on the site. She is about 19-20 years of age. We went out a couple of times for dinner. Not expenses dinner either. She is a buffet type of girl. Really, that is where she likes to eat. She is pretty cool to talk with. Now she want to go to another level with me. She wants to have sex. We haven't started talking about any arrangements yet and she has brought it up. So I mentioned it the last date we went on. She ask me to name a price. But she just wants to go on trips and weekend getaways sometimes. But she does want sex also. (Her words) My question for you guys. How do I hit it without feeling like the creepy old guy down the street wanting sex from the young high school graduate who just left home? I had to card her just to make sure she was over 18. That's how young she looked. But she is cute. I can say that. But every time I think about getting it, it hits me that she is 19-20 years of age. (I'm 50). Should I just let her go and move onto something a little older? And this is after complaining about all the girls on AF want is money before even talking to you on the phone. Should I hit it and just close my eyes while doing it, not looking at that young face? (Kidding on this statement). Just a little help on this one guys.[/QUOTE]DB50, I hate to see you in this state of conflict. So to help out, and relieve you of this burden, I'm willing to step in and be the SD to this SB. Yes, it's a sacrifice on my part. But I feel I owe it to you as a fellow monger. Just PM her contact info and I'll do the rest.

[QUOTE=BBHunt;3444453]DB50, I hate to see you in this state of conflict. So to help out, and relieve you of this burden, I'm willing to step in and be the SD to this SB. Yes, it's a sacrifice on my part. But I feel I owe it to you as a fellow monger. Just PM her contact info and I'll do the rest.[/QUOTE]BBHunt, you're a real friend to offer to save a fellow monger from a dilemma like that! I just hate that you beat me to it.

DB50, I do agree with GB40 that you were looking when you found her so unless your conscience completely tells you otherwise, I'd say go for it. I'm close to forty (it looked better in text than numerals) years older than her but I would, in a heartbeat. And yes, I have felt creepy at times too.

Safe mongering and sugaring!

[QUOTE=RWarNmsn69;3444880]BBHunt, you're a real friend to offer to save a fellow monger from a dilemma like that! I just hate that you beat me to it.

DB50, I do agree with GB40 that you were looking when you found her so unless your conscience completely tells you otherwise, I'd say go for it. I'm close to forty (it looked better in text than numerals) years older than her but I would, in a heartbeat. And yes, I have felt creepy at times too.

Safe mongering and sugaring![/QUOTE]This is great: Please note: DB50 did not say he is 40. He said he is 40 years older than her. Now that's MY hero! I thought I was doing something f*ck*ng girls that are half my age. I'm happy to learn there's still hope for me into my sixties and beyond.

GB40.

Hello,

I'm John Barns I'm new to the site and was wondering what this forum is about.

Those little blue wonders helps a lot of guys 60 years and older.

[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;3445165]This is great: Please note: DB50 did not say he is 40. He said he is 40 years older than her. Now that's MY hero! I thought I was doing something f*ck*ng girls that are half my age. I'm happy to learn there's still hope for me into my sixties and beyond.

GB40.[/QUOTE]

So nice of you to step up and help out your fellow monger, LOL.

The one thing about a big age difference is that it is hard to avoid it once one gets to be really old and is fortunate enough to still be alive and in the hobby world. The escort population is pretty heavily shaded to younger age women. So an old guy has very limited selection of gals even 20 years younger than himself, but lots of selection 30-40 years younger. My philosophy as an old codger would be to try to find the more "mature" younger gals in order to have good variety. But as always, to each his own.

[QUOTE=BBHunt;3444453]DB50, I hate to see you in this state of conflict. So to help out, and relieve you of this burden, I'm willing to step in and be the SD to this SB. Yes, it's a sacrifice on my part. But I feel I owe it to you as a fellow monger. Just PM her contact info and I'll do the rest.[/QUOTE]

Reading back a dozen pages or so should give you a pretty good idea what this forum is about. IMHO the main thing is sharing information and helping each other out so that we all have nice dreams and avoid nightmares.

[QUOTE=JohnBarns;3445235]Hello,

I'm John Barns I'm new to the site and was wondering what this forum is about.[/QUOTE]

Thanks a whole lot. You guys are the sh $t. BBHunt!! That was funny as hell. Take her off my hands.

As you guys have stated. She is of age and that makes us both adults. So I will be trying to hit it when I see her the next time. She is out of town right now, but will be back in town on the 7th of July.

Lets see if we can do this.

As for what I was looking for, I just didn't expect her to be so young. I was figuring she would be at least a little bit older. But you guys have made me see the errors of my ways. She just turned 20 and fresh, I think I can work with that.

Again Thanks a lot.

I haven't had the best of luck with younger ones myself. Most don't know what they are doing. She is of legal age. You may have to show her the ropes? I guess you can handle that?

[QUOTE=DollarBill50;3447777]Thanks a whole lot. You guys are the sh $t. BBHunt!! That was funny as hell. Take her off my hands.

As you guys have stated. She is of age and that makes us both adults. So I will be trying to hit it when I see her the next time. She is out of town right now, but will be back in town on the 7th of July.

Lets see if we can do this.

As for what I was looking for, I just didn't expect her to be so young. I was figuring she would be at least a little bit older. But you guys have made me see the errors of my ways. She just turned 20 and fresh, I think I can work with that.

Again Thanks a lot.[/QUOTE]

I recently renewed my membership to SA and auditioned a few potential SBs. I purposely looked for 27 and older--I'm following the old half plus 7 rule. Thought I'd share my findings with you gents.

Irishprincess2017 is real and very sweet. Met her in person. She's accommodating and very reasonable in her expectations. She's older and very thin, but attractive. I liked her but she lives too far away.

Gyspsyroselee is very attractive--she has a sexy Lauren Hutton like gap in her teeth (if you old guys remember) and an amazing body. We had a misunderstanding about her expectation (3 a visit vs. 1. 5). But she was still very friendly and sexy.

Greent91 is a sexy as hell Black MILF. Loves DATY! And very reasonable.

Dirtyfarmgirl seems legit but she flaked on me and canceled our date at the last minute.

Athena Goddess is crazy sexy looking. And she's good company--very down to earth girl. I thought she had GPS when she quoted 5, but she came down to 3 for the first meeting and 2 for the second. YMMV.

Those are the ones I met at my place or theirs. There are a few more I've talked to that seem real. Seniors, pm me for those or for details about the others.

[QUOTE=sludgepup;3425197]I renewed my SA membership and have been flooded with messages. They seem legit for the most part (only one in Ghana). Most have GP syndrome, but one, Athena Goddess, is tempting me with a $400 offer. I can't afford it but I realized I met her once at a music festival and she's insanely gorgeous (like make you cheat on Sandra Bullock hot! But I've been surprised by how many want to meet privately immediately. I'll report back if I find any good ones.

But I noticed Darlene, who I reported on a year or two ago, is back as Wicked Wanda. Supposed to see her today. I'll let why'all know how it goes.

I'd appreciate any recommendations though.[/QUOTE]Darlene / Wicked Wanda is as hot as ever and now has a friend she wants us to meet.

Hey everyone,

I am new to Charlotte, originally a west coaster and used another site to share intel. I prefer SD / SB sites for a few reasons and do my hunting there. I have had a month of experience on Seeking, AF and WYP. I can say this is completely different than Los Angeles.

My initial take is that there is an abundance of millenial GPS or platonic emotional friend for hire. I stay away from anyone who asks me to text them immediately. I do my research through facebook and google on phone #s. This turned up a few scary criminals that I would not rather spend my time with.

Two meetings have occurred, both looked nothing like their photos. One was at least 30 pounds heavier and was sheepish when we first met, why waste our time.

I have a lunch scheduled this weekend with a 20 yo from Rock Hill. We will see, seems legit and sending the right signals. Wish everyone success. Nova.