All these talk about money
Gents, I have met girls said no money or girls show off what they got and how much they have, it's all just for show and their strategies to hook you either or whatever reason.
I'm in this game for so long that sees them come and go, I have never once gave them any money to hangout with them. I have dated a few and we were truly 50/50 like this time I pay for the dinner, next time she would pay and go to place she like. I would say I was lucky and they truly just want to hangout with me on a side OTC romance (go to places while off), LOL.
It's always going to be surface level, because if you dive too deep, you will drawn. Never believe they don't have money or they have a lot. Either way is that they want your money too, LOL. But I know how these game play so I kept my distance and kept it casual and the smart ones will sense it and if they are genuinely want to hang out, they would not ask stupid question for me to buy them shit or go to a shopping mall for "hangout" or her sick grandma or family member. Once either of those words comes out of their mouth, I will make reasonable excuse unable to help or just acknowledge but not offering any help with that sympathy trap.
It is always possible to hangout with them and get some freebies, but yall got to be smart about it, good luck.