Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=LuckyNutz;4454507]I use to do overnights in California before moving to Houston / Lexington where I spend my year nowadays. But I've seen guys that will text 4-5 times within an hour and have the girl just say, "I'm just not going to deal with that. That means they are inpatient and not really willing to wait. Especially if I require references for my safety. Also, guys call if they don't a response. " So how much is too much texting from the monger if he hasn't received a return text?

Just one comment as well, if the lady isn't willing to respond to your text it might be due to her already doing her research on you or that she isn't seeing anyone that day. The worse is calling after not getting a text unless you know the girl and have seen her multiple times and has given you the okay.

Not trying to white knight, but girls do talk to one another on occasion. Its possible they share how you are with them.[/QUOTE]I up until recently have had a steady and reliable few regulars. I don't play around.

Things change years seeing them, so back to the grind.

I text one time, inquire as to whether outcall or rate if not posted. That's it. In terms of any issues with ladies, never a problem or complaint. Just a normal dude, and treat them correctly.

[QUOTE=TennVols77;4454599]I up until recently have had a steady and reliable few regulars. I don't play around.

Things change years seeing them, so back to the grind.

I text one time, inquire as to whether outcall or rate if not posted. That's it. In terms of any issues with ladies, never a problem or complaint. Just a normal dude, and treat them correctly.[/QUOTE]It wasn't toward you, just in general. Was with a new girl over the weekend and a few people kept blowing up the phone. She just kinda looked frustrated by the whole situation because it was like they didn't get the hint. I'm the same as you, usually stay with one that I enjoy spending time with. If we go our separate ways I go back to the drawing board. I've been lucky that most are long term.

Hope you find your next regular dream.

They all should turn off their phone when with a client.

Or at least put it in silent.

[QUOTE=LuckyNutz;4454639]It wasn't toward you, just in general. Was with a new girl over the weekend and a few people kept blowing up the phone. She just kinda looked frustrated by the whole situation because it was like they didn't get the hint. I'm the same as you, usually stay with one that I enjoy spending time with. If we go our separate ways I go back to the drawing board. I've been lucky that most are long term.

Hope you find your next regular dream.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DytGuy;4453368]Maybe I need a trip out of country for a couple of months to feel alive again. I'm just not feeling enthusiastic about our local talent. Dayton or Cincinnati wise. If that doesn't work. Maybe I just need electro shock therapy.[/QUOTE]Read my recent review of Follies strip club in the Dayton section. I know it's way down in Atlanta but definitely worth the visit if you're ever there, or possibly as a special trip in itself (by air or car).

Follies will make you believe in the magic of strip clubs again and how it used to be similar in this area. A place where lots of clean girls are still enthusiastic about draining your balls and leaving you with a smile on your face. The only bad news is that you eventually have to leave Hotlanta and come back to the stark reality of the "Druggie No Fun Zone" in Cincy-Dayton and become depressed again.

Then there definitely is no talking about Atlanta!!

[QUOTE=TMeister;4456264]Read my recent review of Follies strip club in the Dayton section. I know it's way down in Atlanta but definitely worth the visit if you're ever there, or possibly as a special trip in itself (by air or car).

Follies will make you believe in the magic of strip clubs again and how it used to be similar in this area. A place where lots of clean girls are still enthusiastic about draining your balls and leaving you with a smile on your face. The only bad news is that you eventually have to leave Hotlanta and come back to the stark reality of the "Druggie No Fun Zone" in Cincy-Dayton and become depressed again.[/QUOTE]

Moved this from Massage thread.

Like I said, I'm not a lawyer and while you might win the case, the damage is done. See also Robert Kraft.

He may win the case. In fact, I suspect he will. But, the court of public opinion has already convicted him and that stain doesn't wash out.

[QUOTE=ThatGuy011;4466564]I disagree with this because it's possible to not get a happy ending for the price of entry. If they were guaranteed like a regular provider then I'd agree.[/QUOTE]

Is evidently a Dirty girl.

[URL]https://thedirty.com/city/cincinnati/clara-adkins-2/[/URL]#post-2374704.

I've never understood why people try to contact or get contact information if a lady on any site is no longer advertising? That is question number one. The second part of the question is why if you have an ATF that is willing to still see you after she is no longer advertising would you want to ruin that relationship? I guess, for me its about privacy and not providing any information that the lady no longer wants to see new people. Just an observation, it happens in all the sites I frequent and wanted to know some reasons.

I know DATY. But what's this?

It probably means that she gets really WET when DATY is performed or it means he really gets them wet when he performs DATY and he likes it.

[QUOTE=GiDaddy;4472913]I know DATY. But what's this?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LuckyNutz;4472152]I've never understood why people try to contact or get contact information if a lady on any site is no longer advertising? That is question number one. The second part of the question is why if you have an ATF that is willing to still see you after she is no longer advertising would you want to ruin that relationship? I guess, for me its about privacy and not providing any information that the lady no longer wants to see new people. Just an observation, it happens in all the sites I frequent and wanted to know some reasons.[/QUOTE]Some girls have plenty of business from regulars and no longer advertise as their phones blow up and they don't want the hassle of getting newbies. They don't need it. The ones looking for her number want to see her again and didn't save it the first time. The answer to your 2nd question is that the UTR needs more money and wants a trusted regular to turn her onto a few guys they know and trust, again eliminating their need to vet newbies.

[QUOTE=BelowMe;4473448]Some girls have plenty of business from regulars and no longer advertise as their phones blow up and they don't want the hassle of getting newbies. They don't need it. The ones looking for her number want to see her again and didn't save it the first time. The answer to your 2nd question is that the UTR needs more money and wants a trusted regular to turn her onto a few guys they know and trust, again eliminating their need to vet newbies.[/QUOTE]I would add that the down side of having UTRs who don't want to advertise is how many of them get way too needy eventually. Some of their regulars get bored or get broke, leaving you as a more prime target. That drives more away, so eventually they need to advertise again.

[QUOTE=BelowMe;4473448]Some girls have plenty of business from regulars and no longer advertise as their phones blow up and they don't want the hassle of getting newbies. They don't need it. The ones looking for her number want to see her again and didn't save it the first time. The answer to your 2nd question is that the UTR needs more money and wants a trusted regular to turn her onto a few guys they know and trust, again eliminating their need to vet newbies.[/QUOTE]I can understand if someone is looking for her number if they saw her once before, but if you liked spending time with her why didn't you save the number? Why do guys who have ATF's offer to provide a number to a girl that hasn't advertised if she doesn't want to vet new people out? I get the whole, girls have plenty of business from regulars and don't need to advertise. But I'm completely flumoxxed when I'm spending time with a girl that no longer advertises and she's like, "I haven't advertised in months and this guy is asking if I'm still in the business?

As for UTRs totally agree that some guys turn to trusted members to have their UTR's make extra cash. And as said previously, get that after a while the UTRs do have a tendency to ask for more money or get needy.

I guess with girls who stop advertising, confused as to why guys are willing to give information out if that lady doesn't want any new business.

[QUOTE=GiDaddy;4472913]I know DATY. But what's this?[/QUOTE]We Eat 7 Days At The why.

Most of the mongers might be using their second brain. If someone wants to go UTR or go out of businsss, why would they simply not change their number and consider the problem solved?

Feels like a much easier solution than complaining to their favs and hoping for mongers to get a morality and manners lesson?

Ob.

[QUOTE=LuckyNutz;4473997]I can understand if someone is looking for her number if they saw her once before, but if you liked spending time with her why didn't you save the number? Why do guys who have ATF's offer to provide a number to a girl that hasn't advertised if she doesn't want to vet new people out? I get the whole, girls have plenty of business from regulars and don't need to advertise. But I'm completely flumoxxed when I'm spending time with a girl that no longer advertises and she's like, "I haven't advertised in months and this guy is asking if I'm still in the business?

As for UTRs totally agree that some guys turn to trusted members to have their UTR's make extra cash. And as said previously, get that after a while the UTRs do have a tendency to ask for more money or get needy.

I guess with girls who stop advertising, confused as to why guys are willing to give information out if that lady doesn't want any new business.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Observant;4475350]Most of the mongers might be using their second brain. If someone wants to go UTR or go out of businsss, why would they simply not change their number and consider the problem solved?

Feels like a much easier solution than complaining to their favs and hoping for mongers to get a morality and manners lesson?

Ob.[/QUOTE]You are saying that its better for the lady to change her personal number instead of mongers just stopping to call or text them?

Here is a good example, there was a lady in California that was one of my favorites. We spent lots of time together and when she went UTR it was still going on. Than one day, she just ghosted. Texted her a couple of times with no response and moved on. A year later she texts me out of the blue to see how I'm doing and apologize. She thought it was better that she just not communicate that she was done with the business instead of telling everyone. She only got back to those who stopped texting her after a few times. We talk every now and again but its just to catch up. Guess I'm more of the morality / manners side than most.

Guess wish others would be the same way. But I know that isn't the issue. Just wanted some insight on the thinking of this because long ago I use to be the type that would blow up ladies that didn't work any longer hoping that I could get with them one last time.

Its bound to happen I ran out of Viagra. I was pissed. So I ordered some out of Canada. 100 mg. Well it didn't get here on time so I went to my doctor and asked for it. 100 mg. Yep that worked. Got it a few days later. Any how I needed to have sex couldn't wait. Bought a over the counter pill good for 5 days. Right! Nope it worked for one time but it worked. 3 days later I went and got my prescription Viagra. What a difference!! And of course my Generic came in that same day. Took one prescription Viagra and took my live in to bed. With the Generic I would have taken two 100 mg to get the same effect The cost for the prescription Viagra was 2 dollars more!! Got a discount coupon from my doctor LOL. Lesson learned Lenny6746.

[QUOTE=LuckyNutz;4475446]You are saying that its better for the lady to change her personal number instead of mongers just stopping to call or text them?

[/QUOTE]Don't get me wrong, I am in the same camp as you about respecting boundaries. I was just making a general comment that expecting that in the escorting and mongering world, it just seems like an unrealistic expectation.

A provider who wishes to go OOB / UTR could simply obtain a new number and let their favs know of number change.

Hope this makes sense.

Ob.

[QUOTE=Lenny6746;4476984]Its bound to happen I ran out of Viagra. I was pissed. So I ordered some out of Canada. 100 mg. Well it didn't get here on time so I went to my doctor and asked for it. 100 mg. Yep that worked. Got it a few days later. Any how I needed to have sex couldn't wait. Bought a over the counter pill good for 5 days. Right! Nope it worked for one time but it worked. 3 days later I went and got my prescription Viagra. What a difference!! And of course my Generic came in that same day. Took one prescription Viagra and took my live in to bed. With the Generic I would have taken two 100 mg to get the same effect The cost for the prescription Viagra was 2 dollars more!! Got a discount coupon from my doctor LOL. Lesson learned Lenny6746.[/QUOTE]I get mine from the VA 12 100 milligram tablets cut in half and taken on an empty stomach wow teenage erection. What I use when I run out is Rise Max from my local Valero gas station usually last 3-4 days 10.70 I bought one yesterday, I took it around 7:30 last night I didn't have sex till around 7 this morning rock hard. If you're ever in a pinch go to the Valero gas station on Tennessee and Paddock and give Rise Max a try. It definitely works for me. HL29.

[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;4478532]I get mine from the VA 12 100 milligram tablets cut in half and taken on an empty stomach wow teenage erection. What I use when I run out is Rise Max from my local Valero gas station usually last 3-4 days 10.70 I bought one yesterday, I took it around 7:30 last night I didn't have sex till around 7 this morning rock hard. If you're ever in a pinch go to the Valero gas station on Tennessee and Paddock and give Rise Max a try. It definitely works for me. HL29.[/QUOTE]What are the side effects?

SP.

So everyone seemed upset when she got pissy and left, but now she's back. Hopefully "cuddling" includes that happy edging session she is so good at.

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[QUOTE=SimonPieMan;4481334]What are the side effects?

SP.[/QUOTE]For nine inches of solid oak who cares?

[QUOTE=SimonPieMan;4481334]What are the side effects?

SP.[/QUOTE]Says on the label that users may experience difficulty walking through doorways sideways.

[QUOTE=BelowMe;4486833]Says on the label that users may experience difficulty walking through doorways sideways.[/QUOTE]Confucius say "Man with erection who go through airport turnstile sideways going to Bangkok. ".

-Redd Foxx.

[QUOTE=Hairy2;4486869]Confucius say "Man with erection who go through airport turnstile sideways going to Bangkok. ".

-Redd Foxx.[/QUOTE]I think I saw that episode! LOL.

Nurse's aides love these pills in old folks homes and give 'them to the old men so they don't roll out of bed at night by mistake.

[QUOTE=Hairy2;4486869]Confucius say "Man with erection who go through airport turnstile sideways going to Bangkok. ".

-Redd Foxx.[/QUOTE]

What do you guys think about some these gals that asks for your real name, company name, work number, address, email, etc. For their screening purposes? Do some of you guys really give that info up? For me it's a big "fuck no! Recently that's what I have ran into with some the gals asking to do a screening. I always reply back "Sure I'll give you my info if you give me yours. Tell me your real name, address, and I know you don't have a corporate job so give me your facebook info as well so I can check you and your family out. " But the gals think that's not a fair request. It's only fair if they have an upper hand on you so they can easily ruin your career and your life LOL. Come on gals. Use some common sense. I know your worried about your safety but there's different ways to go about it. At end of the day you're in a business that has some danger associated with it whether you like it or not.

Had to share an experience that I had recently with a long time UTR. While she has never been great she is reliable and gets the job done. On my last visit we started with a BJ. She gets a text message and jumps up to read it. Strike one. She comes back and continues and another text message. She jumps up and looks at that one. Strike two. Things are quiet on the phone front and we are hitting it hard doggy. She is moaning and about to cum and another text. She reaches over and grabs the phone and to my amazement started texting while we were still coupled and she was ass up. Strike 3. I got disengaged and cleaned up and was told I had issues and got mad to easily. I'm still shaking my head but at least I'm laughing now.

[QUOTE=ILikeWatch;4489563]Had to share an experience that I had recently with a long time UTR. While she has never been great she is reliable and gets the job done. On my last visit we started with a BJ. She gets a text message and jumps up to read it. Strike one. She comes back and continues and another text message. She jumps up and looks at that one. Strike two. Things are quiet on the phone front and we are hitting it hard doggy. She is moaning and about to cum and another text. She reaches over and grabs the phone and to my amazement started texting while we were still coupled and she was ass up. Strike 3. I got disengaged and cleaned up and was told I had issues and got mad to easily. I'm still shaking my head but at least I'm laughing now.[/QUOTE]Next time you're banging her, pull out your phone and start texting her instructions.

[QUOTE=GiDaddy;4489263]What do you guys think about some these gals that asks for your real name, company name, work number, address, email, etc. For their screening purposes? Do some of you guys really give that info up? For me it's a big "fuck no! Recently that's what I have ran into with some the gals asking to do a screening. I always reply back "Sure I'll give you my info if you give me yours. Tell me your real name, address, and I know you don't have a corporate job so give me your facebook info as well so I can check you and your family out. " But the gals think that's not a fair request. It's only fair if they have an upper hand on you so they can easily ruin your career and your life LOL. Come on gals. Use some common sense. I know your worried about your safety but there's different ways to go about it. At end of the day you're in a business that has some danger associated with it whether you like it or not.[/QUOTE]I don't think anything about them at all since I'm not doing any of that shit. They are simply delusional if they believe I'm going to give that out to a hooker.

[QUOTE=Cincyjim;4489596]Next time you're banging her, pull out your phone and start texting her instructions.[/QUOTE]On the 3rd interruption, you should have got up, dressed and departed.

[QUOTE=GiDaddy;4489263]What do you guys think about some these gals that asks for your real name, company name, work number, address, email, etc. For their screening purposes? Do some of you guys really give that info up? For me it's a big "fuck no! Recently that's what I have ran into with some the gals asking to do a screening. I always reply back "Sure I'll give you my info if you give me yours. Tell me your real name, address, and I know you don't have a corporate job so give me your facebook info as well so I can check you and your family out. " But the gals think that's not a fair request. It's only fair if they have an upper hand on you so they can easily ruin your career and your life LOL. Come on gals. Use some common sense. I know your worried about your safety but there's different ways to go about it. At end of the day you're in a business that has some danger associated with it whether you like it or not.[/QUOTE]Absolutely too much information. It's called light screening. Not a background investigation.

[QUOTE=Cinc34;4489819]On the 3rd interruption, you should have got up, dressed and departed.[/QUOTE]That's exactly what I did.
Lmfao about the texting instructions.

[QUOTE=Cincyjim;4489596]Next time you're banging her, pull out your phone and start texting her instructions.[/QUOTE]There won't be a next time, but I love your response to that situation.

[QUOTE=GiDaddy;4489263]What do you guys think about some these gals that asks for your real name, company name, work number, address, email, etc. For their screening purposes? Do some of you guys really give that info up? For me it's a big "fuck no! Recently that's what I have ran into with some the gals asking to do a screening. I always reply back "Sure I'll give you my info if you give me yours. Tell me your real name, address, and I know you don't have a corporate job so give me your facebook info as well so I can check you and your family out. " But the gals think that's not a fair request. It's only fair if they have an upper hand on you so they can easily ruin your career and your life LOL. Come on gals. Use some common sense. I know your worried about your safety but there's different ways to go about it. At end of the day you're in a business that has some danger associated with it whether you like it or not.[/QUOTE]How do I saw Never give out your personal info. This is a hobby and you keep it separate from your private life. If they want verification we are safe give them a few providers name an number you have seen. They san also check you reviews on this web-site. If that don't work move on. No pictures of yourself, No drivers license, Pay stubs, work place. Nothing personal. It will come back to bit you in the ass.

[QUOTE=HillbillyBob;4490432]How do I saw Never give out your personal info. This is a hobby and you keep it separate from your private life. If they want verification we are safe give them a few providers name an number you have seen. They san also check you reviews on this web-site. If that don't work move on. No pictures of yourself, No drivers license, Pay stubs, work place. Nothing personal. It will come back to bit you in the ass.[/QUOTE]I'll let them take a pic of my license plate if they want but that is the extent of it. When you initially meet someone it is understandable that they want to feel safe. Letting them take a picture of your license plate in no way incriminates you. I allow them to send the pic to someone else prior to leaving also so they feel safe. Some may not want to do this but I am OK with it. As to the personal stuff, not worth divulging that. Depending on your situation they could blackmail you.

Which is more important to you? Obviously, you want both and sometimes can find that but if you had to choose, what would you say is more important? For me, without question, it is enthusiasm. In fact, I have been with some gorgeous women who I could not get into at all because they were just going through the motions. Your thoughts?

[QUOTE=DearPrudence;4490893]I'll let them take a pic of my license plate if they want but that is the extent of it. When you initially meet someone it is understandable that they want to feel safe. Letting them take a picture of your license plate in no way incriminates you. I allow them to send the pic to someone else prior to leaving also so they feel safe. Some may not want to do this but I am OK with it. As to the personal stuff, not worth divulging that. Depending on your situation they could blackmail you.[/QUOTE]Why on earth would you knowingly let a hooker take a picture of your license plate?

[QUOTE=TechSticles;4491223]Why on earth would you knowingly let a hooker take a picture of your license plate?[/QUOTE]In Ohio license plate information if public information as far as the name of the owner goes. Beyond that other than to law enforcement the address and any other information is redacted. Its no different if someone just took a picture of your plate in a parking lot. No danger of them taking a picture of your plate as far as finding your address etc. Granted I wouldn't like it either but no real danger there unless its in your name and you don't want them knowing your name. That I would understand.

[QUOTE=DearPrudence;4490893]I'll let them take a pic of my license plate if they want but that is the extent of it. When you initially meet someone it is understandable that they want to feel safe. Letting them take a picture of your license plate in no way incriminates you. I allow them to send the pic to someone else prior to leaving also so they feel safe. Some may not want to do this but I am OK with it. As to the personal stuff, not worth divulging that. Depending on your situation they could blackmail you.[/QUOTE]I once had a PI run a plate. Had owner's name and address the next day. Saved some money during my divorce.