Complicated Like Everything Else in Life
[QUOTE=PunkedLife;5147798]Damn that's just sad a pathetic. Not calling you that but it seems the repercussions of having half your shit taken and barely being allowed to see your kids especially if she is vindictive if you have kids got men throwing your manhood away. That's just sad and just reinforces the need to properly vet women before committing. My new motto is fuck around and date and when you meet someone that is cooperative and no drama and brings something positive to your life and continues to do so even while you both are fucking other people and honest about it. Then after she's proven herself for a year then you can make her your girlfriend whether you choose monogamous or not up to what you want. Never what the ***** wants. If she don't agree with anything she can hit that door. You got to have the mindset that no matter if you met the butch yesterday or you been with her for 30 years if she chooses to leave in whatever fashion you don't even pause. Shit sounds easier than it is but if y'all stop putting a *** on a pedestal and willing to walk out on anything your not truly comfortable with then your most likely to find a half decent woman that you can be happy with. But never marriage. Can't trust a *** farther than you can see her. And with how manipulative and sneaky they are, they got no problems doing shit right in your face with the advent of technology. But donr give up bro. It's simple. Tell her your thinking of divorce. Depends on if you want to take the risk of her calling your bluff. Tell her your not attracted to her weight and that's not who you married and she need to change or be ready to gtfo. I'm sure you won't do this seeing as your going to great lengths fucking with your biology. But is it really healthy? Are you really happy? If you are then that is completely your decision to make and fuck anyone who judges it. Just hope you aint lying to yourself. Also if your not willing to put your foot down about something as simple as her weight which is easily fixable then how can you expect her to respect you with anything else. Your doing all this to avoid divorce and I'm sure you can read many stories where shit still ended in divorce. She apparently wants dick. She eventually going to get it from somewhere. Maybe from someone she respects while losing respect from you. See how easy this can lead to divorce. Just food for thought. Best wishes.[/QUOTE]Well, not sure I get all your points but I am 62, retired, and have substantial savings. Divorce is not going to be an option because I'm not giving half of my life's savings and inheritance away to my spouse so I can increase my frequency of getting laid. In 10 years I won't care. My spouse is Latin and 10 years younger. All my clothes are cleaned, meals prepared daily, daughter carpooled, and the inside of my house looks like a Home and Garden photo op. I come and go pretty much as I please and I control all financial matters. So its far from perfect, but better than some. I attempt to be discrete about my activities. Had a few slip ups and confrontations. Divorce is never brought up but I have been told that I might not wake up in the morning if I'm caught. All guns removed from our house years ago. Mostly just a menapausal Latin temper thing but yes, I am respectful toward my wife as it's simply common civility. I'll manage to persevere and thank you for your well wishes. P.S. I did wait until I was 38 to get married. In hindsight that was probably a bit too soon.