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What we're doing here is not safe in general. All of us can get sick as a result of it and get arrested. I realize that it is possible to get venereal disease from kissing. I'm sure that historically worldwide there have been cases when it actually happened but! I've never heard of anybody who have actually got it either from kissing or from oral sex, besides maybe getting a flu. Moreover I never knew anybody who heard of anybody who got a venereal disease from DFK, BBBJ or the like. I also know that it is much more likely to get sick from touching then from kissing. All the skin diseases, crabs, herpes in earlier stages of break out, etc. Does it mean that we should all just stop and find ourselves in the church? Not in a million years.

When you go to the dentist's the fact that they make you sign a form saying that there is miniscule possibility that you can die from a tooth being pulled doesn't mean that there is even a remote possibility of that. It doesn't mean that in a history of humanity it never happened though so there is always that risk.

So let's put all this fear-mongering it in perspective gentlemen.

If you don't like DFK or BBBJ or what have you. Fine, to each his own. You sure will have wider choice of providers. If you want some warmth out of your session however and not just a hole to work on, I'm pretty sure that if provider doesn't do DFK more then likely you won't be getting that warmth too.

[QUOTE=Fly Dangler;1405832]There was a time that may have been true, but in the case of gonorrhea that's no longer the case. Up until recently I was involved in epidemiologic investigations involving antibiotic resistant gonorrhea, and it's really starting to get scary.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Nrlmus;1405849]Moreover I never knew anybody who heard of anybody who got a venereal disease from DFK, BBBJ or the like.[/QUOTE]I actually did get chlamydia once from a BBBJ, I hadn't engaged in FS with anyone for several months at the time, so the BBBJ was the only way I could have contracted it. But considering that's once in 20 years of mongering, and literally over one thousand different girls, I'd say that's not bad in the grand scheme of things.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

[QUOTE=Fly Dangler;1405832]There was a time that may have been true, but in the case of gonorrhea that's no longer the case. Up until recently I was involved in epidemiologic investigations involving antibiotic resistant gonorrhea, and it's really starting to get scary.[/QUOTE]Resistant to all antibiotics, or just the cephalosporins?

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

Well, there are more likely scenarios.

First of all, chlamydia can lie dormant in the body for many years causing a low grade infection without symptoms. Second, men can have chlamydia and not know it, and pass the germ without experiencing symptoms themselves.

Yes, technically you can get it from BBBJ but from what understand it's less likely then you having it for quite a while and not feeling it and then all of the sudden it decides to act up, kind of like a cold sore.

[QUOTE=Ho Hunter 328; 1405872]I actually did get chlamydia once from a BBBJ, I hadn't engaged in FS with anyone for several months at the time, so the BBBJ was the only way I could have contracted it. But considering that's once in 20 years of mongering, and literally over one thousand different girls, I'd say that's not bad in the grand scheme of things.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.[/QUOTE]

A few months back (when I was partaking somewhat frequently) I was fairly sure I had a dreaded Herpes blister on my pene / sack area from a BBBJ as I got it about a week later. Turns out it was only an ingrown hair from manscaping. LOL Whew! Scared me a bit.

I was always curious to know how many mongers here have caught anything from oral. Would like to take a poll.

Personally, I rarely ever DATY a pro for that very reason. Seems to me that is much more risky than receiving BBBJ.

[QUOTE=Ho Hunter 328; 1405872]I actually did get chlamydia once from a BBBJ, I hadn't engaged in FS with anyone for several months at the time, so the BBBJ was the only way I could have contracted it. But considering that's once in 20 years of mongering, and literally over one thousand different girls, I'd say that's not bad in the grand scheme of things.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Nrlmus; 1405887]Well, there are more likely scenarios.

First of all, chlamydia can lie dormant in the body for many years causing a low grade infection without symptoms. Second, men can have chlamydia and not know it, and pass the germ without experiencing symptoms themselves.

Yes, technically you can get it from BBBJ but from what understand it's less likely then you having it for quite a while and not feeling it and then all of the sudden it decides to act up, kind of like a cold sore.[/QUOTE]Possible I suppose. But in this case a particular lady that I had been with called me up the next day to inform me that she just found out that what she had thought was strep throat that she had had for several days, was actually chlamydia. I developed symptoms (ie slight itching and discharge) several days later, was tested positive for it, and received treatment. It may have been a coincidence, but it seems to me that the timing would suggest that I got it from her. But like I said, that's one incident out of four or five "dates" per week for 20 years. So obviously, the odds are in our favor.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

Because of the current topic. I was wondering, and I'm sure others, is an escort service a better way to go? For instance RT girls are all subcontractors, are they required to submit to STD testing and submit the results to Kat? Or is buyer e.

Beware?

[QUOTE=Werm2011; 1405892]A few months back (when I was partaking somewhat frequently) I was fairly sure I had a dreaded Herpes blister on my pene / sack area from a BBBJ as I got it about a week later. Turns out it was only an ingrown hair from manscaping. LOL Whew! Scared me a bit.

I was always curious to know how many mongers here have caught anything from oral. Would like to take a poll.

Personally, I rarely ever DATY a pro for that very reason. Seems to me that is much more risky than receiving BBBJ.[/QUOTE]Maybe we could start a safe sex mongering forum. Like a health and wellness thing. Jackson?

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[QUOTE=Ho Hunter 328; 1405872]I actually did get chlamydia once from a BBBJ, I hadn't engaged in FS with anyone for several months at the time, so the BBBJ was the only way I could have contracted it. But considering that's once in 20 years of mongering, and literally over one thousand different girls, I'd say that's not bad in the grand scheme of things.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.[/QUOTE]Thanks for sharing that story. It seems that no one ever wants to talk about this topic even though it is an important one. When I first started mongering I was scared to my wits about catching something and a few times I thought I did. But testing was always negative.

I like to think I'm more informed about the risks now and much less paranoid, but I wish there were some statistics about infection rates within this sub-culture. Most of the published stats you find are related to the general population.

[QUOTE=BaconBits; 1405969]Maybe we could start a safe sex mongering forum. Like a health and wellness thing. Jackson?

BB[/QUOTE]Is this what you had in mind BaconBits?

[url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/forumdisplay.php?268-Safe-Sex[/url]

[QUOTE=Cpcdman; 1405589]Reading your post I totally agree with your thought process and what you're looking for with a lady and totally respect what you are looking for in an appointment.

Looking back I should have said don't waste my time I shouldn't speak for everyone just myself.

Obviously every lady is different there are ladies that I see that are what you speak of very laid back and like to take things slow and then there are a couple of ladies I see that are on the wild side. Depending on what I'm looking for in an appointment that is who I'll see.

As for your BB comment I'm not sure what you mean, as far as oral that's what I look for, but for full service I always play safe.

I will say that her pics are very nice and very suggestive, I find that a lady who has pictures that aren't quite as upfront showing all of her assets, that are more suggestive showing what she has but in a subtle way are more to my liking makes me wonder what's underneath! Love to want! LOL!

By the way I sent you a PM.

Have a great weekend![/QUOTE]Geez. I didn't mean to start a 'thread' on safe sex as I know there is a forum here for it. Anyway thanks for the post back sir. It is always interesting to see and indeed causes a pause when you respond to a post and wonder if you are going to get a '***** slap' back! I'm glad it was taken in the context it was written and not a negative post to yours as it certainly was not meant that way. I guess most mongers are looking for the 'wild' side of things and few for the laid back experience.

As you I've had my 'wild' days and ladies since my hobby started back in the late 70's (ouch that hurt). And my BB note was certainly about oral. I will admit I've had several instances of BBFS but that was way back (80's and 90's) before I decided my brain was a useful tool. I was damn lucky back then. My only 'catch' was back in the early 80's when I caught a case of gonnerea from a street walker in Lowell. It was pretty sad too cause I had been looking for this one particular lady for a few months. Every time I saw her she got scooped before I could get to her. Well one night I finally did and got take home.

I also learned last summer that as we gents get older most of us (60% over 50 and 80% over 70) get something called prostitis which is an enargement of the prostrate which can be caused by many things including a UTI or any simple naturaly occuring 'viral or bacterial' germ getting in there. It used to be 'considered' a STD way back years ago until they found out that it can and is usually caused by something other than a STD borne germ. While I'm pretty sure it was once inflamed by a BBBJ I also know that the first time it was just caused by a UTI or another germ. (hadn't seen anyone for months before). It was interesting listening to my urologist explain it to me. He said he sees more than a couple of guys every month that think they have a STD. Tests usually indicate that it isn't and a case of prostitis. Anyway long story short and nd not meant as a educational seminar LOL. I decided that covered was fine with me although I had been inclined to go that way before.

Thanks for the PM. I will certainly 'pursue' at my earliest convenience and once again thanks for the suggestion and I owe you one. And while I agree with you about the 'suggestive' art of pics keeping things 'under wraps' that one pose that our good friend HH send 'my' way does raise my blood pressure a few points and sends me to the showers! I'm sure that the ultimate lady will send me over the edge and to an early grave lol!!! SO

[QUOTE=Usedj; 1405646]I always wonder about the safety of DATY, DFK, BB. Etc. Think about it, from down there and up there. Especially if the provider meet others before you that day, or the days earlier. Is DFK really a good idea? Obviously the lady doesn't care even though she is more at risk, and that's probably why many don't do it. I actually sometimes respect and like that since it could make me safe, or so I think.

Somebody is more in the know may give more insight about this, I hope.[/QUOTE]I'm new here but was active on a now defucnt board. I have wondered that my self thats why I have stopped seeing other girls and just stick to a couple low volume UTR'S the risk is still there althought not as high as high volume providers but its there. The risk I think is higher for the provider esp if she is GFE (BBBJ cim) but it also depends on who else she see's and who the other guys have been with now I always ask the girl not to invite me over on the same day that she has seen someone else I have to believe what they say some times I do some times I don't but I do ask. Like you said some providers don't care as long as they get paid.

Just my opinion

[QUOTE=Ho Hunter 328;1405874]Resistant to all antibiotics, or just the cephalosporins?[/QUOTE]In Asia, especially Japan, we are starting to see strains of gonorrhea resistant to all antibiotics and it's only a matter of time before they reach this country.

[QUOTE=Jafo101; 1406310]I'm new here but was active on a now defucnt board. I have wondered that my self thats why I have stopped seeing other girls and just stick to a couple low volume UTR'S the risk is still there althought not as high as high volume providers but its there. The risk I think is higher for the provider esp if she is GFE (BBBJ cim) but it also depends on who else she see's and who the other guys have been with now I always ask the girl not to invite me over on the same day that she has seen someone else I have to believe what they say some times I do some times I don't but I do ask. Like you said some providers don't care as long as they get paid.

Just my opinion[/QUOTE]I'm not poking at the bear, making fun of anyone, preaching, or a know-it-all. Basing opinions on good information educates. The following is a terrific source of current information and questions answered quickly. How did I find it? A provider had it on her webpage as a link. If it's listed here somewhere else, great. It's an easy to search site.

[url]http://perb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?38-Health-Information[/url]

I have been emailing with this provider in the Boston area. Does anyone have any experience with her?

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Thanks