Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5118605]I will also agree with you that "noting is actually free" the guy is always paying for it one way or another. Especially you guys who get divorced & have to pay Alimony, Child Support etc.[/QUOTE]I am not married. I will agree with the previous poster that if they are not looking for money, they are looking for some sort of attachment. I say from the start that I don't want that and they agree, but it usually comes. That is why those have not lasted long and looked to enter the dinner / paying avenue. One option is married or separated women. There are some bored housewives there. The good is that they seem to just want to have NSA fun. It does hit the conscience a bit for me though. It is fun while it lasts, eventually I will settle down with someone and give this all up. Glad to see others had similar experiences I did with seeing girls who don't want money. Hope the mob doesn't come after you like they did with me.

Women are attracted to money, actually they love money. Hypergamy is and will always be part of life and attraction between men / women.

[QUOTE=Cargin;5118316]Not sure, I don't treat them like dirt. I think women generally are attracted to money. I usually buy nice one. My current one likes tequila, so I'll buy some $150 bottle of tequila and we'll have some and I'll give her the bottle.[/QUOTE]

I wouldn't disclose the ladies either, Cargin. However, if I was getting everything for free, why would you be on this site or for that matter, the Seeking site?

It doesn't make a whole lot of sense, IMHO. Thus, I don't think any of it is true. Of course, you don't really care what I think. Or do you? LMAO.

[QUOTE=Cargin;5118309]Ok, I honestly don't care. I don't need to prove anything to you or anyone else. I'm not going to link profiles of girls I see for the same reason others keep certain ones private. Keep paying up for the PPM girls, I've done it too. I prefer to get the ones who have real connection and actually want to see me for more than a transaction. I know they exist for me, but seeking is full of creepy guys, so if you're witty, funny, and normal you can stick out against the awful competition of pervs and those who treat women like meat. The ones who are free won't talk to you. I asked for dinner date advice because I had not paid up until that point. The girl I am seeing and had the 3 some with no longer has a profile, but her username was puppet4 you. Her friend is not on seeking. I saw ihavenicelegs in Feb, paid her the first time, the next time I saw her she said she would see me for free. Saw her a couple times and paid nothing except the wine I bought her that she didn't ask for. She actually said she would want to date me. Broke it off shortly after, I could tell she has been at this for a while. But puppet4 you definitely is not someone who made the rounds. Also saw thatkittykatgirl. She is still active. Never discussed money. We met up and she gave me head and I gave her a facial. I offered her a tip when she was leaving but she refused. I would not recommend as she is very immature and mentally unstable. Anyways, good luck and stay safe![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Satine;5117876]To be fair, I wouldn't post their links if I had such fantastic girls, lest some idiot disrupts my setups.[/QUOTE]True. At least post the links for the bad ones. But like this guy claims he has like several free girls he bangs on the side. Do all of them like it free? LOL.

[QUOTE=Longjblues;5118899]I wouldn't disclose the ladies either, Cargin. However, if I was getting everything for free, why would you be on this site or for that matter, the Seeking site?

It doesn't make a whole lot of sense, IMHO. Thus, I don't think any of it is true. Of course, you don't really care what I think. Or do you? LMAO.[/QUOTE]Joined seeking for NSA hookups. Why else would I be there? I did not disclose all of the names / links. If you don't want to believe me, it is fine. I won't lose sleep over it. I don't blame anyone for doubting me, no hate. I don't have to prove anything to you. As far as why I am here. My first post was to ask what protocol was for dinner dates since that was new to me. As someone else mentioned, it is not entirely free, some get attached and expect things and it basically turns into a relationship which I don't want. I have around 10 posts or less here and most of them are arguing with you guys. Anyways, no ill will. I have nothing left to say or prove. Just pointing out what is out there. Several others came forward and said they saw girls for free. Others asked for names / links. I gave 2 that I don't care about and would not see again and one who is completely off seeking with a deleted account. So some people say I make it up because I did not post links or names, and some people say I am making it up because I did post names. This is comical, honestly. Anyways, good luck out there fighting the fight and I hope everyone stays sane and safe during these crazy times. Clearly I'm annoying some of you, so I'm moving along. Peace.

Anyone ever talk to her? She won't even look at my profile.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/703d3eae-b292-4d8b-ae87-5982cae9aa68[/URL]

You can bang girls for free on seeking but it's very rare. I had a few that liked me a lot that said I didn't have to but they were not my type so I didn't see them. They were obviously not dimes. Seeking is 100% YMMV. There were some posts I saw of guys saying a girl wouldn't give them head but the same girl let me face fuck her cimws. All depends how you vibe and if the girl likes you.

I reached out to her a while back but no response. Then tried again a few months later and no response so I gave up.

Maybe I'm not her cup of tea? Maybe other had better luck?

[QUOTE=PaulRew;5119285]Anyone ever talk to her? She won't even look at my profile.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/703d3eae-b292-4d8b-ae87-5982cae9aa68[/URL][/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9e64edac-c736-41ea-af9f-919d05e9c4f6[/URL]

Anyone been with her?

I am meeting her tomorrow night. Any reviews would be good.

I recently joined SA and OMG, it is unbelievable. Not necessarily in a good way.

Between sugar babes who are demanding money upfront, what is the best way to decipher who is real and not real?

Also, what is the conventional way of making payments?

I have had girls post they are from Boston and they are not. One told me it is because that location attracts the guys.

This seems like it is a full-time job.

Thanks for any help. I am a raw rookie at this game.

I actually exchanged a few messages with her but when I politely asked forher private pics she ghosted me. Seems like a time waster for sure.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;5119285]Anyone ever talk to her? She won't even look at my profile.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/703d3eae-b292-4d8b-ae87-5982cae9aa68[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Filsky811;5119655]I recently joined SA and OMG, it is unbelievable. Not necessarily in a good way.

Between sugar babes who are demanding money upfront, what is the best way to decipher who is real and not real?

Also, what is the conventional way of making payments?

I have had girls post they are from Boston and they are not. One told me it is because that location attracts the guys.

This seems like it is a full-time job.

Thanks for any help. I am a raw rookie at this game.[/QUOTE]Your assessment is correct, it is a full time job.

Be forward with the women that want money up front: I do not donate to women I haven't met. I am not interested in an online arrangement. I am not interested in buying pictures / videos.

If they do not what you are looking for (time, distance, in -person meeting), move on. You are paying, you should get what you want. You decide on what you are willing to compromise.

This is a good forum to help weed out the bad ones.

[QUOTE=Filsky811;5119655]I recently joined SA and OMG, it is unbelievable. Not necessarily in a good way.

Between sugar babes who are demanding money upfront, what is the best way to decipher who is real and not real?

Also, what is the conventional way of making payments?

I have had girls post they are from Boston and they are not. One told me it is because that location attracts the guys.

This seems like it is a full-time job.

Thanks for any help. I am a raw rookie at this game.[/QUOTE]It is a job, but you are the consumer.

If they don't have what you want, politely move on. Whether, it is distance, on-line relationship, up front pay, you can just say no.

I do not pay someone I haven't met, I do not send money for photos or videos.

It takes time to weed them out, but it is worth being patient.

[QUOTE=Mattis1775;5118350]And this guy sees her weekly, that's about 2 k a month and over 20 k a year. That's a nice car or mortgage payment for her, clean cash. I don't mind spending 150 bi-weekly. But, 500? You must be from the rich and famous or something brother. She's not hurting during this pandemic. LOL. I've had a couple of women reach out to me on my CL post and had a woman who wanted 500. Be funny if this was the same woman. She was out of newton. Says she deserves 500 as she's smart, educated, beautiful and fun to be with. I asked, is BBFS, CIM, etc available? She said no, everything is covered. I said good luck!

Though recently, these beautiful Brazilians are popping out everywhere, trying to beat out the Chinese agencies. But, they too are all covered up. Maybe if I was still in my early twenties, I would cover up. But, not anymore. Need to make the donation worth it as we all work hard for it.[/QUOTE]I know what you're saying "500? But I do make crazy money from my computer, I trade / invest in biotech stocks. 2 days ago MNKD open at $3. 30 ish and the the day at $3. 98, I have 100 K shares, that's over 65 K profit in one day, just one example. Patience in investing pays handsomely. And I will stick with for few more months unless I find someone more fun in the meantime.

[QUOTE=Filsky811;5119655]I recently joined SA and OMG, it is unbelievable. Not necessarily in a good way.

Between sugar babes who are demanding money upfront, what is the best way to decipher who is real and not real?

Also, what is the conventional way of making payments?

I have had girls post they are from Boston and they are not. One told me it is because that location attracts the guys.

This seems like it is a full-time job.

Thanks for any help. I am a raw rookie at this game.[/QUOTE]Run away from the ones who want a prepayment. Many girls are just fishing for that free pot of gold. Probably not even in your area anyway. It takes some work depending on what your type is. I'm very particular so it takes me longer to finally find that one but I also try to keep her around longer and gave up on the bouncing around for different flavors awhile ago. Way to much work for me at this point.

As for payment I always only offer cash only as this deters some scammers because they are expecting Venmo or Other e money app. I will do cash the first visit only after sex but do prefer Venmo (fake account name ofc) once the arrangement is progressing nicely. Don't link your real name to your Venmo account! If it already is then don't use it. Stay in the shadows, if you are married especially. Do yourself a favor and us, don't pay for meet and greets. Sure pick up the tab for drinks or coffee but don't offer a nice payout just to meet her.

Many girls say they have been scammed so this is a red flag that they may be looking for prepayment. Just use you big head when deciding who to meet and when to pay. Tough times with Covid so don't lose your patience while this works itself out.