Comfort with Setting Expectations
[QUOTE=Joesouncool;5670433]No worries dude. Asking for you want sexually is hard, no pun intended. You have to be comfortable in your own skin. If you aren't, you won't find what you want in a strip club, I'm comfortable with myself and with other people now. I told a girl my expectations just matter of fact Ly recently, now I'm in all her holes. If I hadn't read her body language, what she was saying, and said exactly what I want, it wouldn't have happened. Unfortunately, this is a learned trait. Don't worry, it just takes time.
[/QUOTE]Like Joe it's about getting comfortable with yourself. I used to go to strip clubs just for the stage tipping and table dancing. That's all I knew occurred in there, LOL. After a few years, I had a girl ask me about VIP (guess it always showed on my face I was a rookie prior to then because no one ever did). Since then, I've learned so many things. As Joe mentions. Now I usually go to the club when I need a new OTC / UTR regular. I'm currently enjoying my most FWB / GF / mistress experience ever. But it's totally whatever you're looking for / into / etc. To each their own.
Good luck with your V-card loss GeeMoneyBags!
Vivide Christmas Party this evening
I meant to post this when I got home yesterday. They are having a Christmas Party this evening and are anticipating upwards of 100 girls. I had some great dances last evening but alas, I am out of town today.
Stay Sage and Happy Hunting!
Vivide and Strokers on Thursday
Visited both clubs yesterday. Started at Vivide around 4:30. Maybe 25 girls. About a 50/50 split between AA and white. Did not notice any Latinas. Quality was mediocre. Found some AA ladies that seemed to fit the mold but most were new to Vivide. They really turn the ladies over in this club. Danced a spinner named Kiwi. She normally dances at Onyx. 5' 110 good body maybe 5. 5 on the face. Decent dances but just not over the top (like I prefer). Next up Chanel. Maybe 5'4 and 130. Good figure, pretty face give her a 7-8 on looks. Needed some mouthwash. It wasn't terrible but I just didn't have the energy to instruct her on what I wanted with this hygiene issue. Still let her try for about 4-5 songs to be polite. Dances were just so so. Bella was watching these dances from 5 feet away. When Chanel finished I went straight to her and said can you dance better than the last lady? She said oh hell yes. Another white lady jumped in and said this girl is good. Bella started twerking her very round ass immediately to demonstrate. Whoa whoa. I need XYZ type dances. High mileage and mutual touch. Said give her a try. White dancer said take her to VIP for some privacy. No, not in the mood and too old for full service today. Oh, you don't have to have sex. Just get some privacy. No, lets just see what she can do here. So Bella also dances at Blaze. 5' 3 and 135. Big round ass and nice legs. A+ cups with a little sag. Give her a 7 body and 5. 5 face. Nice lady. She did her best to please. Kat stayed in my face about half the time which was fine. Good roaming allowed. She just wasn't any good with Junior. She was interested in my OTC ability but I was pressed for time and have enough numbers. There were at least 2-3 more decent looking but I had to bounce around 6:00.
Strokers at 7:00 planning to see a friend and dance until 8:00. Nope. Friend was out of state on a minor emergency (I didn't text so that was on me). Maybe 25 ladies again. Of course all AA. Decent crowd. Started dancing Toni. Tall, thin, with a protruding stomach. Ex Follies and she is available. Plenty of nice looking women on hand but you know this is Strokers so the mileage is usually low. Toni did as much as she could. Said she didn't know how far she could push it in Strokers. Just say they were high contact dances. Multiple other dancers hitting on me. Rosie was a solid 8 spinner that would have danced next but got called on stage. OK, another "7" foaming at the mouth to get into my pocket. Things looking up. Then, as always, Strokers finds a way to screw up your vibe. DJ announces that the 5 dollar dances are ending at 7:30. Huh? Been here 30 times and it was always 8:00. Well WTF. Told 2-3 ladies that they had just missed me and I was heading out. Went back over and asked Toni about the $10 dances (no problem with a $10 dance for a regular length song). Asked do the songs get a little longer when the price changes? No, they are the same length. Around 9:00 they usually get even shorter. So, before I departed I noticed the back corner was dark and empty. Asked if she wanted to try and give me some better mileage on a few songs. She did try but couldn't fully express herself due to traffic around the table. So out the door I went a little after 8. Same Strokers. Good for some some low mileage day shift dances and maybe OTC as a general rule of thumb. And yes, was told I need to come to Vivide today for the Christmas party but I don't live in GA. If they can get men's room toilets and urinal functioning it should be a good time. If not, you may have to hold it and wait in a line. YMMV.
Ping me next time after the 27th
I was at Vivide at the same time, if you want to meet up I'll buy you a beer.
[QUOTE=JMAbacus;5683489]Visited both clubs yesterday. Started at Vivide around 4:30. Maybe 25 girls. About a 50/50 split between AA and white. Did not notice any Latinas. Quality was mediocre. Found some AA ladies that seemed to fit the mold but most were new to Vivide. They really turn the ladies over in this club. Danced a spinner named Kiwi. She normally dances at Onyx. 5' 110 good body maybe 5. 5 on the face. Decent dances but just not over the top (like I prefer). Next up Chanel. Maybe 5'4 and 130. Good figure, pretty face give her a 7-8 on looks. Needed some mouthwash. It wasn't terrible but I just didn't have the energy to instruct her on what I wanted with this hygiene issue. Still let her try for about 4-5 songs to be polite. Dances were just so so. Bella was watching these dances from 5 feet away. When Chanel finished I went straight to her and said can you dance better than the last lady? She said oh hell yes. Another white lady jumped in and said this girl is good. Bella started twerking her very round ass immediately to demonstrate. Whoa whoa. I need XYZ type dances. High mileage and mutual touch. Said give her a try. White dancer said take her to VIP for some privacy. No, not in the mood and too old for full service today. Oh, you don't have to have sex. Just get some privacy. No, lets just see what she can do here. So Bella also dances at Blaze. 5' 3 and 135. Big round ass and nice legs. A+ cups with a little sag. Give her a 7 body and 5. 5 face. Nice lady. She did her best to please. Kat stayed in my face about half the time which was fine. Good roaming allowed. She just wasn't any good with Junior. She was interested in my OTC ability but I was pressed for time and have enough numbers. There were at least 2-3 more decent looking but I had to bounce around 6:00.
Strokers at 7:00 planning to see a friend and dance until 8:00. Nope. Friend was out of state on a minor emergency (I didn't text so that was on me). Maybe 25 ladies again. Of course all AA. Decent crowd. Started dancing Toni. Tall, thin, with a protruding stomach. Ex Follies and she is available. Plenty of nice looking women on hand but you know this is Strokers so the mileage is usually low. Toni did as much as she could. Said she didn't know how far she could push it in Strokers. Just say they were high contact dances. Multiple other dancers hitting on me. Rosie was a solid 8 spinner that would have danced next but got called on stage. OK, another "7" foaming at the mouth to get into my pocket. Things looking up. Then, as always, Strokers finds a way to screw up your vibe. DJ announces that the 5 dollar dances are ending at 7:30. Huh? Been here 30 times and it was always 8:00. Well WTF. Told 2-3 ladies that they had just missed me and I was heading out. Went back over and asked Toni about the $10 dances (no problem with a $10 dance for a regular length song). Asked do the songs get a little longer when the price changes? No, they are the same length. Around 9:00 they usually get even shorter. So, before I departed I noticed the back corner was dark and empty. Asked if she wanted to try and give me some better mileage on a few songs. She did try but couldn't fully express herself due to traffic around the table. So out the door I went a little after 8. Same Strokers. Good for some some low mileage day shift dances and maybe OTC as a general rule of thumb. And yes, was told I need to come to Vivide today for the Christmas party but I don't live in GA. If they can get men's room toilets and urinal functioning it should be a good time. If not, you may have to hold it and wait in a line. YMMV.[/QUOTE]
ATL today 12/28 for my birthday! New to ATL
Hey everyone!
Just moved to the region and I'm in ATL for the day by myself to celebrate my birthday. Coming from TN. I've been to Magic City before, but that's it. What clubs are known for higher mileage lap dances? I'm aware most clubs only offer table dances unless you're springing for the full VIP room. Ideally I'd prefer the traditional private dance on a per song basis without having to commit to a half hour etc, unless there are any clubs with a good deal? I'm an equal opportunity employer but would prefer to stick to the non African American-focused clubs today.
What clubs do you all recommend for a Tuesday daytime, and nighttime? Thinking I'll start my tour at Oasis around 2 pm today. Also, anyone want to join?
Dancer from Goldrush. Tyger Booty
This may belong in the news section or no section at all, but I thought I'd share it anyway. A girl I remember from Goldrush was found dead in a hotel room in Ghana. It is reported that she was flown over by an African Billionaire.
[URL]https://www.hiphoplately.com/ig-model-tyger-booty-dead-after-flying-to-africa-to-meet-billionaire/[/URL]
Hung out with her and a few friends a few times.