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Hey guys, been chatting with this girl and so far everything looks good. Will probably see her sometime this coming week.
Was wondering though if you guys have ever seen her? Any information on this one?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/608b6d54-a0df-4943-8dd3-bdd407db6d00[/URL]
Any of you fine gentlemen had this girl?
She seems to get thicker and thicker over the years. She's at a point where she's a bit too heavy for my liking.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4d952a11-af13-4ee8-995f-af1a16c10136[/URL]
[QUOTE=TSmithers24;5394453]I doubt many will read this all but I've had a ton of success on SA the past two years and wanted to write up how I've had success. This may not be the right site for this but whatever, I'm bored this morning. Might get roasted for this, might not but it has worked for me!
I have met with almost 20 women from the site over those two years and could've met with probably 10 more. I've also had 3 long term arrangements as well. Probably over half have been what some here call UTRs but I call real everyday beautiful young woman and they have been great! This is how I get THOSE women. If you are looking for STG types, don't read this and good luck. That's not why I'm writing this. This is just my personal experience and strategy and you may have a different one that works for you. Also, this takes a lot of time that you may not have. There are some women that want to get right to the point and if so, I do and will meet them quickly if the price is right. Again, this is not for them but I still go through the beginning part of this process to get them comfortable. Most are much more willing to go lower than what they want with someone they feel comfortable with! My range is 2-4 per meet and have had a lot of success with that with some really hot women and some just above average but I could tell that they would be a great time. Haha!
Here goes. YMMV!
I join the site usually every 6-8 months or so and during that time I build a literal spreadsheet of names and numbers that I get. I start by sending tons and tons of messages to women I'm interested in. It takes time but I read their profiles, mention something from it, explain I have experience, say I'm looking for something long term and ask them to review my profile. The message is very polite, not too long but not just "how are you". My profile is detailed and has the description of a real sugar daddy looking for something long term, which I am but also will do one time meets but don't say that there. Most of these women want to think they are getting what they read about, a real sugar daddy to "take care of them". They don't want to feel like hookers. This is all to get the conversation started and when it does I don't talk about sex or how much or anything like that (unless they do) and just try to have a fun conversation. I am overly nice during this time, compliment them a lot and try to make them laugh or smile. I get a lot of "awww, you're so sweet" and "You aren't like the other guys on here" comments. This gets them to drop their guard a little because they finally met one of the nice guys on SA after so many "How much for how long? "Do you do anal? "Lets meet tonight? The good ones want to be wooed.
When they ask what I'm looking for I say I like to start with per meet and have two to three dates per month. I like fun dates like dinners and drinks, shopping, outdoor activities and even weekend trips later in the arrangement and that once we build trust we can move to an allowance that works for both of us. Then I say that all my previous arrangements involved intimacy as well (I never use the term sex or anything like that just intimacy). Then I ask if that is all OK with them. Some will say sounds good but for how much and I'll ask them to move to text to have the money conversation at this point. Some will say yes and nothing else and I'll also ask to go to text so we can get to know each other further and discuss more.
When we get to text I don't go right into how much or details about what sexual stuff they are OK with unless they ask. I continue just being nice, asking about them, telling them about me, telling them about my previous long term arrangements and other stuff. After a bit of that, it's time to talk money. By this time she is already drawn in. She already knows she's dealing with a normal good guy and not an asshole who's going to just use and abuse her but instead someone who will hopefully stick around for a while. So when she says 4 or 5 or even 6-7 to meet and I say 2-3 she is much more likely to say OK or meet closer to my number because she's comfortable. Some understand that in the end she will get a lot more from one guy over time and have stability. She might get that 4-7 per meet from someone else but will have to meet with a bunch of different guys, deal with the asshole aspect on SA, that danger aspect of meeting many and the money will be more sporadic. The ones who don't realize it, I will actually say that to them and sell them on that point of stability and long term for less and it usually works but some call bullshit saying we'll meet once for low amount and I'll bolt and it's hard to get past. If they agree and they are comfortable, you can read if it's the right time to talk more sexually with them. Most will be good with it and it moves everything along.
Then I ask for a date since we've talked enough where they mostly trust me and we've had some sexual conversations and they know that the first date will end in a room. This whole process saves me from doing a bunch of meet and greets. If I think it's someone I want to start something with then I will do a little something extra for the date. One thing I've found they really like is to find out their favorite drink and then make it in the room for them. We then usually have a great and really comfortable date because of the connection we built in text. In some cases we even skip the outside stuff and I'll bring drinks and order food to the room. Most of my in room time lasts from 3-5 hours and even spent 7 hours with one woman, which was awesome. After the date, it's up in the air how it goes. Sometimes we start something, sometimes we won't. Sometimes I will see them again, sometimes I won't, sometimes they want to see me again, sometimes they won't. Either way it was a great night with a beautiful young lady for the amount I'm looking for.
Key terms to use: arrangement, intimacy, connection, trust.
Be nice, be respectful, treat like you would a woman you are trying to make your girlfriend and you will get very far.
Yes, it's a lot of work but to me personally it's worth it. I enjoy the hunt and getting to know these young women. That's not for everyone. I like the longer term stuff while sprinkling in some one nighters for some variety. For those that read this far, I'm surprised but glad you did.[/QUOTE]Since I'm considering my initial SD / SA foray, I literally can't thank you enough for this post. The convenient thing about STG is simplicity if nothing else. But the risks are starting to outweigh the benefits. So. Here we go. Off into SD / SA world. Thanks again captain!
Priceless is realizing after several double takes that really hot looking girl you've been noticing on Facebook over the last month actually has a profile on Seeking. Unfortunately, I let my premium membership expire last month so I may have to renew it sooner rather than later. Wish me luck.
Cece is DTF and can drive to Hartford.
Her profile pictures are probably 5 years younger, and 20-30 pounds lighter. She's a pretty chill girl and a quick / easy meet up, but I personally wouldn't repeat.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f27de220-a844-461e-89b6-5d47a8f043be[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/059abda7-13fe-437f-baa2-bdc9d259c13a[/URL]
Very nice looking and friendly. Poo.
[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;5884326][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/059abda7-13fe-437f-baa2-bdc9d259c13a[/URL]
Very nice looking and friendly. Poo.[/QUOTE][URL]https://avatars.mds.yandex.net/i?id=f749bfa12e70cbec5b77bc57a9425c0b-5606130-images-thumbs&n=13&exp=1[/URL]
Fake profile. Google: "Brit Porn **** Victoria May" I generally stay away from anything with a Connecticut, Connecticut type of location.
[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;5884326][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/059abda7-13fe-437f-baa2-bdc9d259c13a[/URL]
Very nice looking and friendly. Poo.[/QUOTE]I received an unsolicited pm from her today with her NYC number and letting me know she's ready to get together for some fun. That, and the fact that she's only been online since yesterday, are typically red flags for me but I would be very interested if you find otherwise.
[QUOTE=OldPup;5884954]I received an unsolicited pm from her today with her NYC number and letting me know she's ready to get together for some fun. That, and the fact that she's only been online since yesterday, are typically red flags for me but I would be very interested if you find otherwise.[/QUOTE]Was told by her she is living with her sister in Fairfield. Probably fake. Poo.
[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;5884326][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/059abda7-13fe-437f-baa2-bdc9d259c13a[/URL]
Very nice looking and friendly. Poo.[/QUOTE]Have not.
Take her to the FC and report back.
I am going to be signing up for SA for the first Time this week. I was wondering roughly (pm open to this one) what is everyone spending per week? I have been active on the Reddit subs and I have been getting a general idea. I was curious what the Hartford area is spending. Asking as I don't want to me the one guy who is overpaying and fucking it up for the rest. TIA.
[QUOTE=ThatWhiteGuy12;5899587]I am going to be signing up for SA for the first Time this week. I was wondering roughly (pm open to this one) what is everyone spending per week? I have been active on the Reddit subs and I have been getting a general idea. I was curious what the Hartford area is spending. Asking as I don't want to me the one guy who is overpaying and fucking it up for the rest. TIA.[/QUOTE]The UTR and Girl Next Door (GND) types have become few and far between. The gems are there but it take a lot more work and filtering than 1-3 years ago due to the spammers and scammers. Likewise, donations run from 100 to 1000+. You'd be doing well to find a gem (non-pro) for 200 per meet. For 300 and up, might as well go the pro route. Don't pay for meet and greets and certainly NO deposits.
Read the posts here also to get a feel for SA hints and methods.
BMD.
Agree with BMD, its a slog to find the gems. Morw gakes and scammers there now than I have ever seen.
There are some real ones out there. Pretty much 250-300 ppm will be the norm. Most want you to host, so, its up to you what your budget is.
Anyone asking for money up front in any form or wants to only talk on whatsapp, run away, they are scammers.
[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5899621]The UTR and Girl Next Door (GND) types have become few and far between. The gems are there but it take a lot more work and filtering than 1-3 years ago due to the spammers and scammers. Likewise, donations run from 100 to 1000+. You'd be doing well to find a gem (non-pro) for 200 per meet. For 300 and up, might as well go the pro route. Don't pay for meet and greets and certainly NO deposits.
Read the posts here also to get a feel for SA hints and methods.
BMD.[/QUOTE]Just like your review today in the Hartford escort section, thank you again for your knowledge. I'm going to go for it and sign up. Hosting is going to be an issues but I'll see what I can do.
[QUOTE=XxMarkXx;5900066]Agree with BMD, its a slog to find the gems. Morw gakes and scammers there now than I have ever seen.
There are some real ones out there. Pretty much 250-300 ppm will be the norm. Most want you to host, so, its up to you what your budget is.
Anyone asking for money up front in any form or wants to only talk on whatsapp, run away, they are scammers.[/QUOTE]Yeah the WhatsApp scams suck ass. Thanks for the information.