Deception and false advertising are 2 different things
[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;4263462]Her pictures on Eros have not been updated for at least 7 years. Unless she has discovered the fountain of youth or undergone a massive amount of plastic surgery to remain unaged her 7+ year old long ago yesteryear pictures are deceptive. Yes or no?
[URL]https://www.eros.com/ohio/files/326643.htm?cat=1[/URL][/QUOTE]All of the women in this business are selling an illusion, or a deception, if you will. She's young enough that there haven't been many changes to her looks since those photo were posted to her Eros profile. Someone brought up how because she blurred her face in the photos you cannot tell if it's pockmarked. I assure you that it isn't. Her face is blemish free, and her body shape hasn't changed. So are her old photos a misrepresentation? No. And yes. No, because if you pony up your 5 or more Benjamin's, an angel faced blonde with a bombshell figure is who is going to meet you. Yes, because if you don't care for tattoos, you are not going to like her brightly colored body art, and you cannot gauge how many tattoos she has, nor the nature of their designs, because they have been airbrushed out of her photos. If the root cause of the complaint is that you simply want to see more photos than in her Eros profile, look up her website or find her on twitter or other social media.
Waves His Hand in the Air
My portfolio of provider pics is pretty good and I am reasonably priced, plus I have been doing Photoshop for over 20 years, so tats ain't no big thing to fix.
IMHO providers follow the lead of the mentor, pimp or madam who turned them out. Her "Aunt" was, or could be still now, a high end lady with heavily edited pics.
Like a leopard, she ain't changing her spots.
[QUOTE=DNut;4269895]Let me see if I can shorten your answer. A 7 day old blur will still look like 7 year old blur because so much Photoshoping was used on the original blur. Seriously, why even bother using pics? Just post a photo of a smudge.
P.S.- at the rates she's charging, she should be able to afford to do another photoshoot and editing at least once every couple of years. Is that really too much to expect from a $500 per hour provider?[/QUOTE]
Best site for reviews now that TER is gone?
USAi is a great resource, but I really miss TER, especially when the more expensive travelling ladies come through. What review sites do folks here recommend? I've heard some good things about Erotic Monkey. Thoughts?
The good dr.
I guess things have changed
After dealing with personal relationship issues I took a nice good under my wing. She was already licensed but nothing underground. I thought I'd tip her off to our underworld an after a month or so I have to say I'm kinda shocked at some of the questions and things said. I always experienced such professional very experienced mongers. Hers are either younger maybe or new to this life style or maybe it's just different people or personalities we attract. I miss why'all I have a new number just inbox me. Her clients are so not on the level to my experience so I just wanted to ask what makes everyone treat certain girls a certain way and treat others another.
RaiderKid24's Post About Me.
I am posting this in the Octagon because my response in the USAAC Review forum was not approved and I was told to take it to the Octagon where you can say anything.
I have a transcript of our texts, but I feel that it would be inappropriate to post them all here in the open since texts are considered private. They also contain his home address in Youngstown, which is definitely against the rules.
What follows is my response to his post. I will write the response after each statement he makes separated by blank lines.
"Jesse Jane.
Booked a travel extended stay with your guys beloved jj. Set it up yesterday texted back and fourth and called to confirm our apt when she asked and she told me she would text me in the am when she was on her way. ".
First of all nothing was confirmed. We did some texting back and forth but I never confirmed anything.
"Little to my surprise she ghosted me!! Kinda had a feeling she wasn't going to come up to see me as I am close to the Akron area, but she quoted me a nice chunk of change to travel up here for a few hrs, which I agreed to only bv her staller reviews and great pics".
I never "ghosted him". I replied to him, but when I asked him to call he never did. If you read my ads I always want a phone call confirming our appointment. In this case I wanted to talk at length about expectations. I did not give him a rate, HE told ME "2 hours for $1200. " Then he had the balls to want BBFS. I don't do that with anyone for 10 times that money. Also in order for me to accept any appointment that is 4+ hours away I would want to get a deposit. I have guys cancel and no show me in my own town, why would I go 9 hours round trip and not have some solid money? My biggest regret is that I didn't block him as soon as he requested, or I should say, demanded, BBFS. This reply would have been a lot shorter because I could have just posted, "He requested BBFS so I blocked him."
"I've seen throughout your guys thread was a little hesitant bc of the no face thing, but agreed never the less!"
I agreed to share face pics, but I wasn't going to send mine without me getting his first. He never sent it. Keep in mind, he is an unknown to me, why should I trust him at this point. I did look up his posts in the Akron forums and the ladies he sees are not of my caliber. I know one of them personally and she is an old, drug addicted hooker from Columbus. Most of the others look like SWs with cell phones who now advertise.
"after she ghosted me she had the nerve to tell me its bc I did pay her travel deposit LOL. Maybe that's something she should have mention during our texts or phone conversation. But her ad CLEARLY STATES. She doesn't do that ever and she pays her own way!"
The travel deposit was what we would have discussed IF he had called me when I asked. The wording in my ad about my up-charge for outcall is somewhat confusing and will be edited to be more simplistic for idiots who can't spell or comprehend what they read. I did some research, taking an UBER to Youngstown (I don't currently have a car) would have cost about $500 round trip. Then I would have to come up with a "travel time rate. " My current USASG Senior rate is $200 and hour. If I would charge one fourth of that, $50, per hour, that would add $450. You tell me what you think is fare? Remember since I am traveling 9 hours, I am losing a whole day of income (unless the Uber driver pays me for multiple car dates. Fat chance.).
"Guess I saved a good amount of money but she's might be hot but she's DEF FULL OF SHIT!
He did not save a "good amount of money" because after texting with him I became suspicious of whether he was real or not. You only "save" money when you truly intended to spend the money. I feel that I saved a ton of aggravation and wasted time for no money by not going forward with the appointment. I was not persistent with my texts, but he was.
After looking up his address on Google Maps and saw his house I knew deep in my soul that he was just a time waster and would try to screw me by not paying me.
If you are someone who I have seen and you don't believe my side of the story without evidence, send me an email and I will send the transcript. I will of course redact his address, though I am thinking about downloading the Google Maps pic of the place. You can be the judge if someone who lives in a house like his would really pay the amount of money it would take for me to make that trip.
That is my side of the story.
I have been back on the board about six months. I had taken a three year hiatus from the hobby for personal reasons. In those three years this business that we call "The Hobby" has changed dramatically for the worse. In the old days men would actually show up for their appointments. Now I generally don't get my room until I have had that one hour prior phone conversation. There have been numerous times in the last six months that I had the confirming phone call only to be cancelled on just before the appointed time or worse I get NCNS. I realize that life does get in the way. Hobbyists complain when something comes up and the provider has to cancel, but these cancellations have become so common I begin to question whether the hobbyist really wasn't just playing games.
I am sure that this reply will get some posts about me having "GPS" but I feel that my attitude about NCNS and cancellations is because I respect my time, my efforts to be your fantasy date and how much I do to make you happy. Men complain when NCNS and ghosting causes them to not get there "stress relieved" but what are they out? Just their time. When a appointment cancels or NCNS a provider it is probably costing her hard cash and if we complain or out those that cancel or NCNS on us we are lambasted. I often am astonished when a hobbyist brags that he had his "backup plan" then he will ***** when a provider has her "backup plan" that leads to a double booking.
For me the Lack of Respect for each other is the root cause for instances like this. If we would try to be empathetic to the other party, much of the drama would be avoided.
I love that I have been able to reconnect with some old friends after my return and I am grateful that I have made some new ones too. I just hope that RaiderKid24's post about me can be seen as what it is, a little man's crying about not getting his way.
XXXOOOXXX.
JJ.
Tell him to take the next flight.
[QUOTE=JesseJane;4290038]I am posting this in the Octagon because my response in the USAAC Review forum was not approved and I was told to take it to the Octagon where you can say anything.
I have a transcript of our texts, but I feel that it would be inappropriate to post them all here in the open since texts are considered private. They also contain his home address in Youngstown, which is definitely against the rules.
What follows is my response to his post. I will write the response after each statement he makes separated by blank lines..[/QUOTE]You would have t be crazy to go that far, this guy is obviously playing you. If I were in your shoes, I'd stay local, it's not that hard to figure out.
If this guy has that much money, tell him to take the next plane down to see you.
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