High Point

[QUOTE=DisturbedOne;5744395]So our little Selena got me tonight for a decent amount. Yes I know, never pay them ahead, never give them anything until after the deed is done. It was my fault and I even stated in our conversations that I knew she was going to do this and she promised up and down not too. I was just thinking with the wrong head. Its been a month since I've been laid and I just got out of a 5 year relationship with a woman I thought I was going to marry. Anyways, I cashapped her a total of $140 for an outcall and low and behold she never shows up. I call her number and it says the phone has been disconnected. I call her from another number and it rings and goes to voicemail. I text her and let her know I'm going to post this and that sje has lost out on alot of money from me in the future, she starts coming up with a tin of excuses. Final thing is she will be here tonight or tomorrow. Nope I doubt that. My first real attempt back into the hobby in 5 years and this shit happens. I had seen Selena before, well before I committed myself to the woman I was with for 5 years, never thought she would do this. Guess the call of the demons was too strong. I would advoid her from now on.

Here is her most recent ad.

[URL]https://highpoint.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/lucious-lenaread-full-add-plsl/773430051378[/URL]

If I knew how to upload pics I would upload the pics from her ad as well. Oh well lesson learned.[/QUOTE]My man why are you overpaying 140 in rose damage what the hell is your deal. She lets me see her for 30 almost every day.

[QUOTE=DisturbedOne;5744395]So our little Selena got me tonight for a decent amount. Yes I know, never pay them ahead, never give them anything until after the deed is done. It was my fault and I even stated in our conversations that I knew she was going to do this and she promised up and down not too. I was just thinking with the wrong head. Its been a month since I've been laid and I just got out of a 5 year relationship with a woman I thought I was going to marry. Anyways, I cashapped her a total of $140 for an outcall and low and behold she never shows up. I call her number and it says the phone has been disconnected. I call her from another number and it rings and goes to voicemail. I text her and let her know I'm going to post this and that sje has lost out on alot of money from me in the future, she starts coming up with a tin of excuses. Final thing is she will be here tonight or tomorrow. Nope I doubt that. My first real attempt back into the hobby in 5 years and this shit happens. I had seen Selena before, well before I committed myself to the woman I was with for 5 years, never thought she would do this. Guess the call of the demons was too strong. I would advoid her from now on.

Here is her most recent ad.

[URL]https://highpoint.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/lucious-lenaread-full-add-plsl/773430051378[/URL]

If I knew how to upload pics I would upload the pics from her ad as well. Oh well lesson learned.[/QUOTE]Never ever ever pay a deposit, ever. You know better!

[QUOTE=DisturbedOne;5744395]So our little Selena got me tonight for a decent amount. Yes I know, never pay them ahead, never give them anything until after the deed is done. It was my fault and I even stated in our conversations that I knew she was going to do this and she promised up and down not too. I was just thinking with the wrong head. Its been a month since I've been laid and I just got out of a 5 year relationship with a woman I thought I was going to marry. Anyways, I cashapped her a total of $140 for an outcall and low and behold she never shows up. I call her number and it says the phone has been disconnected. I call her from another number and it rings and goes to voicemail. I text her and let her know I'm going to post this and that sje has lost out on alot of money from me in the future, she starts coming up with a tin of excuses. Final thing is she will be here tonight or tomorrow. Nope I doubt that. My first real attempt back into the hobby in 5 years and this shit happens. I had seen Selena before, well before I committed myself to the woman I was with for 5 years, never thought she would do this. Guess the call of the demons was too strong. I would advoid her from now on.

Here is her most recent ad.

[URL]https://highpoint.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/lucious-lenaread-full-add-plsl/773430051378[/URL]

If I knew how to upload pics I would upload the pics from her ad as well. Oh well lesson learned.[/QUOTE]Story of Deposits always has the same unhappy ending!

[URL]https://highpoint.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/exotic/idc-smh-hit-me-if-u-dare-lol/302585875580[/URL]

Trying to see if anyone has seen her and any I formation is appreciated.

[QUOTE=Millenium2542;5746753][URL]https://highpoint.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/exotic/idc-smh-hit-me-if-u-dare-lol/302585875580[/URL]

Trying to see if anyone has seen her and any I formation is appreciated.[/QUOTE]See my post #9769 in the greensboro escorts for a quick rundown. I did not repeat.

[QUOTE=DisturbedOne;5744395]So our little Selena got me tonight for a decent amount. Yes I know, never pay them ahead, never give them anything until after the deed is done. It was my fault and I even stated in our conversations that I knew she was going to do this and she promised up and down not too. I was just thinking with the wrong head. Its been a month since I've been laid and I just got out of a 5 year relationship with a woman I thought I was going to marry. Anyways, I cashapped her a total of $140 for an outcall and low and behold she never shows up. I call her number and it says the phone has been disconnected. I call her from another number and it rings and goes to voicemail. I text her and let her know I'm going to post this and that sje has lost out on alot of money from me in the future, she starts coming up with a tin of excuses. Final thing is she will be here tonight or tomorrow. Nope I doubt that. My first real attempt back into the hobby in 5 years and this shit happens. I had seen Selena before, well before I committed myself to the woman I was with for 5 years, never thought she would do this. Guess the call of the demons was too strong. I would advoid her from now on.

Here is her most recent ad.

[URL]https://highpoint.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/lucious-lenaread-full-add-plsl/773430051378[/URL]

If I knew how to upload pics I would upload the pics from her ad as well. Oh well lesson learned.[/QUOTE]Sorry about that. Chalk that up as lesson learned. I used to see Selena for no money, just party to play. I quit seeing her when she fell asleep during BBBJ.

[QUOTE=DisturbedOne;5744395]So our little Selena got me tonight for a decent amount. Yes I know, never pay them ahead, never give them anything until after the deed is done. It was my fault and I even stated in our conversations that I knew she was going to do this and she promised up and down not too. I was just thinking with the wrong head. Its been a month since I've been laid and I just got out of a 5 year relationship with a woman I thought I was going to marry. Anyways, I cashapped her a total of $140 for an outcall and low and behold she never shows up. I call her number and it says the phone has been disconnected. I call her from another number and it rings and goes to voicemail. I text her and let her know I'm going to post this and that sje has lost out on alot of money from me in the future, she starts coming up with a tin of excuses. Final thing is she will be here tonight or tomorrow. Nope I doubt that. My first real attempt back into the hobby in 5 years and this shit happens. I had seen Selena before, well before I committed myself to the woman I was with for 5 years, never thought she would do this. Guess the call of the demons was too strong. I would advoid her from now on.

Here is her most recent ad.

[URL]https://highpoint.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/lucious-lenaread-full-add-plsl/773430051378[/URL]

If I knew how to upload pics I would upload the pics from her ad as well. Oh well lesson learned.[/QUOTE]I'm glad you posted this about Selena because people need to know. I've never met Selena personally, and I'm glad I didn't. If it's one thing I hate in this hobby, it's a ripoff.

I'm not from high point, but I drove through there a couple of weeks ago to see who was out, and saw ripoff queen Caroyln H, and a black SW out at the intersection of Martin St, and Willis St (basically a street over from Cassell St). Definitely not someone I was wanting to see again. It reminded me of why I quit this hobby, just as reading about your experience with Selena did. There are rip-offs out there, and it just isn't one person, or an experience that could only happen once.

Years ago, I picked up Carolyn H, of whom I later refer to as the "Nightmare on Elm Street" (because that's where I had picked her up at, and that's how it went). I also refer to her as "meatloaf" because that's what I think of her body. Anyway, when I picked her up, she demanded money, I gave her some, and then without having done anything to earn the money I had already generously given her, demanded even more, and wouldn't get out of my car for like an hour after being asked to. Even after having driven her back to the spot she wanted to be dropped off at. It was so bad, I was worried she was going to pull out a knife on me, and stab me with it. And then who knows what I might have had to do to defend myself. All over some stupid shit.

Now, from what I know of Selena, she isn't nearly as bad as Carolyn H, but a ripoff is still a ripoff, and why I don't monger anymore. I just don't need the BS. On a side note, I read Selena's latest ad on SkipTheGames, and some of the things people like her post in her ads just strike me as hilarious such as:

[URL]https://highpoint.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/lucious-lenaread-full-add-plsl/773430051378[/URL]

1.) "Only text me if you are ready to see me",
2.) "If you respect me, I will respect you",
3.) "I don't have time to waste just like you don't have time to waste".

She's definitely full of it. If I didn't know any better when reading her ad, I would think she's just a decent person that wants to be treated in a decent way. But in actuality, I'd say a lot of people like her deserve every bit of poor treatment they get, and then some more.

[QUOTE=DisturbedOne;5744395]

Here is her most recent ad.

[URL]https://highpoint.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/lucious-lenaread-full-add-plsl/773430051378[/URL]

If I knew how to upload pics I would upload the pics from her ad as well. Oh well lesson learned.[/QUOTE]Just thought I'd help you out by uploading her pictures for you, and for any mongers that don't know what she looks like.

[QUOTE=SlutsLover;5744836]No disrespect to you sir, but I don't feel sorry, you are a senior member of this forum, you must know the ropes and basics on this hobby, now if you was a newbie or if you was assaulted things would be different, hopefully you have learned the lesson this time.[/QUOTE]Granted, paying up front isn't the brightest idea a monger could have, a scum bag thief is still a scum bag thief. Even if a monger made a poor choice.

[QUOTE=Jammer434;5748937]I'm glad you posted this about Selena because people need to know. I've never met Selena personally, and I'm glad I didn't. If it's one thing I hate in this hobby, it's a ripoff.

I'm not from high point, but I drove through there a couple of weeks ago to see who was out, and saw ripoff queen Caroyln H, and a black SW out at the intersection of Martin St, and Willis St (basically a street over from Cassell St). Definitely not someone I was wanting to see again. It reminded me of why I quit this hobby, just as reading about your experience with Selena did. There are rip-offs out there, and it just isn't one person, or an experience that could only happen once.

Years ago, I picked up Carolyn H, of whom I later refer to as the "Nightmare on Elm Street" (because that's where I had picked her up at, and that's how it went). I also refer to her as "meatloaf" because that's what I think of her body. Anyway, when I picked her up, she demanded money, I gave her some, and then without having done anything to earn the money I had already generously given her, demanded even more, and wouldn't get out of my car for like an hour after being asked to. Even after having driven her back to the spot she wanted to be dropped off at. It was so bad, I was worried she was going to pull out a knife on me, and stab me with it. And then who knows what I might have had to do to defend myself. All over some stupid shit.

Now, from what I know of Selena, she isn't nearly as bad as Carolyn H, but a ripoff is still a ripoff, and why I don't monger anymore. I just don't need the BS. On a side note, I read Selena's latest ad on SkipTheGames, and some of the things people like her post in her ads just strike me as hilarious such as:.[/QUOTE]Years ago I use to have them try this type of crap with me I would just say fine let's drive to the police station, or hey you can ride back with me to the town I just drove from then and walk back to high point and I will start heading out of town they change their mind real quick like, but yeah pull up in the Police station and I guarantee the B* will get out LOL, holler to a cop hey I was giving this B* a ride and now she won't get out of my car unless I give her money, but yeah just telling her you will go there and start driving that way, they will usually change their tune real quick.

[QUOTE=HardWhite;5749094]Years ago I use to have them try this type of crap with me I would just say fine let's drive to the police station, or hey you can ride back with me to the town I just drove from then and walk back to high point and I will start heading out of town they change their mind real quick like, but yeah pull up in the Police station and I guarantee the B* will get out LOL, holler to a cop hey I was giving this B* a ride and now she won't get out of my car unless I give her money, but yeah just telling her you will go there and start driving that way, they will usually change their tune real quick.[/QUOTE]I wish I could have been confident that, that would have worked. The idea did go through my head, but I had also heard of a rumor that Carolyn H has been known to suck off the cops too, and the last thing I'd want is for one of the cops to take her side, or even if they didn't, to become suspected of anything by them by having a known prostitute in my car. As it is, I have had no encounters with High Point's police, and am unknown to them. That's how I'd prefer to generally keep it. I'd also be afraid that it might not have phased her any, as she seemed to have nerves of steel to act the way she did. For all she could have known, I might have had a knife, or gun on me, and here she was asking for it by not getting out of my car, and making me feel like my life might be threatened. She even had asked me if I would be okay with having murder on my record, and tried going through my glove box to find documents with my legal name, such as registration, insurance, etc. And all I was wanting was her to do was get the fuck out of my car. I wasn't looking to hurt anyone. I gave her money, and I drove to her drop off location. So in my mind, she really had no excuse not to get out of my car. And going to the police station was one of the things that went through my mind, but like I said, it also went through my mind how I could do that, and the situation still not go my way.

I think with most people, you are right though. That probably would work to get them out of your car. But with Carolyn H, I think she might be an exception to the rule as she did not seem to want to back down easily. In fact, if it weren't for her drug dealer, pimp, or whoever it was blowing up her phone while she was with me to hurry up with the money, she probably would have kept at it, and things might have actually escalated instead of her giving up, and getting out of the car with an attitude, and telling me I better never pick her up again. Like why in the hell would I ever want to?

Now comparing that to Selena, I would have rather sent Selena money by mistake than to have had that encounter with Carolyn H, because that encounter had a lot of potential to end a lot more badly than what it actually did.

I've passed many girls because I've only seen her once. So I'm not really sure what she looks like because it was raining and she had her hood up. She got me too, ended up taking me for 40, but again I dropped her off and it was pouring. But I'm sure that was a temporary set back for her. And she spent my cash quickly. Wish I knew what she looked like these days. I saw her about 4 years ago now. Also seen Ashley T was posting on STG. Saw her for a qv. Was ok. Missed the days she walked the block. She was a real pleaser when I saw her those days. Now she's lost a step but I'll still see her if I get another chance.

[QUOTE=Jammer434;5749292]I wish I could have been confident that, that would have worked. The idea did go through my head, but I had also heard of a rumor that Carolyn H has been known to suck off the cops too, and the last thing I'd want is for one of the cops to take her side, or even if they didn't, to become suspected of anything by them by having a known prostitute in my car. As it is, I have had no encounters with High Point's police, and am unknown to them. That's how I'd prefer to generally keep it. I'd also be afraid that it might not have phased her any, as she seemed to have nerves of steel to act the way she did. For all she could have known, I might have had a knife, or gun on me, and here she was asking for it by not getting out of my car, and making me feel like my life might be threatened. She even had asked me if I would be okay with having murder on my record, and tried going through my glove box to find documents with my legal name, such as registration, insurance, etc. And all I was wanting was her to do was get the fuck out of my car. I wasn't looking to hurt anyone. I gave her money, and I drove to her drop off location. So in my mind, she really had no excuse not to get out of my car. And going to the police station was one of the things that went through my mind, but like I said, it also went through my mind how I could do that, and the situation still not go my way.

I think with most people, you are right though. That probably would work to get them out of your car. But with Carolyn H, I think she might be an exception to the rule as she did not seem to want to back down easily. In fact, if it weren't for her drug dealer, pimp, or whoever it was blowing up her phone while she was with me to hurry up with the money, she probably would have kept at it, and things might have actually escalated instead of her giving up, and getting out of the car with an attitude, and telling me I better never pick her up again. Like why in the hell would I ever want to?

Now comparing that to Selena, I would have rather sent Selena money by mistake than to have had that encounter with Carolyn H, because that encounter had a lot of potential to end a lot more badly than what it actually did.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DisturbedOne;5744912]No disrespect is taken. I've been out of the hobby for about 5 years and I've read everything on here in that time. Oh well, lesson learned. Just figured I would pass the info on to everyone else. I will probably be just going the sugar baby route from now. All the options for the tyoe of women I prefer, spinners, suck. It really is a different scene now then it was 5 years ago. It is a shame that they have to do stupid shit like this. It ruins it for everyone. She could have made so much more money then what she got last night just by being honest and not a scumbag thief.[/QUOTE]Most of us have been taken one way or another. Lesson learned.

My rules, and I only have a few,1) never five a deposit. She needs what's in my wallet, way more than what's in her panties.

2) outcall to me only, I can't control the environment if I go to her place, I. E. Bf in bathroom, other part of house, no fucking way. If she looks strung out when she gets to me, I kick her to the curb, trust me, she won't deal with the law being high, and if she sends her bf, I have a few 9 mm rounds that need to be expended. I'm not afraid to unload if I have to.

4) OK forget 4.

5) never negotiate via voice or text, voice can be recorded, and text is recorded as to text, I tell her I want an hour of her time, then discuss details after she arrives.

Remember, you are always in control, keep it that way.

[QUOTE=MyBudFang;5749808]Most of us have been taken one way or another. Lesson learned.

My rules, and I only have a few,1) never five a deposit. She needs what's in my wallet, way more than what's in her panties.

2) outcall to me only, I can't control the environment if I go to her place, I. E. Bf in bathroom, other part of house, no fucking way. If she looks strung out when she gets to me, I kick her to the curb, trust me, she won't deal with the law being high, and if she sends her bf, I have a few 9 mm rounds that need to be expended. I'm not afraid to unload if I have to.

4) OK forget 4.

5) never negotiate via voice or text, voice can be recorded, and text is recorded as to text, I tell her I want an hour of her time, then discuss details after she arrives.

Remember, you are always in control, keep it that way.[/QUOTE]The only reason I had even agreed to the deposit was because I was living about 1 1/2 hours away. She said some shit about her kids and everything. I have kids and know what its like. Plus I had a bit of alcohol in me so I was like fuck it. But I agrer with the outcall only statement. I have my 9 mm with me always plus I have my 5. 56 at the house if it needs to come out with anybody who does not get the point. Whether it was Selena or her bf who sent the texts I won't know, yet. I did tell her in the last text I sent after I realized that she fucking scammed me that look I know what you look like, I know who you are, you don't know remember what I look like. It will not be today but one day I will see you and get my money back. Let her wonder if whoever calls her or picks her up from the street is me or not.

[QUOTE=DisturbedOne;5750767]The only reason I had even agreed to the deposit was because I was living about 1 1/2 hours away. She said some shit about her kids and everything. I have kids and know what its like. Plus I had a bit of alcohol in me so I was like fuck it. But I agrer with the outcall only statement. I have my 9 mm with me always plus I have my 5. 56 at the house if it needs to come out with anybody who does not get the point. Whether it was Selena or her bf who sent the texts I won't know, yet. I did tell her in the last text I sent after I realized that she fucking scammed me that look I know what you look like, I know who you are, you don't know remember what I look like. It will not be today but one day I will see you and get my money back. Let her wonder if whoever calls her or picks her up from the street is me or not.[/QUOTE]I actually did get revenge on a girl a couple years ago. She wanted me to take her to the store, then when we got back she pulled the, I have to get another room excuse. I wasn't going for it at first, then she cut the amount of cash down to 30 so, I have in. She around front to the office area, and took off. I was so pissed, I need it was going to happen but did it anyway. I texted her a few weeks later from another number, and got a visit. She tried the same scam again, and didn't even remember my face. This time when we got back to the motel, I told her I wasn't giving her shit, until she performed. She made some calls, and borrowed a room. We went and she started on the BBBJ, then she climbed on for some cowgirl till finished. I got up, got dressed, and started to the door, and she asked for her donation. That's when I said, you it last time we met. She played dumb, and I told where it was, and how it all went down, and told her to fuck off. Then she started looking out the window saying the guy outside wasn't going to be too happy so, I showed her a little glimpse of my 9 grip, and walked out the door. There wasnt anybody there. There was a few people in the parking lot, and they didn't act like they were wanting to know what was going on either. She was desperate and trying all kinds of angles. I got my QV for 30, it just took me a few weeks to get it, after the scam.