"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=AliasSM;1381051]I think several of these girls may be pros in disguise, so landing 50% may in fact be attainable, just not leading to any future LT relationships.[/QUOTE]Alias,

I would never tell another brother what he should do, but may I suggest you try to resist the temptation of fishing for this kind of baby? If they [I]are[/I] pros, they will take your bait no matter how badly you thrash the water. Where's the challenge in that?

Perhaps keep the ones you suspect on reserve, or schedule them for the end of your shore leave, and only follow through if you are unsuccessful in landing anything more challenging. Again, please forgive advice given where it is not sought, but I was "tricked" once or twice, and they are not my fondest of memories.

I know I speak for us all when I say we eagerly await your play-by-play report.

Scott

Scott, I've known a few bigger women in my time, and the attraction was never really there for me. Worse, every time I thought to ignore my past experience and 'give it the old college try', the experience has been less than great. Maybe we all have our own wants in a woman, but for me, one that just lays there is no where near as enjoyable as one that gets into the action. Last night's SB was definitely a non-participant, no matter how I tried to encourage her to be otherwise. I don't know, maybe fishing the Back of the Pages has ruined my appreciation of what women can be, or spoilt me into thinking that I need a slender, fairly tight-bodied woman to enjoy myself. All I know for sure is I'll be fishing the SA profiles some more, hoping to find someone else to hook up with.

[QUOTE=Castlerae;1381415]Last night's SB was definitely a non-participant, no matter how I tried to encourage her to be otherwise. I don't know, maybe fishing the Back of the Pages has ruined my appreciation of what women can be.[/QUOTE]This is a potential downside of these young gals, especially those that might be a little frumpy and lack the experience. Give me a hot 30 something babe that has learned what she likes, as well as what her man needs. Yippee. I realize that there are some youngins out there that have it figured out, but they are tougher to corner, so I usually stick with the mature MILF for this very reason. Each to his own, as they say.

Scott,

In my younger know-it-all life, I may have resented advice from the pros, but now humbly appreciate the words of wisdom. After all, it is you, Lit, and Nando that have inspired me to pursue this route and get off the pro / SW track I was once on.

I may be way to optimistic about next week, but so far the stars are lining up pretty well. 2 that want to meet have been emailing me for a couple of weeks now. They both are likely in that heavy category judging from their pics. Can't tell for sure from the angles taken, but I'm just holding out hope they aren't into the sloppy category. Both seem like easy targets.

2 more are at the perfect MILF age and have just sent me pictures. Both were I'm the 7-8 range for looks and seem like perfect matches for what I want LT I don't think either of these are pros and both seem like they will be a little harder to get into the FC on the first meet. But both seem much more desirable and worth the extra time and effort if it all works out. Neither have agreed to a specific night, but both seem ready to meet.

The 5th is an attractive 23 yo that has probably done this a few times before. She seems more confident in her approach. Not to the pro level of making money demands up front. But definitely knows what she has and has no qualms about meeting an old F_____ like me.

And I'm still playing around with my old standby, just I'm case I have a vacant night during my in-house vacation.

Should be an interesting week. Hope it turns out to be half of what I expect, and I'll still be a very happy old man.

Thanks again Scott for your advice. I'll only do the pro thing if I get tricked into it and the little head takes over bbit that happens a lot with me these days.

Alias.

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1381261]Alias,

I would never tell another brother what he should do, but may I suggest you try to resist the temptation of fishing for this kind of baby? If they [I]are[/I] Pros, they will take your bait no matter how badly you thrash the water. Where's the challenge in that?

Perhaps keep the ones you suspect on reserve, or schedule them for the end of your shore leave, and only follow through if you are unsuccessful in landing anything more challenging. Again, please forgive advice given where it is not sought, but I was "tricked" once or twice, and they are not my fondest of memories.

I know I speak for us all when I say we eagerly await your play-by-play report.

Scott[/QUOTE]

I will have 3 days this week to taste some pudding. My my Latina HYB can't give it up this week. I will meet her for an early dinner and hopefully get my brains screwed out from my first CL conquest (24 yr old AA) on Tues. She will get. 60.

Then thurs night I have this 20 yr old AA spinner. This will be my first time giving her the TiggaBounce. She is cute and full of energy. Smallest breasts I have seen in years. Met her from sugardaddie dot com. She will get $.

Then I have Fri night free. I have one really hot 29 year old AA with a slamming body (sugardaddie). But we need to do our first meet and greet. I also have 2 others (CL) who are chubby and want to take there time before giving up the goodies. So Fri, I have 3 potentials, but none with a gurantee of tasting the pudding. I hate wasting a good Fri night and not be getting goodies. What should I do?

Anyway my Latina HYB is getting busy with school, etc. So I am seeking one or two to fill in on call, LOL.

As a side note, put an ad in CL seeking SB candidates. The response was good, but the quality, not so hot. But they are also cheaper. I stay under $ per visit with the CL women.

My SA subscription expired and I started getting all these winks and bookmarks. This did not happen when I was a paid member. They are so obvious, LOL.

Happy Hunting

[QUOTE=BigTigger;1381711]As a side note, put an ad in CL seeking SB candidates. The response was good, but the quality, not so hot. But they are also cheaper. I stay under $ per visit with the CL women.[/QUOTE]Curious about the wording of your SD ad in CL. Have tried to place one but some technical glitch so it never published. Not sure of the issue. May try again and just open to what Tigger says in his ad. Thanks and hope you get milked like Elsie the cow this week brother.

I'm envious of you guys who get a pass from the warden for a whole week. I do some traveling for work so that is when I do most of my SB activities. Well that and during work hours if I have the time. The warden may leave the yard for one or two evenings a year if I'm lucky.

Like some of our other brethren on here, I have gone the MILF route with the SB's for the past 2-3 years. However, I do have a date later this week with the youngest SB (23) I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. I'm just hoping this old monger doesn't get intimated and all the equipment operates as intended.

[QUOTE=Varoom;1381865]Curious about the wording of your SD ad in CL. Have tried to place one but some technical glitch so it never published. Not sure of the issue. May try again and just open to what Tigger says in his ad. Thanks and hope you get milked like Elsie the cow this week brother.[/QUOTE]I kept it simple. Just said what I was looking for and made sure to say that I cover all expenses when we go out. I also said that I don't mind helping with expenses.

I included a fake pic and stated the photo was "similar" to me.

I gave them a phrase to include in email title. Got the goodies on first date with one, the others were / will be 2nd ir 3rd date.

If I don't get the goodies, I pay for gas (. 4 or less) only. If they don't drive and I pick up, no funds. I don't tell them this. Most don't want to feel like escorts and appreciate the meal and good convo. I have sent emails before 2nd or 3rd date and say a nice compliment or two and ask if they are ok with our next date being a hotel date. It allows them to answer w/o pressure. Since these are non-pros and not real SBs, I limit the initiation of sugar talk.

I Always give gifts when getting the goods. I usually slip it in a pocket or purse when they are in the bathroom. .60-1. 0 for CL women.

Happy Hunting

I have followed this thread from the start with great interest and much laughter. I have often wondered if I should test the water. Not having the time to invest in this type of sport I am afraid I would make a bad SD so I will continue to follow the antics of my fellow mongers. To all of you I hope things go well and keep posting. Maybe just maybe I might try dipping a toe to see how warm the water truly is.

Setting up my next round and of course turned to SB1, the MILF. Who promptly tells me she only has very limited time available as she is going to Florida for a week with another friend. Once I got over the initial shock (how dare she boff someone else) I thought I know the next present to give you. A granny bathing suit! So tell her I can't meet the limited time available, see you next time. This results in offer to arrive the night before and I will leave the latch open for you. Sounds like fun. A slumber party with no clothes!

All this got me off my keester and back at SA and now I have them coming out my ears. The 20 somethings finally started responding. Aside from my sleepover it will be a busy week, looking for that diamond in the rough. Total of 4 interviews lined up but one may be a pro and another is skittish ("it's not alllll about the sex". The hell it isn't) Keep you posted.

So what forums and blogs are the ladies on? Always best to know your adversary. I find SA blog outdated but maybe I am looking in the wrong place? Help somebody?

Is my favorite and is moment to moment-very current.

Re: Monogamy and SBs.you have to be very specific with them about what you expect. Many of these girls generally want to line up as many SDs as they can handle to maximize the income. Most on there interpret NSA as fuck anybody you want to. They blog on and on denying that they are engaging in prostitution yet we all know the score are. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that they are getting money (aka allowance) for sex (aka.relationship) The only difference is they are only seeing one.or a few.Johns instead of 8 / day. The problem with us is that we can only provide so much $$$ to our favorite girl, where they can see multiple guys if they so desire.

Less than a week since I saw her, and Meet #1 girl is emailing me, asking when I want to see her again. Wonder if I should just tell her bluntly she's not my type, or try to find some way to arrange a 'soft landing'?

On an unrelated note, a question for all the SA regulars: how many of you get "Favorite"ed by women from the Phillipines? I've had four women "Favorite" me, and all but one of them was a prospective LBFM. Mind you, I don't plan on any 'monger vacations' to the Phillipines anytime soon, so I wonder if they're just hopeful or what?

Thanks Hernando. I must be looking in the wrong place. How do I get to the current threads. Thanks for the info

[QUOTE=Castlerae;1384336]On an unrelated note, a question for all the SA regulars: how many of you get "Favorite"ed by women from the Phillipines? I've had four women "Favorite" me, and all but one of them was a prospective LBFM. Mind you, I don't plan on any 'monger vacations' to the Phillipines anytime soon, so I wonder if they're just hopeful or what?[/QUOTE]All the time. It's a scam, don't reply to those. On most of them you can do a tineye or google image search and see the pictures are Filipina models.

[QUOTE=Castlerae;1384336]Less than a week since I saw her, and Meet #1 girl is emailing me, asking when I want to see her again. Wonder if I should just tell her bluntly she's not my type, or try to find some way to arrange a 'soft landing'?[/QUOTE]That's always a tough one Castle. Since she's apparently a college age girl, probably just maintaining radio silence is enough. That's probably what she would do to you if she weren't interested.

I can not stand it when someone I've had a visit with or a few convos just disappears. It's nice to have closure. Some of these Nando 1s will disappear for months then pop up. I recommend that you come up with an explanation of some sort that will preserve her dignity. Something like you already have other relationship (s) but you loved the time you spent together.some bullshit like that.

[QUOTE=Hernando;1384797]I can not stand it when someone I've had a visit with or a few convos just disappears. It's nice to have closure. Some of these Nando 1s will disappear for months then pop up. I recommend that you come up with an explanation of some sort that will preserve her dignity. Something like you already have other relationship (s) but you loved the time you spent together.some bullshit like that.[/QUOTE]I sent her an email trying to mix thanks with a reason why we shouldn't see each other again. Now, if she just takes the hint.

[QUOTE=Spitfire;1384561]All the time. It's a scam, don't reply to those. On most of them you can do a tineye or google image search and see the pictures are Filipina models.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I was fairly sure the pics were either BS or a sign they were 'semi-pro', just kinda curious if this was a common occurance, or if there was something in my profile to draw the extra attention. Sounds like the former.

[QUOTE=Hernando;1384797]I can not stand it when someone I've had a visit with or a few convos just disappears. It's nice to have closure. Some of these Nando 1s will disappear for months then pop up. I recommend that you come up with an explanation of some sort that will preserve her dignity. Something like you already have other relationship (s) but you loved the time you spent together.some bullshit like that.[/QUOTE]Closure is good. I've used the "I've met someone" a time or two myself. I guess my point was a lot of these girls will just stop all contact when they're done with you, which does suck. Castle, it sounds like you handled it about as well as it could be done.

I'm concentrating my efforts on 1 SB. As a result, I have one in the Blacksburg area that I'm no longer seeing to pass along to trusted SMs. Send a PM if interested.

Gentlemen,

I am certain none of you were holding your breath waiting for me to get back into the game, but I wanted to let my brothers know that I feel that I have sufficiently realigned my synapses, emerged from my "Clockwork Orange" style reprogramming, and am ready to suit up and hit the field again. I am once again scared of getting caught, am following my Best Practices outline of behaviors, and have a healthy awareness of all I stand to lose should I screw up. In short, I'm ready to leave the safe house and once again go into deep cover and fuck some babies.

In surely what is the most bizarre coincidence in a career that seems to be marked by many such events, I fired up the Batphone today just out of curiosity and what should I see but a text from my ATF. I'm not sure when she left it, since I have the lowest-tech phone made - one step above two soup cans and a string - but the gist of it was that she misses me and needs to see me as soon as possible. Ok, so the first part is nice, but the second part of her message can be read in a couple of ways: The Good Way - she has never had such fantastic sex with anyone else like she had with me, and is aching for some Scottie steel. The Bad Way - she's pregnant! I'm not overly concerned about the latter, since I am like the head of the CDC when it comes to safety, but it is a thought that has settled down in the back of my mind and is proving somewhat difficult to dislodge. I would appreciate any advice, observations, comments or general wisdom regarding my situation. I wish I had more to relate, but it was a terse message, which is not totally uncharacteristic of her, but not SOP either.

Setting all the above aside for the moment, [I]if[/I] I am jumping to the worst possible conclusion, and she just had temporary amnesia or something like that, I really would like to go back to the way things were with us. Some of you may think I'm a puss for wanting this, but I just can't help it. Seeing the text from her vividly brought back her sweet little face, and her glowing smile, and her sparkly brown eyes, and her cute spinner body, and her astonishing agility, and the awesome sex (with toys), and how much we connect on so many levels, and on and on. As I said to a fellow brother and friend, it took no effort whatsoever to remember everything about her. In a funny way, it may be the perfect denouement for me to come back from the brink of insanity to the safe harbor of my ATF. If it works out the way I hope, I may not stray this time, except, in the immortal words of Falstaff, "above once or twice a week."

We shall see, my brothers, we shall see. In the meantime, post up. Surely you can't all be spending quality time with Ms. Palm.

All the best,

Scott

Gentlemen,

I'm sorry if I seemed a little snippy at the end of my previous post. I did not scroll down to see that we have several new brothers posting here. Congratulations and welcome! It is not the easiest of avenues to walk, and certainly there will be some bruising if you do it to the best of your abilities, but I'm certain that the seniors will agree that the rewards are unparalleled.

Castle, nice job in providing a soft landing. As Lit said,"do no harm."

Bondo, it is a learning process, as has been said many times before. Get your chops out of the way, and you will be much more comfortable going forward.

Tigger, thanks for the pms, and you are my new hero. Out of curiosity, how do you clear your calendar? Are you an eccentric millionaire?

Newbies, there is much wisdom here. Avail yourselves of it, and don't be shy in pm'ing any of us.

I look forward to reading of your exploits, and sincerely hope I am not relating any sort of news about another little Scottie on the way any time soon, or in fact, ever.

Scott

Good to see ya Scotty!

The good thing is, I don't have the time I want, but just the time I need. That keeps me from going overboard. However, like catching some of these lovelies, getting time has the same requirement. Creativity. Just make sure to take care of home first and try to keep your pockets of time reasonable, not to mention, try to have some of the truth in your lie. Go to a restaurant or sports bar. It doesn't have to be the exact one you said and you don't have be alone.

BigTigg.

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1388415]Gentlemen,

Tigger, thanks for the pms, and you are my new hero. Out of curiosity, how do you clear your calendar? Are you an eccentric millionaire?

Scott[/QUOTE]

I haven't been on for a while mainly because I've had nothing to report. Since that initial, and aborative, foray into the SD / SB field, my luck has gone to zero. Out of half a dozen messages sent to various prospective SB's, I've gotten one reply. That reply was simply an indication that the young woman was interested in meeting, and I see from my "Sent Mail" file that she hasn't bothered to read the reply I sent her offering to meet. So, I'm guessing she's either found someone more "promising" (read 'willing to commit large sums of $$$ up front') , or she's having second thoughts about the whole SB scene. Ah, well guess I can keep hunting, huh?

Oh, and Meet#1 emailed me back, asking if I wanted to meet, plus texting me the same question.

So much for getting her to go away soft and easy.

[QUOTE=F Scott;1388404]. and what should I see but a text from my ATF. I'm not sure when she left it, since I have the lowest-tech phone made - one step above two soup cans and a string - but the gist of it was that she misses me and needs to see me as soon as possible. Ok, so the first part is nice, but the second part of her message can be read in a couple of ways: The Good Way - she has never had such fantastic sex with anyone else like she had with me, and is aching for some Scottie steel. The Bad Way - she's pregnant![/QUOTE]. Or most likely she needs some money LOL.

PS I've seen one girl 3-4 months then poof she vanishes for 3-4 months then poof she reappears for years

So I promised an update to this forum on how my weeks vacation from the warden has been progressing and I always try to keep my promises. First let me say that although I no longer live in the Richmond area, this particular forum has been an amazing help to me and I truly appreciate the advice of the pros like Lit, Scott, and Nando, so will continue to stay in touch through this forum even though my experiences may not be relevant to the Richmond area in particular. In other words, YMMV in dealing with the SB sites and other sources like CL and BP depending on where you live.

So as you may recall, the warden left for a week's vacation and I have been plotting my week of freedom for about a full 30 days before she left. I joined a SB site and posted another add on CL just rinsed what I could line up with the goal of getting laid at least 50% of the nights she is gone, every night by a different SB. So far. Here is where I Akkad of Wed night anyway:

Sat night. Got laid by the warden (OK, I know this one doesn't count but it happens so infrequently that I had to through it in anyway as one more benefit of her going on vacation.

Sunday. Headed out for an early afternoon first meet with a 30 something MILF that I met on the SD site. I had been emailing her for at least 3 weeks so was pretty sure we would go to the FC on the first date. She has 2 kids, face a 7-8, but could tell from her SB pictures she was going to be on the heavy side for me. We met at a very casual restaurant and discussed what our interests were. I was attracted to her, but the weight would be a negative for any LT potential. Long story short, she agreed to check into the closest notel and we had a pretty good time in the FC. I'd rate the sex a 6 overall though. Just can't get over the weight thing. But she is still 25 years youger than I am and her face was beatiful to look into while pumping away. It was fun, I have to admit, but will not likely call her again.

Monday- Had to drive about 90 minutes after work to meet another young thing from the SD site. I had also been emailing her for several weeks and could tell she was going to be a reasonably easy conquest. She is an AA that has just turned 21, and AGAIN, I could tell that she was going to be on the heavy side. But the age thing peaked my interest and I just had to check her out. Picked her up outside her parents house, and went to an AppleBees closeby to get acquainted. Spent about an hour talking and she was very fun to talk with. When I mentioned that we should continue our conversation at the nearby hotel, she did not hesitate to accept my offer. We spent the rest of the evening in the FC and I could tell from the start that she had not had sex in a while. She loved the oral part and really got into both giving and receiving it. In summary, she was a lot of fun but not what I am looking for in a LT relationship. I'm telling you all again, I am a BBW magnet and it's sad how out of shape some of these pretty young women are. But had a fun night anyway.

Tuesday. Had lunch with a young 20 something that I met off of CL. She is a MILF with 2 kids that is going through a divorce and has a lot of stress in her life. But WOW, what a knockout. She is a 9-10 in every respect. She was fun to talk to, beautiful blond hair and blue eyes to die for. AND NOT A BBW! She is the perfect match for what I'm looking for, but will take a little coaching to get into the FC. I have been emailing here back and forth for the last day, and an evening date looks promising. Hoping maybe that can still happen before the warden returns.

Tuesday night- Drove about 40 minutes after work to meet a 24 year old divorced MILF for dinner. I met her on the SD site but had not been emailing her until the last few days. She was a blast to talk with at the restaurant and I was very attracted to her. Body was a 7-8, face an 8, and personality a 10. Maybe has done this before a few times and could possibly be a semi-pro. She hesitated when offer to rent a room, saying she didn't expect to progress to that point on the first date. But the more we talked the more agreeable she became. We soon checked into the nearest hotel and the fun began. She had a great body, but not as into the sex as the 2 BBWs from earlier in the week. I couldn't tell if she ever climaxed or not, but I had fun and will likely return. She was fun to talk to and seemed very appreciative for the allowance.

Wed night- Tried to line up the blond MILF from CL but struck out. She said she was interested but couldn't meet that evening. Wasted night, but I looked up one of the Pros I have seen before just to get a quickie. I know that doesn't count towards my 50% goal, but it was fun anyway and no prep time required. They do have their advantages.

Thursday night (tonight). I have a date lined up with another CL response that has been emailing me for a couple of weeks now. It looks promising, but she is a little older than I'm looking for. From the sound of her emails, she is a divorced MILF, early 40s, and hasn't had sex for quite some time. Her pictures look pretty good, so will see what happens. I don't expect her to be LT.

Hoping the CL blond will agree to Friday night. The warden comes home Saturday. Wish me luck.

Sorry for the long post.

Alias.

[QUOTE=AliasSM; 1381051]Next week I plan to try the marathon of SDs. The warden leaves Sunday and I already have first meets firmly set up with SBs on Sunday and Monday, and potential dates not yet finalized with 3 other SBs the remainder of the week. My goal is to set up a meeting every evening, hoping to land at least 50% in the famous FC. I think that might be pushing it for me with my lack of honed fishing skills at this point, but I plan to try my hardest. I think several of these girls may be pros in disguise, so landing 50% may in fact be attainable, just not leading to any future LT relationships.

I will of course report back to this forum.

Alias.[/QUOTE]

Alias,

What a week so far! Talk about jumping into the deep end.

Way to go, my brother. Can't wait for the updates,

Scott

Welcome back Scotty! Hopefully she misses you on all levels.not the least of which is $$$. Probably what happened is she found another boy.maybe IRL to date and she pulled back from the pretend world of Sugar Dating. And he didn't pan out, soo she realized that with you she has a sure thing.you love her and treat her well.

A Story.I had a Nando 1 who was a cheap lay but I developed some feelings for her in spite her trashy ways. About a year ago she disappeared.no contact, returned calls.nothing. So I got over it after a while and now have my fabulous ATF Nando 3. Several months ago I got repeated texts, calls, and even calls to my office and personal cell. All I could think about was that I had a baby that she wanted support for. Shit! I finally called back and thank God she wasn't pregnant / delivered, but she needed Money. What a shocker since she always needed $$$. I said no and the calls continued.in fact accelerated, so I called to sternly tell her to bug off. She said she had pictures. Talk about my ball sack shrivelling up like a prune. She wanted a small amount of $ so I agreed "this one last time " Well, you can guess what happened. There was another threat-which I just said do what you got to do, and I will do mine. Fortunately she hasn't been back but I will get the police involved if I have to. The moral to this story is.as long as they know who you are you are at risk. It goes back to desperation and class. As long as your SB has class and is not desperate then you should be safer from blackmail.

Welcome back Scott! I knew we'd see you again soon!

I've been on a roller coaster ride with my current fav for the past couple months. There doesn't seem to be anything in between as things are either great or awful. I'm not sure how much more my old ticker can take. Such is the danger of gettting emotionally attached I suppose. In the past I've been threatened myself and it always seems to come down to "do what you have to do and so will I" as Nando says. Yet another reason to not let the SB's know anything about you. Of course for me it's do as I say, not as I do.

Alias is my new hero on this board! Damn man. You figured this shit out pretty quick! I think two in one week is my all time record. Good for you. Just be careful when the warden gets back into town. They have a way of seemingly knowing what goes on when we stray.

Congratulations Alias!

Not only is it impressive to line up so many girls, but to perform that many days in a row is awe inspiring. Do you like to use any chemical enhancement to supplement your natural function?

Don't you love the ad for Vitamin V warning us of erections lasting more than 4 hours? If that happened I would have to go through the black book to page ten before the effects wear off.

[QUOTE=Hernando;1388987]Hopefully she misses you on all levels.not the least of which is $$$. Probably what happened is she found another boy.maybe IRL to date and she pulled back from the pretend world of Sugar Dating. And he didn't pan out, soo she realized that with you she has a sure thing.you love her and treat her well.[/QUOTE]This is sort of what I'm thinking as well. I know she has a group of guy friends that she hangs out with, and something could have easily developed there. I have yet to text her back, but I will do so today and see if we can get together next week. I am out of town this weekend starting tomorrow, unfortunately, otherwise I would make it sooner. I'm trying to fix my mind into a stern frame, but I'm afraid the minute I see her face I will cave. In fact, I know it will be so. The last time this kind of happened, although for a much shorter period, she admitted that she was a little freaked by how close we had gotten, and the depth of her feelings. (At least that is what she told me, and I gladly bought it) This could have played a part this time as well. We shall see.

She is nowhere near a Nando 1, so I am not worried about blackmail, unless there is a little Scottie in the oven, but I can't imagine that she will go through with that. She is too young to be tied down.

Interestingly, right before I got married, about a hundred years ago, I was sleeping with this stunning blonde with some self esteem issues, and cut it off with her a month or less before the ceremony. She knew my real name, where I lived, phone number, everything. Talk about living dangerously!

About a month or so later I started getting calls at work from her, and my mind immediately went to the "pregnant" scenario. When we finally spoke, she confirmed that this was indeed the case, but that she hated me so much at this point that all she wanted was money to take care of things, which I gladly gave her. I often wonder if she was telling the truth about that or not. In any event, I never heard from her again, and considered it money well spent. This was the lesson that convinced me to always play safe ever since.

Feels good to be back, but I have to start again from zero. Oh well, as has been said, a good deal of the fun is in the chase!

I'll keep my brothers apprised,

Scott

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[QUOTE]All the best,

Scott[/QUOTE]Welcome back.

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OK. I blame Spitfire. He gave me info on an SB he was letting slide. And she is hot to trot with me. I am going to call her WB1 (wood baby1). Now in second thoughts CWB1. College wood baby 1. I will not mix the numbers. Just add the into letter to signify the Coed status!

Hopefully FC next week with CBW1.

I finally joined SA. What a rich fishing pool! However, I am so glad I am armed with all the info from this thread!

I will keep the group apprised!

Got an WB2 on the hook for tomorrow. Pretty sure she is an UTR escort. But a slim 40 MILF I cannot let slide! Thinking it will set me back $ at most.

CWB1 on the other hand will be $$ plus dinner and social. But if I get the overnight I am expecting. That is a bargain!

I knew I should never have participated in your fun. I really must get more work to support this mongering lifestyle!

GW

Last night went off completely as planned with almost exactly the results that I expected. I met the older CL contact at a decent restuarant and had a nice meal. I could tell she was not one of the more active CL posters from the start, but she did not hesitate to discuss sex and had emailed me a lot of racy pictures before we met so I was pretty sure the visit to the FC was going to happen. Rented a room after about an hour of eating and talking. She was much more reluctant to totally undress than the younger MILFs I have been with. I've seen this a lot with older women before. They think they need to keep their bra on until the lights go out, or something around the midsection to hide the fact that they aren't as in-shape as they once were. WTFWT. When I'm having sex, I like easy access to ALL body parts. To he'll with the modesty thing.

The sex was OK. She will not be a repeat with me though. I spent way too much time and money when the dinner, room, and sugar expenses are all combined and she is too old (40s) to waste more time on. It was fun for a one-nighter though.

Still hoping to set something up tonight. Last night before the warden returns for the lock-down.

[QUOTE=AliasSM]Thursday night. I have a date lined up with another CL response that has been emailing me for a couple of weeks now. It looks promising, but she is a little older than I'm looking for. From the sound of her emails, she is a divorced MILF, early 40s, and hasn't had sex for quite some time. Her pictures look pretty good, so will see what happens. I don't expect her to be LT.

Hoping the CL blond will agree to Friday night. The warden comes home Saturday. Wish me luck.

Sorry for the long post.

Alias.[/QUOTE]

Wow you guys, can't beleive the talk of getting these gals pregnant. Even though I shoot blanks I keep it covered up. Can't bring anything home to the warden. Had an absolutely exhausting slumber party with SB1 Sunday night where we finally went to sleep about 5am. I woke up first and there is her cell phone with no lock. Yikes! She's a busy beaver. Was tempted to go BB with her on earlier date but glad I didn't. Just too risky. Struck out timing wise with all new interviewees this week but looks like a few nights next week. Really like the all nighters. What a bargain compared to pros.

My Fellow mongers, after reading through I realized that I've not updated in a while. So here goes.

From SA:

Slim 39 year old (Richmond, Va). Nice body,"ok" face. You could tell she had a rough life. First date she got the Tiggabounce right after dinner. She was very appreciative, I got a massage, got my salad tossed (on the first date and for at least 10-20mins. Wow) , and overall the sex was ok. She was a bit quiet for my taste. I did have to drop her because of the overhead. She showed up 1 hour late (lived 10 mins away from restaurant) , she brought weed after I specifically said not to have drugs around me, she drank much more than I expected, which changed her personality to be a bit more aggressive than I liked and the chemistry was just off after that and a few other things. In the end, she was probably a little to street for me long term. $40 suga.

Sugardaddie-dot-com.

Stacked 29 year old (Richmond, Va) , pretty and very very shapely and I don't meant fat at all. She is actually in the running to take over the #1 spot. My Latina in Maryland is getting pretty busy. This one has her own place and is ready for the TiggaBounce after the 2nd date. It's funny, at end of 2nd date, I asked, so what do you want to do for our next date. Since this is more of a long term thing, I thought after the 3rd date I'm headed to the hotel. Her response "Sex". I was like."well. Ok, of course". I love it when I it's not big deal to me and they ask for it before I do. However 3 dates is my limit. $40 suga first date $60 suga 2nd date.

Her body is similar to this one: [url] http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?3987-Escort-Reports&p=1386894&viewfull=1#post1386894[/url]

One very hot 20 year old SB (Baltimore County) , very slim, but nice butt, date #1 was dinner and date #2 was full of the TiggaBounce. She was a little distracted and I could tell very inexperienced. I'm not so sure about this one as I'm not so used to the young and inexperienced. I guess for some reason, I just don't get excited about training. 1st date $40 suga 2nd date $80 suga. I'm debating on seeing her again. Really depends on time. She's getting her act together and will soon have her own place and a few other things taken care of. So I may keep may keep her around, but not really get into consistency until she's got things in order.

Her body is similar to this one, but with smaller boobs. [url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=165757[/url]

Craigslist.

25 year old (Laurel, Md) , nice body, little chubby (Similary to [url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=165816 [/url]), but she excelled in the bedroom on the first date. I hate that I've not had a chance to see her again. She's definitely worth seeing, but without her having transportation or her own place, I cannot consider her for long term. $60 suga.

24 year old AA, short and kinda fatty (Gaithersburg) ( Like this one [url] http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=165686[/url]) 2 dates down, time for TiggaBounce, but it's been hard getting the time right."I hate that I've not had a chance to see her again. She's definitely worth seeing, but without her having transportation or her own place, I cannot consider her for long term." I am going to make it a point to see her soon. I got to at least taste the goodies once. No sugar given yet.

29 year old AA (Woodbridge, Va) Nice body, since regular pics and nude pics. Lives a bit too close, really needs the money. Too desperate for anything long term. I will however try to help out a woman in need and see how things go. Just not sure when.

48 year old (Manasass, VA) BBW, I'm not sure why I'm even bothering to entertain this one. Nice face, my experience with older than 45 has been mixed. I'm probably more curious than anything else. She and I work close enough that I'm game for a TiggaBounce when my nights are slow. No sugar will be given for this one. I'll just cover the hotel room.

For some reason, I'm still having more luck with sugardaddie. Com than SA. Oh well, whatever works. I'm taking a break from both sites as I have more than enough to handle.

On a side note, met a white 42 MILF professional in Richmond last week while we both were using the computers at FEDEXOffice. We've exchanged numbers, chatted and flirted. I'm so excited. She's pretty, nice shape, and a real non-pro, non-sb who's busy and just hanging on by a thread with some unexpected financial challenges. I have a date setup next week with her. I'm going to help her out with some expenses as part of being friendly. I'm really looking forward to this one, she seems like a real winner.

BigTigg

Big Tig

Your Suga donations are impossibly low. Do you discuss this with them before the bounce or do you just gift that amount at the end of the night?

SA is full of GPS girls (Golden Pussy Syndrome for the newbies) These girls are requesting $3-5, 000 / month and some claim they are getting $20 K. The cheapos are coming in at $1-3000 / month. I have not hunted SA yet other than to check the blog which I highly recommend because of my HCB.

Now I am happy with my HCB after a little glitch this week. For the first time she cancelled two (yes 2) dates in one week. The excuses were date1-very good (gastro intestinal virus) and date 2 mediochre. Some family obligation that she would be too tired after to drive to see me. She should want to see me so badly that spending 7 hours together is preferable to none. She didn't want to see me badly enough. The truth hurts. I hope she is not beginning to take me for granted or has another Fuck Daddy. In almost one year together this has only happened one other time so I will give her the benefit of the doubt. I know you guys know where I come from, that is it is never too late, or too tiring for some love and affection. And from her POV, she missed out on some easy sugar $$$. Scott can identify with me on this one. I am too emotionally involved.

My favorite (of three) escort is in town this week and I am not even seeing her because I'm saving my $$$ for my baby. It must be love.

[QUOTE=Hernando; 1389613]Big Tig

Your Suga donations are impossibly low. Do you discuss this with them before the bounce or do you just gift that amount at the end of the night?[/QUOTE]No I don't discuss in advance much. But you will see, that most are AA and most are not 9-10s in the looks category. (I did luck out my my Latina, she's just young, but a real hottie...I mean I got really lucky.... her body is like this, but with bigger legs [url]http://washingtondc.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=7161282&image=7169045[/url])

The CL women are non-pros and not real SB, so they are happy with almost anything, do not go over $.

However, the big secret is my approach. I state I'm not a real Sugar Daddy, more of a Sugar Daddie Lite. I let them know upfront that I'm here to hang out, cover all expenses, pay for gas, sitter and help with a bill every now and then. If a potential TB wants anything that equates to "arrangement" or "fee per date", I don't deal with them. I'll leave that group to you guys, I've dropped down to the 2nd group. Nando2 I think. LOL.

This usually results with women who are not 100% comfortable with how close SBs come to feeling like prostitution and they like the idea that they can go out, eat, see a movie, etc and get some good sex without headaches. It also takes me more time to get the goodies, cause it's more like dating, but in the end, I end up with a stable that I can rotate through without a bunch of drama. It's kinda the happy medium between quantity and quality. That way when I help with a $$ or $$$ bill, I'm really appreciated.

Most of the suga above was just covering gas money because I covered every thing else. Oh wait, I also tell them that once it becomes a LTR, then more suga will follow. So they see it as an investment and I get to try the goodies 2 to 3 times before "I don't think this is going to work for me".

In all that I'm working on, only 1 really has Long Term Potential, the stacked pretty one from Richmond.



BigTigg.

So it is Saturday AM, the warden is due back today, and I want to post a summary for the week. As you all may recall, I have been preparing for my week of freedom for over a month and way trying to line up a potential different SB for each night of my freedom.

I covered Sun. Thurs in previous posts so won't bore you all with repeating those details. For Friday, my last night of freedom, I was trying to set up a second meeting with the hottest potential SB of the week (and by far the hardest of all to connect with). Unfortunately, that didn't happen and I had to call back up an SB from earlier in the week for a repeat performance just to keep the night from going to waste.

I have not admitted defeat with this super-hot blond MILF just yet. But after tons I'd emails and only 1 short meeting, she continues to avoid the second date and, of course, the FC.

I even thought throughout the week of soliciting help from one of you pros on this board to give me the right words to convince her. Like bundling up all of our emails and asking one of you to serve as a consultant to help me get across the goal line, but in the end, ran out of time and energy to continue the persuit with her (for this week at least). But damn if she isn't the hottest thing I've ever had respond to a SB ad, and I hate the thought of not landing this sexy little fish.

So for the total of six nights that the warden has been gone, I was successful with getting 4 new (to me anyway) SBs into the FC, and had to go to backup plans to get laid the other 2 nights due to failure to land a couple more SBs I had been pursuing.

Even though that calculates to a 67% success rate, I'm still disappointed with the missed opportunity from last night, and the fact that out of the entire week, I'd really only consider a repeat with one of the 4 new SBs. The other 3 are just too heavy or too old to interest me for LT arrangements.

So the search continues, and will be much harder now with the warden back in town. Keep up all of the good posts, my friends, and wish me luck with this last hot blond SB that I still plan to pursue. She has been very illusive up to this point, but has the greatest potential of anybody I have meant to date.

Alias

Ok, so my approach may not be the best to get the goodies on the first date, but I just landed a 24 year old AA from New Jersey, with a Master's degree coming off a bad relationship, looking for a casual man to keep her maintenance up and show here a good time every now and then. She's ok with meeting once a month and the damage is pretty low. We met up for date on Saturday, I picked a nice mid-point and we had a blast. Just typical date stuff, movie dinner, etc.

Her personality was great, she was very pretty (at least to me) and if you like curves. I was overwhelmed with her assets. I've got to find a "similar" photo to link to. Here is one I swiped from bp, she is similar to this, her boobs are bigger, but you get the picture. [ATTACH=CONFIG]166494[/ATTACH] If you like the skinny spinner type, she's not going to appeal to you. But my oh my. I stared at her boobs or butt every chance I got. Working on second date. At some point, she'll be my once a month date and screw and I already feel she's worth it.

Oh met her on sugardaddie dot com. I think I'm going to rotate her in and my 23 year old Latina out. That relationship is getting to serious and out of scope for what I want and can handle.

BigTigg