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[QUOTE=Cec00;7248402]Unfortunately this is the standard for 90% of the sites. Farming for their OF or for sugar. Just read that quickly and move on, the point here is to cast a lot, most of the fish will let go quickly until you catch a real UTR or Provider.[/QUOTE]Very true. Notice all the OF girls on TRYST and EROS.
BTW, that profile is already down on SA.
Whenever I follow a link to SA it invites me to create a searchable profile, which I am reluctant to do for the sake of privacy.
I do wonder, does anyone have a profile on the site and do you get contacted by the women? Do you find its a benefit to have a profile? Or is it just spammers? I have never actively used the site, but am considering new ways to monger.
[QUOTE=Lurker2009;7248934]Whenever I follow a link to SA it invites me to create a searchable profile, which I am reluctant to do for the sake of privacy.
I do wonder, does anyone have a profile on the site and do you get contacted by the women? Do you find its a benefit to have a profile? Or is it just spammers? I have never actively used the site, but am considering new ways to monger.[/QUOTE]Yes I have a profile with pics.
I'm single so I don't care.
Yes women express interest in my profile, yes many are scammers but some are not.
[QUOTE=Lurker2009;7248934]Whenever I follow a link to SA it invites me to create a searchable profile, which I am reluctant to do for the sake of privacy.
I do wonder, does anyone have a profile on the site and do you get contacted by the women? Do you find its a benefit to have a profile? Or is it just spammers? I have never actively used the site, but am considering new ways to monger.[/QUOTE]I have a profile with my picture (also a single guy with nothing to worry about) and I get about 10-15 hits a day and about 3-5 messages. 90% of them are from women way outside our area and some outside the Country. I used to entertain that shit and even facetimed with a girl in like Colombia once but it's all BS. I get maybe 2 legit and good messages a week.
YMMV.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/33a73182ed2466fc.[/URL] Getting back into the hobby. Been Chatting with this lady on SB. Anyone have any experience. She's pushing to meet quickly, so any suggestions appreciated.
[QUOTE=Lurker2009;7248934]Whenever I follow a link to SA it invites me to create a searchable profile, which I am reluctant to do for the sake of privacy.
I do wonder, does anyone have a profile on the site and do you get contacted by the women? Do you find its a benefit to have a profile? Or is it just spammers? I have never actively used the site, but am considering new ways to monger.[/QUOTE]Have your pics as private and selectively share them with who you want to talk to. Unless you have a great profile and showing off $$ 90% of the time when a girl messages first on any SB site it's going to be a scam, GPS, or a pro. You have to message a ton of different girls and eventually you'll find what you're looking for.
How are you married guys managing to navigate the sugar world? Are you telling them you are married? Are you worried about a crazy SB trying to blackmail you or out you if you piss them off somehow? I'd love to give it a shot but I am trying to figure out how I can do it without jeopardizing my family and business. Seems a little crazy to rely on these cash-strapped young ladies for serious discretion. Give me your best tips for sugaring as a married man.
[QUOTE=Trident206;7297421]How are you married guys managing to navigate the sugar world? Are you telling them you are married? Are you worried about a crazy SB trying to blackmail you or out you if you piss them off somehow? I'd love to give it a shot but I am trying to figure out how I can do it without jeopardizing my family and business. Seems a little crazy to rely on these cash-strapped young ladies for serious discretion. Give me your best tips for sugaring as a married man.[/QUOTE]Don't do it!
[QUOTE=Trident206;7297421]How are you married guys managing to navigate the sugar world? Are you telling them you are married? Are you worried about a crazy SB trying to blackmail you or out you if you piss them off somehow? I'd love to give it a shot but I am trying to figure out how I can do it without jeopardizing my family and business. Seems a little crazy to rely on these cash-strapped young ladies for serious discretion. Give me your best tips for sugaring as a married man.[/QUOTE]I can tell you from experience it is a major crap shoot and the probability of winning is lower for a married guy than a single one because logistics are more challenging. Many years ago when I was traveling I had some success but if you're unable to host then the chances of hooking up with someone get much slimmer as I've found the majority of the women can't host. When I stopped traveling the dilemma for me was the logistics of getting a room if you find someone you'd like to meet. There's no way I'm going to get a room during the week knowing my SO will see the cc bill. Maybe some guys have a secret cc account but I don't.
Through the years the sugar bowl has become even more challenging to navigate because of the prices these girls are asking and getting! I understand inflation but the sites have become inflation on steroids. Although I had fun several years ago I finally hung up my cleats for a variety of reasons, one of which was hearing a friend of mine was blackmailed as was mentioned. I'm happy to answer more questions if you want to PM me.
[QUOTE=Trident206;7297421]How are you married guys managing to navigate the sugar world? Are you telling them you are married? Are you worried about a crazy SB trying to blackmail you or out you if you piss them off somehow? I'd love to give it a shot but I am trying to figure out how I can do it without jeopardizing my family and business. Seems a little crazy to rely on these cash-strapped young ladies for serious discretion. Give me your best tips for sugaring as a married man.[/QUOTE]I agree with the others, don't do it if you can't keep everything discreet. Why risk it? I'm single so I don't have to worry about a wife. But crazy can still happen. 😆.
Curious. If you are seeing escorts now, how are you explaining large cash withdrawals currently?
[QUOTE=SR7D1;7298389]I agree with the others, don't do it if you can't keep everything discreet. Why risk it? I'm single so I don't have to worry about a wife. But crazy can still happen. 😆.
Curious. If you are seeing escorts now, how are you explaining large cash withdrawals currently?[/QUOTE]I deal with a lot of cash in my business, so it's easy to stay flush without needing to make large withdrawals from the bank.
Has anyone seen her? Our schedules keep missing, plus she will tell me we can met at 9 and then all of a sudden text me at 11 pm to meet.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1799cda8-3d84-4e3a-a5ae-cdc35b74235b[/URL]
[QUOTE=Trident206;7297421]How are you married guys managing to navigate the sugar world? Are you telling them you are married? Are you worried about a crazy SB trying to blackmail you or out you if you piss them off somehow? I'd love to give it a shot but I am trying to figure out how I can do it without jeopardizing my family and business. Seems a little crazy to rely on these cash-strapped young ladies for serious discretion. Give me your best tips for sugaring as a married man.[/QUOTE]They never have any details about me. Everything I do is through an alias. And don't drop your guard no matter how long you see them. I don't share details about work, where I live or anything else. At the end of the day it is about money for them and services for us. Keep it that way and you should be fine.
Anyone have a good Sa that they would trade info on? I'd like to be around 300 perf. Pm me and we can trade.
[QUOTE=MobyD;6927063]100 percent real. Flat rate for 3-4 hours at her place off Vanderbilt. Defines MILF next door who never had kids. Insatiable nympho, mind blowing sexual creativity, all natural tone body and 36 Cs that define perfection. Oh the stories and mental videos that frequently replay. Dom Sub switch, but the Dom side pushed certain friends away. Fuck. Do it all over? Absofuckinglutely.[/QUOTE]Hey Moby,
My new account, the original is acting up and no help from adm.
Back to my southernbellecious original question.
Haven't pulled the trigger yet but seriously considering.
The thing that bugs me here is her Dom thingy you mentioned.
Not too much into this. Are we talking about hard shit or rather soft kind of spanking and such.
Any help welcome.
RN.
Has anyone recently encountered someone named Paris? She's a 25-year-old Colombian woman, approximately five feet tall, and based in Fort Myers. During our initial conversations, she quoted a rather high rate—6 Benjamins but I was able to negotiate it down to 2. However, just days before we were supposed to meet, she unexpectedly launched into an erratic and accusatory rant, ultimately claiming I was being disrespectful and instructing me to delete her number. In my view, the local scene is simply too competitive—both in terms of cost and temperament—for such unpredictable behavior or the original asking price.
[QUOTE=CondomPopper1;7311787]Has anyone recently encountered someone named Paris? She's a 25-year-old Colombian woman, approximately five feet tall, and based in Fort Myers. During our initial conversations, she quoted a rather high rate6 Benjamins but I was able to negotiate it down to 2. However, just days before we were supposed to meet, she unexpectedly launched into an erratic and accusatory rant, ultimately claiming I was being disrespectful and instructing me to delete her number. In my view, the local scene is simply too competitiveboth in terms of cost and temperamentfor such unpredictable behavior or the original asking price.[/QUOTE]She flaked on me the day of our scheduled meet & greet. No shortage of crazy in SWFLA!
[QUOTE=CondomPopper1;7311787]Has anyone recently encountered someone named Paris? She's a 25-year-old Colombian woman, approximately five feet tall, and based in Fort Myers. During our initial conversations, she quoted a rather high rate6 Benjamins but I was able to negotiate it down to 2. However, just days before we were supposed to meet, she unexpectedly launched into an erratic and accusatory rant, ultimately claiming I was being disrespectful and instructing me to delete her number. In my view, the local scene is simply too competitiveboth in terms of cost and temperamentfor such unpredictable behavior or the original asking price.[/QUOTE]Do you have a link for her?
[QUOTE=SR7D1;7312321]Do you have a link for her?[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c3459eec-46d9-44ba-87a7-63c9ca97fc46[/URL]
[QUOTE=CondomPopper1;7313589][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c3459eec-46d9-44ba-87a7-63c9ca97fc46[/URL][/QUOTE]Thanks! She is a little too thick for me, but good luck!
[QUOTE=Trident206;7297421]How are you married guys managing to navigate the sugar world? Are you telling them you are married? Are you worried about a crazy SB trying to blackmail you or out you if you piss them off somehow? I'd love to give it a shot but I am trying to figure out how I can do it without jeopardizing my family and business. Seems a little crazy to rely on these cash-strapped young ladies for serious discretion. Give me your best tips for sugaring as a married man.[/QUOTE]I did it while I was married. I spent about 2 years sugaring while married in the past. Divorced now for other reasons, but never even close to getting caught. Use a text app, Snapchat, and / or burner phone to communicate at all times. Always give gifts in cash. Manage your hotel room payment transactions as discreetly as you can. (highly important).
Aside from the obvious of not sharing too many details about yourself in conversations, I also would be very careful about bare fun. I did it a lot, but I was very cautious of who I did it with. This was about 8 years ago when girls seemed always open to bare.
And, "work travel" is something I really encourage doing. I tried to do as much of it as I could.
Lulu is a gem in Naples. A petite, very busty Hungarian girl with a killer ass. $150 for 30 min with kissing and DATY extra. Everything covered. No greek. She's just a fun, bubbly person and always delivers a good time.
[URL]https://adultsearch.com/us/florida/naples/female-escorts/3331966[/URL]
[QUOTE=Trident206;7321878]Lulu is a gem in Naples. A petite, very busty Hungarian girl with a killer ass. $150 for 30 min with kissing and DATY extra. Everything covered. No greek. She's just a fun, bubbly person and always delivers a good time.
[URL]https://adultsearch.com/us/florida/naples/female-escorts/3331966[/URL][/QUOTE]Meant to put this in Escort Reports.
So I had to get back on SA. My regular is ghosting me. Been busy texting a new this weekend. Decided to see Lucca. Nice black girl, age is accurate. Small A cups with responsive nipples. Push got wet as I kept eating. GFE experienced as everything was on table. I didn't ask or try for anal. Skinny with a booty that worked for me. Long braids if that bothers you. Has her own place off of palm beach dr and Marsh. 400 was rich for me but I keep getting numbers between 4-5 and she could host so. Got to pop twice. I'd see her again but won't be visiting as frequently with the 400 price tag. Pm me if you have any questions.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b35f35e0-e140-4578-b736-c631fcf19265[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/47fe22ba-f8dd-4333-8b92-57d48a3050b3[/URL]
Been chatting with her. Curious as to whether or not any of you have seen her and could give some advice. TIA.
Seeking is now $130/ month! No more Promo Code box to apply code, and seemingly no discount. Is it just me, or for everyone?
[QUOTE=HorseFeed;7345521]Seeking is now $130/ month! No more Promo Code box to apply code, and seemingly no discount. Is it just me, or for everyone?[/QUOTE]Yep, it's up to 130. But they offer discounts of 20-33 % randomly. Just be sure and completely log out every time until you see on while clicking on your message folder.
These ladies are talking to each other in chat rooms and their responses have become copy and paste. I think that some are taking the "Rules", what they are taught to say, way to seriously. Like Karla from Fort Myers for instance has been taught to say something specific and she is losing out by only wanting an allowance. She also has stated that she will not do anything physical, which might be her way of not discussing anything she feels could get her in trouble, but to say that in the first day of texting is a red flag. Which puts a lot of us out for this one in particular. Sometimes I swear they think their the only one that we are all bidding on.
Here is Karla's profile.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2bdefac2-0d8b-458c-a35e-fa4899222374[/URL]
[QUOTE=CondomPopper1;7351982]These ladies are talking to each other in chat rooms and their responses have become copy and paste. I think that some are taking the "Rules", what they are taught to say, way to seriously. Like Karla from Fort Myers for instance has been taught to say something specific and she is losing out by only wanting an allowance. She also has stated that she will not do anything physical, which might be her way of not discussing anything she feels could get her in trouble, but to say that in the first day of texting is a red flag. Which puts a lot of us out for this one in particular. Sometimes I swear they think their the only one that we are all bidding on.
Here is Karla's profile.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2bdefac2-0d8b-458c-a35e-fa4899222374[/URL][/QUOTE]Were you texting on the site or ff the site through an app? I don't text any details on the site for obv reasons.
I often have to explain the correlation of allowance and PPM. If they insist on allowance, I tell them I'll give them paycheck at the end of the month, just like in the real world.
As far as no intimacy, I have read that in their profiles and sometimes heard that when texting. That is influence culture teaching them they can get a SD just by being a good conversationalist. LOL.
I received a message today from the woman up north, and she offered a rate of $80 for a half-hour session, with double that amount if she and her "sister" are both involved. I inquired whether she would be willing to make the hour-long drive and stay in a hotel if she received sufficient interest. She responded that she would be open to the idea. If enough of us reach out to her, there's a good chance both of them might be willing to travel this way. Just offering my two.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/e8a28163-668e-48e2-a105-f342df4c34df[/URL]
[QUOTE=CondomPopper1;7353363]I received a message today from the woman up north, and she offered a rate of $80 for a half-hour session, with double that amount if she and her "sister" are both involved. I inquired whether she would be willing to make the hour-long drive and stay in a hotel if she received sufficient interest. She responded that she would be open to the idea. If enough of us reach out to her, there's a good chance both of them might be willing to travel this way. Just offering my two.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/e8a28163-668e-48e2-a105-f342df4c34df[/URL][/QUOTE]Your link is to a message, not her profile page. Thanks.
[QUOTE=HorseFeed;7353999]Your link is to a message, not her profile page. Thanks.[/QUOTE]I hope admin can and will take down the other post. I can always change my number.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/efc8bff5-a8fc-476b-b3c0-f3cd46fdf07c[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a6d7c032-6cca-430d-b3f5-cc1d19172122[/URL]
Ari is a scam. She shows up to room. Asks for money upfront. When you least expect it cash and dash.
Please setup dates with her and waste her time.
[QUOTE=BareOnly2018;7333458]So I had to get back on SA. My regular is ghosting me. Been busy texting a new this weekend. Decided to see Lucca. Nice black girl, age is accurate. Small A cups with responsive nipples. Push got wet as I kept eating. GFE experienced as everything was on table. I didn't ask or try for anal. Skinny with a booty that worked for me. Long braids if that bothers you. Has her own place off of palm beach dr and Marsh. 400 was rich for me but I keep getting numbers between 4-5 and she could host so. Got to pop twice. I'd see her again but won't be visiting as frequently with the 400 price tag. Pm me if you have any questions.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b35f35e0-e140-4578-b736-c631fcf19265[/URL][/QUOTE]We were communicating on SA chat and then I had to go out of town and when I back her ad was deactivated. Have you seen her since this post or do you mind sharing her digits? Thanks.
[QUOTE=CondomPopper1;7353363]I received a message today from the woman up north, and she offered a rate of $80 for a half-hour session, with double that amount if she and her "sister" are both involved. I inquired whether she would be willing to make the hour-long drive and stay in a hotel if she received sufficient interest. She responded that she would be open to the idea. If enough of us reach out to her, there's a good chance both of them might be willing to travel this way. Just offering my two.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/e8a28163-668e-48e2-a105-f342df4c34df[/URL][/QUOTE]She has reached out to me. But I'm closer and can do incall. Did you happen to meet her? She's real? Pic's accurate?
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d8f8d4872048b877[/URL]
She's darker skin American born Latina. Short 5-3 ish exactly as her pics on the site!
No games, no cat fishing and on time.
Short a curvy is my thingy no disrespect to fellow mongers fond of skinny girls.
I loved her curves, all natural breasts and cute face.
Take a look at her pics on SB. That's EXACTLY what you get! No filters, no edited pics and such. Love it.
Great conversation, she has a very interesting story to tell.
Couple of vodka shots, shower and in the desert all on the table.
BBBJ, cfs -my choice- all positions available didn't ask for Greek not my thing.
She loves to DFK and cuddle, that's my thing LOL, and she loves her kitty being eaten. She got the big O couple of times I believe.
3 hours 200+tip which is more than reasonable today's prices out there.
Her coms can be spotty as she's working her bud off to feed her mom a 2 under age kids. Kudos and respect!
She's a kind and very sexy person in my books.
Treat her well she's a bunch of kindness.
Run don't walk you'll thank me later.
Rn out.
Does anyone have experience with this one? I love Brazilians. Although she looks like it could possibly be a trans situation. I am not into it if they are, but if she is a just a really fit / muscular woman then I'm down.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=73337398&nsp=1[/URL]
[QUOTE=BeNewAgain;7369414]Does anyone have experience with this one? I love Brazilians. Although she looks like it could possibly be a trans situation. I am not into it if they are, but if she is a just a really fit / muscular woman then I'm down.
[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73337398&nsp=1[/URL][/QUOTE]I found most trans people on these sites put something in their bio to avoid misunderstandings, but I don't see anything in her bio (yes, she mentions "unprejudiced" but I don't think that's code something) or in the Moments (good to see how someone has changed their profile text). Of course, she's had work done (tits, maybe her ass), she does seem like she has a masculine face in some poses, but I think just because she's really built. Guys tend to develop more upper-body muscle, while women are better at lower-body, and she doesn't seem to have a bigger top-half to me.
I'd say try to message her and see if she says anything ("by the way. ".
[QUOTE=Rn239;7365211][URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d8f8d4872048b877[/URL]
She's darker skin American born Latina. Short 5-3 ish exactly as her pics on the site!
No games, no cat fishing and on time.
Short a curvy is my thingy no disrespect to fellow mongers fond of skinny girls.
I loved her curves, all natural breasts and cute face.
Take a look at her pics on SB. That's EXACTLY what you get! No filters, no edited pics and such. Love it.
Great conversation, she has a very interesting story to tell.
Couple of vodka shots, shower and in the desert all on the table.
BBBJ, cfs -my choice- all positions available didn't ask for Greek not my thing.
She loves to DFK and cuddle, that's my thing LOL, and she loves her kitty being eaten. She got the big O couple of times I believe.
3 hours 200+tip which is more than reasonable today's prices out there.
Her coms can be spotty as she's working her bud off to feed her mom a 2 under age kids. Kudos and respect!
She's a kind and very sexy person in my books.
Treat her well she's a bunch of kindness.
Run don't walk you'll thank me later.
Rn out.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the review. Can she host? Might reach out to he, sounds fun.
[QUOTE=BornToFish;7371960]Thanks for the review. Can she host? Might reach out to he, sounds fun.[/QUOTE]No she can't.