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Just a Warning
Saw Candy Redd aka Corinne over a year ago and had some very good experiences. It wasn't long after we had had several encounters she came to me desperate for financial aid. I refused having heard this story many times before from others. She went away for a while and reappeared late last year. We picked back up where we had left off and then in March of this year she came to me again with another request for aid. This time I went for it and loaned her an amount that I could have had at least four very good dreams with. I have helped others before and I realize the risk and I usually expect the worst but I don't let it get to me. This time was different. When someone tells me "my word is my bond" I take that seriously. Needless to say she had some issues in paying me back and we had numerous messages back and forth and I offered her any number of ways to make restitution but after about a month of all this she disappeared again until resurfacing now.
I don't expect to see a dime from her. Gave up on that a while back but it infuriates me when someone just casually uses someone's trust. This is not right! Gf60
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[QUOTE=GrayWolf60; 1876062]Saw Candy Redd aka Corinne over a year ago and had some very good experiences. It wasn't long after we had had several encounters she came to me desperate for financial aid. I refused having heard this story many times before from others. She went away for a while and reappeared late last year. We picked back up where we had left off and then in March of this year she came to me again with another request for aid. This time I went for it and loaned her an amount that I could have had at least four very good dreams with. I have helped others before and I realize the risk and I usually expect the worst but I don't let it get to me. This time was different. When someone tells me "my word is my bond" I take that seriously. Needless to say she had some issues in paying me back and we had numerous messages back and forth and I offered her any number of ways to make restitution but after about a month of all this she disappeared again until resurfacing now.
I don't expect to see a dime from her. Gave up on that a while back but it infuriates me when someone just casually uses someone's trust. This is not right! Gf60[/QUOTE]It's one of those lessons that we have probably all learned. Never "loan" money to a provider, as it will never be paid back. The reality is that we are just ATMs to just about all of them and are viewed as expendable. Suckers to be played. She wasn't ever really going to pay you back. She roped you in and milked you for as much as she could without doing anything in return. She is probably more annoyed that you have the nerve to ask for your money to be paid back (that is likely how she sees it). You aren't alone, though, as I learned this the hard way with another provider. It's always one story or another. They will keep coming back and trying to squeeze you for more money and another "loan" until you set boundaries and stop forking over cash to people that you think are "friends". They don't really change, they just tell a new story or come up with a new scam. Just move on and don't ever give her another dime.
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[QUOTE=Spoonful;1876141]It's one of those lessons that we have probably all learned. Never "loan" money to a provider, as it will never be paid back. The reality is that we are just ATMs to just about all of them and are viewed as expendable. Suckers to be played. She wasn't ever really going to pay you back. She roped you in and milked you for as much as she could without doing anything in return. She is probably more annoyed that you have the nerve to ask for your money to be paid back (that is likely how she sees it). You aren't alone, though, as I learned this the hard way with another provider. It's always one story or another. They will keep coming back and trying to squeeze you for more money and another "loan" until you set boundaries and stop forking over cash to people that you think are "friends". They don't really change, they just tell a new story or come up with a new scam. Just move on and don't ever give her another dime.[/QUOTE]You know, that post was in the cross hairs. We have all been down that road before. Hell that post should be required reading before you start the hobby. Basic provider 101.
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Lessons
[QUOTE=Mike1701;1876185]You know, that post was in the cross hairs. We have all been down that road before. Hell that post should be required reading before you start the hobby. Basic provider 101.[/QUOTE]We have all been exposed to this lesson, but the big head says no and the little head keeps falling for it.
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[QUOTE=Mike1701;1876185]You know, that post was in the cross hairs. We have all been down that road before. Hell that post should be required reading before you start the hobby. Basic provider 101.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=Dj3813;1876201]We have all been exposed to this lesson, but the big head says no and the little head keeps falling for it.[/QUOTE]There are three lessons to be learned. First, never loan money or do a favor for a provider without some form of compensation. Second, never trust the women in this business. Lastly, money is always the end game. No need to lecture GWolf; we are all much wiser after his experience.
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[QUOTE=Moments;1876279]There are three lessons to be learned. First, never loan money or do a favor for a provider without some form of compensation. Second, never trust the women in this business. Lastly, money is always the end game. No need to lecture GWolf; we are all much wiser after his experience.[/QUOTE]I wasn't doing a lecture, just saying that we have all been there. Trying to make GWolf know he isn't the only one.
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[QUOTE=GrayWolf60; 1876062]Saw Candy Redd aka Corinne over a year ago and had some very good experiences. It wasn't long after we had had several encounters she came to me desperate for financial aid. I refused having heard this story many times before from others. She went away for a while and reappeared late last year. We picked back up where we had left off and then in March of this year she came to me again with another request for aid. This time I went for it and loaned her an amount that I could have had at least four very good dreams with. I have helped others before and I realize the risk and I usually expect the worst but I don't let it get to me. This time was different. When someone tells me "my word is my bond" I take that seriously. Needless to say she had some issues in paying me back and we had numerous messages back and forth and I offered her any number of ways to make restitution but after about a month of all this she disappeared again until resurfacing now.
I don't expect to see a dime from her. Gave up on that a while back but it infuriates me when someone just casually uses someone's trust. This is not right! Gf60[/QUOTE]There is nothing wrong man with having a heart. I think the majority of us I the hobby do. Just be careful with who you help.
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Appreciate That
[QUOTE=Cat Daddy #2;1876472]There is nothing wrong man with having a heart. I think the majority of us I the hobby do. Just be careful with who you help.[/QUOTE]Thank you CD; you understand. You put out a call for helping a young lady in distress around Labor Day. I responded within an hour. I have assisted many but a lie is not in my vocabulary. When a man or woman gives me their word I believe the commitment. That is the bond. Trust me, the money is not the issue but the "lie" is. This is the only time that it has upset me. You have a fairly good feel how I roll. Our mutual friend called me today and calmed me down and I love him for that. I can handle the "game" but lies send me into a frenzy. Just a crazy Scorpio Wolf. Gf60
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One More Note
[QUOTE=Mike1701;1876420]I wasn't doing a lecture, just saying that we have all been there. Trying to make GWolf know he isn't the only one.[/QUOTE]Thanks to the brothers out there who I sense have been burned by the "masters of manipulation" as a good friend on this this site described them to me. So to you newbies and to some extent the old hands, beware and treat this as a business no matter how intense and intimate a relationship can seem. Enough of this. Happy hunting and enjoy. Gf60
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Isn't that the truth
[QUOTE=Mike1701;1876185]You know, that post was in the cross hairs. We have all been down that road before. Hell that post should be required reading before you start the hobby. Basic provider 101.[/QUOTE]Not to beat a dead horse but yes, we have almost all fallen for that at one time or another. Some of us have hearts and we feel for them, unfortunately, they (providers) , don't feel the same. Live and learn. Required reading, good one Mike.
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It just like
Putting 100 in the salvation army bucket at Christmas and expecting change, you just don't do it.
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Callie from Texas
Had a date with Callie on BP with Texas number. Not very happy.
Saw her ad on BP. Picture shows a spinner type blonde so called. She returned call in 10 min says available so I asked a hhr appoint for $.5. She was trying to sell for a whole hr but I said No thanks and I am busy.
Met her in her incall hotel near poplar. The girl open the door probably not the girl on BP, definitely more fat at abs. She was a 8/10 looking and friendly at beginning so decided stay. However after she took the donation, things start go south. First tried avoid kisses, then right after she put you down in bed the cover comes on (too rushed). We did cg, doggy then Mish at bedside.
In a few short min, she started rush me to finish. Finally while I trying to reposition her, she got out of bed, said "your time is up".
I looked my watch, it was 12 min from I walked in the hotel!
I've seen over a hundred providers and has been always respectful. This is the first time I got kicked out within 15 min. She may had bad day but the behavior is not acceptable.
I left quite pissed off and told her I will leave a review.
[URL]http://memphis.backpage.com/FemaleEs...ics-24/9427532[/URL]
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Kimora
I just noticed that Kimora has changed her name to "Sunshine". Maybe her bad rep was finally catching up to her. Still looks like she is using the same number, so she isn't trying too hard to throw people off. She doesn't really have too, though, as far too many Backpage users don't read reviews.
[URL]http://memphis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/tall-statuesque-blonde-to-warm-your-soul-24/5188043[/URL]
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Pink
Stay far away. She just lost her Memphis pass. Any calls from her should be ignored. She is scamming and on the run. Aries is a jewel and now on her own. Any Senior members may contact me for info. Peace.
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Seriously Stay Away
[QUOTE=TumblingDice8;1951727]I just noticed that Kimora has changed her name to "Sunshine". Maybe her bad rep was finally catching up to her. Still looks like she is using the same number, so she isn't trying too hard to throw people off. She doesn't really have too, though, as far too many Backpage users don't read reviews.
[URL]http://memphis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/tall-statuesque-blonde-to-warm-your-soul-24/5188043[/URL][/QUOTE]She is very dangerous...I know a couple of guys over the years that have been robbed at gunpoint by her henchmen. This is more than a cash and dash.