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[QUOTE=Dsrtp1;2308912]Oh my gosh, I feel even worse now. After reading many of your posts throughout the years, I would have sworn you were with a lot more providers. My best guess is I'm over 5,000 different providers and I'm also in my mid 40's. Am I an addict? Fuck yeah. I'm about to go get my second piece of ass of the day on Christmas eve.[/QUOTE]And I thought I had it bad. Wow! Those are staggering numbers. We'll have to talk sometime.
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Guys,
Ever go at it heavy for a while,. Lap dances, girl friend, wife, self stimulation etc. . and notice people kind of staring at your face the next day or two? I'm surprised this is not written or spoken about more often. Seems that the married women are the most quick to notice. What is it? A fatigue that causes the mouth to frown a bit? Or just an overall look of tiredness? I'm sure I'm not imagining it. Even a friend of mine who works at a fire dept. Can't get by the ribbing of the guys the next day after some good sex with his wife! The Guys know! Any supplements that would help with this or just a good week or two of good sleep and veggies? I'm surprised this is not mentioned more often. Any comments?
It ain't over til it's over; hopefully it finally is beginning tomorrow. Joining SA group and probably others in my area. Got married recently and want to honor that.
I'm fighting against 20-plus years of acting out and 2,500 posts on here over 13 years. But do I want to die like this? Rather not. Trying to rally in the 4th quarter. God help me.
Get in touch via PM if you're interested.
I went overseas when I joined the military. I was young and horny. I couldn't find any regular girls to date, even though I really tried. I went to the clubs with my friends and I couldn't get a single date. A friend told me about the red light district and for $20 (this was about 25 years ago) you could have your pick of the girls in the sex hotels. I did that for 2 years but when I got back stateside, I had many girlfriends and didn't have to pay for it. A few years later, I was working with a travelling construction crew and those guys showed me the ins and outs of trolling the streets and finding girls. I trolled whenever I didn't have a girlfriend. I was always faithful to my girlfriends over the years.
However, when I reached 34, my fiancee started using sex as a weapon against me and I found myself going back to the streets. I have been trolling the streets ever since. We broke up about 4 years ago and ever since then I have reached new lows in this hobby. I went from craigslist, to street girls, to homeless girls to approaching any girl that might be walking by. I spent a lot of time on the West coast and I was cruising and walking the streets, talking to girls and getting them to put out. I hung around methadone clinics, libraries, bars. Anywhere I thought I could find a girl who was down on her luck, homeless or addicted. I had about a 75% success rate in getting BBBJ or FS. There was even a girl in my apartment complex who had huge tits (what I was into at the time) and I wore her down and got her to blow me for. 20 . I'm not proud of those things, but I did become very adept at talking these girls into sex. Sometimes it only cost me a cheeseburger or a pack of cigarettes.
Now, I pretty much troll the streets every day and my new thing is crack / meth girls. I like the super skinny look and I try to find girls with no teeth or false teeth for a better BBBJ. Sick right? I don't mean any harm to these girls and I feel bad for them, but I have to get my fix, which is usually a BBBJ. I've been single for a few years now and I've become obese, I'm severely balding, have erection problems and everything is not looking too good for me. I tried talking to a counselor about it, but they really didn't seem interested in helping me. One counselor even told me it was normal. Normal? Driving the streets at 2 am looking for crack girls is normal?
I don't know what to do anymore. The few legitimate dates I have been on, I didn't know how to even treat a normal girl anymore because I'm so used to dealing with street girls. Everytime I put my mind to it, to quit, I will just happen to see a homeless chick walking by and I feel like if I don't approach her, that I'm somehow losing out.
I'm pushing 50 and have always considered myself a Christian. I know this is wrong, morally and ethically (my opinion) and I think I should be trying to find a nice, normal girlfriend. Which has been very hard because of my obesity. On the other hand, I'm making real good money now and can afford to travel. I keep thinking about a trip to Thailand or other parts of the world, just to monger. I thought, maybe that is how I should be living my life, having sex with many random girls.
Thanks for reading, just wanted to share.
[QUOTE=RockStar60;2596312]...Everytime I put my mind to it, to quit, I will just happen to see a homeless chick walking by and I feel like if I don't approach her, that I'm somehow losing out.[/QUOTE]I know EXACTLY how you feel brother. It feels like an unrelenting compulsion.
Dr. Drew interviews a Sex Addict who was able to recover. There's hope for us all:
[URL]http://podbay.fm/show/592284993/e/1367822657?autostart=1[/URL]
I didn't know USASG had this thread regarding sex addiction.
For me, I could say that I like mongering.
However, in my case, it's just hard, very hard, for me to find a decent girlfriend, let alone, be in a non-platonic relationship.
So yes, I have been in some relationships. But none of them included sex. Boring. I also broke up with my ex GF five months ago, so hence, I am back to mongering.
Trying my best to stay away from this, but when loneliness and horniness creeps in, it's very difficult for me to withstand the temptation. =).
5 k,15 k, mere amateurs, shit I bet I'm over 30 k LOL.
So I am thinking I need some help I spend about 500 a month on the hobby why I have a wife and a young daughter. Tonight I went to a strip club and got head for 80 but just felt extremely bad on the drive back as I left thanksgiving with family to get a quick nut. In the past year I have probably spent 8 k in the hobby while I make around 38 k. If someone can link me up with a SA group in Louisville please send a PM.
[QUOTE=TipsTipsTips;2698433]So I am thinking I need some help I spend about 500 a month on the hobby why I have a wife and a young daughter. Tonight I went to a strip club and got head for 80 but just felt extremely bad on the drive back as I left thanksgiving with family to get a quick nut. In the past year I have probably spent 8 k in the hobby while I make around 38 k. If someone can link me up with a SA group in Louisville please send a PM.[/QUOTE]You have a wife you can chill with. Maybe see if she'll go to a swinger joint so you don't have to pay for working girls no more. It's a pain to stop but it can be done, just replace it with other activities.
[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;2767411]Hey, that s*cks, it really sucks! Sorry to learn about that "loss!" These girls are irritating at times and then they pull this garbage! Jeez. I've had that happen to me before and it stinks. What makes it worse is it seems so obvious, er, except when one is in the middle of it!
But I give you props for posting the bad experience and warning to others! Very few would do that, instead prefering to forgot the whole thing and wander off. So kudos for the report!
Don't quit over a bad incident. Just learn from it a go on! You'll be a better player in the future.
In fact, had a girl recently try to pull something like this on me and that caused me to create Rule #23!
[URL] http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?13919-My-Suggestions.-Rules-For-BackPage&p=2740120&viewfull=1#post2740120 [/URL][/QUOTE]I'm not ending my mongering career because of being ripped off, anyone that has done this for any length of time has probably gotten ripped off at some point or another, I actually chalk it up as part of the cost of doing business. My decision to call it quits has been a long time in coming, it's time for me. The main reason for my retirement is I recognize I have developed a serious addiction which has been intruding into all aspects of my life for some time now. All I think about these days is what piece of ass am I going to fuck today. Not a day goes by where I'm not checking out USA and BP to see what's available to satisfy my carnal urging's. These urging's over time have escalated, becoming increasingly risky and provocative. I've decided this isn't the way I truly want to live my life so I'm trying to make a lifestyle change. I know it's not going to be easy! I've quit addiction's to drugs and tobacco and believe this will be harder to walk away from then either of those put together times ten! So hard as a mater of fact I'm thinking about seeking professional help, something I never did with my past addictions. I've been on quite the rampage this last month or so in anticipation of my departure. I thought it would be nice to go out with a huge fuckfest and have done my best to fuck every atf who's still working and a number of new providers as well. I'm almost finished, just a few more and I'm done. Time to pass the torch to a whole new generation of mongers and of course there's still plenty of old mongers out there to keep the young bucks in line! Good luck and be safe my brothers. Oh, I will have a couple of last parting posts just to remind everyone Jdog had some game! JD.
[QUOTE=JaxDog;2768057]I'm not ending my mongering career because of being ripped off, anyone that has done this for any length of time has probably gotten ripped off at some point or another, I actually chalk it up as part of the cost of doing business. My decision to call it quits has been a long time in coming, it's time for me. The main reason for my retirement is I recognize I have developed a serious addiction which has been intruding into all aspects of my life for some time now. All I think about these days is what piece of ass am I going to fuck today. Not a day goes by where I'm not checking out USA and BP to see what's available to satisfy my carnal urging's. These urging's over time have escalated, becoming increasingly risky and provocative. I've decided this isn't the way I truly want to live my life so I'm trying to make a lifestyle change. I know it's not going to be easy! I've quit addiction's to drugs and tobacco and believe this will be harder to walk away from then either of those put together times ten! So hard as a mater of fact I'm thinking about seeking professional help, something I never did with my past addictions. I've been on quite the rampage this last month or so in anticipation of my departure. I thought it would be nice to go out with a huge fuckfest and have done my best to fuck every atf who's still working and a number of new providers as well. I'm almost finished, just a few more and I'm done. Time to pass the torch to a whole new generation of mongers and of course there's still plenty of old mongers out there to keep the young bucks in line! Good luck and be safe my brothers. Oh, I will have a couple of last parting posts just to remind everyone Jdog had some game! JD.[/QUOTE]Cheers to your step towards sobriety my friend!
[QUOTE=JaxDog;2768057]I'm not ending my mongering career because of being ripped off, anyone that has done this for any length of time has probably gotten ripped off at some point or another, I actually chalk it up as part of the cost of doing business. My decision to call it quits has been a long time in coming, it's time for me. The main reason for my retirement is I recognize I have developed a serious addiction which has been intruding into all aspects of my life for some time now. All I think about these days is what piece of ass am I going to fuck today. Not a day goes by where I'm not checking out USA and BP to see what's available to satisfy my carnal urging's. These urging's over time have escalated, becoming increasingly risky and provocative. I've decided this isn't the way I truly want to live my life so I'm trying to make a lifestyle change. I know it's not going to be easy! I've quit addiction's to drugs and tobacco and believe this will be harder to walk away from then either of those put together times ten! So hard as a mater of fact I'm thinking about seeking professional help, something I never did with my past addictions. I've been on quite the rampage this last month or so in anticipation of my departure. I thought it would be nice to go out with a huge fuckfest and have done my best to fuck every atf who's still working and a number of new providers as well. I'm almost finished, just a few more and I'm done. Time to pass the torch to a whole new generation of mongers and of course there's still plenty of old mongers out there to keep the young bucks in line! Good luck and be safe my brothers. Oh, I will have a couple of last parting posts just to remind everyone Jdog had some game! JD.[/QUOTE]JD, I applaud your decision to walk away. I know where you're at as I have been in the same place for quite some time. I've been chasing providers now for more than 24 years. If I had saved the tens of thousands of dollars spent on satisfying my primal urges I'd be able to retire today. But that was a choice I made and while I've enjoyed myself I do have regrets. I wish I could walk away to and many times I've sworn off seeing providers. But the thing is, with my hand held devise, I haven't been able to. Everyday I find myself checking out the providers on backpage and reading up on the postings on this site. I sometimes think the only way to stop is to get rid of my devise. No, I'm not transferring blame, I'm accountable, but I feel strongly that my devise has hindered overcoming my own personal demons.
Anyway, I think the only way to really quit is to make up your mind and quit. You said you have quit tobacco and drug addiction's without help. That has to be because you have some self discipline. Use that same self discipline in your quest to walk away from this addiction. Just do it, walk away and be strong enough to STOP yourself from surfing the Internet and dialing up that provider. You can do it! I for one understand and am pulling for you. I hope I can find the inner strength to do the same.
Good luck JD!