Safe Sex Information and Advice

[QUOTE=LuckyGandor;1943403]Wow rest stop, that's hot, tell us how that came about exactly? She just asked for money and you suggested the means of supply?

General question about BBBJ: I had my first provider about a month ago. It was a well reviewed one on here, the experience was fine and exciting but I don't think my mental state is cut out for the hobby. After receiving a BBBJ for like 1-2 min and covered rest, I've been paranoid about catching whatever. Then again it seems like everyone is receiving BBBJ when available. Has anyone had any issues with BBBJ or are the chances just ultra slim from getting anything from that?

Thanks![/QUOTE]The chances are less than with BBFS, but it's still definitely possible to catch something. If you need to make sure you don't catch anything, keep it covered at all times.

[QUOTE=PlayTiem;1943695]The chances are less than with BBFS, but it's still definitely possible to catch something. If you need to make sure you don't catch anything, keep it covered at all times.[/QUOTE]Yes, I guess my point was that most posting here seem to be fine with BBBJ and not really that concerned with catching anything. Is that because the risks are much lower?

[QUOTE=LuckyGandor;1944061]Yes, I guess my point was that most posting here seem to be fine with BBBJ and not really that concerned with catching anything. Is that because the risks are much lower?[/QUOTE]Just because something is risky or dumb doesn't mean people won't do it.

At some point I went to the CDC web site and looked up the stats, but I don't remember the numbers off the top of my head, but they don't really matter because getting something from BBBJ is definitely possible.

If dealing with some discomfort and having to take some meds is your only significant concern if you get something, then that's one thing. If you'd need to have a conversation with someone else about why they need to go get tested, then you need to think about how that would affect your life.

Not trying to sound at all preachy here (lord knows I've done some risky things in my life! Just want to give you an honest and accurate accounting of things. Happy mongering.

This is a new one! She posted a photo of some HIV results! Haha!

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[QUOTE=PlayTiem;1944578]Just because something is risky or dumb doesn't mean people won't do it.

At some point I went to the CDC web site and looked up the stats, but I don't remember the numbers off the top of my head, but they don't really matter because getting something from BBBJ is definitely possible.

If dealing with some discomfort and having to take some meds is your only significant concern if you get something, then that's one thing. If you'd need to have a conversation with someone else about why they need to go get tested, then you need to think about how that would affect your life.

Not trying to sound at all preachy here (lord knows I've done some risky things in my life! Just want to give you an honest and accurate accounting of things. Happy mongering.[/QUOTE]You can get the clap from BBBJ. It happened to me in college solved by a simple shot. All it needs is a warm moist environment... Say a gals mouth and throat. The big question is HIV transmission thru oral. I know that doctors / health agencies say its possible. A university of california study says 4 out of 10,000 chance.

All of this BBBJ hysteria really has me concerned. Let's say I'm a young jack rabbit and get to a provider quickly enough. I go to a public restroom in a bar etc, to jack off. I'm in such a hurry, of course, that I forget to wash my hands. Oops, now what? Hordes of unsanitary microbes cross my piss hole's DMZ and go up my urethra to destroy my kidneys. Wow, I may have even done worse than that in using bar soap to wash my hands first. Can you imagine the kind of boot camp the micro organisms on the surface of something as that must have gone through? Geez, what else is there to do but knock out half my immune system with something like Cipro etc? Maybe we ought to wear surgical gloves to take a leak or rubber up before jacking off, but even then, we'll start worrying about whether the robot, who has packaged this stuff, hasn't just been taken out of a roach infested shipping container. This sort of thing reminds of two year olds being fixated on the potty.

[QUOTE=Lhmagic;1955259]A couple days later, it stings when I pee and I've got a cloudy substance that comes out the tip of my head. I did the research and I'm pretty sure just the bacteria from her tounge licking my head without a condom on has got me fucked up. I'm hitting up a clinic on Tuesday to clear up this matter. [/QUOTE]Get to a medical clinic today, don't wait until Tuesday. Try one of those walk in clinics that are open 365 days per year; they will probably do a urine test but likely treat you before the lab results are returned. Waiting another 3 days to get treatment will give the bacteria 3 days extra to cause additional damage within your urinary tract and other parts of your body. These things can get very painful if they are not treated promptly, I learned that the hard way several years ago.

As much as you want to believe that these girls get tested, they don't. 99.9% don't get tested. The only time they leave the establishment for a long time is to get their hair done and at some trusted AMPs, some go out to have fun and meet with mongers and such. They believe that the condom over during the BJ prevents everything. A lot are over due on their visa and don't go to health clinics insurance or not free or not. No info needed no real info needed. It does not matter, girls tell me personally they haven't gotten tested. When they first meet you they will of course tell you they get tested every 2 months or something. The illegal ones go to a shady Korean Gyno who will do testing everything just pay cash you know how things work.

My friend get that thing checked out immediately, pray its nothing serious and some sntibiotics can take it away after a weeks worth of prescriptions.

Sam Katz aka AMPimp.

I understand what I got to do and the danger in all of this. Thanks for the words of wisdom, ill post up when I find out.

Indeed the majority of workers do not get tested for STDS. I've visited a few girls off the clock in the past for civilian meetings who asked me to bring her to a doctor.

I went to a tenement of off Parsons blvd. Once a few years back and went up to a 4th floor apartment in Flushing. Inside were cots and sick Asian women laying on them.

I saw garbage bags filled with used bio hazard materials just sitting near a garbage can.. All I can say is SCARY! There are quite a few (NON US Certified) Asian clinics flying under radar in NY alone serving Chinese herbal treatments...

I was recently diagnosed with HPV. It's by far the most common STD, but I'm convinced I got it from an AMP.

Here's why: HPV is spread through direct contact. If you've developed HPV warts on some area of your body, that means that area has come in contact with the virus. I first noticed warts around my asshole. At the time I was diagnosed, the Dr asked me if I've ever had unprotected anal intercourse. I haven't. However TS girls at AMP joints have come in contact with my asshole, and I've noticed one place in particular seems to use (and reuse) a loofa. *shudder*.

Now, I've got to get a colonoscopy, as HPV puts you at increased risk for rectal cancer (as it does cervical cancer in women).

So, be careful. Don't do anything unprotected, and be mindful of the hygiene practices of the place you're visiting.

[QUOTE=DeuceSlim;1956634]After the disappointment at EI, I texted a favorite of mine who I hadn't seen in a few months. Sent me her room number, I come up, and she greets me like we were long lost friends. We get comfortable, and she goes to work with those world class skills of hers. Now I had originally planned on hitting it doggy and going Greek, but after a couple minutes I just said 'fuck it' and let her keep doing what she does best. A few minutes later (20? 30? I don't know I lost all track of time) she's drinking a nice protein shake and even gave me some advice on how to make it taste sweeter for her for the next time. She warms up a rag to wipe me down, we talk for a couple more minutes, she gives me a big hug, and I'm out the door. Total damage: .5. Damn shame there are girls charging 2-4 x as much but aren't even half as good with their skills or their service.

If you haven't seen her, you should. It's harder for new guys to get in touch with her, but she's definitely worth it when you do. Even though she's a BBW, her skills more than make up for it.

[URL]http://washingtondc.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/latincandy-5080-special-real-pics-great-reviews-34/5011840[/URL][/QUOTE]OK! I have only been in the game a few years and Just have a question. Don't you guys ever worry about catching anything from the women that do BBBJ. I'm not only talking about stds but hepatitis and anything else. For me I used to hate wearing condoms but discovered one called lifestyles thin and that has worked great. Plenty of feeling along with protection. What kind of shocked me was when I was reading reviews of a provider I was seeing who ALWAYS told me you must wear protection. I looked at some of the other guys that had posted reviews and one of those guys was also seeing a lot TS.

Not that this person was carrying anything but its just wider exposure.

As much as I wouldve liked to run to the clinic the day I discovered the problem, I had to wait til I had a day off. Believe me I was there first thing in the morning. Now I searched for a bunch of clinics in the sj area online and they gave me quite a list. I went to the bellmawr clinic off of browning road first where payment was based on income and a sliding scale so I was given a weeks worth of doxy (they wouldve have given me zithromax but I guess they were worried about my allergies) for 15 bucks. I told them I was 100 percent positive that I had the symptoms of the clap.

Things is...I am currently in a relationship and we had sex between the time I went to fc and the day I found out I had the symptoms.

So what do I do?

I can't throw away the relationship with my childrens mom.

So...I went to another clinic in sj and did the same thing. This time I didn't give them my allergies. I also filled out the slip for a rapid hiv test. Why not I said.

They gave me a double shot (500 mg) of zithromax and sent me on my way. 115 dollars later, ouch.

So, I took the zithromax and I'm good so far. No discharge, no pain and no "urethra awareness".

I've had to slip my partner the doxy though, which I am ashamed to say. Its working so far and as much as I have had a blast in the AMPs...I don't want to go thru something like this again. Lying to my girl, dropping this money, constant worry about my equipment.. Its not worth it to me.

Be careful guys, especially the guys that love that bareback shit.

[QUOTE=MrLombardo1;1959411]OK! Just have a question. Don't you guys ever worry about catching anything from the women that do BBBJ. I looked at some of the other guys that had posted reviews and one of those guys was also seeing a lot TS.Not that this person was carrying anything but its just wider exposure.[/QUOTE]Different people have different amounts of risk that they are willing to accept. This hobby has risks. Condoms don't protect people from herpes and other skin on skin "ailments." I assume that all providers have a disease, because all of them will go BB if the $$ is right and they are comfortable enough with the client. Some guys in the hobby get BBBJ all of the time and even do BBFS, and have never gotten a STI. However, some poor schmuck that doesn't partake in the hobby may get herpes going down on his high school sweetheart. It is the luck of the draw, but the risk is there with anyone with whom you don't use a condom. Some people take more risks than others.

Also, this comes up from time to time, but I think that it has been addressed in the general topics thread, or in the Baltimore thread re: sex practices. You should check that out.

[QUOTE=MrLombardo1;1959411]OK! I have only been in the game a few years and Just have a question. Don't you guys ever worry about catching anything from the women that do BBBJ. I'm not only talking about stds but hepatitis and anything else. For me I used to hate wearing condoms but discovered one called lifestyles thin and that has worked great. Plenty of feeling along with protection. What kind of shocked me was when I was reading reviews of a provider I was seeing who ALWAYS told me you must wear protection. I looked at some of the other guys that had posted reviews and one of those guys was also seeing a lot TS.

Not that this person was carrying anything but its just wider exposure.[/QUOTE]Unless you have broken the skin on your junk and / or they have open sores in / on their mouth the risk of catching something from getting a BBBJ is extremely low compared to BBFS.

That said, the provider usually opts to wear condoms because she is obviously at a higher risk. Your fluids are already in contact with her mucus membranes, while hers would have to go through your skin.

I also get tested every few months or so just to be on the safe side.