Turning Lemons into Lemonade?
[QUOTE=BTNibbler;6993952]In the end she gave me nothing back cause I was leaving. You can tell it's her but of course she's knocked dwn a few notches by obvious usage.[/QUOTE]Sorry you had a rough experience and a financial loss. It stinks when it happens. But you aren't alone, most have run into a scam or two in the past.
So assuming you didn't burn the bridge on the way out (curse her out, call her a wh*re, sl*t, get physical with her or something) you might be able to work this to you advantage?
I had a girl scam me in the past and that after dating her several times, so one has to be on their toes at all times. So, after bidness dried up for her she came to her senses. She recognized I wanted regular meetings and was an OK guy. So she offered to do a couple of half-priced dates to make up for the scam before. Even 3 dates at 1/3rd off would have worked for me. But few girls, especially those that do drugs, are going to give a 'make-up' date for free. So I got a few make-up dates, she was grateful and now we are regular. In fact, If memory serves I probably gave her a little extra above the discounted price as a goodwill gesture and that worked wonders.
So IF one approaches things in a certain way, perhaps they can get a few discounted make-up dates and have a new regular?
Did she say why she would only do head? Is it possible she discovered she got her period just before you arrived? I know for me if a girl is on the rag it's a big PASS. Often girls are reluctant to say they are ragging or that they just got it so might just say 'head only. '.
I found mongering is always fraught with scammers or those who will take advantage. For me going into a date without confidence or looking weak and it is very tempting to girls to try to play me. Took me a while to recognize it is best to learn a few tricks before wandering into the arena. Perhaps one could take a look at 'the rules' and learn from that? There are some suggestions in that thread on how to not pay up front. Better way to learn, from the experience of others, than pizzing on the electric fence. Just saying.
Sorry for your loss! It stinks when it happens. Do a combat review and come out better on the other side!
Good luck!