Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

I usually get on seeking arrangements every couple years. I've always had success, but like everything else these girls come and go. It's difficult finding someone who can host, but they are out there. My advice is always treat them with respect and don't be afraid to go out and meet them in public first to calm their nerves, if that's what they want.

I've had a lot of luck with girls in their mid-20's just wanting some extra money. But eventually either I can't live up to the financial responsibility or they go and get a boyfriend or a relationship. But I've definitely met some of the hottest women I've ever slept with on that site.

Like others have said, I usually sign up for 30 days, try to make as many contacts as I can and then go from there.

Years ago I was on adult friend finder and Ashley Madison, but I haven't given either of those sites a try in well over five years. Not sure if there's better options out there or not.

I'm not a big fan of putting apps on my phone, but my friend says he's found a lot of women on tinder. He does not hide the fact that he's married and said he never has problems. He meets married women on there too. That's a little too risky for me.

Have anyone experienced this nerd. Pm me or reply to post with your experiences I am curious as she looks like pro.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ff8e0ef0-4ca7-4e4a-b957-0b4541b21e43[/URL]

[QUOTE=AdamEve7;5704167]Have anyone experienced this nerd. Pm me or reply to post with your experiences I am curious as she looks like pro.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ff8e0ef0-4ca7-4e4a-b957-0b4541b21e43[/URL][/QUOTE]Hate to break the bad news but I wouldn't be surprised if half are bona fide escorts, 25 percent close to full time sugar babies seeing 2-4 dudes a day, leaving 25 percent who are either just curious and kicking tires, college girls, picture and video sellers and true SBs looking for guys to buy them stuff. I've been on and off that site your years and SA changed for the worse once the feds shut down back page and made it impossible for agencies to survive. Once that happened 3-4 years ago, all the working girls and pimps went to SA and doubled their pricing.

[QUOTE=RyanBB;5708392]Hate to break the bad news but I wouldn't be surprised if half are bona fide escorts, 25 percent close to full time sugar babies seeing 2-4 dudes a day, leaving 25 percent who are either just curious and kicking tires, college girls, picture and video sellers and true SBs looking for guys to buy them stuff. I've been on and off that site your years and SA changed for the worse once the feds shut down back page and made it impossible for agencies to survive. Once that happened 3-4 years ago, all the working girls and pimps went to SA and doubled their pricing.[/QUOTE]That's very generalized overall opinion, I was looking info on this one specifically, thanks anyways.

Working out well for me== had a provider I was seeing about 2 times a month for at 2 years-- tripped all my triggers. She mentioned she had recovered custody of her 2 kids and wanted a "real" place for them, not motels. We worked out a deal 5 months ago- I'm paying her rent and get 4-5 all nighters a month-- and yes I know this is not an exclusive arrangement, she told me from the start she had 2 others regulars she would not cut off, which means there are more. Am I naive? Probably. Do I get everything I want without shopping? Yes. Is what I pay for 4-5 all nighters roughly the same as 6 1 hr visits? Yes.

Bottom line I get everything I want and she is essentially out of the "business" with her kids working a 40 hr job and supplementing with a few of her former regulars (probably doing pretty well financially).

Now go ahead and kick me!!

I see no reason to kick you. 4 or 5 all nighters a month for paying her rent isn't that bad of a deal really. You are getting a real GFE experience and probably getting to hit that 2 or 3 times during the night. I only concern is she may get attached to you? But since you aren't the only one, maybe that isn't a concern. You say for the price of 6 one hour visits? You are getting a lot more than that if you get to stay longer and cuddle and kiss over night and maybe a little morning nookie to boot?

[QUOTE=DogMan75;5711232]Working out well for me== had a provider I was seeing about 2 times a month for at 2 years-- tripped all my triggers. She mentioned she had recovered custody of her 2 kids and wanted a "real" place for them, not motels. We worked out a deal 5 months ago- I'm paying her rent and get 4-5 all nighters a month-- and yes I know this is not an exclusive arrangement, she told me from the start she had 2 others regulars she would not cut off, which means there are more. Am I naive? Probably. Do I get everything I want without shopping? Yes. Is what I pay for 4-5 all nighters roughly the same as 6 1 hr visits? Yes.

Bottom line I get everything I want and she is essentially out of the "business" with her kids working a 40 hr job and supplementing with a few of her former regulars (probably doing pretty well financially).

Now go ahead and kick me!![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DogMan75;5711232]Working out well for me== had a provider I was seeing about 2 times a month for at 2 years-- tripped all my triggers. She mentioned she had recovered custody of her 2 kids and wanted a "real" place for them, not motels. We worked out a deal 5 months ago- I'm paying her rent and get 4-5 all nighters a month-- and yes I know this is not an exclusive arrangement, she told me from the start she had 2 others regulars she would not cut off, which means there are more. Am I naive? Probably. Do I get everything I want without shopping? Yes. Is what I pay for 4-5 all nighters roughly the same as 6 1 hr visits? Yes.

Bottom line I get everything I want and she is essentially out of the "business" with her kids working a 40 hr job and supplementing with a few of her former regulars (probably doing pretty well financially).

Now go ahead and kick me!![/QUOTE]No sir. This is what a SB / SD relationship really is. Not this PPM BS. Pay some bills, help out with groceries, get the car fixed, take them shopping, etc.

You're doing just fine.

I had the same setup with a cute 20 something young lady before COVID. I paid her rent for 6 months ($850 per month) and I got a key to her place. She gave it to me. I damn near lived over there. .

All GFE. Never brought a condom and since I took care of the not have kids thing years ago, everything was perfect. She ended up moving to the midwest, but that was by far the best arrangement I have ever had. I would love to find another one like that. So No KICKING from me my brother. I get it and enjoy the fun.

[QUOTE=DogMan75;5711232]Working out well for me== had a provider I was seeing about 2 times a month for at 2 years-- tripped all my triggers. She mentioned she had recovered custody of her 2 kids and wanted a "real" place for them, not motels. We worked out a deal 5 months ago- I'm paying her rent and get 4-5 all nighters a month-- and yes I know this is not an exclusive arrangement, she told me from the start she had 2 others regulars she would not cut off, which means there are more. Am I naive? Probably. Do I get everything I want without shopping? Yes. Is what I pay for 4-5 all nighters roughly the same as 6 1 hr visits? Yes.

Bottom line I get everything I want and she is essentially out of the "business" with her kids working a 40 hr job and supplementing with a few of her former regulars (probably doing pretty well financially).

Now go ahead and kick me!![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DogMan75;5711232]Working out well for me== had a provider I was seeing about 2 times a month for at 2 years-- tripped all my triggers. She mentioned she had recovered custody of her 2 kids and wanted a "real" place for them, not motels. We worked out a deal 5 months ago- I'm paying her rent and get 4-5 all nighters a month-- and yes I know this is not an exclusive arrangement, she told me from the start she had 2 others regulars she would not cut off, which means there are more. Am I naive? Probably. Do I get everything I want without shopping? Yes. Is what I pay for 4-5 all nighters roughly the same as 6 1 hr visits? Yes.

Bottom line I get everything I want and she is essentially out of the "business" with her kids working a 40 hr job and supplementing with a few of her former regulars (probably doing pretty well financially).

Now go ahead and kick me!![/QUOTE]No kicking. Thats how a sugar baby arrangement works. Although there is some sort of a "low volume" expectation with a sugar baby, for example - A younger woman with a boyfriend her own age and then a discrete older sugar daddy. So she's only fucking two guys most of the time.

I had a similar deal a few years ago with a grad student. Very mature for her age. She had enough of the boyish bullshit from the guys she knew from school. She had two sugar daddies, me and another older guy. She would occasionally hook up with a young guy and then tell me about it. I'm somewhat of an amateur detective and she apparently was truthful with me from what I could find. I would bang her every Friday afternoon (I'm off work then) and the other would bang her every Wednesday (he was off work then). After about a year of this, we actually set up a DP with myself and her other sugar daddy (she loved greek.). The other guy and I didn't mesh well so it was a one time thing, but still fun. The whole deal ended when she got her masters and took a job far away. Still send an occasional text at holidays or her birthday. She basically had me paying her apt rent and the other man paying her car payment. I thought she was being very smart about the whole thing as student w / o a job but with a great body and sexual skills. Good for her. She makes great money now and doesn't sugar, but she has told me that she is hooked on dating guys at least ten years older than herself. Says they have their shit together and treat her better. I believe it.

So it happens. Its working out for you. Enjoy.

I expected to be taken to task for my arrangement-- but all the replies look at it like I did-- All the working girls I liked left the business or the area except the one I SD now-- I got tired of being disappointed with a new girl 4 times out of 5 and leaving totally unsatisfied for $150-250. Now its $1100 a month plus a motel bill every Monday night (why a motel bill when I'm renting her a house? She insulates her two kids) and no danger of not getting there 3-4 times (counting one in the morning). Plus I am dominant and she is now comfortable letting her submissive side out in a less professional environment.

It was interesting to see the responses.

If you paid her $1100 just to fuck her one time, that would be way too much. But you are fucking her several times a month and staying overnight. That is an entire different experience. If I had the money I would go for that myself. There is no reason to take you to task for that.

[QUOTE=DogMan75;5713053]I expected to be taken to task for my arrangement-- but all the replies look at it like I did-- All the working girls I liked left the business or the area except the one I SD now-- I got tired of being disappointed with a new girl 4 times out of 5 and leaving totally unsatisfied for $150-250. Now its $1100 a month plus a motel bill every Monday night (why a motel bill when I'm renting her a house? She insulates her two kids) and no danger of not getting there 3-4 times (counting one in the morning). Plus I am dominant and she is now comfortable letting her submissive side out in a less professional environment.

It was interesting to see the responses.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DogMan75;5713053]I expected to be taken to task for my arrangement-- but all the replies look at it like I did-- All the working girls I liked left the business or the area except the one I SD now-- I got tired of being disappointed with a new girl 4 times out of 5 and leaving totally unsatisfied for $150-250. Now its $1100 a month plus a motel bill every Monday night (why a motel bill when I'm renting her a house? She insulates her two kids) and no danger of not getting there 3-4 times (counting one in the morning). Plus I am dominant and she is now comfortable letting her submissive side out in a less professional environment.

It was interesting to see the responses.[/QUOTE]If I was a younger guy, I'd take that deal any day of the week.

[QUOTE=DogMan75;5713053]I expected to be taken to task for my arrangement-- but all the replies look at it like I did-- All the working girls I liked left the business or the area except the one I SD now-- I got tired of being disappointed with a new girl 4 times out of 5 and leaving totally unsatisfied for $150-250. Now its $1100 a month plus a motel bill every Monday night (why a motel bill when I'm renting her a house? She insulates her two kids) and no danger of not getting there 3-4 times (counting one in the morning). Plus I am dominant and she is now comfortable letting her submissive side out in a less professional environment.

It was interesting to see the responses.[/QUOTE]Sounds like a smart business deal to me. Every time you meet a new girl you're rolling the dice so you more or less de-risked the situation.

I saw her a few weeks ago at her place, and to me it was the best GFE ever! (for a first time visit) and it seemed like she was having fun too.

But now she's not answering my messages on SA and I do not have any other way to contact her.

Have any of you guys seen her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6cdf56af-997a-4d0c-b8a0-91bdf53adb6d[/URL]

[QUOTE=MyAsianFix;5714800]I saw her a few weeks ago at her place, and to me it was the best GFE ever! (for a first time visit) and it seemed like she was having fun too.

But now she's not answering my messages on SA and I do not have any other way to contact her.

Have any of you guys seen her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6cdf56af-997a-4d0c-b8a0-91bdf53adb6d[/URL][/QUOTE]Doesn't look like she has signed in a while, so she is not reading site messages. Could had been just in town for a short stay, or on the site for a quick atm withdraw. Who knows what these chicks game is anymore.