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[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO; 1834399]I had accounts on both sites and currently active on both.
I see many fellows here have great success with SD4M, but for my area (Hartford, CT) , both qualities and quantities are far behind that of SA.
Curious if this varied significantly by areas. Would love to hear from others, where do you hunt?[/QUOTE]I think most agree that sd4me is more nando 1 territory. I like it because it has a lot of young AA spinners that ready willing and able.
[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO; 1834399]I had accounts on both sites and currently active on both.
I see many fellows here have great success with SD4M, but for my area (Hartford, CT) , both qualities and quantities are far behind that of SA.
Curious if this varied significantly by areas. Would love to hear from others, where do you hunt?[/QUOTE]I've tried SD4M for their 3 day free trials on a couple of different occasions and I didn't have any success at all. I actually like SA an awful lot but my success rate has been awfully low there when I fish locally. On the other hand, when I used SA to fish for temporary SBs for a Vegas trip, my cup was overflowing with responses. So I suspect my lack of success locally with SA has more to do with my area than anything else. My best two SBs yet have both come from CL ads that I posted. Though CL has its own problems, I still favor that over either SA or SD4M.
[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO; 1834399]I had accounts on both sites and currently active on both.
I see many fellows here have great success with SD4M, but for my area (Hartford, CT) , both qualities and quantities are far behind that of SA.
Curious if this varied significantly by areas. Would love to hear from others, where do you hunt?[/QUOTE]I truly believe, as has been said, that SD4Me and SA vary according to geographical location, and of course, what kind of baby you are looking for. In my area, Chicago, I very much prefer SA over SD4Me, both in terms of quantity, but more importantly, quality. A while back I took advantage of the 3-day trial period on SD, (which turned into a 45 day access glitch, yay!) and found at least 75 to 80% of the babies on there were pros. In all fairness, my hot nursing student and my HYM both came from there, both of whom I continue to see, and both of whom are happy with a lower dose of sugar than my SA babies.
Now that I think of it, both of them are insatiable in bed as well. Hmmm, I may need to rethink this LOL! I do find the intellectual level of babies on SA to be higher, and thus the "added intangibles" package is greater. For me, at least, I want a connection that goes beyond the FC, and I find that, on a whole, the babies on SA are better educated, more well-rounded, and less in the Nando 1 territory.
I think the advice I would give to any new brother is to try them both and see which one you prefer, knowing things vary by area.
And, as always, don't forget to write!
Scott
How about if we all stop posting until at least 3 new guys post. Lurkers / newbies cmon. Seems like the same 10 guys do all the posting. I think I posted on the site my first day. It was probably lame, but so what. No newbie bashing for the first 3 new posters. LOL
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1835734]How about if we all stop posting until at least 3 new guys post. Lurkers / newbies cmon. Seems like the same 10 guys do all the posting. I think I posted on the site my first day. It was probably lame, but so what. No newbie bashing for the first 3 new posters. LOL[/QUOTE]Us newbies at least me don't have a lot to report. I have been a member of SD4M for a month now and I'm just not feeling the love LOL. I have had one M&G and that was from CL, which I thought went well. This was a married lady who has a shitty husband with 2-3 kids that needed help. She had just gotten off work and had 15 minutes to meet before having to be home. We ended up making out in the car, and she was very eager to take it to the next level when she left for home. Upon getting home she sent me a text that she couldn't wait for the next meeting and from there it went south.
I think she had a morality attack because I stressed to her that if she had any hopes for her marriage that she shouldn't do this because no matter how careful she was sooner or later the husband would find out. I would text and it would be hours before she would reply, then she was just too busy to make another meeting so after a week of this I gave up on her. The closest Sb to home to contact me is 1/2 hour drive, a 36 year old with kids that needs help, but there again has decided to try a second job before trying the SB route. I have had a bunch of ladies contact me that are 4-5 hours or further away but not going to get into the traveling mode for this. I cast my net for a 50 mile radius and there is over 100 pages of SB in this range and I have sent out numerous messages but as yet have not received any responses from the ladies close to home. Starting my 2nd month of SD4M and will evaluate what I want to do at the end of the month. This is why most lurkers don't post because we really have nothing to contribute.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1835734]How about if we all stop posting until at least 3 new guys post. Lurkers / newbies cmon. Seems like the same 10 guys do all the posting. I think I posted on the site my first day. It was probably lame, but so what. No newbie bashing for the first 3 new posters. LOL[/QUOTE]LBs (Lurker Brothers) ,
It is time to come out of the shadows and contribute! Even if it is only about POTS, it would be nice to hear of your experiences. I know you are out there, don't be shy!
Waiting,
Scott
Does anyone use one of the paid reverse phone lookup services when doing background? None of them are free, and I am not sure it's worth paying for. I was wondering if anyone had tried one and could comment on it.
I am not a lurker, so do I qualify to post? .
Finally a none HYM. Guess it's my luck that I've meeting with 3 HYMs the past couple months.
I am not a big fan of AA girls, but this cutie seems to have lots of potentials. 24, went to college, work, and has her own place.
Needs help with her $1500 rent.
Agreed on $175 weekly allowance for 2 FC visits per week. I'll update in a couple of days after our first FC date.
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[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO; 1836045]I am not a lurker, so do I qualify to post? .
Finally a none HYM. Guess it's my luck that I've meeting with 3 HYMs the past couple months.
I am not a big fan of AA girls, but this cutie seems to have lots of potentials. 24, went to college, work, and has her own place.
Needs help with her $1500 rent.
Agreed on $175 weekly allowance for 2 FC visits per week. I'll update in a couple of days after our first FC date.
[ATTACH=CONFIG]266494[/ATTACH][/QUOTE]Smoke,
You've posted before, so I'm sorry to say you do not qualify as a lurker, at least in my book, but thanks for signing in anyway!
Two things I notice right away, and I would welcome additional comments: $1500 a month rent! I don't know where you are located, but in Chicago, that buys you a sweet highrise apartment with a view of Lake Michigan and a terrace! If this is what she says she's paying it must be some fabulous pad, or she could be jerking your chain.
I would go with the latter, since she is asking for less than half of her monthly rent, not even the total monthly nut, for two conjugal visits per week. (I'm hoping I've done the math correctly. If not, sorry, I was a Humanities major in college!) At this point I would be asking myself if I even [I]wanted[/I] two visits per week, four weeks a month, twelve months a year, ten years a decade ... well, you get the point.
All this to say that if you want to hit it, by all means full speed ahead! What could it hurt? And nothing ventured, nothing fucked, if that's how that saying goes. But you might want to suggest to her that you start off with a weekly allowance, just to make sure you two are sympatico, and note to yourself the escape hatches nearest you should you have to bail.
In any event, please let us know how it all turns out.
In other news, my Nola baby (obsession!!) , has cast up on the shores of Lake Michigan completely unexpectedly this weekend, and we are planning a get-together tomorrow around noon!! My brothers, many of you know how I feel about her, so if I never post here again, you will know what has happened, and I hope you will contact me in the future should you ever get down to the Big Easy. I'd love to have a beer with you!
Fingers totally crossed,
Scott
[QUOTE=F Scott; 1836343]Smoke,
You've posted before, so I'm sorry to say you do not qualify as a lurker, at least in my book, but thanks for signing in anyway!
Two things I notice right away, and I would welcome additional comments: $1500 a month rent! I don't know where you are located, but in Chicago, that buys you a sweet highrise apartment with a view of Lake Michigan and a terrace! If this is what she says she's paying it must be some fabulous pad, or she could be jerking your chain.
I would go with the latter, since she is asking for less than half of her monthly rent, not even the total monthly nut, for two conjugal visits per week. (I'm hoping I've done the math correctly. If not, sorry, I was a Humanities major in college!) At this point I would be asking myself if I even [I]wanted[/I] Two visits per week, four weeks a month, twelve months a year, ten years a decade. Well, you get the point.
All this to say that if you want to hit it, by all means full speed ahead! What could it hurt? And nothing ventured, nothing fucked, if that's how that saying goes. But you might want to suggest to her that you start off with a weekly allowance, just to make sure you two are sympatico, and note to yourself the escape hatches nearest you should you have to bail.
In any event, please let us know how it all turns out.
In other news, my Nola baby (obsession!) , has cast up on the shores of Lake Michigan completely unexpectedly this weekend, and we are planning a get-together tomorrow around noon! My brothers, many of you know how I feel about her, so if I never post here again, you will know what has happened, and I hope you will contact me in the future should you ever get down to the Big Easy. I'd love to have a beer with you!
Fingers totally crossed,
Scott[/QUOTE]1500 in any decent part of LA will get you a shitty 2 BR apt or a decent 1 BR or a nice studio. Nice but not awesome. Thats why I try to stick to the burbs.
[QUOTE=John HandCock;1835790]I cast my net for a 50 mile radius and there is over 100 pages of SB in this range and I have sent out numerous messages[/QUOTE]Sort by "last visit" and hit up every girl that was on within the last 48 hours.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1836539]Sort by "last visit" and hit up every girl that was on within the last 48 hours.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the advice, will give that a shot and see what happens.
Scott. I am not surprised if her rent is 1500 a month, again do I really care if it is? .
A decent downtown 2BR apartment in my area can easily command at least 1200. She used to have a roommate, but the roommie moved out. Or so she said.
She's asking for help with her rent, not pay it for her. This girl got a job. LOL.
Like you said Scott, I proposed a weekly allowance so we can test things out, which she gladly accepted. I am having her come to the FC to see me this Weds so will see.
Am I the only guy to post pics of babies and pots here?
I notice guys are keeping their babies pretty well hidden. What give?
Personally, I like to see the qualities of fine babies you gents are pulling in.
So, consider this an invitation to post away.
[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO; 1836045]I am not a lurker, so do I qualify to post? .
Finally a none HYM. Guess it's my luck that I've meeting with 3 HYMs the past couple months.
I am not a big fan of AA girls, but this cutie seems to have lots of potentials. 24, went to college, work, and has her own place.
Needs help with her $1500 rent.
Agreed on $175 weekly allowance for 2 FC visits per week. I'll update in a couple of days after our first FC date.
[ATTACH=CONFIG]266494[/ATTACH][/QUOTE]I live in a resort town with very little to no decent jobs outside of waiting tables, working in hotels, government or healthcare. The joke here is that it's a great place to live but BYOJ. Bring your own job. A decent 2 bedroom apartment here costs at least $1, 000 a month. Sorry if I seem a little down here, but my last two Pots quoted me prices of $500 and $1, 000 PER VISIT! $175 for 2 visits per week? Maybe I should consider moving!