Well. I showed my Newbie Skills.
So, as some might, but probably not, recall. I asked around about places to break a cherry, so to speak. My own research coupled with a few suggestions led me to Rio's. I was just looking for new experiences, so. I go about 6 months back, give or take. Met a lady. Had a dance. Wasn't good. I left feeling awkward and uncomfortable.
I get bored and go again last month. I meet a lady named Carmen. She was in neon, really caught my attention. We talked for about 15 or 20 minutes and then had a few dances. It was good, ok. I liked the conversation more than anything. She does have a really great body, good assets, and amazing eyes. Overall I had a good time. Again, was not looking for extras nor were any offered.
That leads to earlier tonight. I specifically went hoping Carmen was working. Turns out, she was. A few other gents had her attention when I came in, though she did wave at me to let me know she recognized me from before. Nice gesture. She gets freed up, comes over, we start talking. She reminds me that I owe her pictures of my dogs from before, so I show her. I ask if she wants to have a dance, she obviously says yes. It's late by this point, probably 1030 or right before. She has to go to the stage. She does her thing. Comes right back over. We talk for a little more, she then goes to freshen up before I take her back for 2 more dances. This is where my mishap occurs. Not much dancing is happening. And I am ok with this, as honestly, it makes me a bit uncomfortable. We are talking, she is sort of moving a bit, and then I start to say something. Then stop. Mistake 1. Mistake 2 was letting her coerce, or talk me into saying it with the preface of 'I am an idiot'. Mistake 3. I literally asked her to dinner . Of course she said no in the nicest way she knew how. Something like. A few more times and we talk more or something. We then hugged and I left.
Now, I am not a true idiot. I know what I did wrong here. I, honestly, have no clue what I was thinking when blurting that out. Newbie mistake. One I will make sure NEVER happens again. . .