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I assume we all expect providers to be discreet. So the fact that a provider is doing anything when you are not seeing her should not be a topic of discussion here. Mind your own business unless it affects us negatively in the hobby. This is just gossip.
[QUOTE=Ftguy68;1565314]I've seen other providers post on POF before, and they weren't looking for a boy friend. Was just another avenue to advertise. Same as some that post on whatsyourprice.[/QUOTE]I saw a few on AFF. Gwen was on it.
Saw a provider that I have seen several times last weekend at a local music festival, we saw each other at the same time and instantly looked away. Both of us were with SO's and I was actually a little worried at first. Thank god that we both showed respect and all stayed cool. That's her work life and I respect that. I've dated hot strippers where when we are out a guy would approach her and say "Hi" or "Remember me", and I would let her shoot them down. It's amazing that some fucking retards think it's OK to not separate business with pleasure. I understand the line gets crossed in this hobby but for them it's business, for us pleasure.
RESPECT, use it. Fucking DUH
[QUOTE=CptMorgan; 1566101]Saw a provider that I have seen several times last weekend at a local music festival, we saw each other at the same time and instantly looked away. Both of us were with SO's and I was actually a little worried at first. Thank god that we both showed respect and all stayed cool. That's her work life and I respect that. I've dated hot strippers where when we are out a guy would approach her and say "Hi" or "Remember me", and I would let her shoot them down. It's amazing that some fucking retards think it's OK to not separate business with pleasure. I understand the line gets crossed in this hobby but for them it's business, for us pleasure.
RESPECT, use it. Fucking DUH[/QUOTE]One of the "Primary Rules" in the sex industry is to never "acknowledge or recognize" anyone who is in any way involved in the sex industry in a public environment. It can be momentarily uncomfortable to do so but it just "has to be" for the protection for all concerned.
I think we have on here some younger members who by virtue of a more open upbringing and societal conditioning (Face book type of openness) don't quite understand that discussing providers private life's can have life changing ramifications for all concerned.
Perhaps when some of the older participants recognize this we should discuss it, as I'm doing now.
What used to be called "Common sense" is not so common anymore.
I once got a haircut in a salon in a distant city (about a fifth the size of Orlando) and when I sat down in the chair the girl seemed somehow familiar and about 2 minutes later I felt like I had been struck with a bolt of lightening, she was the girl I had met in a night club a few nights before, we talked, had a few drinks, she told me she was "working" and we made an agreement and proceed to my hotel room upstairs. She looked quite different without the clothes and makeup of our previous meeting. I know she recognized me and she seemed to be petrified, and I continued with typical small talk you have with a haircutter, because I know "The Rules". She finished, I thanked her for the excellent haircut and tipped her and left and never saw her again.
The chance of our ever meeting again were a Bazillion to one. I rarely got my haircut on the road and was in a suburb of the city when I got the haircut. I had nothing to lose by mentioning the encounter but I would speculate that she did, based on the rings on her finger that were not there in the previous encounter. It's not what happens it's how you handle it-VS
I have had this situation twice once in Jacksonville with a regular girl I would see. She was with her BF at the movies I showed up with my buddies in line right behind her and we happened to go to the same movie. I just smiled at her as she turned around looked at me and turned a shade of white like I was a ghost. The way I view it is when I am with a girl it is a fantasy or dream as it should be don; t react to it. The second was not as well it was a very youn girl in Orlando seen me with my parents she came up to me and gave me a hug saying hello. Other than explaining why a girl almost 10 years younger than me did that to me to my parents I was single so didn't matter as much. Still both sides need to be careful when you are out sometimes the S. O. Has no clue what these ladies do believe it or not. I never did see this young provider again because that in my opinion was very unprofessional!
[QUOTE=CptMorgan; 1566101]Saw a provider that I have seen several times last weekend at a local music festival, we saw each other at the same time and instantly looked away. Both of us were with SO's and I was actually a little worried at first. Thank god that we both showed respect and all stayed cool. That's her work life and I respect that. I've dated hot strippers where when we are out a guy would approach her and say "Hi" or "Remember me", and I would let her shoot them down. It's amazing that some fucking retards think it's OK to not separate business with pleasure. I understand the line gets crossed in this hobby but for them it's business, for us pleasure.
RESPECT, use it. Fucking DUH[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Mikaeles;1566375]I have had this situation twice once in Jacksonville with a regular girl I would see. She was with her BF at the movies I showed up with my buddies in line right behind her and we happened to go to the same movie. I just smiled at her as she turned around looked at me and turned a shade of white like I was a ghost. The way I view it is when I am with a girl it is a fantasy or dream as it should be don; t react to it. The second was not as well it was a very youn girl in Orlando seen me with my parents she came up to me and gave me a hug saying hello. Other than explaining why a girl almost 10 years younger than me did that to me to my parents I was single so didn't matter as much. Still both sides need to be careful when you are out sometimes the S. O. Has no clue what these ladies do believe it or not. I never did see this young provider again because that in my opinion was very unprofessional![/QUOTE]I've had this happen to me, oddly enough, twice in the last month. Both times were with girls I know from the the Inner Room. Both times were during lunch at restaurants in the area. Both times went very cool, as we both noticed each other and then went about our day as if we were strangers. One girl was with her SO and young child, and the other was with what I assume was her boyfriend.
On a slightly different but related note, I had a stripper tell me that her and her friends frequented a particular club (not strip club) after work, for dancing and drinks. I knew a few of her friends, as they were also strippers. She told me to come by and party with them. Well, this was a club where I have frequently gone with friends, and even parents / relatives. I decided I didn't want a pack of strippers coming up to me if I was out with a date, or friends, or relatives from out of town. So I basically stopped going to that club.
Some time back one of you guys offered me a place to entertain a young lady and some of my male friends.
No definitive schedule yet but making plans in case.
You may have had cross and pool table to use as well.
Thanks
Does anybody know any female midgets?
I always wanted to try.
[QUOTE=Markstar; 1566887]Does anybody know any female midgets?
I always wanted to try.[/QUOTE]Should I continue to laugh at this post, or proudly announce I am now intrigued at the thought of a "little person" provider chic too? Hmmm
[QUOTE=HomerSimp;1566967]Should I continue to laugh at this post, or proudly announce I am now intrigued at the thought of a "little person" provider chic too? Hmmm[/QUOTE]The thought pollutes the mind every time. Seriously, if anybody knows one please post.
[QUOTE=Mr Bob 111; 1564766]I am sure you have been slammed enough, but we all need to be careful to keep personal and business separated.
Unfortunately, many of us on this site may also use POF or other intimate encounter sites which makes it very hard for a provider posting elsewhere to maintain anonymity. I have seen others advertise on various sites and have even contacted one a long while back in the past, but there needs to be some level of sensitivity or tack in this area.
Just my $0. 02.
Take care and stay safe.
MrB.[/QUOTE]I guess I started a brouhaha by posting Savannah's personal ad. It was not my intention. It seemed to me I wasn't outing anybody. My impression was that she was using the dating site to get more clients not to improve her personal life. She used provocative pictures as well as her working name. If I am wrong about that I apologize.
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[QUOTE=Markstar; 1566887]Does anybody know any female midgets?
I always wanted to try.[/QUOTE]There was one walking Colfax in Denver back in the 90s she ended up in a dumpster thanks to her pimp.
Then there was one on the trail about three years ago have no clue where she is
[QUOTE=Plzd269; 1567631]There was one walking Colfax in Denver back in the 90s she ended up in a dumpster thanks to her pimp.
Then there was one on the trail about three years ago have no clue where she is[/QUOTE]I remember her.
She used to work near the mall.
[QUOTE=VerySlowly;1567492][url]http://www.cfnews13.com/content/news/cfnews13/news/article.html/content/news/articles/cfn/2012/10/10/alleged_brothel_owne.html[/url][/QUOTE]It is very ironic that all the record keeping / video taping is going to be the thing that get him thrown in Jail for a very long time on this one. Should have learned a lesson from history. Al capone was convicted and jailed over failure to pay the IRS. He had records of all his transactions too.