Seeking Arrangements

Gra Smi is her profile name, Have been talking with her on and off for a little while now.

I can't see her profile there anymore, so not sure if she has blocked me or has taken her profile down.

Anyone know anything about her, met her, etc?

TIA.

[QUOTE=Cargin;5104389]Met a few girls here and did the hotel room thing. Meeting a girl for dinner for the first time. I made it clear I am looking for a physical relationship, not just companionship and dates and she said she is fine with that, but wants dinner first. To anyone that first met someone for dinner, any tips on getting her back to a hotel after without seeming creepy? Anyone actually do it or is it dinner the first time and then negotiate more after. Just looking for some input. Thank you.[/QUOTE]

Before Covid I'd usually meet for drinks or dinner first as standard procedure. You may want to set her expectations there is no gift (donation, allowance, whatever you call it) for dinner only. The sugar starts when you go behind closed doors. The only exceptions I'd make are covering a babysitter if she's a single mom or the cost of an Uber if she has no car. Sometimes we'd go from dinner to hotel or her place when she could host. Other times it would not happen until the second meeting or possibly not at all.

I prefer to wait for the girl to initiate negotiations rather than ask what she's looking for. Some girls don't like to talk money face-to-face. If we didn't go to a hotel after dinner then later that night or the next day or two, they would usually initiate the money discussion.

I prefer to have 2 or 3 non-pro's in rotation for long term which is why I use this approach. For mongers looking to cull the semi-pro's or pro's who advertise on Seeking, of course none of this applies.

[QUOTE=JohnTies;5104688]Gra Smi is her profile name, Have been talking with her on and off for a little while now.

I can't see her profile there anymore, so not sure if she has blocked me or has taken her profile down.

Anyone know anything about her, met her, etc?

TIA.[/QUOTE]I never met her but had tried. I ended up cancelling due to work and while we were rescheduling Covid hit. Danced around for a couple months with her claiming "at risk" people are around her. Keep in mind during that time she is cruising the site 24/7 so who knows. IF she is to be believed she lives in the Seaport and can host. Haven't seen her profile in a while.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;5104750]I never met her but had tried. I ended up cancelling due to work and while we were rescheduling Covid hit. Danced around for a couple months with her claiming "at risk" people are around her. Keep in mind during that time she is cruising the site 24/7 so who knows. IF she is to be believed she lives in the Seaport and can host. Haven't seen her profile in a while.[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/71451be6-23e1-4770-9bbb-17bf09a101bf[/URL]
Last active 4 days ago

I talk about everything and anything about what I am expecting. Some girls either go to hotel that day or another day shortly thereafter. I am 3/3. Two very hot young ebonies and one young looking very hot latina MILF.

[QUOTE=Cargin;5104389]Met a few girls here and did the hotel room thing. Meeting a girl for dinner for the first time. I made it clear I am looking for a physical relationship, not just companionship and dates and she said she is fine with that, but wants dinner first. To anyone that first met someone for dinner, any tips on getting her back to a hotel after without seeming creepy? Anyone actually do it or is it dinner the first time and then negotiate more after. Just looking for some input. Thank you.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Cargin;5104389]Met a few girls here and did the hotel room thing. Meeting a girl for dinner for the first time. I made it clear I am looking for a physical relationship, not just companionship and dates and she said she is fine with that, but wants dinner first. To anyone that first met someone for dinner, any tips on getting her back to a hotel after without seeming creepy? Anyone actually do it or is it dinner the first time and then negotiate more after. Just looking for some input. Thank you.[/QUOTE]I never do dinner dates. There is nothing worse than being 'trapped' at dinner with someone where 5 minutes into it you know you're not compatible. I always do coffee dates first. I explain why (it's low key, no commitment, we're not trapped together for 2 hrs). If they get all pissy because they want a nice dinner too bad they aren't for me. I never plan a hotel date immediately following coffee, but I must admit it's happened!

Always looking for a hosting, mature woman that is extremely open minded.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/300d9c3c-42df-4aeb-81d8-c8fa1c1daa74[/URL]

KitKat6769 was a very good time. Safe place on main street in Dot, clean as a button, great kisser, multi orgasmic with a great BBBJ, BBFS, and BB backdoor.

Will see again.

[QUOTE=Bran001;5105089]I never do dinner dates. There is nothing worse than being 'trapped' at dinner with someone where 5 minutes into it you know you're not compatible. I always do coffee dates first. I explain why (it's low key, no commitment, we're not trapped together for 2 hrs). If they get all pissy because they want a nice dinner too bad they aren't for me. I never plan a hotel date immediately following coffee, but I must admit it's happened![/QUOTE]I concur with bran! Coffee for meet and greets all the way. All girls who mention dinner I decline and tell them only if we get along and end up seeing each other. Let's grab coffee first to see if we have chemistry.

Does anyone else have the same problem as me with so many girls from other states making contact?? My profile clearly says no virtual arrangements. Just curious.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5105625]Does anyone else have the same problem as me with so many girls from other states making contact?? My profile clearly says no virtual arrangements. Just curious.[/QUOTE]Your not alone plus all the women from so american countries.

I made a SA profile and paid for the subscription but everytime someone post a link to a girl and I click on it, it just says no match found? Also seems like theres not many girls when I do my own search. I am confused does this seeking site even work and is it legit?

[QUOTE=Cargin;5104389]Met a few girls here and did the hotel room thing. Meeting a girl for dinner for the first time. I made it clear I am looking for a physical relationship, not just companionship and dates and she said she is fine with that, but wants dinner first. To anyone that first met someone for dinner, any tips on getting her back to a hotel after without seeming creepy? Anyone actually do it or is it dinner the first time and then negotiate more after. Just looking for some input. Thank you.[/QUOTE]I did one dinner date early in my SA journey and never again. I went on one lunch date and never again. Now it's always coffee or a drink so it's an easy in and out if it doesn't go well. It can get awkward quickly if your "date" isn't interested or gets cold feet and you are stuck with the bill typically. I actually don't want to ever meet for dinner or lunch anyway after establishing an acceptable arrangement. I try to be very discreet and not leave a trail to my real life. If you spend too much time conversing vs fucking you can end up reveling to much about yourself or being caught in a little white lie if you are trying to keep your personal life private.

Tell the girl your intention during your communications before actually meeting and if she insists on a dinner date I would just take a pass. She should know of and be OK with the real intention here and if she puts up too many roadblocks she is probably just looking for a few breadcrumbs vs actually giving up the goods. If you do go on a "date" then keep the discussion on SA and what it is for and that your experience / expectations are sexual. I like to be upfront in an effort to get out of a time wasting conversation as fast as possible. Always bring the conversation back to SA and why you are on there. Sex. You can do this bluntly or with hints or subtle reminders but keep control of the conversation and don't be embarrassed to suggest a hotel or even better have dinner at the hotel.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5105625]Does anyone else have the same problem as me with so many girls from other states making contact?? My profile clearly says no virtual arrangements. Just curious.[/QUOTE]These are trolls and believe me they are not reading your profile but just looking for a lonely man looking to spoil them with pics or vids for money. I just ignore them. I believe SA is based out of Europe and probably linked to some seedy under world activity. My CC was hacked instantly the first time I signed up so using a prepaid card is advised anyway. Focus on the local talent as that can be a challenge in itself don't get distracted by the noise from South America girls looking for your attention, they are not.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;5106052]These are trolls and believe me they are not reading your profile but just looking for a lonely man looking to spoil them with pics or vids for money. I just ignore them. I believe SA is based out of Europe and probably linked to some seedy under world activity. My CC was hacked instantly the first time I signed up so using a prepaid card is advised anyway. Focus on the local talent as that can be a challenge in itself don't get distracted by the noise from South America girls looking for your attention, they are not[/QUOTE]Usually you get 2 at a time favoriting you and many times it happens when you first log in I think Seeking has a bot that sends you those and they do it to make sure it looks like someone is interested in you.

[QUOTE=Lee1995;5105787]I made a SA profile and paid for the subscription but everytime someone post a link to a girl and I click on it, it just says no match found? Also seems like theres not many girls when I do my own search. I am confused does this seeking site even work and is it legit?[/QUOTE]You signed uo as Attractive member" instead of successful. Email SA and they will fix it.