[QUOTE=BastardChorum;4629475]If you're uncomfortable with providing the requested information, just go the HX route; it's a bit of a detour and costs more initially but will open more doors to k-orgs to you than going through it the normal way. You won't need to provide references since your network will speak for itself. Sign up for HX, pay yourself out of quarantine, see a couple of newbie friendly providers, and then reach out to the k-orgs from there. Then use the references you get to contact the ones that don't have HX profiles.
My advice to last longer is to bust a nut before your appointment. There's all sorts of recommended routines and regimes that can supposedly increase stamina and endurance (I personally haven't tried them so I can't vouch for their effectiveness) but this is probably the most easiest and straight forward. However, you'll need to judge for yourself just how far in advance this should be. What's your refractory period? How long after a nut until you can get functionally aroused and hard? How much pleasure will you feel after you get hard? Does performance take a meaningful hit? Will you be satisfied with the hit in performance and pleasure received vs stamina and endurance gained? These are just a small subset of questions you should ask yourself to find what works best for you.
Personal grooming should always be observed, regardless if you're seeing a civie, escort, kgirl, etc. It shows mutual respect and indicates good personal hygiene. The fact that you're paying for a service doesn't warrant or justify coming in unkempt. Look at it from her perspective, will she give you her best if she sees stubble that could have easily been taken care of that morning and / or a jungle of pubic hair that could choke competitive eaters? Or said another way, I pay someone for a simple car wash and show up in a car that was doing donuts all day in wet and muddy conditions. All sense of goodwill and a certain level of decorum falls by the wayside. First impressions are crucial for these type of encounters. You're both essentially strangers, any brownie points you can get early on will only benefit you.[/QUOTE]I always wondered what others do for grooming. I generally try to shower beforehand if I have the time, keep it fairly clean down (bare or very light hair) there in terms of grooming, sometimes a little cologne, brush my teeth. I do it for myself, since I'm sure if I straight up came from the gym and eating a garlicky gassy lunch the provider would be less than thrilled haha. Also like BC said to show some respect for the provider. Yes its a business transaction but any little thing that can make it more enjoyable for both parties can't be a bad thing. But to each their own. After chatting with a few of the girls they do notice these things.
