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[QUOTE=RedyMal;5474871]I thought they closed for good? Or are they under different management and not the old follies, which was fun.[/QUOTE]I seriously doubt he is talking about the infamous Follies that was on Buford Hwy maybe he means another strip club.
[QUOTE=GoneForGood97;5475411]Just guessing based on the little bit of info that guy provided, but it sounds like a place some dancers hang out after their shifts.[/QUOTE]I've never been. Just did a google search to see if I could find out for myself but seems like it's just a late night bar with live music sometimes. Like you said, he probably saw some dancers hanging out after their shift or girls that look like they could've been strippers.
[QUOTE=Wleakr;5473918]Never paid those rates at any $5 black club VIP. But I'm sure they will appreciate that amount very much![/QUOTE]How much do you normally pay for VIP at these $5 clubs?
[QUOTE=JMAbacus;5474714]Good review. I was in Wax VIP during day shift a few weeks ago and it was 20. There was a short discussion about the price and the dancer had to remind the front desk that it was 20 until either 5:00 or 6 (can't remember). Your experience sounds pretty typical. Blaze dancer quality is usually similar to Wax (except nude of course) if you try it again. Typically there are more dancers at Blaze than Wax or Pinups with a handful in the 7 and sometimes 8 range along with a bunch of 5's to wade through to find that Diamond in the rough (and the pretty ones tend to stay busy).[/QUOTE]Can someone bottom line this for me? Pre-pandemic, I was all about the daytime Follies scene. There were great Latinas to be had, some white chicks and pretty good all around quality. The floor dances could get me off sometimes, and the VIP was anything goes with many of the girls.
What is the recommended best alternative now? I'm generally not into AA (unless she's pretty special). I really like natural and pretty Latinas and White.
Where should I be going now?
[QUOTE=LoveDDs;5474836]Based on reviews here I decided to try Follies (Vivid) Saturday afternoons. Now I'm not much for strip clubs because generally I go home broke and frustrated. Follies can be a little different. I've learned that I might go home broke, but not necessarily frustrated.
So I did find a gem. Her name is Chastity. Gorgeous tall black girl. Delivers on her promises and made me very happy. VIP was all I had imagined and more. She's great! I'll be seeing her again for sure.
I also discovered a gold digger / scammer. And very skilled. Her name is Gabriella. She a gorgeous Pilipino dancer. She's been around for a while but claims to be new to Follies. She says she is a fitness trainer, says she worked at Follies in the past, and claims to be mentioned in some CNN article.
She looked fun for lap dances. I watched as she danced for a guy for what seemed to be an hour. She was very energetic, lots of grinding, awesome lap dances out on the floor. When she was done with him (or maybe he was done with her.) she came over to me. She's very flirty and persistent. So we went for a few lap dances. That was really nice! During the lap dances we discussed a VIP. We agreed on a price, I paid, and we went for it. Now I was pretty clear on what I was hoping for (especially based on my delightful experience with Chastity) and she 'pinky promised' me that we would have to same experience. I specifically mentioned that I wanted to spend time in her and make us both happy. She promised we would. Well it was a total waste. I had more fun with the lap dances and got further. Simply put. She took my money and did not deliver. Then she wanted me to buy another VIP. She promised we will do it then. No way! I'm stupid when I allow the little head to do the thinking for me, but I'm not an idiot.
So then she wants to meet up after. I give her a call and what does she want. She wants me to spend MORE money on her. She wants me to rent an AirBnB or meet her at Tokyo Valentino. At this point I have absolutely NO Confidence she will deliver on anything she promises.
IMHO Gabriella is nothing more than a very very good, very beautiful, very effective scammer. She uses her body and personality to extract money. If she'd deliver I'd be happy because then I'd benefit too. But all I got was BROKE and FRUSTRATED.[/QUOTE]Sorry for the confusion.
I'm referring to Club Vivid. Which during the day operates as 'Follies Day Shift'. Hope that helps.
The vibe of that place throws me off and I've given it a far shake. Too dark, every girl can't stop talking about a deadhorse aka Follies. And most of the girls are unfamiliar to me considering I made good with the ENTIRE staff in dayshift. Even got one of you monger fools thrown out once for acting a fool. But eff that place for real!
[QUOTE=LoveDDs;5474836]Based on reviews here I decided to try Follies (Vivid) Saturday afternoons. Now I'm not much for strip clubs because generally I go home broke and frustrated. Follies can be a little different. I've learned that I might go home broke, but not necessarily frustrated.
So I did find a gem. Her name is Chastity. Gorgeous tall black girl. Delivers on her promises and made me very happy. VIP was all I had imagined and more. She's great! I'll be seeing her again for sure.
I also discovered a gold digger / scammer. And very skilled. Her name is Gabriella. She a gorgeous Pilipino dancer. She's been around for a while but claims to be new to Follies. She says she is a fitness trainer, says she worked at Follies in the past, and claims to be mentioned in some CNN article.
She looked fun for lap dances. I watched as she danced for a guy for what seemed to be an hour. She was very energetic, lots of grinding, awesome lap dances out on the floor. When she was done with him (or maybe he was done with her.) she came over to me. She's very flirty and persistent. So we went for a few lap dances. That was really nice! During the lap dances we discussed a VIP. We agreed on a price, I paid, and we went for it. Now I was pretty clear on what I was hoping for (especially based on my delightful experience with Chastity) and she 'pinky promised' me that we would have to same experience. I specifically mentioned that I wanted to spend time in her and make us both happy. She promised we would. Well it was a total waste. I had more fun with the lap dances and got further. Simply put. She took my money and did not deliver. Then she wanted me to buy another VIP. She promised we will do it then. No way! I'm stupid when I allow the little head to do the thinking for me, but I'm not an idiot.
So then she wants to meet up after. I give her a call and what does she want. She wants me to spend MORE money on her. She wants me to rent an AirBnB or meet her at Tokyo Valentino. At this point I have absolutely NO Confidence she will deliver on anything she promises.
IMHO Gabriella is nothing more than a very very good, very beautiful, very effective scammer. She uses her body and personality to extract money. If she'd deliver I'd be happy because then I'd benefit too. But all I got was BROKE and FRUSTRATED.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Frankie14;5475703]How much do you normally pay for VIP at these $5 clubs?[/QUOTE]Your VIP Cost Will Vary. Honestly, if you're going in VIP at the $5 spots, with the exception of Wax and the old Office / Foxy Lady, you're probably doing it wrong.
Wax you pretty much need to because it's not nude on the floor. Blaze and Pinups, I have yet to use VIP and have been "relieved" many times, often at the cost of lapdance price. Never given a single dancer anywhere near $200. Back in my penny-pinching days, I've given as low $40 bucks. I'm a little more generous now! LOL!
But if you don't know what you're doing, just speak to bouncer, bartender or manager on how much VIP is, then talk to the girl on how much for what. Pay whatever you value the service to be.
The only times I paid for use of VIP was old Babes, which was $20 and Foxy Lady, which was $20 on dayshift and $25/30/40 on nights depending on which area you were in. Both those spots are done and haven't paid VIP since.
Teach me your ways kimosabi! 🤯
[QUOTE=Wleakr;5478505]Your VIP Cost Will Vary. Honestly, if you're going in VIP at the $5 spots, with the exception of Wax and the old Office / Foxy Lady, you're probably doing it wrong.
Wax you pretty much need to because it's not nude on the floor. Blaze and Pinups, I have yet to use VIP and have been "relieved" many times, often at the cost of lapdance price. Never given a single dancer anywhere near $200. Back in my penny-pinching days, I've given as low $40 bucks. I'm a little more generous now! LOL!
But if you don't know what you're doing, just speak to bouncer, bartender or manager on how much VIP is, then talk to the girl on how much for what. Pay whatever you value the service to be.
The only times I paid for use of VIP was old Babes, which was $20 and Foxy Lady, which was $20 on dayshift and $25/30/40 on nights depending on which area you were in. Both those spots are done and haven't paid VIP since.[/QUOTE].
Can anyone recommend me a club and / or time of day where I'm guaranteed to get extras /"VIP" experience? Bonus points if it's located near Mercedes-Benz Stadium, the airport, or a cheap hotel. I'm on a budget, so I'd prefer not to have to spend multiple $100's. Thanks in advance for any advice that you may have for me.
Can anyone recommend a club and / or time of day with guaranteed extras / VIP experience? Bonus points if it's near the Mercedes-Benz Stadium or the airport (I'm on a budget so trying not to spend multiple $100's). Thanks in advance for any advice you may have for me.
Looking far a girl that was at Oasis briefly then Tattletales when they first opened post-COVID. Went by Devon / Devin at the club. Should have gotten her number but just never did. Hasn't been at Tattletales for quite some time now.
I know it's a needle in a Haystack. But anyone has intel. Please HMU.
[QUOTE=Odnetnin;5480918]Can anyone recommend a club and / or time of day with guaranteed extras / VIP experience? Bonus points if it's near the Mercedes-Benz Stadium or the airport (I'm on a budget so trying not to spend multiple $100's). Thanks in advance for any advice you may have for me.[/QUOTE]Shooter girls at any club. I add in waitresses and lady bartenders as well. I'm a fan of oasis and pink pony, neither of them are close to downtown or the airport. Those may be out of your price range though.
Good luck!
I was just robbed / scammed there.
First of all, there weren't that many patrons, but lots of girls. Not much of a show either. I was told about the back rooms being $50/15 min so I tried one out with a new girl. It was a mediocre regular lap dance with not much touching. I went back to the main room, and a second girl hit me up and promised to be nasty in there, so we went and then she asked for more money. Okay - , but I was more about seeing what I could get with what I had rather than paying her whatever she wanted, so I gave her an extra $50, then after a couple minutes she wanted more to do anything, so after some promises, I stupidly pulled out another $100 and then she was like "you don't have a condom? And then it ended and she took all the money and blamed me for not having a condom. I didn't ask her for raw sex, I just wanted something, anything really, for my extra $150 and all I got was a shitty 5 minute lap dance and a bunch of lies and she bailed with all the money.
Pissed me off so bad I left angry and the door guys just said "welcome to Atlanta" as I left. Awesome business. Aren't strip clubs supposed to be fun?
This one was definitely not.
Can anyone tell me how long Mardi Grad has been c!osed? Thanks in advance.
[QUOTE=Oily123;5482446]Can anyone tell me how long Mardi Grad has been c!osed? Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]At least 2 years now.
[QUOTE=Shroomz;5482304]I was just robbed / scammed there.
First of all, there weren't that many patrons, but lots of girls. Not much of a show either. I was told about the back rooms being $50/15 min so I tried one out with a new girl. It was a mediocre regular lap dance with not much touching. I went back to the main room, and a second girl hit me up and promised to be nasty in there, so we went and then she asked for more money. Okay - , but I was more about seeing what I could get with what I had rather than paying her whatever she wanted, so I gave her an extra $50, then after a couple minutes she wanted more to do anything, so after some promises, I stupidly pulled out another $100 and then she was like "you don't have a condom? And then it ended and she took all the money and blamed me for not having a condom. I didn't ask her for raw sex, I just wanted something, anything really, for my extra $150 and all I got was a shitty 5 minute lap dance and a bunch of lies and she bailed with all the money.
Pissed me off so bad I left angry and the door guys just said "welcome to Atlanta" as I left. Awesome business. Aren't strip clubs supposed to be fun?
This one was definitely not.[/QUOTE]Is this Goose Bumps?
[QUOTE=SlickWilly42;5490538]Is this Goose Bumps?[/QUOTE]New club. Same building.
Just came from there and business is really picking up. Over 30 girls were working when I got there about 4 and a bunch of guys. I was going to go yesterday as one of my favs texted me they were having birthday party for but I could not make it. Glad I didn't, I heard parking was full and no place to sit.
My only beef is that they really need to get some A / C going as it is quite warm in there and that is before the hot bodies get started.
P.S. Heard Diamonds is closed?
[QUOTE=SgtLurker;5495841]Just came from there and business is really picking up. Over 30 girls were working when I got there about 4 and a bunch of guys. I was going to go yesterday as one of my favs texted me they were having birthday party for but I could not make it. Glad I didn't, I heard parking was full and no place to sit.
My only beef is that they really need to get some A / C going as it is quite warm in there and that is before the hot bodies get started.
P.S. Heard Diamonds is closed?[/QUOTE]Diamond Club's last couple of social media posts said they would be closed "for remodeling" until "WCW" (Wednesday). The posts also specifically named Vivide as the place to go in lieu of. So, that might have contributed to everything you mentioned in your post.
You'll learn little fish.
[QUOTE=Shroomz;5482304]I was just robbed / scammed there.
First of all, there weren't that many patrons, but lots of girls. Not much of a show either. I was told about the back rooms being $50/15 min so I tried one out with a new girl. It was a mediocre regular lap dance with not much touching. I went back to the main room, and a second girl hit me up and promised to be nasty in there, so we went and then she asked for more money. Okay - , but I was more about seeing what I could get with what I had rather than paying her whatever she wanted, so I gave her an extra $50, then after a couple minutes she wanted more to do anything, so after some promises, I stupidly pulled out another $100 and then she was like "you don't have a condom? And then it ended and she took all the money and blamed me for not having a condom. I didn't ask her for raw sex, I just wanted something, anything really, for my extra $150 and all I got was a shitty 5 minute lap dance and a bunch of lies and she bailed with all the money.
Pissed me off so bad I left angry and the door guys just said "welcome to Atlanta" as I left. Awesome business. Aren't strip clubs supposed to be fun?
This one was definitely not.[/QUOTE]
I've been lurking on here for almost a year and decided on my birthday to go to pin-ups. I'll be honest I'm in my mid-twenties and I still have my v-card and it's starting to truly bother me now. I'm not assertive at all, unfortunately, so it's why I prefer doing my first time at a club (I know that sounds pussy / lame.) but yea, I read from here that pin-ups does extra and I didn't get that vibe there at all. There was a VIP section, but no VIP rooms. So I didn't see how extras there would have been possible as mentioned here. Not to mention I was there with father and the women saw that. So maybe that lessened my chances, even though I did get a few dances? I don't really care what I pay, I just want to be at least attracted to my first, so if anyone has any recommendations on a club that actually offers extras. Let me know, please.
For the record, I did go to pin-ups at 12 am and I was there to around 3 am, so it was probably the worst time to go for what I was looking for. Should I have tried Blaze, Wax, or any other alternatives that was mentioned on here. I'm serious about this, so someone whenever they can.
[QUOTE=GeeMoneyBags;5496772]I've been lurking on here for almost a year and decided on my birthday to go to pin-ups. I'll be honest I'm in my mid-twenties and I still have my v-card and it's starting to truly bother me now. I'm not assertive at all, unfortunately, so it's why I prefer doing my first time at a club (I know that sounds pussy / lame.) but yea, I read from here that pin-ups does extra and I didn't get that vibe there at all. There was a VIP section, but no VIP rooms. So I didn't see how extras there would have been possible as mentioned here. Not to mention I was there with father and the women saw that. So maybe that lessened my chances, even though I did get a few dances? I don't really care what I pay, I just want to be at least attracted to my first, so if anyone has any recommendations on a club that actually offers extras. Let me know, please.
For the record, I did go to pin-ups at 12 am and I was there to around 3 am, so it was probably the worst time to go for what I was looking for. Should I have tried Blaze, Wax, or any other alternatives that was mentioned on here. I'm serious about this, so someone whenever they can.[/QUOTE]Ummm why not just pick a high end model type escort for your first time instead of strippers who don't offer a GFE at all.
[QUOTE=GeeMoneyBags;5496772]I've been lurking on here for almost a year and decided on my birthday to go to pin-ups. I'll be honest I'm in my mid-twenties and I still have my v-card and it's starting to truly bother me now. I'm not assertive at all, unfortunately, so it's why I prefer doing my first time at a club (I know that sounds pussy / lame.) but yea, I read from here that pin-ups does extra and I didn't get that vibe there at all. There was a VIP section, but no VIP rooms. So I didn't see how extras there would have been possible as mentioned here. Not to mention I was there with father and the women saw that. So maybe that lessened my chances, even though I did get a few dances? I don't really care what I pay, I just want to be at least attracted to my first, so if anyone has any recommendations on a club that actually offers extras. Let me know, please.
For the record, I did go to pin-ups at 12 am and I was there to around 3 am, so it was probably the worst time to go for what I was looking for. Should I have tried Blaze, Wax, or any other alternatives that was mentioned on here. I'm serious about this, so someone whenever they can.[/QUOTE]Go to a KAMP. Look in the AMP thread, read reviews till you see something you like.
[QUOTE=CarmelFight;5497379]Ummm why not just pick a high end model type escort for your first time instead of strippers who don't offer a GFE at all.[/QUOTE]To be honest, it felt a lot more personal since I have not even kissed a woman since I was in the First grade, so technically that doesn't count LOL. Not to mention the sites I have browsed. Escortbabylon or alligator or whatever. I was not really attracted to them. The women at the clubs looked a lot better to me even though I have only been to three. (blue flame, onyx, and pin ups.) I am open to recommendations for sure though and I even had some guys pm me some, so I definitely appreciate that. I fuck with the community. I was always focused on school and stacking money, but I see that it's time for me now because I am 26 and have not done shit. I need to have some fun in my life now, LOL.
[QUOTE=GeeMoneyBags;5498011]To be honest, it felt a lot more personal since I have not even kissed a woman since I was in the First grade, so technically that doesn't count LOL. Not to mention the sites I have browsed. Escortbabylon or alligator or whatever. I was not really attracted to them. The women at the clubs looked a lot better to me even though I have only been to three. (blue flame, onyx, and pin ups.) I am open to recommendations for sure though and I even had some guys pm me some, so I definitely appreciate that. I fuck with the community. I was always focused on school and stacking money, but I see that it's time for me now because I am 26 and have not done shit. I need to have some fun in my life now, LOL.[/QUOTE]Those are low end type escorts. I'm talking P411, or try Eros. They are pricy but trust me well worth it than spending half the amount at titty bars and get nothing but quick bang so to speak on a couch no less. If you try high end escorts that offer GFE you will enjoy yourself and be comfortable. If you like Asian girls Lkatl has the best Asian experience now in Atlanta, cat baths (licks you from head to toe) rimming you while you relax face down, shower BBBJ cim (if she allows), than another BBBJ while you relax on a bed, and than when you are ready can bang the shit out of her sometimes if you are up to it can hit it twice. The girls don't look like the pics on the website but they are still pretty and usually thin / slim / athletic build. But good luck on getting accepted with them. For some reason it is difficult to get accepted with them. Always Eros good luck.
Long time lurker here. Thanks for the info and entertaining reports and glad to be part of the community. Here's a recent Oasis experience: A few weeks ago on a weekday around noon. Probably around 12 dancers, with maybe 15 customers. All white dancers except maybe a few Latina / black ones. The dancers were attractive with fairly normal body types and some with good curves- a couple spinners as well.
The club itself is brightly lit and the staff was quite friendly. The high tops against the walls were reserved for what appeared to be regulars though. Other than the high tops, the best place to sit would probably be at one of the two bars. Most of the dancers were gathering around regulars (four girls to one guy) leaving some customers idle.
Had a table dance from a young chic with fantastic ass. Was told that table dances were air dances (though I did see a few other dancers grinding out on the floor) but couldn't say no to VIP for 2. For her and. 3 for the room + tip for bouncer. Low mileage but enjoyable VIP session. Make sure you note the time VIP starts as she tried to short me. The VIP room is a standard booth with curtain setup. Had no issues with interference from bouncer.
Next, was approached by a MILF looking dancer who told me that there would be extras in VIP. I didn't partake as I had to jet, but it was pretty clear that HJ was available. Would have liked to sample a few more girls, but they were milling around regulars. Hottest girl was a blonde spinner, but she didn't make her way over.
Might give it another shot as the location is convenient. Would like to try Vivide but it is far for me.
[QUOTE=Minota;5498584]Long time lurker here. Thanks for the info and entertaining reports and glad to be part of the community. Here's a recent Oasis experience: A few weeks ago on a weekday around noon. Probably around 12 dancers, with maybe 15 customers. All white dancers except maybe a few Latina / black ones. The dancers were attractive with fairly normal body types and some with good curves- a couple spinners as well.
The club itself is brightly lit and the staff was quite friendly. The high tops against the walls were reserved for what appeared to be regulars though. Other than the high tops, the best place to sit would probably be at one of the two bars. Most of the dancers were gathering around regulars (four girls to one guy) leaving some customers idle.
Had a table dance from a young chic with fantastic ass. Was told that table dances were air dances (though I did see a few other dancers grinding out on the floor) but couldn't say no to VIP for 2. For her and. 3 for the room + tip for bouncer. Low mileage but enjoyable VIP session. Make sure you note the time VIP starts as she tried to short me. The VIP room is a standard booth with curtain setup. Had no issues with interference from bouncer.
Next, was approached by a MILF looking dancer who told me that there would be extras in VIP. I didn't partake as I had to jet, but it was pretty clear that HJ was available. Would have liked to sample a few more girls, but they were milling around regulars. Hottest girl was a blonde spinner, but she didn't make her way over.
Might give it another shot as the location is convenient. Would like to try Vivide but it is far for me.[/QUOTE]Nice report, good information, but isn't Oasis closed now?
[QUOTE=GeeMoneyBags;5496772]I've been lurking on here for almost a year and decided on my birthday to go to pin-ups. I'll be honest I'm in my mid-twenties and I still have my v-card and it's starting to truly bother me now. I'm not assertive at all, unfortunately, so it's why I prefer doing my first time at a club (I know that sounds pussy / lame.) but yea, I read from here that pin-ups does extra and I didn't get that vibe there at all. There was a VIP section, but no VIP rooms. So I didn't see how extras there would have been possible as mentioned here. Not to mention I was there with father and the women saw that. So maybe that lessened my chances, even though I did get a few dances? I don't really care what I pay, I just want to be at least attracted to my first, so if anyone has any recommendations on a club that actually offers extras. Let me know, please.
For the record, I did go to pin-ups at 12 am and I was there to around 3 am, so it was probably the worst time to go for what I was looking for. Should I have tried Blaze, Wax, or any other alternatives that was mentioned on here. I'm serious about this, so someone whenever they can.[/QUOTE]Girls in strip clubs are there to make money, as are many in the sex industry. Still having your V-card is nothing to be ashamed. Just remember if you are going to have sex with someone in the sex industry for the first time, it's only sex, don't allow yourself to be taken advantage, they will lead you on as long as you have money to give them. Like Snoop say, Don't Love them Ho's. There are some older women that would love to teach you a lot of things and won't charge you a dime. Masturbate until you get the nerve to start having conversations with regular women, or you could be in for an empty bank account. Be patient. Don't lead the conversation about being a virgin, if they are experienced they will figure you out, before you get a chance to tell them, then you won't have any false sense of having to be superman, but you are young and after a couple of times, you are going to being nailing it!
Drove past today and parking lot was quite busy.
[QUOTE=Han57;5498798]Nice report, good information, but isn't Oasis closed now?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Southbound;5498966]Don't lead the conversation about being a virgin[/QUOTE]This. This is very important. People get clingy after losing their v-card. Strippers won't want to deal with that. Girls in sex work deal with stalkers all the time.
Your virginity is nothing special to them. It's only a red flag that'll tell them *not* to fuck you.
[QUOTE=CarmelFight;5498441]Those are low end type escorts. I'm talking P411, or try Eros. They are pricy but trust me well worth it than spending half the amount at titty bars and get nothing but quick bang so to speak on a couch no less. If you try high end escorts that offer GFE you will enjoy yourself and be comfortable. If you like Asian girls Lkatl has the best Asian experience now in Atlanta, cat baths (licks you from head to toe) rimming you while you relax face down, shower BBBJ cim (if she allows), than another BBBJ while you relax on a bed, and than when you are ready can bang the shit out of her sometimes if you are up to it can hit it twice. The girls don't look like the pics on the website but they are still pretty and usually thin / slim / athletic build. But good luck on getting accepted with them. For some reason it is difficult to get accepted with them. Always Eros good luck.[/QUOTE]Thanks man.
[QUOTE=Southbound;5498966]Girls in strip clubs are there to make money, as are many in the sex industry. Still having your V-card is nothing to be ashamed. Just remember if you are going to have sex with someone in the sex industry for the first time, it's only sex, don't allow yourself to be taken advantage, they will lead you on as long as you have money to give them. Like Snoop say, Don't Love them Ho's. There are some older women that would love to teach you a lot of things and won't charge you a dime. Masturbate until you get the nerve to start having conversations with regular women, or you could be in for an empty bank account. Be patient. Don't lead the conversation about being a virgin, if they are experienced they will figure you out, before you get a chance to tell them, then you won't have any false sense of having to be superman, but you are young and after a couple of times, you are going to being nailing it![/QUOTE]I would have for sure led the convo about me having my v-card still. So thanks for this! I know not to do it now lmao. You are right though they will be able to tell if they are experienced LOL. Also, I stopped masturbating until I lost my v-card. I told myself that last week because if I start back masturbating then I am not going to have to urge or confidence to see a real woman LOL.
[QUOTE=GeeMoneyBags;5496772]I've been lurking on here for almost a year and decided on my birthday to go to pin-ups. I'll be honest I'm in my mid-twenties and I still have my v-card and it's starting to truly bother me now. I'm not assertive at all, unfortunately, so it's why I prefer doing my first time at a club (I know that sounds pussy / lame.) but yea, I read from here that pin-ups does extra and I didn't get that vibe there at all. There was a VIP section, but no VIP rooms. So I didn't see how extras there would have been possible as mentioned here. Not to mention I was there with father and the women saw that. So maybe that lessened my chances, even though I did get a few dances? I don't really care what I pay, I just want to be at least attracted to my first, so if anyone has any recommendations on a club that actually offers extras. Let me know, please.
For the record, I did go to pin-ups at 12 am and I was there to around 3 am, so it was probably the worst time to go for what I was looking for. Should I have tried Blaze, Wax, or any other alternatives that was mentioned on here. I'm serious about this, so someone whenever they can.[/QUOTE]I assume v-card means virgin. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. You don't get a prize for losing it, nobody will care that you have finally fucked a woman beside you. You will still be the same person the day after that you are today. You will feel different though. You will feel disgusted and ashamed of yourself, because now, not only are you too shy to get a girl to sleep with you, you are too shy and have to pay for it.
The vast majority of guys that see hookers are middle-aged or older married men. They do not necessarily suffer from extremely low self-esteem or, in your case pathological shyness.
Honestly, if you are going to spend money to get laid, spend it on some therapy to get over your shyness or some other way to build your self esteem. Whatever the reason you think is blocking you from getting laid, it's not your looks, your income or your social status. What blocks you is your attitude and ability to talk to a chick. If she'll wink, she'll fuck, believe me, I've seen some pretty fugly men with very hot women. Sure, the majority have money or status of some sort, but not always. In many cases, it's because they get the girl to talk, then they get her to laugh.
I can't speak for everyone, but I can speak for most. We don't see hookers and strippers for pussy. Most of us can get pussy from our wives, girlfriends, or both. Some are even able to pick up chicks at bars for one-night-stands. I'm not one of those, I'm too lazy. We seek out pros for the no-strings, aspect. I'm sure you've heard the old saying; you don't pay a hooker for sex, you pay them to leave afterward. Of course we don't mind the physical contact and the ability to have sex with hot chicks. The difference is, that we know, if we want we can still get laid without paying for it.
You don't know that. You might think it, but deep down, you haven't just lost your virginity, you've lost even more selfesteem. You are very young if you are in your mid-twenties, there is plenty of time to get laid before you need viagra. Work on yourself first, fuck a few girls, get your heart stomped on, stomp on a few of your own, then go to pro. You'll find it much easier to look in the mirror.
Or.
Do what you wan't I have kids about your age and older, that's what they usually do.
[QUOTE=MrHobbyist;5499939]I assume v-card means virgin. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. You don't get a prize for losing it...
Do what you wan't I have kids about your age and older, that's what they usually do.[/QUOTE]I may not have put it quite as directly, but I agree with Mr. H.
Went to the PP on Sunday around 8:00 pm. First thing I noticed was that they've increased cover price at night to $20. A few dancers tried telling me dances were also $20. Asked the bartender and she confirmed dances are still only $10 per song. I don't mind tipping extra for a high mileage dance, but I do hate when they lie about the cost.
As for the trip, not a bad experience, but nothing to write home about. I had just got back from the airport so I wasn't looking to go too wild. Talked with a short brunette dancer for about an hour. Got a few decent floor dances and she gave me her number. Not overly optimistic OTC will be available. She gave me more of the impression that she is looking for regulars at the club.
[QUOTE=Filly;5500571]Went to the PP on Sunday around 8:00 pm. First thing I noticed was that they've increased cover price at night to $20. A few dancers tried telling me dances were also $20. Asked the bartender and she confirmed dances are still only $10 per song. I don't mind tipping extra for a high mileage dance, but I do hate when they lie about the cost.
As for the trip, not a bad experience, but nothing to write home about. I had just got back from the airport so I wasn't looking to go too wild. Talked with a short brunette dancer for about an hour. Got a few decent floor dances and she gave me her number. Not overly optimistic OTC will be available. She gave me more of the impression that she is looking for regulars at the club.[/QUOTE]If I had multiple dancers try to tell me the PP air dance was $20 I would first laugh and then move on to another location. The women looked good on my last day visit but there was limited mileage and the manager warned me that I wasn't allowed to touch. OK, so I kept touching anyway with the dancers permission but this isn't the kind of guidance I need for a. 1 dance. Haven't been back in about 2 years.
Was by Friday around 4:30 and stayed almost 3 hours. Could see by the cars it was a good crowd. I know about the mixed reviews but for me its been good 5 out of 6 visits. There were roughly 20-25 dancers and maybe 25-30 customers. I saw Chasity in the parking lot on the way in and she waved. Chasity at 4:30 means she's not making the money and if that's the case she leaves early. She would often leave at 3:00 at Follies if she wasn't making her quota so that hasn't changed. Also tells me there must be some competition and there was. A couple Latin ladies (one who asked me again for dances, full service, or anything she can squeeze out of me), about 10 sloppy looking white women (an AA hard body dancer used that adjective to describe the white women in the house, on point I must say), and about 10 AA women. There were at least 2-3 pushing up into the 8-8. 5 range and a bunch 6's and 7's. Can't remember all that I danced but most of the dances were with Sparkle along with Canada and Melanin. There were others I would have like to have danced but I have a thing for Sparkle and she takes direction well and does her best to meet all my requests. That got her about 16 dances. I've heard complaints about the lighting. I agree that its too dark. I get all my dances under the flat screen TV's to illuminate the right areas. In general, most of my dances at Vivide are high mileage. A couple of the dancers I have had to encourage but others jump right in and have one hand wrapped around my noodle (through my pants, no dick out) while the other hand is spreading and massaging their kitty about a foot from my face with me giving an assist. That's pretty good mileage in my book.
Will add that I have done some limited OTC and have had multiple affirmative responses that they would be open to exploring OTC at some level. My level of enthusiastic responses for a dinner date have been better at Vivide than at any of the AA clubs I normally visit. I'll keep going as long as they have hot looking AA women that are open minded. As always, YMMV.
[QUOTE=JMAbacus;5507004]Was by Friday around 4:30 and stayed almost 3 hours. Could see by the cars it was a good crowd. I know about the mixed reviews but for me its been good 5 out of 6 visits. There were roughly 20-25 dancers and maybe 25-30 customers. I saw Chasity in the parking lot on the way in and she waved. Chasity at 4:30 means she's not making the money and if that's the case she leaves early. She would often leave at 3:00 at Follies if she wasn't making her quota so that hasn't changed. Also tells me there must be some competition and there was. A couple Latin ladies (one who asked me again for dances, full service, or anything she can squeeze out of me), about 10 sloppy looking white women (an AA hard body dancer used that adjective to describe the white women in the house, on point I must say), and about 10 AA women. There were at least 2-3 pushing up into the 8-8. 5 range and a bunch 6's and 7's. Can't remember all that I danced but most of the dances were with Sparkle along with Canada and Melanin. There were others I would have like to have danced but I have a thing for Sparkle and she takes direction well and does her best to meet all my requests. That got her about 16 dances. I've heard complaints about the lighting. I agree that its too dark. I get all my dances under the flat screen TV's to illuminate the right areas. In general, most of my dances at Vivide are high mileage. A couple of the dancers I have had to encourage but others jump right in and have one hand wrapped around my noodle (through my pants, no dick out) while the other hand is spreading and massaging their kitty about a foot from my face with me giving an assist. That's pretty good mileage in my book.
Will add that I have done some limited OTC and have had multiple affirmative responses that they would be open to exploring OTC at some level. My level of enthusiastic responses for a dinner date have been better at Vivide than at any of the AA clubs I normally visit. I'll keep going as long as they have hot looking AA women that are open minded. As always, YMMV.[/QUOTE]Would you care to provide details as to your current OTC activities? Prices, level of effort, etc? Not asking you to share your A-list, just trying to figure out if it's worth it.
[QUOTE=Niteluvr;5507071]Would you care to provide details as to your current OTC activities? Prices, level of effort, etc? Not asking you to share your A-list, just trying to figure out if it's worth it.[/QUOTE]Yes, I will share my limited knowledge via a PM. As general info, from my observations, I see full service with white women or Latin women in the club is as easy as falling off a log. I know that some or many of the AA women don't do full service in the club. I am guessing it is 50% but I will defer to someone that has had more than 6 visits. I know one that can provide it inside or OTC. She is smoking hot but she is selective as well. She had quoted me 3. 0 long ago but she is charging less than this for the VIP in the club. Obviously, if you get to know someone in the club that provides full service you can usually swing OTC with a little game. Everything tells me OTC is there with some work and is easier with some groups than others. I see it in the low effort category depending on your criteria and spend. Coming from out of state for day trips puts me in the high effort category. I can't just grab a room when the lady has a free moment. Takes me more up front getting to know them because my list of needs in the room is pretty specific and the logistics can be a challenge. I'll send a little more detail about what I am doing and paying.
Went to Fannies late last night before they closed and guess who I saw flirting with the guy sitting next to me at the bar. Yes! The White Big booty Latina Killer. I kept warning the guy next to me, "Hey, be careful, she will kill you! She's a killer!" I don't think he understood. She kept playing innocent like she didn't know what I was talking about. I tried to get her name but I think it was Michala or something.