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[QUOTE=LolBoat;5709408]And $109 it is![/QUOTE]So I'd have to purchase a $150 or $200 gift card to make an account that will only amount to frustration? Never touching that joke of a site again.
Anyone ever try sugardaddymeet? I've had success there in the past.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5c84fc49-67e0-4279-b94b-db302e4083b9[/URL]
This is will come to me and may be DTF, but I will never find out for sure as she wants 200 so I can watch her eat at the first meeting. I passed.
Has anyone recently met or have any recent insight?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a85d2047-b7bf-4961-82dc-7b5ca6fda3d4[/URL]
I've been curious. PM is fine if you'd like to be discreet. Curious to know where she's generally located or any details in general.
Always appreciate it.
[QUOTE=Limeyincal;5709816]A few years back it was $69.99 per month and there were lots of girls that wanted to f**k and there were minimal scammers!
Now it's like whack-a-mole wasting time with the scammers trying to find a legit naughty girl.
SMH.[/QUOTE]I remember when it was around $40! For now on I'm only going to use it when I travel or go on road trips (with the intent of doing some sugar dating! I had some time off from work a few months ago and that's why I decided to chime in here as this thread is very active compared to alot of other places.
[QUOTE=Jayp80;5709631]If they were actually providing a service it would be worth it right now it's just ******* with a $109/ month fee, small improvements could make it better.
- Show the nearest major city their phone showed they were located.
- The ability for one of use to click a button in the messages saying. We met in person, no more no less.
I've had an account several times in the past, I just can't do the scammers, fakers and now the content sellers.[/QUOTE]Getting rid of the scammers and pic sellers would be a good move in the right direction.
[QUOTE=EricLex;5711692]Has anyone recently met or have any recent insight?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a85d2047-b7bf-4961-82dc-7b5ca6fda3d4[/URL]
I've been curious. PM is fine if you'd like to be discreet. Curious to know where she's generally located or any details in general.
Always appreciate it.[/QUOTE]I saw her over the summer. See post #9585.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f2323e4b-011d-470c-b902-ce99c6650d19[/URL]
More on-line only bullshit.
These sites really are GARBAGE. At least on SA, people do engage (it's 99.9% bullshit) but I have gotten laid more than a few times and not just from seeds here. But it is crap.
I'm still fcuking this Polish girl on the semi-regular and have a cute little Latina girl as well.
Once my membership is done, that's it. For their Black Frid6 sale, the three month price wasn't too bad, but there are so many time wasters and scammers.
Hell, called a profile out for using Allison Parker's photos and this idiot tried to tell me "I look a lot like her". FCUK RIGHT OFF.
Was just on vacation in the Keys and the scene is almost nonexistent. Had a girl hit me up on SA saying she was there on vacation as well. Long story short we met up and spent the next two days together tearing up the town and on my boat. Super cute but a bit larger than the pics. She had mind blowing skills and was a blast to hang out with. The arrangement aspect was never discussed and made for a bit of an awkward parting in the end while we were waiting for her ride (her father!) to pick her up. She wouldn't give me any idea of her expectations so I gave her 6. She seemed indifferent with that. Just curious how others would handle the situation?
If she wouldn't offer up any suggestions what else are you going to do but go with whatever number you feel is appropriate. Sounds like she wasn't really in it for the money really.
6 bills for 2 days of fuck*ing and fun is certainly a bargain so good for you. I'd keep her number handy and see if there's a chance for another similar get together.
[QUOTE=XtoPlay75;5713687]Was just on vacation in the Keys and the scene is almost nonexistent. Had a girl hit me up on SA saying she was there on vacation as well. Long story short we met up and spent the next two days together tearing up the town and on my boat. Super cute but a bit larger than the pics. She had mind blowing skills and was a blast to hang out with. The arrangement aspect was never discussed and made for a bit of an awkward parting in the end while we were waiting for her ride (her father!) to pick her up. She wouldn't give me any idea of her expectations so I gave her 6. She seemed indifferent with that. Just curious how others would handle the situation?[/QUOTE]
Warning everyone here that Vixenpolina is a fake. Mega fake and likely a dude behind the curtain. Flaked at the absolute last minute. Don't have a link since I blocked and can't seem to unblock but you are warned.
[QUOTE=XtoPlay75;5713687]Was just on vacation in the Keys and the scene is almost nonexistent. Had a girl hit me up on SA saying she was there on vacation as well. Long story short we met up and spent the next two days together tearing up the town and on my boat. Super cute but a bit larger than the pics. She had mind blowing skills and was a blast to hang out with. The arrangement aspect was never discussed and made for a bit of an awkward parting in the end while we were waiting for her ride (her father!) to pick her up. She wouldn't give me any idea of her expectations so I gave her 6. She seemed indifferent with that. Just curious how others would handle the situation?[/QUOTE]If she didn't ask you shouldn't have gave her anything!
What's going on with the people in the reflection? LOL.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/49451acb-7f72-4c0e-a130-40a94af3ede3?ref=email-sa-new-members-rollup-user&locale=en_US[/URL]
[QUOTE=XtoPlay75;5713687]Was just on vacation in the Keys and the scene is almost nonexistent. Had a girl hit me up on SA saying she was there on vacation as well. Long story short we met up and spent the next two days together tearing up the town and on my boat. Super cute but a bit larger than the pics. She had mind blowing skills and was a blast to hang out with. The arrangement aspect was never discussed and made for a bit of an awkward parting in the end while we were waiting for her ride (her father!) to pick her up. She wouldn't give me any idea of her expectations so I gave her 6. She seemed indifferent with that. Just curious how others would handle the situation?[/QUOTE]Sounds like the free market was at work and you both got a pretty good deal.
She got PAID to be on vacation and got to spend time on a boat and you got to beat her pussy up for 2 days.
[QUOTE=StanCopier;5715148]What's going on with the people in the reflection? LOL.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/49451acb-7f72-4c0e-a130-40a94af3ede3?ref=email-sa-new-members-rollup-user&locale=en_US[/URL][/QUOTE]Looks to me like the guy was going to have a fun time with 2 woman LOL.
[QUOTE=StanCopier;5715148]What's going on with the people in the reflection? LOL.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/49451acb-7f72-4c0e-a130-40a94af3ede3?ref=email-sa-new-members-rollup-user&locale=en_US[/URL][/QUOTE]I DO get a real "scam / bullshit vibe", but stringing the interaction out. One thing this site has been good for is rehoming verbal jujitsu and trying to string out convos and call them out on their bullshit.
Messaged him inquired about the gb, he said 4-6 guys 600 a guy. LOL. You can get porn stars for that by yourself. Who is paying 600 to be with 4-6 guys? Lmao. I'm guessing a scammer.
[QUOTE=ChiGuy27;5709835]I have a friend who I met off SA a while back (used to see for arrangements), and she asked me if I would reach out to see if there are any willing participants to help her. She wants 4-6 guys, for FUN. Ds for her gang bang.
I don't post often and find the threads fun and entertaining, but since she asked me to help her, I'm putting this out there. She's real but not a porn star, just a low key freak that needs help.
Serious mongers only. Pm for details.[/QUOTE].
[QUOTE=JDuB1970;5716275]I DO get a real "scam / bullshit vibe".[/QUOTE]Yeah, definitely something going on here.
[URL]https://devicartel.com/jenelle[/URL]
[QUOTE=TimeForPlay10;5708289]Please clear your inbox. Can't PM.[/QUOTE]Anyone have recent success in paying with a gift card on SA? What card did you use?
Just busted out someone using a minorly famous model's images.
[QUOTE=TroyAkerman;5716545]Messaged him inquired about the gb, he said 4-6 guys 600 a guy. LOL. You can get porn stars for that by yourself. Who is paying 600 to be with 4-6 guys? Lmao. I'm guessing a scammer.
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[QUOTE=All4U412;5716558]Yeah, definitely something going on here.
[URL]https://devicartel.com/jenelle[/URL][/QUOTE]
Should have not deleted her, but she wants 2 K for twice a month.
[QUOTE=ChiGuy27;5709835]I have a friend who I met off SA a while back (used to see for arrangements), and she asked me if I would reach out to see if there are any willing participants to help her. She wants 4-6 guys, for FUN. Ds for her gang bang.
I don't post often and find the threads fun and entertaining, but since she asked me to help her, I'm putting this out there. She's real but not a porn star, just a low key freak that needs help.
Serious mongers only. Pm for details.[/QUOTE]This is Danny / Daniel LOL.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e86221dd-79de-4223-8fa4-13df8b6b0262[/URL]
Starts off as super sweet. Tells you she is a virgin. Then hits you with being a pic seller.
She gets REALLY mad when you decline.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0b9ddcd5-4225-4c5a-b8d2-5dcd6326c04d[/URL]
This one just wants to get paid to eat while she builds enough comfort to someday fuck. Right.
[QUOTE=All4U412;5716558]Yeah, definitely something going on here.
[URL]https://devicartel.com/jenelle[/URL][/QUOTE]That's really her on seeking. She gave me her Snapchat. I am not going through with seeing her though. Mainly for health / safety.
Peeps,
I have used SA mostly internationally with great results. I've been on one date in the USA and it went well.
I am married and was looking to try adding a girl but for me and my wife to try out. I asked some SA girls a while back and they said there are many couples on it.
I was wondering if any of you all had a personal experience find a girl for a threesome or heard of it happening and going well? We are both under 40 and fit if that matters?
My wife is okay with trying a threesome but if I tell her the girl is from a site like SA she might have some hesitations LOL.
Thanks.
Ok, it's happened several times. Got banned with a new account after barely chatting. Once within days of the account was opened.
So help me through, I know email addresses, phone numbers, photos and street addresses for new accounts are all checked against closed / banned accounts. I think IP addresses too.
What do I need to do? How do I assure IP address that I'm using has not already been used? I tried Brave and it seemed to work for awhile. But even then the account got banned. How do.
What else do I need to be aware of?
TIA.
[QUOTE=Eternalchaoz;5718456]That's really her on seeking. She gave me her Snapchat. I am not going through with seeing her though. Mainly for health / safety.[/QUOTE]Can you elaborate on why you think that's a concern in her case? Any info on $$ and / or menu?
[QUOTE=Truthfu11;5720076]Ok, it's happened several times. Got banned with a new account after barely chatting. Once within days of the account was opened.
So help me through, I know email addresses, phone numbers, photos and street addresses for new accounts are all checked against closed / banned accounts. I think IP addresses too.
What do I need to do? How do I assure IP address that I'm using has not already been used? I tried Brave and it seemed to work for awhile. But even then the account got banned. How do.
What else do I need to be aware of?
TIA.[/QUOTE]Buy an unlocked phone. Get prepaid service for it. Ex if you have tmobile don't get a prepaid service that uses tmobiles towers. Get one that would use Verizon or ATTs. Sign up for a new email with the new phone. Don't connect to any networks (your home WiFi for example) that you have used in the past.
[QUOTE=RusselJimmies;5720089]Can you elaborate on why you think that's a concern in her case? Any info on $$ and / or menu?[/QUOTE]She looks to be very active to say the least. She's into multiple guys etc.
I believe she wanted 6 when I talked to her.
[QUOTE=Eternalchaoz;5720881]She looks to be very active to say the least. She's into multiple guys etc.
I believe she wanted 6 when I talked to her.[/QUOTE]Are you saying she wanted 6 SD's? Or 6 guys at once for a gb?
[QUOTE=JayChitown;5720744]Buy an unlocked phone. Get prepaid service for it. Ex if you have tmobile don't get a prepaid service that uses tmobiles towers. Get one that would use Verizon or ATTs. Sign up for a new email with the new phone. Don't connect to any networks (your home WiFi for example) that you have used in the past.[/QUOTE]So you mean do all communication over the phone? Any way to get access on a PC?
I just received a permanent ban on SA for soliciting sex. Problem is, I let my account expire a few weeks ago, so I haven't even communicated with anyone. LOL.
I think they are penalizing people who don't continue to renew, and who they think would continue to use the free part for the most part. (That's definitely me LOL).
This isn't the best business model, but I'm not going to fight it. The prospects were pretty lame anyway, and I have a current list of possibles, including one I'm meeting today. That could last me for a good while, if I'm lucky. If not, it'll be like the last 6 months, no success.
Are there other viable alternatives in Chicago? I was a member it The Enough Report for years, before it shut down for a while. I have looked at the site but I can't say I want to see escorts if possible. How else can we connect with real women and keep it casual / discreet. I'm definitely looking for suggestions, but I don't feel much loss about SA.
[QUOTE=Truthfu11;5720076]Ok, it's happened several times. Got banned with a new account after barely chatting. Once within days of the account was opened.
So help me through, I know email addresses, phone numbers, photos and street addresses for new accounts are all checked against closed / banned accounts. I think IP addresses too.
What do I need to do? How do I assure IP address that I'm using has not already been used? I tried Brave and it seemed to work for awhile. But even then the account got banned. How do.
What else do I need to be aware of?
TIA.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BaltoMan66;5721327]
I think they are penalizing people who don't continue to renew, and who they think would continue to use the free part for the most part. (That's definitely me LOL).
[/QUOTE]I think you may be right. I had my original account there for a couple years without any problems, but at one point I closed / deleted it. I later attempted to create a new one and despite the fact I hadn't been banned they restricted me then deleted me. They would never tell me why they're doing it, so obviously it's some algorithm bullshit where the bot says so and they won't look into it. Ever since, I've been able to periodically create free accounts with new email addresses, but as soon as I try to upload a photo (even a brand new one never before used) or move up to a paid account I get put on "restricted" and the only way to get out of that is to send them a picture of my photo I'd. No way am I doing that!
As of 2-3 years ago they are increasingly suspicious of VPNs as well.
Or $600 from 6 SD.
[QUOTE=Rizpat;5721200]Are you saying she wanted 6 SD's? Or 6 guys at once for a gb?[/QUOTE]
When you guys got banned, did you try disputing it with tech support? I've done it multiple times and just had to sign a waiver more or less.
Some of you are getting banned because you are solicitating sex. You need to figure out how to soft pedal that.
In MANY WAYS you really need to take notes from the mindset of the woman. Since she was 11 yrs old or even younger, males have been sexualizing her one way or another. Unless she is coming in to you, really direct about: THIS IS ABOUT SEX AND WE ARE GOING TO FUCK you are going to continue to get into trouble. To put this another way, imagine if a bunch of Gay Men were to flood your inbox. I promise you, you wouldn't like it.
Part of the problem, I can guarantee, is that you aren't really taking an actual interest IN HER and not drawing her out enough. You are probably not reading her bio and not mirroring information back to her. Much like any other on-line dating, you have to dance the dance and show that you are not some monger who doesn't want to hire an escort in the traditional sense. Some of these girls ARE up for a PPM and are willing to negotiate. Some aren't and so be it.
By being more indirect and being careful about innuendo, you will start to find women who actually JUST WANT TO go to dinner and then fuck. I've done this twice this last week and now one of them wants me to come over on Thursday and fuck her and her roommate.
I can promise you that you are telegraphing your neediness and your desperation in what you write and these women can smell it on you through the screen.
Your opening line should be simple and NOT putting her on a pedestal, but she still should have an idea that you do find her attractive. I have a THREE WORD opener that works at least 35% of the time. That is a pretty solid return and it generally hooks whom I'm actually interested in.
Girls who are "not quite so hot. " tell them that they ARE pretty. Don't be gushing about it, but let them know somehow that you do find them attractive.
Girls who ARE hot, don't ever compliment them on their looks again. Tell pretty girls how clever or smart they are.
If she tells you her name, USE IT as naturally but as OFTEN as possible.
[QUOTE=Truthfu11;5721312]So you mean do all communication over the phone? Any way to get access on a PC?[/QUOTE]You can try laptop (that you haven't logged into SA with) with a hotspot. Don't use your phone as a hotspot, buy a modem hotspot.
Colorado number.
Will give you a sob story about being a single mom. Want to text? Then "what are you into, sexually" and then becomes a pic seller.
[/URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/683a5ef1-4902-4681-913e-a8b266110e94[/URL]
[QUOTE=JDuB1970;5722085]Some of you are getting banned because you are solicitating sex. You need to figure out how to soft pedal that.
In MANY WAYS you really need to take notes from the mindset of the woman. Since she was 11 yrs old or even younger, males have been sexualizing her one way or another. Unless she is coming in to you, really direct about: THIS IS ABOUT SEX AND WE ARE GOING TO FUCK you are going to continue to get into trouble. To put this another way, imagine if a bunch of Gay Men were to flood your inbox. I promise you, you wouldn't like it.
Part of the problem, I can guarantee, is that you aren't really taking an actual interest IN HER and not drawing her out enough. You are probably not reading her bio and not mirroring information back to her. Much like any other on-line dating, you have to dance the dance and show that you are not some monger who doesn't want to hire an escort in the traditional sense. Some of these girls ARE up for a PPM and are willing to negotiate. Some aren't and so be it.
By being more indirect and being careful about innuendo, you will start to find women who actually JUST WANT TO go to dinner and then fuck. I've done this twice this last week and now one of them wants me to come over on Thursday and fuck her and her roommate.
I can promise you that you are telegraphing your neediness and your desperation in what you write and these women can smell it on you through the screen.
Your opening line should be simple and NOT putting her on a pedestal, but she still should have an idea that you do find her attractive. I have a THREE WORD opener that works at least 35% of the time. That is a pretty solid return and it generally hooks whom I'm actually interested in.
Girls who are "not quite so hot. " tell them that they ARE pretty. Don't be gushing about it, but let them know somehow that you do find them attractive.
Girls who ARE hot, don't ever compliment them on their looks again. Tell pretty girls how clever or smart they are.
If she tells you her name, USE IT as naturally but as OFTEN as possible.[/QUOTE]Perhaps you are describing a lot of guys who are immature, disrespectful and all around dicks. I am the complete opposite. I even have in my profile that I am looking for a platonic arrangement. Yes, no fucking is okay with me. I've had several very satisfying arrangements structured without fucking.
What also burns me is that I've heard stories / real life situations where women were raped, taken against their will and abused by lying men they met on SA.
So, back to my original question. If SA plays games with me and suspends me for bogus reasons (I even suspect that I might have been set-up) how do I get around their inflexible bans and suspensions? I've actually had very good responses and some long term arrangements that were based on respect and mutual understanding. Can anyone offer a step by step process to create a profile that is totally unique and avoids SAs bots and screening?
I don't know what to tell you and people ARE getting banned for solicitation.
You can exclaim all you want as to how "nice of a guy" that you are, but here you are. Sounds like you've got your situation on lock so I don't know why you responded to my post? I didn't call you out.
[QUOTE=Truthfu11;5722743]Perhaps you are describing a lot of guys who are immature, disrespectful and all around dicks. I am the complete opposite. I even have in my profile that I am looking for a platonic arrangement. Yes, no fucking is okay with me. I've had several very satisfying arrangements structured without fucking.
What also burns me is that I've heard stories / real life situations where women were raped, taken against their will and abused by lying men they met on SA.
So, back to my original question. If SA plays games with me and suspends me for bogus reasons (I even suspect that I might have been set-up) how do I get around their inflexible bans and suspensions? I've actually had very good responses and some long term arrangements that were based on respect and mutual understanding. Can anyone offer a step by step process to create a profile that is totally unique and avoids SAs bots and screening?[/QUOTE]