I realize we are analyzing short envelops versus cash and dash but do either possibilities exist in a parking lot? I think the only mistake made here was not paying attention to the big head and it's red flags. I would have driven off long before handing any money over. I've no showed for less than that. One provider would randomly text me for open availability. I'm a married man and don't need the wife stumbling into any text before me. I was so uncomfortable with the random texts that I just blew off the appointment as nothing else seemed to work to make the texts go away. I decided "the hell with a good reference I don't need this drama.". Long story short, there are plenty of great providers out there that don't make this hobby more nerve racking than it needs to be. So lesson learned about Alexis? Take the report as intended: She's full of drama and not worth it. No need to over analyze the specifics and come to a providers defense unnecessarily. There are reviewers more worthy of critique, like me for example. Smile. Let's not piss off our brothers willing to share information, to the point we leave them uncomfortable doing so in the future.
[QUOTE=B Beall;1167855]And while I disagree with Golfcart regarding the particulars of the alexisann deal (assuming, that is, that she made off with the donation, which has not been clearly stated) I do applaud him for equating short envelopes with cash and dash; they're both theft. Yet you have any number of hobbyists who scream bloody murder whenever any detail doesn't go their way, but imagine that running over, or finagling uncompensated time, is all part of the game.[/QUOTE]