[QUOTE=Tribeca67;6569693]Anyone seen her?[/QUOTE]Paid meet and greet and then does the send gas money for future meetings scam. Waste of time.
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[QUOTE=Tribeca67;6569693]Anyone seen her?[/QUOTE]Paid meet and greet and then does the send gas money for future meetings scam. Waste of time.
[QUOTE=Falconwings33;6588647]I have seen about a dozen or so women, out of these there have been only 2 that I saw more than once. I tend to lose interest after the first time, is it just me? Even though it is a pain to vet someone new and go through the hoops to finally make it happen (which I know is not easy) the excitement of meeting someone new is always better for me than seeing someone that I have been with before. Was curious if others felt the same way. I also want to know how do you guys get out of a SD arrangement, these girls keep hitting me up asking to meet again and I find myself running out of excuses. I never ghost anyone and want to find a way to politely ask them to move on.[/QUOTE]I've been on the site for about eight years now. And I run into the situation about once a year. The exit plan. Here is something I am very upfront right out of the gate if it turns into anything more than a one night stand and there's going to be some type of relationship. I tell them I am allowancing you. I am giving you money. You are providing a service of sorts. Therefore I am a customer and at any time I want to cut it off I have the right to do that because I am paying you. If you want the right to dig your claws into me and make my life a living hell because I want to move on? Then you do not get to charge me an allowance for your service. LOL it's like the old saying, you are paying them to leave. Many of these women lose sight of that as the relationship progresses. But all of these arrangements come to an end eventually. The only question is how messy will it get. They can get extremely attached and extremely clingy. And that can turn into vengefulness and making your life hell in an instant. So for that reason I remind them often throughout the course of our relationship. If you want it to be different, quit accepting my money. The last sugar baby I had lasted a year. She literally thought of herself as my girlfriend and I pretty much treated her that way. In the end I reminded her that I had seen her dozens of times over the last year. Probably about 80 times. And every single one of those times, she had no issues whatsoever taking my money. So therefore she didn't get the right to act like a jaded girlfriend when it came to an end. That still didn't work though. Not until I sent her a picture of my dick in another woman's mouth. She finally got it then. Sue tried to get nasty with me over leaving. Rip that bandaid off and don't let them play games. If you do, you'll regret it.
Call it 80 bucks down the drain and a lesson learned. 10-12 messages received from "verified" profiles, when I reply I hear back from none. I have no doubt there are real people on there but I do feel baited into spending that 80 to see the messages that were dead ends. Much better engagement and responses from seeking and I'll stick with it instead.
[QUOTE=RitterJ87;6593723]Paid meet and greet and then does the send gas money for future meetings scam. Waste of time.[/QUOTE]I genuinely don't understand why anyone is agreeing to pay just to meet and buy them drinks / food. As far as I have seen, that never goes well, and you are feeding into GPS entitlement.
Same observation here. Considering the pricing structure, I say get a membership to Seeking and carpet bomb anyone of interest with your phone number. You will definitely get some hits.
Sometimes I think Secret is full of fake profiles. They send you an initial messages and you pay to read / reply. Then nothing but silence. Good business model.
[QUOTE=Swimmer123;6597490]Call it 80 bucks down the drain and a lesson learned. 10-12 messages received from "verified" profiles, when I reply I hear back from none. I have no doubt there are real people on there but I do feel baited into spending that 80 to see the messages that were dead ends. Much better engagement and responses from seeking and I'll stick with it instead.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Swimmer123;6597490]Call it 80 bucks down the drain and a lesson learned. 10-12 messages received from "verified" profiles, when I reply I hear back from none. I have no doubt there are real people on there but I do feel baited into spending that 80 to see the messages that were dead ends. Much better engagement and responses from seeking and I'll stick with it instead.[/QUOTE]Secret benefits is Totally a scam. I am thinking the girls get paid on there if they make guys spend credits. In the past 5 or so years I have used SB I had one decent arrangement with one girl and had about 4 or 5 conversations, like at least 2 replies to my messages. I have record and replied to easily a 100 girls.
I too had more luck with SA and also WYP.
A random tip: messages sent at the [URL]Seeking.com[/URL] website can have vertical widespace (I. E. Carriage returns, separated paragraphs). On the app, it can't. So if you send a carefully organized message that separates its core ideas thoughtfully and cleanly, just know that in the app, it's all getting squished together like the rantings of a crazy person.
[QUOTE=jobobtheclown;6601904]A random tip: messages sent at the [URL]Seeking.com[/URL] website can have vertical widespace (I. E. Carriage returns, separated paragraphs). On the app, it can't. So if you send a carefully organized message that separates its core ideas thoughtfully and cleanly, just know that in the app, it's all getting squished together like the rantings of a crazy person.[/QUOTE]While likely very true, I've found the young ladies in their 20's use iphones almost exclusively and are forced to use the website. I rarely venture out of that age range, so no app problems on my end, LOL.
Has anyone managed to get anything from this one? Would love any insight.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a5fadfe9-df01-4541-956f-59d20ec45496[/URL]
Figured, I'd share some of me experiences with you guys. Feel free to ask any questions you have and I will try to answer.
Alexis.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a7edfecd-f4b7-4e46-8aac-5624d4eb6453[/URL]
This one started to ask money in the first conversation off the site, I asked for a meet and greet first and then she went silent on me.
Kamorra.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/147c3ecc-31c2-413f-8583-2dc707f86217[/URL]
She is a stripper and DTF. Kinda expensive but YMMV with this one. I had a great time.
Fungymgirl.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/33240e39-9e74-4ce2-98b6-9d98a9cce9ef[/URL]
This one was an UTR type, a regular college girl and I am bummed that I let it get away. Somehow our schedules could not work and the last message I got was that she was not in hobby for now. Maybe she might be back.
Nicocacola.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/722fa89e-fa84-46a4-b380-3dc44468cd23[/URL]
She is real and is into BDSM, I think she is a Dom. Mige find her on fetflife, anyway that is not my thing so I did not pursue.
Sexijessi.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1a2dd331-c5e0-4b15-9817-115bdd49f518[/URL]
She is one of the hottest girls I have met on seeking but the experience itself wasnt great. Just something she did that turned me off and I did not see her again. Great body and cute face.
BeanieBaby94.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ce32d2aa-f1c4-4139-8c54-8cd0e4d5b2a7[/URL]
Could not meet her, chatted with her for over a few weeks but she never agreed on a date, waste of time.
Ginger.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/138a1217-a310-405b-bb9c-f4eac8e3729c[/URL]
MILF types, she was ready to meet for the deed. I felt she had a bit of GPS or was just kinds rude while chatting so I skipped.
Some other ones that I cannot find on the site anymore, maybe they blocked me.
Funblonde. Another MILF, average body but cute. Kinda bad in bed. Was not willing to try postions and coming up with some excuses.
Bella99, Rebella. Chatted with these two and exchanged pics, looked really hot but could not meet due to schedules.
Have had about a dozen. About six were one and done. No exit strategy needed. Just don't text them.
Saw about 4-5 for a few times each. Usually it was mixture of waning fun, chemistry, better / cheaper / wider menu option, or inability to meet up consistently. Those I just sent a respectful text message. They sent back a respectful text message back and wished me well and that was that.
I had one for almost two years and this one was tough. I was going to do it in person but in the end I just ended it with a long text. There really isn't any easy exit strategy. Every arrangement / person is different.
After the breakup, only two girls ever contacted me again. One I saw a few times again after a year hiatus but I just stopped texting her. I didn't feel like "breaking up" with her twice LOL. The long term I am still in contact with but no sugar is exchanged.
[QUOTE=Falconwings33;6588647]I have seen about a dozen or so women, out of these there have been only 2 that I saw more than once. I tend to lose interest after the first time, is it just me? Even though it is a pain to vet someone new and go through the hoops to finally make it happen (which I know is not easy) the excitement of meeting someone new is always better for me than seeing someone that I have been with before. Was curious if others felt the same way. I also want to know how do you guys get out of a SD arrangement, these girls keep hitting me up asking to meet again and I find myself running out of excuses. I never ghost anyone and want to find a way to politely ask them to move on.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JDeller;6605554]Have had about a dozen. About six were one and done. No exit strategy needed. Just don't text them.
Saw about 4-5 for a few times each. Usually it was mixture of waning fun, chemistry, better / cheaper / wider menu option, or inability to meet up consistently. Those I just sent a respectful text message. They sent back a respectful text message back and wished me well and that was that.
I had one for almost two years and this one was tough. I was going to do it in person but in the end I just ended it with a long text. There really isn't any easy exit strategy. Every arrangement / person is different.
After the breakup, only two girls ever contacted me again. One I saw a few times again after a year hiatus but I just stopped texting her. I didn't feel like "breaking up" with her twice LOL. The long term I am still in contact with but no sugar is exchanged.[/QUOTE]Thank you for sharing.
Any info on this one? Also if anyone wants to trade videos from girls on seeking only. Pm me.
Anyone want swap contacts?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d59a4587-2bfe-4d2a-aaec-8d85d52153c6[/URL]
Chat was ok talking about meeting but then wanted to know what she could do to earn $100 right now. Ghosted after refusing.