Answer to Question about Saffron
[QUOTE=DNut;4074410]Does Saffron still go au natural when it comes to body hair? I remember old reports that likes to keep natural unshaven hair in her armpits, Bush, legs, etc. Still true?[/QUOTE]Yes, she does.
If your a client it doesn't have to be aYMMV
[QUOTE=BTBear;4080634]The fact that there is no clear definition of GFE just proves that it is a very YMMV kind of appointment. I totally agree that there has to be some emotional and physical attraction and interaction. Now whether the lady really feels that she likes you and likes having sex with you can and is in most cases an act. I have an provider friend who when she talks with me about appointments often says, "And the Oscar goes to. " because she is acting when she is with a customer. I have often heard from ladies that they have dual personalities: Sally Nympho and Martha Maiden. The nympho is who she is when fucking for money and the maiden is who she is with her SO.
GFE and PSE are just two of the confusing things said in reviews and ads. I have wondered what ladies are really saying when they say "Open Minded?" Does that mean anal? Fetishes? BBFS? Who knows? That is why honest reviews are important for us the consumers.
The definitions of GFE, PSE and Open Minded will always be somewhat vague.[/QUOTE]If you see someone more than once or twice it becomes clearer what a GFE really means.
There is a certain amount of decorum one has to possess. Being clean fresh breath and most of all height weight proportionate.
If you can't have these plus not smelling like you've just gotten off your job or as we age smelling like an old man don't expect a GFE experience. Just because you are paying for her time you can demand a GFE.
I think young girls don't want an old man's tongue in their mouth. Right now my lady I see twice a week is in her 50's.
Other ladies I see that give me a GFE experience are in their 30's and up.
One of the hottest women I see over in Pittsburgh is in her 60's.
So when you complain about a gal not being a GFE for you. Look in the mirror and be the best you can be.
And you will be rewarded. Light cologne and clean clothes being clean shaven or having a beard that smells nice and neatly trimmed. Think to yourself. Would a woman want to give me the girl friend experience?
Be the guy that says. Hell yes.
Freaky Friday (It happened twice in a night!)
Sooo, Thursday night I try to set something up for Friday evening. My ATF tells me that she had a prearranged booking for her lottery winner, so I called my other ATF, willing to make the drive, and she was a no go also. I call up my one and only UTR and she says we are good for 6 pm Friday. I confirm Friday afternoon and then one hour before, I get "the text", I am not going to be ready at our appointed time. Says she wants to meet 30 minutes later, no reason given. I say I can't do it and that we could reschedule later in the weekend. She then says she can make it work. I am still learning the ropes here guys, so I did not realize that was code for "I double booked". WTF! Are you serious?" You are a UTR, and you are double booking? Anyway, did not realize that until I made the drive, arrived early, and sat in the parking lot waiting for her to get there from wherever she was coming from (my bad assumption). She then texts me that she is running 5 minutes late and that turned into 15 minutes til I get the "I am ready" text. Now wait, I just saw a guy come out of her place, so I ask her if she is home? She admits she is and actually admits to having a previous appointment. So, if it was one of you guys coming out, I saw you walking to your car. I feel bad for you because I am sure she was texting and rushing you in your session. Needless to say, I tell her I am not interested in tardy, sloppy seconds and bid her adoo and blocked her. She knows my rules, and I have no UTR now. LOL.
So, I check the review board and send out several texts and Genesis is the first to respond. Based on recent reviews by senior members, I decide to give Genesis a shot. As I am getting ready to pull out of the parking spot I was in, I get hit by another car pulling out. Long story short, I have to wait for the police and told Genesis what was going on and that we would need to reschedule. An hour or more later, I ask her if she is still available and she says yes. I tell her I can be there in 20 minutes and she says "that is perfect". I get there and she says I need to hit the local pharmacy and get her some wet wipes to clean up after our session. First of all, why don't you get your own supplies, and two, why aren't you shower fresh after each session. Again, I did not realize this was another code for "I double booked" until after I get back to the parking lot with the baby wipes and see another of you coming out, get in your car, and then get the "I am ready" text. WTF! Twice in one night! So, I am thinking, maybe Maci had that appointment, and I deliver the baby wipes. But alas, Genesis was the only one not fully clothed and immediately took out some wet wipes and went to the bathroom. Needless to say, I just couldn't do it. I gave Maci $20 as I was leaving (I am sure you guys will yell at me for that), and then they get the block. Again, I hope whichever of you guys was there did not get a bad or rushed session from her texting and such.
Conclusion: If you have to delay our appointment time FOR ANY REASON, you double booked me. If you are a provider reading this, just be on time and I won't question how recent you saw your last client. If you double book me, you get blocked and you won't get my play money. I am curious though, how do you guys handle this issue? I suspect that them double booking is a consequence of you guys canceling appointments. I have never canceled or ghosted a provider.
As always, YMMV.
JAC.
No shows, double bookings, etc.
[QUOTE=BTBear;4095039]I totally agree with your assumption. The hobby has certainly changed. In the short time since the "Blackout of 2018" there seems to be an abundance and growth of double bookings and "crickets. " Can you blame a provider double booking when she has had 6 NCNS and 8 last minute cancellations in 10 days? (that is a direct quote from a provider I just saw.) The airlines double book seats because of cancellations. Hotels sometimes do it too (I was once walked from Bally's in LV to a Holiday Inn because of overbooking.).
There are a number of posts by guys who say "better have a back up plan booked when you deal with... " so I am sure that some of us do it too.
I think that the influx of druggie BP girls and Street Walkers with cell phones who now post on the web allow for the guys to cancel at the last minute because some "lady" finally got back to them with a lower price / better deal so they cancel with the woman who is waiting in the hotel room she just bought for their appointment. The women probably hear the "I was in a wreck. " or "I got busy at work. " excuse as much as we hear "my phone died. " or "give me another 10 minutes. " that turns into 30 because her QV stayed for 45 minutes. The women really don't have a forum to complain in, they also fear reprisals by the guys through lack of appointments.
I have been a hobbyist for about 30 years. I remember when a lady was always "shower fresh" and on time for our one hour appointment. I say one hour because back in the day no one did half hours or quick visits. They weren't on drugs. This was a "job" not a ATM for their drug habit. Each party had at least a little respect for the other, women today are often seen as "cum buckets" and the men are just means to an end. Of course an hour was $150 or less, but when a lady today factors in several NCNS or cancellations with the cost of the room, they are often making less than that, which is why some ladies stay at "Notels" instead of Ritzes so they can cut their expected losses.
Yes we have the money so we should control the market. But they have the pussy. Who wins? With the current "state of the Hobby" I am not sure if anyone wins. Probably the only one who wins is Steve at EE. I wonder how often his ladies are NCNS'd or Cancelled on? Maybe it is the fear that we, the Hobbyist, can't book through him again if we do either. At least with EE, you know that a hot woman is awaiting your arrival, but she is also more expensive than the BP / Druggie provider. He also can maintain a standard of quality. Look at how fast a former sweetheart of USASG was bounced when she Cash & Dashed a client (though it was someone she booked directly.).
This post was not meant as a "white knight" post, but was just a post saying that we all should look in the mirror and ask, "Are we part of the problem?[/QUOTE]I agree with BTBear and I also remember the good ol' days when the girls showed up on time and were clean and fresh. I didn't participate too often back then, only when I was on the road and traveling without co-workers. But the girls were polite, friendly and clean and I don't recall a single one of them being strung out or drugged up. Conversely, though, we (at least I always did) treated them with respect also. Yes, heard a few stories from a couple of girls who were treated a bit roughly, but for the most part it was a mutually respectful and fun time for both parties. I'm an older guy (I assume BTBear is also) and, as much as I hate to say it, I really think the younger generation--guys and girls--are largely at fault here. How many times do you see ads that state something along the lines of, "I love older guys" or "looking for older gentlemen"? And there's a BUNCH of ads from black providers that state "no AA under 30", etc. I've spoken to a black provider about that and she flat out told me that young black guys are rude, cheap and sloppy. (I'm not trying to start a race riot here, just repeating what I've heard.) Anyway, I think it's safe to say that the crickets and no-shows that we have to put up with are partially the result of OUR (mongers') lack of respect and simple good manners in the way we treat the ladies. Unfortunately, all this ranting and raving probably won't change a damn thing.
Totally agree with you Lenny.
[QUOTE=Lenny6746;4095518]We all have different tastes. Mine is barebacking providers. I also DTAY with them. Theres always a risk with every provider we meet. I try to make that risk as small as I can. I've been asked how I know they will bareback. Its simple I ask them LOL. Alot of them upcharge for it. I won't give more for it. Most of their rates are too high for what you get to begin with. If I have to wear a cover the first time and then bareback her the second time I will do that. Its like kind of getting to know her and how well she fucks. Some I walkout on for different reasons. Especially if I'm not attracted to them. Or body oder or their additude. Needle marks are another. Its not luck. You have to know what your doing. I also get checked. Even if you wear a cover you need to get checked. Thats up to you. For me theres nothing better than seeing my cum run down their legs and filling them up. I don't mind hairy or shaved. Good Hunting Lenny6746 And yes I've been doing this for years now.[/QUOTE]Most women I have been with love a man's cock in them and a number of them if you are good will ask you to finish in them as they love the feel of the sperm deep inside. I won't go BB with a SWalker and won't bareback a woman Greek as I don't love greek. I simply adore going down on a woman and have had a number of women ask me to do it to them as they tell me I am very good at it Even better if they love to get off more than once. Even had one woman ask me back gratis just for that with her doing mutual 69. Most women will be back with you if you are kind and clean and I have a bucket list of ladies that I want to be with and am working on. Any lady who loves the feel of a man deep inside of them or orally working on them for multiple O's may feel free to contact me. Be clean kind and enjoy what you do along with being reasonable. Those who can not get pregnant go to the head of the line. Those who have top of the line BC are also preferences. I will be in Dayton Cincy area next weekend Any ladies who want to play PM discretion assured. Doc.
Hell my new bareback advisor!
And of course it would be Bengallman. You started this now lets end this here. What the fuck you think your coaching?? A fucking 18 year old? Grow up and keep your advise to yourself. We simply don't need your HORSESHIT. I put out a true report and you and your triple covered dick had to shoot your mouth off. Mongers like you give us a bad rap. I hope every monger on here starts barebacking safely of course. Have fun out there Lenny6746 over and out. Bareback of course.