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[QUOTE=Fitzie00;7249124]Minimum $150 for oral only? (FS not mentioned) Nope.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LetsGetStarted;7248899][URL]https://skipthegames.com/posts/monroe/female-escorts/caucasian_w/tallskinnyenergetic--geat-senc/817777088045[/URL] anyone familiar with this one is in the Monroe escort section but says out of Ann arbor.[/QUOTE]She goes by Lexie. If she is in the same place as when I saw here it was the north side of Ann Arbor. She has a few reviews.

[QUOTE=Dalton13;7235510]Actually this is very very sad to see happen. This girl had so much going for herself.[/QUOTE]Sorry fellow mongers. Was hoping for more. Knew I was rolling the dice but worth a try for only 90.

Her appearance isn't going to get any better but maybe her attitude would be better right after she's had a fix. I saw her in the morning and she didn't even have her makeup on yet.

[QUOTE=PhatUnit;7242538]She is a fruit loop lost in a box of wheaties. Annoying voice too. Heavy filters on those pics. Boyfriend may join in from watching in the closet if you actually get a visit.[/QUOTE]Agree. Contacted her Weds to make an appt. For Friday or Sat based on her schedule, she has some stringent screening. Then followed up with 1 text per day asking about appt. And didn't hear back. Sent message through tryst and she goes on this rant about me being pushy and said when I ignored you why didn't you just go to the next girl. Well, I didn't realize she was ignoring me because she indicated she almost blocked me accidentally. Wouldn't a simple response like "no longer interested" be much more effective. I am a newbie, so maybe 1 text / day is pushy, don't know. I usually text once and if no response, I don't pursue. And usually have to contact several just to get a response. Newbie here, what am I doing wrong mongers?

[QUOTE=PhatUnit;7242538]She is a fruit loop lost in a box of wheaties. Annoying voice too. Heavy filters on those pics. Boyfriend may join in from watching in the closet if you actually get a visit.[/QUOTE]Sure is, steer clear gents. Screening process is stringent- asks for a selfie holding DL.

Anyone seen her? Can't find any recent reports. Feel free to pm. Thanks!

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Anyone know what happened to Gypsy? She used to work out of ypsi a lot.

[QUOTE=Rogue59;7249795]Agree. Contacted her Weds to make an appt. For Friday or Sat based on her schedule, she has some stringent screening. Then followed up with 1 text per day asking about appt. And didn't hear back. Sent message through tryst and she goes on this rant about me being pushy and said when I ignored you why didn't you just go to the next girl. Well, I didn't realize she was ignoring me because she indicated she almost blocked me accidentally. Wouldn't a simple response like "no longer interested" be much more effective. I am a newbie, so maybe 1 text / day is pushy, don't know. I usually text once and if no response, I don't pursue. And usually have to contact several just to get a response. Newbie here, what am I doing wrong mongers?[/QUOTE]You admit to being a newbie, so here's my 2 cents (In general, I never saw this particular woman).

The vast majority of these women are NOT charter members of the Chamber of Commerce. It's not unusual that one doesn't reply to your text. You can try her again, but don't be a pain in the ass.

Recognize that there are two kinds of women. One type thinks "she's special" and DEMANDS appointments (like a doctor) and probably a day before confirmation text saying that you didn't forget. But that's it, she doesn't want to "shoot the breeze" with you. Unwanted contact by you, or sexual subjects, is a red-flag for her.

Another type really doesn't make future appointments, and doesn't want you to bother her unless you want to see her "in an hour". She'll reply to your text based on her desire for a date "right now". Like the other type, she doesn't want long or frequent chats with you.

And of course there are women somewhere in the middle. How will you know her type? Ask her what her preference is.

If this particular woman said that you were being pushy, YOU WERE!

But it's ok, this hobby has a big learning curve, and most of us have made the same mistakes.

[QUOTE=FortyFour;7250547]You admit to being a newbie, so here's my 2 cents (In general, I never saw this particular woman).

The vast majority of these women are NOT charter members of the Chamber of Commerce. It's not unusual that one doesn't reply to your text. You can try her again, but don't be a pain in the ass.

Recognize that there are two kinds of women. One type thinks "she's special" and DEMANDS appointments (like a doctor) and probably a day before confirmation text saying that you didn't forget. But that's it, she doesn't want to "shoot the breeze" with you. Unwanted contact by you, or sexual subjects, is a red-flag for her.

Another type really doesn't make future appointments, and doesn't want you to bother her unless you want to see her "in an hour". She'll reply to your text based on her desire for a date "right now". Like the other type, she doesn't want long or frequent chats with you.

And of course there are women somewhere in the middle. How will you know her type? Ask her what her preference is.

If this particular woman said that you were being pushy, YOU WERE!

But it's ok, this hobby has a big learning curve, and most of us have made the same mistakes.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the reply.

I think I have learned when / if they initially respond with an agreement on availability, I should ask how they would like to proceed. Problem with this is many times they'll say text me the day of the appt. Then never respond- I guess this is the nature of the game.

Really is a hit or miss process based on the gal.

[QUOTE=Rogue59;7249795]Agree. Contacted her Weds to make an appt. For Friday or Sat based on her schedule, she has some stringent screening. Then followed up with 1 text per day asking about appt. And didn't hear back. Sent message through tryst and she goes on this rant about me being pushy and said when I ignored you why didn't you just go to the next girl. Well, I didn't realize she was ignoring me because she indicated she almost blocked me accidentally. Wouldn't a simple response like "no longer interested" be much more effective. I am a newbie, so maybe 1 text / day is pushy, don't know. I usually text once and if no response, I don't pursue. And usually have to contact several just to get a response. Newbie here, what am I doing wrong mongers?[/QUOTE]Most of these women aren't productive members of society their personal lives and upbringing is an absolute mess. You can't use too much logic when dealing with these kind of people. If someone was to go off like that- don't take any of it personally. It says a lot more about them than it does you. You didn't know silence was supposed to be taken as an answer.

[QUOTE=Rogue59;7249795]Agree. Contacted her Weds to make an appt. For Friday or Sat based on her schedule, she has some stringent screening. Then followed up with 1 text per day asking about appt. And didn't hear back. Sent message through tryst and she goes on this rant about me being pushy and said when I ignored you why didn't you just go to the next girl. Well, I didn't realize she was ignoring me because she indicated she almost blocked me accidentally. Wouldn't a simple response like "no longer interested" be much more effective. I am a newbie, so maybe 1 text / day is pushy, don't know. I usually text once and if no response, I don't pursue. And usually have to contact several just to get a response. Newbie here, what am I doing wrong mongers?[/QUOTE]Moat don't like trying to make appointments 3-4 days in advance. So many people ghost. That's why most say only contact when ready and same day appointments.

[QUOTE=Rogue59;7250629]Thanks for the reply.

I think I have learned when / if they initially respond with an agreement on availability, I should ask how they would like to proceed. Problem with this is many times they'll say text me the day of the appt. Then never respond- I guess this is the nature of the game.

Really is a hit or miss process based on the gal.[/QUOTE]I think you handled it fine. As the other monger said, these girls aren't normal people. It's not like texting your friend who doesn't like you as much as you like them and no response = not interested LOL. Half the time these girls are strung out, or sleeping, or have shitty phones that miss messages. Many times I've messaged, no response, then after the fourth message a month later the girl responds, is interested, and when I see her says she didn't see the messages or some other excuse. It's them, not you. If they behaved normally they wouldn't be doing this work. (No judgement to them, that's just how it is).

[QUOTE=Rogue59;7250629]Thanks for the reply.

I think I have learned when / if they initially respond with an agreement on availability, I should ask how they would like to proceed. Problem with this is many times they'll say text me the day of the appt. Then never respond- I guess this is the nature of the game.

Really is a hit or miss process based on the gal.[/QUOTE]No, you need to be the one in charge. Also, there is a difference between a day-of-appointment confirmation text, and "text me then and I'll let you know if I'm interested".

Keep it simple. Send a short, polite text saying that you'd like to meet her and ask for the donation (if unknown), general location (if unknown), and ask if she prefers same day or future day appointments (Note. IN GENERAL, higher tier girls prefer appointments, lower tier girls prefer "first-come, first-served, no appointments".

If she doesn't reply to your initial text, send another polite text when you feel the urge.

If she replies, then you have the information to know whether YOU want to proceed with her or not. Don't be surprised if she says, "Are you free now", so be prepared to act immediately (a win-win). It's ok if you say, "Thanks for the info. Sorry, I can't right now, but now that I know that you prefer same day appointments, I know what to do next time". Just realize that the more "psycho" she is, she may feel that you're playing games and hold it against you if you decline to see her now.

If she wants a future date appointment, YOU suggest one based on the time frame she implies.

Once you agree on a donation, time, and place to meet, you're pretty much all set.

For future appointments, a short confirmation text the day before is a good idea (specifically ask that she reply). When she confirms, thank her and say that you'll send another confirmation text an hour before the appointment, "so you know that I'm on the way". The intent of this text is a courtesy reminder, NOT to see if she's still interested. It's rude, but not uncommon, that she doesn't reply to that "one-hour-warning" text (she's in the shower, dropping off the kids at a sitter, etc).

See the difference between these confirmation texts (useful for both of you), and the annoying chit-chat type texts?

If she doesn't reply, you may want to reevaluate whether you want to go. If you do pass, don't just ghost her. Send her a text saying, "No reply? I'm disappointed. I'm guessing that you're cancelling our appointment. If not, please reply by x o'clock". This puts the ball-in-her-court, and "reduces" the odds that she'll blame you for not showing up. Common excuses (lies) she may give you are phone issues, or taking the kid to the emergency room.

If everything is going good so far, when you arrive, text her that "I'm here" and cross your fingers that she replies with the room number (or tells you to come to the front / back door of the house). All this sounds like a lot of work, huh?

When you repeat with a woman, things are a lot less complicated.

You: Interested?

Her: Yes.

You: Great. I can be there in an hour.

Her: OK, see you then.

Well this went WAY longer than I expected. My intention was to simply show the difference between good and bad texts.

[QUOTE=BloodyBoy69;7251425]I think you handled it fine. As the other monger said, these girls aren't normal people. It's not like texting your friend who doesn't like you as much as you like them and no response = not interested LOL. Half the time these girls are strung out, or sleeping, or have shitty phones that miss messages. Many times I've messaged, no response, then after the fourth message a month later the girl responds, is interested, and when I see her says she didn't see the messages or some other excuse. It's them, not you. If they behaved normally they wouldn't be doing this work. (No judgement to them, that's just how it is).[/QUOTE]Thanks for the sanity check. I guess the nature of this process is to expect to be ghosted a lot.

[QUOTE=Hohitta;7251256]Moat don't like trying to make appointments 3-4 days in advance. So many people ghost. That's why most say only contact when ready and same day appointments.[/QUOTE]I find the ones that are touring recommend advance notice of a few days. Some I've corresponded with on Tryst actually have a personal assistant do all the scheduling.