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[QUOTE=CptMorgan; 1547702]I suggested a whitelist (like another site where I am whitelisted) a long time ago. I agree that a list like that could be useful. If you look at a persons post I think that is also important. I've posted pics where I'm balls deep in providers (not as many as OP) and sent other info to people. I think a persons post are just as important. I know a few guys here that have seen the same providers as I have and I trust them by proxy. Eustis used to see the same provider in Mt Dora that I did and she said he was cool, he's helped me with info that led to other providers, I know he's good to go too. It just seems like, where do you come up with and pick the qualifications.

I used to talk to Vino under another name, OP and many others and know their reports are good. I appreciate your work and what your trying to do, I just think gut instinct as well as posts should be looked at in addition to posts.[/QUOTE]A whitelist that is done by a provider (like ThE otheR site) works and would have no problems with that. On provider can provide her approval, its does not take 3 providers to say that I am OK. This list being talked about is controlled by ONE person, based on what he received via emails or I'm's. There is no validation other then his word of what was sent to him. Other then research on my own or a validation from someone that I trust, no list like this is going to change my mind or make me think a provider is OK. According to the rules a well know and approved of person on here (lets use Nana. Just for getting my point accress) sends you an approval that I am a safe person. I still need 2 other providers to say that I am ok? Again, I don't only see providers from here, and some of the providers that I have seen in the past are no longer available). For me a provider is QUALITY moreso then how many I can see. Once I find one that hits me just right. I don't look again for a while.

Just saying this does not fit the bill for people on here and call into question the very point that you are trying to solve. (your list is controlled by you. Does everyone trust you?)

[QUOTE=Boss Hogg; 1540276]What type of troll annoys you the most?

The type of troll who has only 20 posts and no reviews?

The type of troll who has 699 posts and probably less that 5 actual reviews?

For example, it annoys me when someone who has very few posts start talking crap. But it annoys me even more when someone with several hundred posts tries to use his "senior member" status to bully others until you click on his profile only to realize that his most recent actual review was 582 posts ago.[/QUOTE]In theory, some mongers, like myself have regulars. Do you want me to report on every visit. No purpose for it. If I report once on her with positive or negative feedback, then I did my job. So each time I see her, I should say it was good? 3 days later, it was good, next week. It was good. When back the same day and it was good. Who wants to keep seeing that?

[QUOTE=Eustisflman; 1547591]don't have one and don't need one. If you can not research on my posts and history. Nothing that I can do, but for a person to keep a list seems a bit strange. What is "I am closing my list". Is this a one time list? This is the problem that I have with a monger in charge of a list. There is no review of who or what you put up on it other then we take your word. I thought that was you whould reason for the list in the first place. I don't have any problems with you, never had, this is just very one sided.

Just saying[/QUOTE]And I do not have any problem with people not wanting to send me a list. I am closing the list because I am not going to cause endless drama nor make this a job. If the members want to send in a list great, if they do not then OK. Several of ladies are happy with the idea and have or are sending me their list. I have no intention of reading all post by you or anyone else. I took the time to do this recently on one person and it was no fun. There are guys here with a 100 or more post but can't make this list. How do we know if He is legit without reading all that crap? I do not have time. If you would like to help then just send me a list of the ladies you have seen with USG user names or not. As we all know legit today may not be legit tomorrow. We are good!

As of now 73 legit user names 5 of which are providers

[QUOTE=O Lee; 1546846]Just wanted to say Hi. I've been MIA.

But I'm alive and well![/QUOTE]Glad to see that you're still around. Looking good, too!

Senior members with 300 post say the craziest shit. I have hobbied all over the world and have never seen anything like this. And keeping list on your computer?

[QUOTE=ClayForNow; 1547910]And I do not have any problem with people not wanting to send me a list. I am closing the list because I am not going to cause endless drama nor make this a job. If the members want to send in a list great, if they do not then OK. Several of ladies are happy with the idea and have or are sending me their list. I have no intention of reading all post by you or anyone else. I took the time to do this recently on one person and it was no fun. There are guys here with a 100 or more post but can't make this list. How do we know if He is legit without reading all that crap? I do not have time. If you would like to help then just send me a list of the ladies you have seen with USG user names or not. As we all know legit today may not be legit tomorrow. We are good!

As of now 73 legit user names 5 of which are providers[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BackJack;1548036]Senior members with 300 post say the craziest shit. I have hobbied all over the world and have never seen anything like this. And keeping list on your computer?[/QUOTE]Once the list is done you can put the names here by using contacts in the PM section then add anybody you trust.

[QUOTE=Eustisflman;1547827]Just saying this does not fit the bill for people on here and call into question the very point that you are trying to solve. (your list is controlled by you. Does everyone trust you?)[/QUOTE]This one man maintaining a list of privately received information does not a trustworthy reputation system make. If we need a reputation system (and I'm on the fence as to whether I think we do) then it needs to more than just a list maintained by "some guy" (no offense).

Hey all,

I have not personally used this. So I can not speak for cost or effectiveness. I have heard of guys using throw away trac phones for mongering, but this may be as good or better. I use a GV # which is 100% anonymous but it is not a real disposable unless I sign up for a new account every time I want a new number or the fee to port a new number. Anyway, just wanted to pass on the info.

Anveo For Consumers.

[url]http://www.anveo.com/consumer/features.asp?code=disposable[/url]

If anyone has used this in the past, I would like some feedback as well.

Take care and stay safe.

MrB

[QUOTE=Mr Bob 111; 1548258]Hey all,

I have not personally used this. So I can not speak for cost or effectiveness. I have heard of guys using throw away trac phones for mongering, but this may be as good or better. I use a GV # which is 100% anonymous but it is not a real disposable unless I sign up for a new account every time I want a new number or the fee to port a new number. Anyway, just wanted to pass on the info.

Anveo For Consumers.

[url]http://www.anveo.com/consumer/features.asp?code=disposable[/url]

If anyone has used this in the past, I would like some feedback as well.

Take care and stay safe.

MrB[/QUOTE]Once you link your home telephone number to them digitally it creates a trail to you and your home. A disposable telephone number is flawless as their is no link, unless you are dumb enough to purchase it with a credit card, activate it from your home phone, or purchase minutes with your credit card.

[QUOTE=PeterPiper52;1547912]Glad to see that you're still around. Looking good, too![/QUOTE]Totally. I haven't taken calls in. 2 years. I've been a good girl. Well for the most part. :P I have seen some regulars here and there.

After last night I have over 100 guys and more than 10 ladies on this list. Thanks to those who are sending them in. Again I will not matain this, you can put this list into your contacts in the message section and add or delete names as you will. YLMV Your List May Very LOL (NO offense taken) However, if no ladies submit you user name you will not make this list. (no offense)

[QUOTE=MathGeek;1548143]This one man maintaining a list of privately received information does not a trustworthy reputation system make. If we need a reputation system (and I'm on the fence as to whether I think we do) then it needs to more than just a list maintained by "some guy" (no offense).[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ClayForNow;1548471]After last night I have over 100 guys and more than 10 ladies on this list. Thanks to those who are sending them in. Again I will not matain this, you can put this list into your contacts in the message section and add or delete names as you will. YLMV Your List May Very LOL (NO offense taken) However, if no ladies submit you user name you will not make this list. (no offense)[/QUOTE]I won't be on this list right now because I don't dream about enough providers playing it safer as an AMP man; however, there are are a few mongers that know me as safe. I'd like to be able to trust advice / feedback from mongers that I don't know personally. The list will benefit me even though I won't be on it's first cut. By the way, I believe CLAY KNOWS I AM OK (dream in common) , AND HE STILL WOULD NOT ADD ME TO THE LIST. That lets me know for sure, and you should know too, that Clay and the list have integrity. I think we have a good beginning keeper of the list. Notice that he didn't call it Clays List, so he could hand it off to someone else one day.

[QUOTE=MathGeek;1548143]This one man maintaining a list of privately received information does not a trustworthy reputation system make. If we need a reputation system (and I'm on the fence as to whether I think we do) then it needs to more than just a list maintained by "some guy" (no offense).[/QUOTE]Originally Posted by Eustisflman [View Original Post]

[QUOTE]Just saying this does not fit the bill for people on here and call into question the very point that you are trying to solve. (your list is controlled by you. Does everyone trust you?)[/Quote]There is an old saying: " The Road to hell is paved with good intensions". While this quote was said long before computers were invented and subject to a different interpretation or interpretations and I admire the members creativity and intention, if you wind up recommending a restaurant without ever going there or even knowing where it is and based on a third party recommendation, you might be playing with fire. Time will tell-VS

Sorry, mail box reopened.

[QUOTE=TheeeGentleman;1548618]I won't be on this list right now because I don't dream about enough providers playing it safer as an AMP man; however, there are are a few mongers that know me as safe. I'd like to be able to trust advice / feedback from mongers that I don't know personally. The list will benefit me even though I won't be on it's first cut. By the way, I believe CLAY KNOWS I AM OK (dream in common) , AND HE STILL WOULD NOT ADD ME TO THE LIST. That lets me know for sure, and you should know too, that Clay and the list have integrity. I think we have a good beginning keeper of the list. Notice that he didn't call it Clays List, so he could hand it off to someone else one day.[/QUOTE]

Newbie Help.

If you have never seen a provider then please read.

The girls are most likely going to want references. You do not have any so how do you get started?

First look through the ladies who post here and make sure she has been reviewed by several. There will be a list out shortly of ladies you can trust. Then PM her and just say you would like to bring over a bottle of wine and spend an hour with her. She may ask you to bring something else like a coffee, just do it. (LEO cannot offer to bring over anything) Ask her what kind of wine to bring but do not ask or answer what you want to do in that hour. Keep your mouth shut! So she now knows that you most likely are not a cop. Do not, even if ask bring condoms. Just say I can not do that.

Keep in contact with her as you travel and when you arrive On Time text her and say you are there. Never, Never go to the door without being asked. Before you go in take the money and put it into a card. Put some extra in your pocket just in case you would like to give her some sort of tip. Bring that and the wine only to the room. No condoms or play toys, just wine and cash. Once you enter put your donation where ever she can see it. Do not hand it to her. You may have read she wants you to put it in the bathroom or where ever then do just that. Show her the unopened wine and ask her to join you in a glass. You do not make the first move you have done your part to show you are not a cop she must take it from there or just leave. If she starts asking what you want to do sexually then say you have no idea what she is talking about as you do not pay for sex and get up and leave.

Always be aware of time as this is what you purchased and agreed. Most good providers are no going to kick you out at exactly 60 minutes but you should show your respect by not taking advantage.

Once you can get on line report your good fortune to the forum. Make sure and ask your lady friend to respond to your post. Once she gives you a 'thank you' you will now have your first reference. Do this twice and you are on your way to a fun filled hobby. This will let everyone here know to put you on their Trusted Member List. After this you can also write reviews on the oThER Board and get your ladies to white list you or verify you on my favorite where they check dates for you. PM me if you do not understand.

USA a throw away phone and throw it away from time to time and get a new number. I get a new one every 6 months. I change my email address every 6 months.

Now you are in the driver's seat and can be a careful as you wish. If you only see providers with clear and recent reference then you should be okay as long as you keep your mouth shut. However, even if you have seen the same provider several times you may find yourself in the middle of a sting. Once you see a provider a couple of times and you know you want to come back just ask her for your own safety if from now on you could pay here at the end. That way if you are arrested you can say she was your girlfriend and you had no idea what she was doing. If she has a problem with that then you have to make a choice.

Do Not Ask Questions about anything here in this forum until you read at least 6 months of post in every section. If you get arrested give them your name and ask for an attorney, Keep your mouth shut. If you get robbed give them whatever, leave as quickly as you can, call the hot line to turn the robbers in and then get to a computer or phone as fast as you can to warn others.

I am sure others can add to this and I am sure they will but this will get you started.

Play Safe and Play Nice