SA Site is so lame now its crazy keeps getting worst and worst they should have females pay as well that would weed out the fakes LOL.
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SA Site is so lame now its crazy keeps getting worst and worst they should have females pay as well that would weed out the fakes LOL.
Any info out there on her?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/213fe227-4ea6-422c-8a36-d89b236665e1[/URL]
[QUOTE=Jt1896;4669339][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/af20a6d9-2c00-4aef-b5cd-e27e363d61d2[/URL]
We have plans for lunch, just wondering if anyone has seen her?[/QUOTE]OK, but I didn't pull the trigger. 9 body and 6 face. Highly sexual but a sense of entitlement. Asks $500+.
[QUOTE=Rick07;4670119]SA Site is so lame now its crazy keeps getting worst and worst they should have females pay as well that would weed out the fakes LOL.[/QUOTE]I hear you, man. Depending on the next 5-7 days, I'm probably going to let my subscription expire after April due to the lack of any success. My abysmal stats include the following since early January: 71 different women messaged, 26 replies, 3 no-shows (on the day of), 6 cancellations / "re-schedules", 2 scams (which I fell for like an idiot), and only 1 actual meet-up that ended being someone seeking a platonic relationship.
Right now, I'm lined up to meet one SB (jengo2130) this week and another one next week (a secret for now but with whom I'm cautiously excited about). Maybe I'll change my mind and keep at it after these two. But if it ends up being a bust, I'll certainly report back. It can get daunting and seems like a lot of work to cast the line out on that site compared to just seeing a professional provider (of which there's several on SA itself, I'm sure). But I'm still a tad optimistic about these next 5-7 days and I'm hopeful that my perseverance will pay off.
I know I've said it before, but I'm grateful to you all for your contributions and giving a heads up on many of these SBs. Best of luck this week (and the coming weekend), everyone. Cheers!
[QUOTE=Mcpo9;4669744]Seen her a few times. BBFS is available. Fun for couple of times.[/QUOTE]Contacted her yesterday but I could not meet up. Then she sent me some sob story about her kid needing medication. Did feel sorry for her and sent her $30 (she asked for $26) just because I felt sorry for her and I can afford it. Then she starts blowing my number up asking for $36 for oxygen tanks for her kid sounding really desperate. I really feel sorry for her but hey, some people just don't know when enough is enough. Do her a good deed and then she asks for more. It might be for real that all of it is for her kid but come on already, hit someone else up, did my good deed for the day.
Yep. Its like cold calling. Damn hard work and you have to be on your game.
I've found that giving $ before the m&g is almost always a loser. I let them know that I'm happy to provide a small gift if things go well, but will not venmo in advance. Not trying to be a tough guy, but have been burned too many times in the past. Old Chinese guys post below mine is on point. You give 95% of these ladies and inch, they'll assume you're good for an extra mile and will often push it. At the minimum now I like to make them show up and work for it.
These forums are great for weeding out flakes and scammers, but remember, once you see a good post go up about an SB, its a sure sign that she's going to be innundated with guys beating down her door. Between the hundreds of lurkers who are on the site, you're now competing with the guys who've mastered this game down to a science.
I've found that more often than not, the ladies who are not reviewed are often the best gems. Not hating on anyone, since its human nature, but when you find something good, most folks want to keep it a secret so they can have more of it. Chances are when you hear crickets after asking about a young lady, then that's probably a good sign.
After 100's of messages, and an exhausting # of m&gs, I'm slowly rounding out my rotation. Pretty sure I'm going into the rotations of some of the girls I've met this go around and hope whichever you guys I'm sharing her with are clean. Guess in the meantime I'll just have to jimmy up until I get a better sense for each of these new ladies.
Happy hunting fellahs.
[QUOTE=Shinshi86;4670668]I hear you, man. Depending on the next 5-7 days, I'm probably going to let my subscription expire after April due to the lack of any success. My abysmal stats include the following since early January: 71 different women messaged, 26 replies, 3 no-shows (on the day of), 6 cancellations / "re-schedules", 2 scams (which I fell for like an idiot), and only 1 actual meet-up that ended being someone seeking a platonic relationship.
Right now, I'm lined up to meet one SB (jengo2130) this week and another one next week (a secret for now but with whom I'm cautiously excited about). Maybe I'll change my mind and keep at it after these two. But if it ends up being a bust, I'll certainly report back. It can get daunting and seems like a lot of work to cast the line out on that site compared to just seeing a professional provider (of which there's several on SA itself, I'm sure). But I'm still a tad optimistic about these next 5-7 days and I'm hopeful that my perseverance will pay off.
I know I've said it before, but I'm grateful to you all for your contributions and giving a heads up on many of these SBs. Best of luck this week (and the coming weekend), everyone. Cheers![/QUOTE]
Well the few times I've tried to meet up I've been scammed. Showed ho to the meet and no reward was provided. So now before we meet I like to do an exchange of photos or a video for a small reward, to prove you'll provide a reward at the meet. I'm sorry if you don't want to do that, it's just the only way I feel comfortable now 😕.
[QUOTE=BuffBill75;4671136]Well the few times I've tried to meet up I've been scammed. Showed ho to the meet and no reward was provided. So now before we meet I like to do an exchange of photos or a video for a small reward, to prove you'll provide a reward at the meet. I'm sorry if you don't want to do that, it's just the only way I feel comfortable now 😕.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I got this message a lot too and its annoying AF.
Then again, after thinking about it more, when a lady says this (and assuming she's telling me the truth as oppossed to being a 400 lb dude trying to scam. Me out of a few bucks) - she's just signalled to me that some other guy had to take time out of his busy schedule to sit down with her, buy her a drink or meal, and concluded that she wasn't worth a few dollars to try to lock down an FC date.
Its valuable info, and just saved me time, effort and $.
Sunshinedaydrym.
Immediately went to text and sent pics of her and her bestie. Wanted $$$ per girl. I like her look however seems difficult so I passed. If your looking for a threesome, maybe?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5dfab4e8-68f0-492c-ae21-2d71a4f41e51[/URL]
Rosey9876.
100% DTF right off the bat. Asks for $$ I was not that enthralled with her look so I did not haggle down, but I bet you could get down to half that.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5d0937ce-5e78-465a-89b0-b86518ba7c19[/URL]
[QUOTE=OldChineseGuy;4670732]Contacted her yesterday but I could not meet up. Then she sent me some sob story about her kid needing medication. Did feel sorry for her and sent her $30 (she asked for $26) just because I felt sorry for her and I can afford it. Then she starts blowing my number up asking for $36 for oxygen tanks for her kid sounding really desperate. I really feel sorry for her but hey, some people just don't know when enough is enough. Do her a good deed and then she asks for more. It might be for real that all of it is for her kid but come on already, hit someone else up, did my good deed for the day.[/QUOTE]She is in Brandywine if you guys are planning to go to her location. She won't do incalls but said there is a hourly motel The Bragg which will charge 40/ hr. She is on the thicker / bigger side and not a spinner.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/19ffde59-4062-4a84-be46-57186e1942b2[/URL]
She unlocks her photos immediately and goes for the online pitch. Don't waste your time.
[QUOTE=DickLongwood;4670263]OK, but I didn't pull the trigger. 9 body and 6 face. Highly sexual but a sense of entitlement. Asks $500+.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the feeback. Blocking her on google voice and on SA. Don't have time to waste with her. You saved me and I appreciate the intel.
[QUOTE=Jt1896;4669339][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/af20a6d9-2c00-4aef-b5cd-e27e363d61d2[/URL]
We have plans for lunch, just wondering if anyone has seen her?[/QUOTE]What did you think?
[QUOTE=IluvSmellyFish;4670973]Yep. Its like cold calling. Damn hard work and you have to be on your game.
I've found that giving $ before the m&g is almost always a loser. I let them know that I'm happy to provide a small gift if things go well, but will not venmo in advance. Not trying to be a tough guy, but have been burned too many times in the past. Old Chinese guys post below mine is on point. You give 95% of these ladies and inch, they'll assume you're good for an extra mile and will often push it. At the minimum now I like to make them show up and work for it.
These forums are great for weeding out flakes and scammers, but remember, once you see a good post go up about an SB, its a sure sign that she's going to be innundated with guys beating down her door. Between the hundreds of lurkers who are on the site, you're now competing with the guys who've mastered this game down to a science.
I've found that more often than not, the ladies who are not reviewed are often the best gems. Not hating on anyone, since its human nature, but when you find something good, most folks want to keep it a secret so they can have more of it. Chances are when you hear crickets after asking about a young lady, then that's probably a good sign.
After 100's of messages, and an exhausting # of m&gs, I'm slowly rounding out my rotation. Pretty sure I'm going into the rotations of some of the girls I've met this go around and hope whichever you guys I'm sharing her with are clean. Guess in the meantime I'll just have to jimmy up until I get a better sense for each of these new ladies.
Happy hunting fellahs.[/QUOTE]I completely agree with all the gripes and frustrations with SA. But after you chat with enough of them, you kind of know what to expect by their profile. I know I'm not going to pay over $$ and I'm not doing paid coffee dates, etc. As such, I don't go after the ones with the really hot pics and are really young. I'm not in that high-end market. But there's plenty of very attractive women in that next tier (mid 20's, still thin and tight). I also enjoy the chat. With most, I just get to the point because I want to know where they stand. Most of those get dismissed quickly. But I've had fun chatting with a bunch and I've learned that when they set up a meeting, there's a 50% chance that it'll actually happen. So if you go into it with those expectations, you're not going to pre-pay for the hotel and your not going to drive a long distance to meet. Just get an escort or visit a massage parlor instead.
[QUOTE=DickLongwood;4671414]What did you think?[/QUOTE]Meeting supposed to be on Monday. Not sure I should make the effort.