I agree with everything Libertas has to say about Merecedes. Nothing negative just didn't do it for me for the same exact reasons. My list would include Jen for sure. The topper would be Kelly (38) if you like that vintage. Great rack, DFK and DATY.
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I agree with everything Libertas has to say about Merecedes. Nothing negative just didn't do it for me for the same exact reasons. My list would include Jen for sure. The topper would be Kelly (38) if you like that vintage. Great rack, DFK and DATY.
[QUOTE=TRose;1849312]I agree with everything Libertas has to say about Merecedes. Nothing negative just didn't do it for me for the same exact reasons. My list would include Jen for sure. The topper would be Kelly (38) if you like that vintage. Great rack, DFK and DATY.[/QUOTE]I agree with the Kelly nomination. How about Emily with her Sweet 16 Special? That would be four visits in one day! I would have to take only the 3peat and share a beer with her for the last $25. Very nice woman, funny, smart and lots of fun. She makes my "Who to call with $100 for the Day" list
I doubt this is the right area for this but it seemed like the most appropriate.
Back in January I seen a provider. 150 for an hour and we spent like 2 hours together. The next time I seen her we spent like 3 hours together for the same price. After the third visit she started letting me stay the night every Saturday night for the price of an hour. After about a month or two of this it became that I would pay for an hour and we'd spend the entire weekend together, Friday at 7 A. M. To Sunday about 10 pm This went on for quite a while, pay for an hour and get like 72 plus hours. Shortly after she quit charging me altogether, we had become, in her words best friends. Even without paying we'd still do the deed quite a few times in the weekend which was the same as when I'd pay for an hour and spend the whole weekend with her we'd hang out have fun and bang all weekend long.
After about six or 7 months I suffered a very significant loss. Knowing that I meant a lot to this chick I didn't want to leave without saying goodbye to her. I, after the loss decided to end my life and didn't not want to leave this poor girl all alone without at least telling her why I was leaving. When I told her this she broke down started balling her eyes out and told me that she had fallen madly in love with me shortly after our first visit. She cried all night long and I apologized to her for entering her life and giving her happiness for the first time in a long time and then just leaving like that. She was terrified of letting me walk out the door because she knew it would be the last time she'd ever see me again. Because of this she became very defensive and wouldn't let me leave, I would get up in the middle of the night to go outside and smoke or go to the bathroom and if she noticed she would start crying immediately and begged me to not abandon her and I promised that I wouldn't ever leave her without telling her first. I, too had developed feelings for her shortly after our first few visits but never told her, it seemed to happen a lot to her (clients falling in love with her) and she would always tell me how much she hated it. She'd complain about guys getting pissed off once they realized that no matter how much they spent on / with her that in the end they were always only buying her time and not her love. This was all about two months ago and she still won't let me out of her sight in the worry or me never coming back. She is truly in love with me and is willing and has shown me she is willing to do anything to make me happy. I love her as well and we are together and doing great, neither of us ever thought that we'd find true love through all of this but it seems to be the case.
The End.
[QUOTE=Three Nutz; 1848572]You have been given $100 and told to go out and have as much fun as you can.
If you can have fun with a girl for lesd you can use the remainder for other passions (e. G. Beer, dinner, second girl). It is yoir choice.
I will go first. I would call Tina. She posts on BP often. Easy to get a hold of and when you tell her whst you are looking for she works to deliver. Very accommodating and sexy. She has the body of a real woman. Pefect proportions. Maybe I am just a sucker for a beautiful redhead, but having been around for a while and I find her one of the best.
So where would you spend your $100?[/QUOTE]Call NoNonsenseLady in the morning, do some work at my side business, and get a good 1/2 hour rubdown at a local massage place to finish out the day. Not impressive, but I don't need too much to keep me satisfied.
Just an idea but some of our girls would like real work. If you've been with a provider for a good length of time and have a degree of trust with her you might consider employment. Today I employed Nikki per hour and what a great worker! She was grateful to get the work, never complained and did a great job. I know we must be careful mixing our hobby with our personal life but under the right circumstance it could be a positive thing for both sides. I won't hesitate in the future to use Nikki when I need a helping hand at work.
I'm probably going to get a lot of negative opposition to this post so I reiderate the need to have a level of trust between the two of you. I have known Nikki for two years and obviously felt comfortable enough with her to hire her for the day. My job is also the sort of job that this type of situation can work.
[QUOTE=Asianplvr; 1853592]Just an idea but some of our girls would like real work. If you've been with a provider for a good length of time and have a degree of trust with her you might consider employment. Today I employed Nikki per hour and what a great worker! She was grateful to get the work, never complained and did a great job. I know we must be careful mixing our hobby with our personal life but under the right circumstance it could be a positive thing for both sides. I won't hesitate in the future to use Nikki when I need a helping hand at work.
I'm probably going to get a lot of negative opposition to this post so I reiderate the need to have a level of trust between the two of you. I have known Nikki for two years and obviously felt comfortable enough with her to hire her for the day. My job is also the sort of job that this type of situation can work.[/QUOTE]Just wondering do you work out of your home?
[QUOTE=Asianplvr; 1853592]Just an idea but some of our girls would like real work. If you've been with a provider for a good length of time and have a degree of trust with her you might consider employment. Today I employed Nikki per hour and what a great worker! She was grateful to get the work, never complained and did a great job. I know we must be careful mixing our hobby with our personal life but under the right circumstance it could be a positive thing for both sides. I won't hesitate in the future to use Nikki when I need a helping hand at work.
I'm probably going to get a lot of negative opposition to this post so I reiderate the need to have a level of trust between the two of you. I have known Nikki for two years and obviously felt comfortable enough with her to hire her for the day. My job is also the sort of job that this type of situation can work.[/QUOTE]I've been seeing a provider for several months now and we have become great friends. I know she is trying hard to make ends meet in her personal life so I hired her to do some weekly part-time work. She does the job way beyond my expectations. It's the least I can do to help her and I have no regrets.
[QUOTE=Asianplvr; 1853592]Just an idea but some of our girls would like real work. If you've been with a provider for a good length of time and have a degree of trust with her you might consider employment. Today I employed Nikki per hour and what a great worker! She was grateful to get the work, never complained and did a great job. I know we must be careful mixing our hobby with our personal life but under the right circumstance it could be a positive thing for both sides. I won't hesitate in the future to use Nikki when I need a helping hand at work.
I'm probably going to get a lot of negative opposition to this post so I reiderate the need to have a level of trust between the two of you. I have known Nikki for two years and obviously felt comfortable enough with her to hire her for the day. My job is also the sort of job that this type of situation can work.[/QUOTE]Nothing negative from me. It's not a bad idea if you have that level of trust and are in a situation where it could work
Hey fellas, In any of your experiences, can anyone help me in figuring out an indiscriminate (legal) way to find liquid cash for hobby items when living with a S. O. That manages finances? Few items I've tried:
-Purchase a local grocery retail gift card for x and add to the balance on my rogue purchases at that retailer. Once I amass a balance more than say $25 I will purchase a prepaid visa with it. Thing is that I can't get cash back on a return or use it in the hobby (I don't think)
-I've also purchased items for business and received reimbursement from my employer in cash. But that is far and few between.
-I have used my card as a debit and did the $10 over and got cash that way without setting off alarm bells.
-sold items on CL for cash.
-stored misc. Cash from change on cash purchases with the SO. Such as ice-cream stands, parking tolls ect.
Everything I am doing is not gaining me the cold hard cash in quantities I need to meet the costs. I see great opportunities but the resources are locked.
Any comments on ideas. Other than to rid myself of the SO?
[QUOTE=ZzzDamm;1853771]Just wondering do you work out of your home?[/QUOTE]I do not work out of my home. I'm a sub contractor
[QUOTE=Naughty12; 1853993]Hey fellas, In any of your experiences, can anyone help me in figuring out an indiscriminate (legal) way to find liquid cash for hobby items when living with a S. O. That manages finances? Few items I've tried:
-Purchase a local grocery retail gift card for x and add to the balance on my rogue purchases at that retailer. Once I amass a balance more than say $25 I will purchase a prepaid visa with it. Thing is that I can't get cash back on a return or use it in the hobby (I don't think)
-I've also purchased items for business and received reimbursement from my employer in cash. But that is far and few between.
-I have used my card as a debit and did the $10 over and got cash that way without setting off alarm bells.
-sold items on CL for cash.
-stored misc. Cash from change on cash purchases with the SO. Such as ice-cream stands, parking tolls ect.
Everything I am doing is not gaining me the cold hard cash in quantities I need to meet the costs. I see great opportunities but the resources are locked.
Any comments on ideas. Other than to rid myself of the SO?[/QUOTE]So either you hand your paycheck over to your SO or you have direct deposit.
How about you simply tell her you want a couple hundred a month to spend on fill in the blank (coffee, breakfast, lunch, whatever) , then spend it on an SP instead. After all it's your fucking paycheck. Or, if you already get an "allowance" from your paycheck, forgo all the other crap you spend it on and save it for playtime.
[QUOTE=Asianplvr; 1853592]Just an idea but some of our girls would like real work. If you've been with a provider for a good length of time and have a degree of trust with her you might consider employment. Today I employed Nikki per hour and what a great worker! She was grateful to get the work, never complained and did a great job. I know we must be careful mixing our hobby with our personal life but under the right circumstance it could be a positive thing for both sides. I won't hesitate in the future to use Nikki when I need a helping hand at work.
I'm probably going to get a lot of negative opposition to this post so I reiderate the need to have a level of trust between the two of you. I have known Nikki for two years and obviously felt comfortable enough with her to hire her for the day. My job is also the sort of job that this type of situation can work.[/QUOTE]I've done the same thing and it worked well for me. I needed some help, she needed the $ and she did a great job.
[QUOTE=Naughty12; 1853993]Hey fellas, In any of your experiences, can anyone help me in figuring out an indiscriminate (legal) way to find liquid cash for hobby items when living with a S. O. That manages finances? Few items I've tried:
-Purchase a local grocery retail gift card for x and add to the balance on my rogue purchases at that retailer. Once I amass a balance more than say $25 I will purchase a prepaid visa with it. Thing is that I can't get cash back on a return or use it in the hobby (I don't think)
-I've also purchased items for business and received reimbursement from my employer in cash. But that is far and few between.
-I have used my card as a debit and did the $10 over and got cash that way without setting off alarm bells.
-sold items on CL for cash.
-stored misc. Cash from change on cash purchases with the SO. Such as ice-cream stands, parking tolls ect.
Everything I am doing is not gaining me the cold hard cash in quantities I need to meet the costs. I see great opportunities but the resources are locked.
Any comments on ideas. Other than to rid myself of the SO?[/QUOTE]I know you mentioned it, but I always grab cash back when I use my debit card. I'm in the same boat as you brother, my SO manages the bills and accounts. I'm grilled every time I use my card. I've started to not fill up my truck all the way, then I tell her the truck is sucking on gas. When I grab gas I grab cash back. I'm also a do-it-yourselfer with auto work and house work. I'll say I need something mechanical for the truck, new belt, fuel filter. Etc and she never questions it. It doesn't need the work, but she isn't going to call me out on that. At least she hasn't. I'll pop the hood in the garage, spend 20-25 mins on my phone looking at SW and BP reports, then come in and say it's fixed.
Good luck, happy hunting!
[blue]It's hard for me to not take a shot at such an inviting target but the brother needs some help. Lets keep the doucheyness to a minimum.
A2[/blue]
[QUOTE=Admin2; 1854906][blue]It's hard for me to not take a shot at such an inviting target but the brother needs some help. Lets keep the doucheyness to a minimum.
A2[/blue][/QUOTE]Yes, you are right. I should have had a little more compassion. Behind the smart ass comments was the thought that you need to find a second enterprise that is cash based. I will let you think that through.
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[QUOTE=Three Nutz; 1855006]Yes, you are right. I should have had a little more compassion. Behind the smart ass comments was the thought that you need to find a second enterprise that is cash based. I will let you think that through.
3 nUTZ[/QUOTE]Ouch! I really blasted him. I guess I got too good. Won't do it again
[QUOTE=Admin2; 1854906][blue]It's hard for me to not take a shot at such an inviting target but the brother needs some help. Lets keep the doucheyness to a minimum.
A2[/blue][/QUOTE]Kept the sell blood comment to myself, sometimes it's hard not to be a smartass. You're right.
[QUOTE=WolvGuy;1855162]Kept the sell blood comment to myself, sometimes it's hard not to be a smartass. You're right.[/QUOTE]I have a friend that is a single parent. He told me that he donates / sells blood and gets enough money to pay for his car insurance and most of his gas each month. He makes the money he needs without breaking any laws. Much easier than a working another job, and he said it's no big deal.
Not my thing, but it's an option that's out there.
Do any of you guys remember dreaming of this girl around Feb and March 2012? If so, I have important info that you need to know about her.
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If you dreamed of her before, please contact me ASAP! This is not a joke.
[QUOTE=Monkstro; 1856057]Do any of you guys remember dreaming of this girl around Feb and March 2012? If so, I have important info that you need to know about her.
[url]http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g35/Monk_photos/IMAG0016.jpg[/url]
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If you dreamed of her before, please contact me ASAP! This is not a joke.[/QUOTE]She looks.
Like a hot little thing. Is she spreading some bad stuff
[QUOTE=Monkstro; 1856057]Do any of you guys remember dreaming of this girl around Feb and March 2012? If so, I have important info that you need to know about her.
[url]http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g35/Monk_photos/IMAG0016.jpg[/url]
[url]http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g35/Monk_photos/P09-15-12_1504.jpg[/url]
If you dreamed of her before, please contact me ASAP! This is not a joke.[/QUOTE]I have not seen that girl before; but I have some friends that have been in and out of the hobby that I will contact about her. What is going on that makes this relevant? Is she spreading something?
[QUOTE=Naughty12; 1853993]Hey fellas, In any of your experiences, can anyone help me in figuring out an indiscriminate (legal) way to find liquid cash for hobby items when living with a S. O. That manages finances? Few items I've tried:
-Purchase a local grocery retail gift card for x and add to the balance on my rogue purchases at that retailer. Once I amass a balance more than say $25 I will purchase a prepaid visa with it. Thing is that I can't get cash back on a return or use it in the hobby (I don't think)
-I've also purchased items for business and received reimbursement from my employer in cash. But that is far and few between.
-I have used my card as a debit and did the $10 over and got cash that way without setting off alarm bells.
-sold items on CL for cash.
-stored misc. Cash from change on cash purchases with the SO. Such as ice-cream stands, parking tolls ect.
Everything I am doing is not gaining me the cold hard cash in quantities I need to meet the costs. I see great opportunities but the resources are locked.
Any comments on ideas. Other than to rid myself of the SO?[/QUOTE]There are very few lines of work that don't have room for some side work. Throw and ad on CL and BP for whatever it is you do. Price it reasonable, and see if you can do some side jobs for extra play cash.
[QUOTE=Naughty12; 1853993]Hey fellas, In any of your experiences, can anyone help me in figuring out an indiscriminate (legal) way to find liquid cash for hobby items when living with a S. O. That manages finances? Few items I've tried:
-Purchase a local grocery retail gift card for x and add to the balance on my rogue purchases at that retailer. Once I amass a balance more than say $25 I will purchase a prepaid visa with it. Thing is that I can't get cash back on a return or use it in the hobby (I don't think)
-I've also purchased items for business and received reimbursement from my employer in cash. But that is far and few between.
-I have used my card as a debit and did the $10 over and got cash that way without setting off alarm bells.
-sold items on CL for cash.
-stored misc. Cash from change on cash purchases with the SO. Such as ice-cream stands, parking tolls ect.
Everything I am doing is not gaining me the cold hard cash in quantities I need to meet the costs. I see great opportunities but the resources are locked.
Any comments on ideas. Other than to rid myself of the SO?[/QUOTE]Are you getting paid by check or cash? If you're getting paid from a regular employer, set up direct deposit. Get everything going paperless. Then set up. A split where a portion of your direct deposit goes somewhere else. You can even send it to a seperate bank. Set up paperless statements with your new bank and your address being your work address. You can even get a secret credit card and set up payments directly from your secret bank.
[QUOTE=Lions2011;1862841]Are you getting paid by check or cash? If you're getting paid from a regular employer, set up direct deposit. Get everything going paperless. Then set up. A split where a portion of your direct deposit goes somewhere else. You can even send it to a seperate bank. Set up paperless statements with your new bank and your address being your work address. You can even get a secret credit card and set up payments directly from your secret bank.[/QUOTE]Buying stuff that has rebates attached to it is always a good way as well. Or when you go out of town for a "guys" weekend, take all cash so that you can split expenses like hotel, food, gas, etc, and then pocket the rest. Don't be too obvious however, or you will gain EXTRA scrutiny instead of building cash. Also, ask the SO for cash and then pocket some of it. If they give it to you, they're much less likely to monitor it closely if you're careful.
I do appreciate that many of you you took my post serious and didn't tC on this subject. Hobbying was a way of life for me before I got married. Honestly I felt like Charley Sheen and had all sorts of fun with out the commitments. Matrimony has its plus but getting strange tail without commitment is truly a cake and eat it too scenario. Where things differ among us is in everyday routines and how receivables are divided between to contractually bound parties. Each situation amongst us here is different. What works for some may not work for others because of the arrangements you have previously made. In mine, I honestly don't care to handle the financial portion of the arrangement. I don't feel hampered in anyway to retain indiscreet portions of the resources I earn. This is simply a desire not to bring obvious awareness to my hobby though missteps that are traceable. I've seen far too many gentlemen that have arrogance about the relationship and feel invincible. Most get a dose of reality in court system after something that could be clandestine wasn't covered up with good care and planning.
Thanks again. I know most of you here may be facing the same dilemma I am. This is why I asked the question. I felt this could be a good work group solution activity.
Thanks to all who have supported and reflected with their ideas.
[QUOTE=Naughty12; 1868001]I do appreciate that many of you you took my post serious and didn't tC on this subject. Hobbying was a way of life for me before I got married. Honestly I felt like Charley Sheen and had all sorts of fun with out the commitments. Matrimony has its plus but getting strange tail without commitment is truly a cake and eat it too scenario. Where things differ among us is in everyday routines and how receivables are divided between to contractually bound parties. Each situation amongst us here is different. What works for some may not work for others because of the arrangements you have previously made. In mine, I honestly don't care to handle the financial portion of the arrangement. I don't feel hampered in anyway to retain indiscreet portions of the resources I earn. This is simply a desire not to bring obvious awareness to my hobby though missteps that are traceable. I've seen far too many gentlemen that have arrogance about the relationship and feel invincible. Most get a dose of reality in court system after something that could be clandestine wasn't covered up with good care and planning.
Thanks again. I know most of you here may be facing the same dilemma I am. This is why I asked the question. I felt this could be a good work group solution activity.
Thanks to all who have supported and reflected with their ideas.[/QUOTE]I just took a truck load of scrap metal I had in the garage and make 55 bucks. Could also start picking up pop cans. 10 cents adds up after about 2 truck loads.
Yeah I know, I have been missing here at the forum. I have been extremely busy with work but have many stories to share in the near future. Just a quick update: I put Jade into business and got her started with employment, Stacy seems to be a busy girl on a personal level and have not been able to see her, Still in contact with Nikki, and JASMINE my girl is back in touch! Heck, even had a duo with Nikki and Jasmine like the "good ole days".
[QUOTE=Spongebob357;1871668]It is too bad that I have missed these get togethers, I would love to meet with like minded people from time to time.[/QUOTE]Well, we haven't met recently, its probably been a good 4+ years since we all hung out together. We always had a great group of people that just genuinely liked one another and we were good hobby friends. In all of my years in the hobby I have been lucky to meet some really cool people. Some have been clients, and some just people I chat with and talk to on occasion. But we always enjoyed one another's company and had fun together!
[QUOTE=Peytons Touch;1872421]Well, we haven't met recently, its probably been a good 4+ years since we all hung out together. We always had a great group of people that just genuinely liked one another and we were good hobby friends. In all of my years in the hobby I have been lucky to meet some really cool people. Some have been clients, and some just people I chat with and talk to on occasion. But we always enjoyed one another's company and had fun together![/QUOTE]I can vouch for that. Good times were had by all for the most part. Once in a while there would be someone to get a little crazy and have a bit to much to drink. LOL. I often wondered what ever happened to Llacy. Lmao
[QUOTE=WolvGuy;1872471]I can vouch for that. Good times were had by all for the most part. Once in a while there would be someone to get a little crazy and have a bit to much to drink. LOL. I often wondered what ever happened to Llacy. Lmao[/QUOTE]What did ever happen to Llacy?
And why don't we get another get together?
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[QUOTE=Three Nutz; 1872486]What did ever happen to Llacy?
And why don't we get another get together?
3 NUTZ[/QUOTE]Well from here instead of a get together we would probably end up with a sausage fest since not many ladies participate here. Lmao
That sounds like a really fun time.
[QUOTE=WolvGuy;1872471]I can vouch for that. Good times were had by all for the most part. Once in a while there would be someone to get a little crazy and have a bit to much to drink. LOL. I often wondered what ever happened to Llacy. Lmao[/QUOTE]
So mel has been my go to as of lately as I'm in constant search of "that regular" LOL. Seen her yesterday and she had me meet her at a gas station on the se side of town. I pull up to gas station and she is walking toward me in a tiny skirt heels and an almost see thru top. Needless to say my dude was at instant attn. I've never seen her look as good. Went back to her place and did the deed. She seems to really like to please (YMMV?) And for a barry wasnt bad at all. Met the roomate and she is fine as hell. First question was, Can she join us? Hahahha nope has a bf. Digits if anyone wants seniors only.
[QUOTE=WolvGuy;1872471]I can vouch for that. Good times were had by all for the most part. Once in a while there would be someone to get a little crazy and have a bit to much to drink. LOL. I often wondered what ever happened to Llacy. Lmao[/QUOTE]A LITTLE crazy? Remember the infamous "Table Dance"?
We had some GREAT times. Maybe we need to put something together again before it gets cold out!
[QUOTE=Eore1;1868304]I just took a truck load of scrap metal I had in the garage and make 55 bucks. Could also start picking up pop cans. 10 cents adds up after about 2 truck loads.[/QUOTE]I remember the day when funds were tight and use to hit local state campgrounds dumpsters on the weekend, pull out $75 to $150 in beer cans.
[QUOTE=AddSum;1872592]I remember the day when funds were tight and use to hit local state campgrounds dumpsters on the weekend, pull out $75 to $150 in beer cans.[/QUOTE]I used to go to the Orbit Room every time there was a concert and I loaded up the car with empties from the parking lot.
Heck I still do it occasionally. Gas prices being what they are LOL
[QUOTE=Peytons Touch; 1872571]A LITTLE crazy? Remember the infamous "Table Dance"?
We had some GREAT times. Maybe we need to put something together again before it gets cold out![/QUOTE]Llacy was a trip. Sweet girl but when it came to drinking the word moderation wasn't part of her vocabulary. Hell I don't even think she could spell moderation. LOL I would love to have a get together, problem is that I've been away for so long that I don't know any of the ladies and the guys I've hung with are out of the hobby for the most part. You are basically the only one I know still around from the old gang....We never did have that morning Traverse City cherry coffee.....lol
[QUOTE=WolvGuy;1872519]Well from here instead of a get together we would probably end up with a sausage fest since not many ladies participate here. Lmao[/QUOTE]Heh heh just so you know, I would be interested in a get-together, too! Sounds like fun!
[QUOTE=WolvGuy;1872519]Well from here instead of a get together we would probably end up with a sausage fest since not many ladies participate here. Lmao[/QUOTE]I find that those types of gatherings yield a great deal of info. There's nothing like shooting the shit, over a few good stouts.
Lets do it fellas. Don't really know how it works but it does sound fun. Nononsence lady do ya have any friends. ?
[QUOTE=NoNonsenseLady;1874267]Heh heh just so you know, I would be interested in a get-together, too! Sounds like fun![/QUOTE]