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But $250 an hour I think is reasonable for a hottie like Paris By the way Mr. Admin. The ladies in the US that want to sleep with you are p4 p providers? And for free? Damn, you must be hot! And why the comment about you still being the asshole admin? (by the way I don't think you're an asshole. I think you're humorous and keep us on our toes Don't tell me that p4 p ladies are trying to get you to quit this board, I'd laugh my ass off. LOL. Damn women, always wanting to change a man and put a noose around their necks lmao. Ok, so I guess they will all have to share you and take turns. Would you consider an orgy where the ladies are all taking turns feeding you grapes? If you can get all that free nookie from women who charge guys for it, wow! I got to see what you look like Send me a pic pretty please, and by the way, I already know you like me What's not to like? .

Xoxo.

[QUOTE=Deb4512;2082691]But $250 an hour I think is reasonable for a hottie like Paris By the way Mr. Admin. The ladies in the US that want to sleep with you are p4 p providers? And for free? Damn, you must be hot! And why the comment about you still being the asshole admin? (by the way I don't think you're an asshole. I think you're humorous and keep us on our toes Don't tell me that p4 p ladies are trying to get you to quit this board, I'd laugh my ass off. LOL. Damn women, always wanting to change a man and put a noose around their necks lmao. Ok, so I guess they will all have to share you and take turns. Would you consider an orgy where the ladies are all taking turns feeding you grapes? If you can get all that free nookie from women who charge guys for it, wow! I got to see what you look like Send me a pic pretty please, and by the way, I already know you like me What's not to like? .

Xoxo.[/QUOTE]Yeah, they are all working girls. None of them are trying to get me to quit, I just want them to know that in the unlikely event that we actually ever meet in the flesh that when I go back to work, it's the same job. I guess there's some kind of odd "status" that comes with the job. The voice from afar, with some ring of authority that makes their nipples hard.

Trust me honey, the A2 in your imagination is much hotter than the guy sitting at my keyboard. If you met me, it would be the brain, not the beauty that you would continue to like. With the exception of my eyes I'm fairly unremarkable, nothing really wrong, but nothing really stands out. Fortunately for me I'm a guy and chicks are way more forgiving than we are when it comes to evaluating the packaging.

The orgy idea is a good one, I like where your head is on that. It's unlikely I'll ever be in another monogamous relationship, seems like all my fidelity is in my heart when it comes to the people important to me and none whatsoever in my dick. Though for the sake of fairness, I'm perfectly willing to give what I expect. I could care less where any chick I'm involved with eats lunch so long as she's home for supper. I have three rules, no mutual friends unless it's together, play safe and the bootie is reserved for me. Actually four rules, if lunch was another chick I want details.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2082837]Yeah, they are all working girls. None of them are trying to get me to quit, I just want them to know that in the unlikely event that we actually ever meet in the flesh that when I go back to work, it's the same job. I guess there's some kind of odd "status" that comes with the job. The voice from afar, with some ring of authority that makes their nipples hard.

Trust me honey, the A2 in your imagination is much hotter than the guy sitting at my keyboard. If you met me, it would be the brain, not the beauty that you would continue to like. With the exception of my eyes I'm fairly unremarkable, nothing really wrong, but nothing really stands out. Fortunately for me I'm a guy and chicks are way more forgiving than we are when it comes to evaluating the packaging.

The orgy idea is a good one, I like where your head is on that. It's unlikely I'll ever be in another monogamous relationship, seems like all my fidelity is in my heart when it comes to the people important to me and none whatsoever in my dick. Though for the sake of fairness, I'm perfectly willing to give what I expect. I could care less where any chick I'm involved with eats lunch so long as she's home for supper. I have three rules, no mutual friends unless it's together, play safe and the bootie is reserved for me. Actually four rules, if lunch was another chick I want details.[/QUOTE]Providers are still women and some would offer freebees either as a form of gratitude for something that you've done for them or just because whatever it is that you're doing they perceive an "achievement" or as something "exciting" or both, and that excites them. A2 is one of the creators and moderators of this site. I'm 100% sure that there are many providers that would fuck him for free so just to be able to brag to the other providers that they fucked "the" guy behind USG / ISG and (I suspect) WSA & WSG. Plus, they are simply impressed with your site man and with that often comes female gratitude, I.e. "free pussy".

I've been offered freebees too as a form of gratitude couple of times (and [U]not[/U] by the one that you all may think) but I never take them. I always would rather pay a certain price and know how much I paid and for what then get a freebee and then in the future discover how much that "freebee" would really cost me and chances are not in monetary but in some more valuable, terms. There is no such thing as a free fuck, well, actually there is but rarely and rarely intentionally, that's for sure.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2082610]r.

Consider the same offer made if you find yourself in Argentina.

[/QUOTE]Thanks A2. Who knows.

[QUOTE=Nrlmus;2082899]Providers are still women and some would offer freebees either as a form of gratitude for something that you've done for them or just because whatever it is that you're doing they perceive an "achievement" or as something "exciting" or both, and that excites them. A2 is one of the creators and moderators of this site. I'm 100% sure that there are many providers that would fuck him for free so just to be able to brag to the other providers that they fucked "the" guy behind USG / ISG and (I suspect) WSA & WSG. Plus, they are simply impressed with your site man and with that often comes female gratitude, I.e. "free pussy".

I've been offered freebees too as a form of gratitude couple of times (and [U]not[/U] by the one that you all may think) but I never take them. I always would rather pay a certain price and know how much I paid and for what then get a freebee and then in the future discover how much that "freebee" would really cost me and chances are not in monetary but in some more valuable, terms. There is no such thing as a free fuck, well, actually there is but rarely and rarely intentionally, that's for sure.[/QUOTE]The most expensive pussy in the world is "free" pussy. I'm not saying a lot of it isn't worth it, there is certainly an allure to passion based, rather than compensation based motivation. I've known both in my life. One is predictable, the other...well less so but still appealing. The list of providers I would consider taking up on an offer like that is very short indeed and in every case it's more about how interesting the chick is and has very, very little to do with traditional hotness.

I would certainly consider dating a provider, I'm a putanero and that's very unlikely to change. If I was to date anybody it would have to be a chick that understood that oft times for guys sex is just like jerking off watching a porno but with help present, the pool of "normal" chicks that would get that is way too fucking small. I know brothers, you can't turn a ho into a housewife. Lucky for me I have no interest in a housewife. I've never, for the fucking life of me, understood why any guy would prefer a regular chick over somebody who has sucked a 1000 dicks in their life. The girl next door can fucking stay next door. When I use the forbidden words on this site they are ALWAYS complimentary, never derogatory.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2083049]The most expensive pussy in the world is "free" pussy. I'm not saying a lot of it isn't worth it, there is certainly an allure to passion based, rather than compensation based motivation. I've known both in my life. One is predictable, the other...well less so but still appealing. The list of providers I would consider taking up on an offer like that is very short indeed and in every case it's more about how interesting the chick is and has very, very little to do with traditional hotness.

I would certainly consider dating a provider, I'm a putanero and that's very unlikely to change. If I was to date anybody it would have to be a chick that understood that oft times for guys sex is just like jerking off watching a porno but with help present, the pool of "normal" chicks that would get that is way too fucking small. I know brothers, you can't turn a ho into a housewife. Lucky for me I have no interest in a housewife. I've never, for the fucking life of me, understood why any guy would prefer a regular chick over somebody who has sucked a 1000 dicks in their life. The girl next door can fucking stay next door. When I use the forbidden words on this site they are ALWAYS complimentary, never derogatory.[/QUOTE]100% agree. I too would consider dating the provider again but this time I'd probably prefer that I knew what I was getting into beforehand.

When I was in college by sheer accident (or was it something Freudian?) I ended up first dating and then living with a call girl. We met at college cafeteria and I didn't find out about how she paid for her tuition and her spacious apartment at the North End until we were discussing myself moving in. She lived with a roommate, which wasn't only her roommate, but alas, she had absolutely no interest in men, myself included, thus my big dream-fantasy never materialized. Still I had few problems accepting the difference between my girl-friend's work and her life with me, maybe because by then (mid 20's) my past already involved seeing quite a few hookers. In fact I found the whole thing of her coming home from her dates to me rather arousing. I guess that makes me a real pervert in many's eyes but whatever.

By the way, the girl eventually became (surprise-surprise) a pediatrician and quite a famous one too. So for all you know your children health right now maybe dependent on the advice from a former working girl. Or hm... We're not in touch now so I can't be 100% sure if she's actually a "former". She used to tell me that she actually enjoyed the thrill of doing something that naughty and enjoyed many people from various walks of life that she met and the power of knowing that many of them she can ruin with one phone call. Something by he way that I'm sure she never done, she was actually a pretty goodnatured kid and I'm sure now is the type of mother that her children and their friends consider super-cool, but it doesn't mean that she didn't savor on the idea that she 'could if she wanted to'.

Memories-memories...

[URL]http://boston.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/ime-at-the-end-of-my-ropes-25/26338665[/URL]

[QUOTE=Asket;2083327][URL]http://boston.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/ime-at-the-end-of-my-ropes-25/26338665[/URL][/QUOTE]Wether it's a prank or not it will draw a lot of attention. Just like the woman standing on a corner in Brockton carrying a sign. Suddenly all hell broke loose.

If so, she didn't leave a phone number. Unless someone emails her, how is anyone going to help her? Unless she has access to a computer without her pimp's knowledge! Otherwise if the ads real, she's venting, because she's addicted to drugs and feels like she's stuck in an impossible situation. Otherwise it was written and planted by Martha Cokley.

To the Admin: Wow, I really like where your head is at too! How did you become so enlightened? I've had conversations with guys, some of them clients, who say that either they'd date a provider, but she'd have to quit, or they'd never date a provider whether she quits or doesn't quit. Some wouldn't even date a woman if they found out she was an escort in the distant past! Also, many of my clients complain that their wives either are not good in bed, refuse to give them BJ's, aren't open to experimentation or don't have sex with them at all. Most of the time when I ask them what their wive's were like before marriage they'll say the same thing. Either they weren't getting sex often, their wives weren't good in bed, or wouldn't give them BJ's. Well why the F would guys marry these women? The answer is always the same, because they were "in love." Did they think their situation would change once they were married or do they feel sex isn't an important part of marriage? To me personally, that's plain stupid!! I thought that sex was important to the majority of men!! I guess for those who knew they weren't going to get laid after they were married, they figured they'd lead a double life. It totally baffles me!

Mr. Admin, you are so on target! No wonder providers like you! Mentally you are an escort's dream man, especially to the one's who are open minded and love sex! Actually most women I know are attracted to men with nice eyes.

I love the package too, but I wish guys knew that women don't generally like to be sent "package shots" no matter how well endowed they are. I don't know where their heads are at! They have no clue as to what women find sexually attractive. I'd be attracted to the package pics if I were dating the guy, but not the one's sent to me by random strangers. Yukkk. It's so crass and tasteless! These guys must think that we have a mindset of gay men!

To Nrmls: Any escort who sleeps with the admin because he's the admin of this board is an idiot. Also idiotic is to brag about it to other escorts. WTF. It's not like he's going to advance their escort careers! LOL. Geeze! What are they, a bunch of groupies? LOL. How old are they? They have to have the mindset of a teenager! LOL. If they were to have sex with him for free, the motivation that makes the most sense to me, is that they do it because he's a cool, intelligent, humorous guy who understands them. Also those dreamy eyes.

Xoxoxo.

[QUOTE=SouthsideMike;2083527]Wether it's a prank or not it will draw a lot of attention. Just like the woman standing on a corner in Brockton carrying a sign. Suddenly all hell broke loose.[/QUOTE]What did it say? It was dead when I clicked it.

Rito: the dead link was an escort who was allegedly seeking help. She said she was being held against her will by a pimp forcing her into sex work. She said he supplies her with illicit drugs, she apparently has addiction issues, so she won't leave. I think I pmed you. I can't remember.

[QUOTE=Deb4512;2085739]Rito: the dead link was an escort who was allegedly seeking help. She said she was being held against her will by a pimp forcing her into sex work. She said he supplies her with illicit drugs, she apparently has addiction issues, so she won't leave. I think I pmed you. I can't remember.[/QUOTE]Wait till Ledger comes back, he's probably on a binge right now. When he comes back you'll see the posts come back, it'll be a pig pile.

When an escort writes in her ad she's an Italian Stallion, is she gay, bisexual or does she not know what a stallion is? LOL.

[QUOTE=Deb4512;2086188]When an escort writes in her ad she's an Italian Stallion, is she gay, bisexual or does she not know what a stallion is? LOL.[/QUOTE]I too find that not only comical but also ignorant. I've been seeing that term used more & more lately. I'm sure they have no idea of what a stallion is, otherwise they wouldn't use it when trolling for guys.

[QUOTE=Deb4512;2086188]When an escort writes in her ad she's an Italian Stallion, is she gay, bisexual or does she not know what a stallion is? LOL.[/QUOTE]What's up with them posting "Italian Irish, Russian Irish, Italian Russian", what bearing does that have on their service. Just an attention getter?

[QUOTE=SmokeScreen;2086531]I too find that not only comical but also ignorant. I've been seeing that term used more & more lately. I'm sure they have no idea of what a stallion is, otherwise they wouldn't use it when trolling for guys.[/QUOTE]Another one that I get a laugh out of is when girls use the term "Native American". They truly believe because they are born in America that they are native americans. This comes from the dumbing down of the younger generation. There is a funny book out by Adam Carrolla titled "In 50 years we'll all be chicks", it gives lots of insight into the differences between the older and younger generations.

Face it, we don't date Mensa members.

Sometimes, that space between the ears is kinda charming.

C3.

[QUOTE=Deb4512;2086188]When an escort writes in her ad she's an Italian Stallion, is she gay, bisexual or does she not know what a stallion is? LOL.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Deb4512;2086188]When an escort writes in her ad she's an Italian Stallion, is she gay, bisexual or does she not know what a stallion is? LOL.[/QUOTE]I too see this specific reference all the time. I believe it is an overall reflection of the lowered standards in our education system and the lack of discipline in our schools. Many politicians and local citizens think it is underfunding if the school system. I couldn't disagree more. The kids are coddled and told how special they are all the time which breeds laziness. Some of our youth can barely read when they get out of High School yet they are allowed to graduate. Many of them are as dumb as a box of rocks.

[QUOTE=Deb4512;2086188]When an escort writes in her ad she's an Italian Stallion, is she gay, bisexual or does she not know what a stallion is? LOL.[/QUOTE]That's a good point. I never thought of it like that. I just thought that they meant they are built like a horse. Meaning they are not fat and well built.

[QUOTE=Yardape08;2086620] Many of them are as dumb as a box of rocks.[/QUOTE]And they all get trophies!

Remember growing up, if you came in first, second or third you got a ribbon or trophy. If you didn't, you got nothing and were told to hit the gym / track / books and try harder. Now you get a trophy just for showing up. Heaven forbid if someones feelings get hurt and they have to actually work hard to accomplish something.

[QUOTE=Yardape08;2086620]I too see this specific reference all the time. I believe it is an overall reflection of the lowered standards in our education system and the lack of discipline in our schools. Many politicians and local citizens think it is underfunding if the school system. I couldn't disagree more. The kids are coddled and told how special they are all the time which breeds laziness. Some of our youth can barely read when they get out of High School yet they are allowed to graduate. Many of them are as dumb as a box of rocks.[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBvIweCIgwk[/URL]

[QUOTE=Yardape08;2086620]I too see this specific reference all the time. I believe it is an overall reflection of the lowered standards in our education system and the lack of discipline in our schools. Many politicians and local citizens think it is underfunding if the school system. I couldn't disagree more. The kids are coddled and told how special they are all the time which breeds laziness. Some of our youth can barely read when they get out of High School yet they are allowed to graduate. Many of them are as dumb as a box of rocks.[/QUOTE]Yep, I'd like to add something about "the meaning of life" to what you're saying. I'm not a Buddhist because I came to this conclusion unaware that Buddhist doctrine prophesizes something similar, but at some point in my late 20's I came to believe that meaning of life for everyone individually is to achieve not happiness but rather contentment in life, each in their own way. It takes a while to stumble upon something which would make you content. Many never get there. Contentment breads certain laxity, inactivity of sorts, kind of "why do I need to achieve anything more, go anywhere now, do anything else in life when I'm content?

Child is not suppose to be content. She's got the whole life ahead of him to try to achieve that state. When a child being told that he is already great and special in the beginning of his / her life, I think he / she begins to feel intellectually content with himself. His levels of energy on the other hand make him very discontent because it's naturally tells him. You got to go, you go to see, you got to achieve, you got to do this and that. Those two collide creating an internal confusion with which a child due to his or her natural immaturity is totally incapable to be dealing with.

There are plenty of reasons why new generation nowadays may seem so psychologically fragile but I think this would be one of them. Absence of 'stick' from using 'carrot and stick' I believe is contributing factor too.

[QUOTE=Nrlmus;2086885]Yep, I'd like to add something about "the meaning of life" to what you're saying. I'm not a Buddhist because I came to this conclusion unaware that Buddhist doctrine prophesizes something similar, but at some point in my late 20's I came to believe that meaning of life for everyone individually is to achieve not happiness but rather contentment in life, each in their own way. It takes a while to stumble upon something which would make you content. Many never get there. Contentment breads certain laxity, inactivity of sorts, kind of "why do I need to achieve anything more, go anywhere now, do anything else in life when I'm content?

Child is not suppose to be content. She's got the whole life ahead of him to try to achieve that state. When a child being told that he is already great and special in the beginning of his / her life, I think he / she begins to feel intellectually content with himself. His levels of energy on the other hand make him very discontent because it's naturally tells him. You got to go, you go to see, you got to achieve, you got to do this and that. Those two collide creating an internal confusion with which a child due to his or her natural immaturity is totally incapable to be dealing with.

There are plenty of reasons why new generation nowadays may seem so psychologically fragile but I think this would be one of them. Absence of 'stick' from using 'carrot and stick' I believe is contributing factor too.[/QUOTE]As I see it the over coddling sets them up for failure when they hit the workplace. The workplace environment is often very competitive and cutthroat and I have seen how the youth in my former office react when the boss places demands on them. They often pout and complain because they've been falsely educated that "Life is fair" when in reality it is not. In my opinion they have been ill prepared.

[QUOTE=Yardape08;2086937]As I see it the over coddling sets them up for failure when they hit the workplace. The workplace environment is often very competitive and cutthroat and I have seen how the youth in my former office react when the boss places demands on them. They often pout and complain because they've been falsely educated that "Life is fair" when in reality it is not. In my opinion they have been ill prepared.[/QUOTE]100% agree. Plus the whole concept of fairness is highly subjective and personalized. What is fair for you may not be fair for me and the reverse. In fact if let's say, you'd be my boss and ask me to do something that you may think is fair, I may not necessarily see it in the same way from my end.

Some douchebag just told me he will have LE contact me. Should I have one of the girls I know standing by so they can give the cop a blowjob when he knocks on my door?

Have two girls-let the officer have a choice-ALWAYS best to have options.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2088468]Some douchebag just told me he will have LE contact me. Should I have one of the girls I know standing by so they can give the cop a blowjob when he knocks on my door?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Dh1610;2088708]Have two girls-let the officer have a choice-ALWAYS best to have options.[/QUOTE]I like where your head is at on this one.

I thought it was legal in Argentina. Unless he doesn't know you are out of the country LOL. What's he going to do, call the Argentina police on you? They probably see hookers too and since it's legal they'd probably laugh and hang up on him. So admin, what did you do to piss him or her off? Lmao.

[QUOTE=Deb4512;2088784]I thought it was legal in Argentina. Unless he doesn't know you are out of the country LOL. What's he going to do, call the Argentina police on you? They probably see hookers too and since it's legal they'd probably laugh and hang up on him. So admin, what did you do to piss him or her off? Lmao.[/QUOTE]Somebody put up a post that had his UserName in it. Not his real name, his UserName here. He started sending me hysterical emails saying that because somebody wrote RichmondGuy in a post his life was going to come to an end. I was nice at first, I told him unless a post violates our guidelines only the OP can request that it be edited.

This wasn't good enough, at last count he's mailed me 23 times about it.

I finally told him to fuck off.

He said that he had given LE my info and I should expect a visit.

I told him to make sure they pack for a long plane ride.

That got me to thinking about a pair of cops up there, making a long plane ride to come here and "talk" to me. (Yes, ridiculous I know) I thought it would be funny to have the BJ queen that works around the corner answer the door and blow them.

Cops: Just the facts ma'am.

Estrella: MMMmmffmmfmmff slurp!

A lot of guys think that because you guys talk about fictional events in the USA that somehow we are breaking the law. The courts have always held that the actions online happen at the server, (that's why they couldn't prosecute people for playing poker online, the game happens where the server is so they went after the banks funding the accounts instead) our servers aren't in the USA. This conversation between Deb and I is not happening in Boston, or Argentina for that matter, it's happening in Europe.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2088468]Some douchebag just told me he will have LE contact me. Should I have one of the girls I know standing by so they can give the cop a blowjob when he knocks on my door?[/QUOTE]That's funny. Is he a member here? Come on dude tell us more! What did you do to deserve such an ire? Told him that he is a douchebag?

To Admin: Can I pick a city and country where I'd like our conversation to take place? Hmm, Amsterdam please! I want to hire a ho but I want the admin to be involved in the hiring process Blonde or Brunette, I don't care. Long hair, tan or light skin, but they must have big boobs like me and also be real like mine. Age is not an issue, but performance is! And she better like women and taking turns eating pussy. I think my requirements are fair Admin joining in is optional, but I'd love to see you give her a good fucking and test out her BJ skills. If she's not good with the BJ I can teach her What a great convo it will be To everyone on the board, I'm in Ocean City Maryland and headed up to Long Branch NJ to stay at a hotel / spa on the beach. I love the beach I'll be home sometime on Monday. I hope you are all having nice weather in MA.

Xoxo.

[QUOTE=Nrlmus;2088813]That's funny. Is he a member here? Come on dude tell us more! What did you do to deserve such an ire? Told him that he is a douchebag?[/QUOTE]I always start conversations politely. I explained that nobody had used a real name, that he wasn't "exposed" and that unless there was a violation of the posting guidelines only the original poster could ask to have it changed.

Then he wrote me 10,000 times, asking over and over and over, then I called him a douchebag and told him to "fuck off you crazy fucking asswipe.".

Disclaimer. I tend to put my foot in my mouth (literally, because I'm soo darn flexible I'm very opinionated and if any of my posts ruffles anyone's feathers, including the admin pm me or post on here. I can take it. After I posted I realized I might have sexually objectified someone. I'm having so much fun, I may have broken one of the rules? My posts are all tongue and cheek to me. It's too much fun being one of the guys but an FYI if anyone's wondering. I was born and woman and I do have a pussy. So back on the road I go.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2089059]I always start conversations politely. I explained that nobody had used a real name, that he wasn't "exposed" and that unless there was a violation of the posting guidelines only the original poster could ask to have it changed.

Then he wrote me 10,000 times, asking over and over and over, then I called him a douchebag and told him to "fuck off you crazy fucking asswipe.".[/QUOTE]I'm roaring laughing here while reading this.

You know if he would've done the same thing to LE here in America (like writing or calling a police station over and over trying to prove something that has already been asked and answered), he would've more then likely not even ended up in jail but rather in the psychiatric hospital for those unable to understand charges that have been filed against them.

This is what my job is sometimes, no sweat off my balls. Most of these guys that end up insulting me would kill for my life.

At the end of the day that's all I care about.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2089091]Most of these guys that end up insulting me would kill for my life.

[/QUOTE]Bet all of them would.

Most deal with counseling techniques, mental illnesses and substance abuse, since this is the field I've been mostly working in. I also belong to various groups involving traveling, culture, art, literature, music, politics, animals... I was on facebook when I took a hiatus from escorting and spent more time on facebook. I wanted to spend some time time alone, not due to the clients, but due to bad experiences with escorts, one being an ex roommate. I still wanted to be connected with people, so I chose facebook as an outlet. I really like the various groups and articles. So anyway I spent a lot of time there and no time here. Now that I'm escorting again I'm here and not so much on facebook. Also I'm out and about doing things I love, such as traveling Today I decided to check into one of the women's groups I belong to. I thought the guys here would be interested in what women talk about men uncensored.

One of the ladies posted this: "If you sleep with a man on the third date-before there is an emotional connection for him, can she destroy her chances for a relationship? I think that it depends on what type of man a woman is interested in. If she's interested in someone more conservative and traditional I think she should wait. If she's interested in someone who's unconventional, open minded and free spirited she can give him the green light whenever. For me personally when I'm escorting I prefer to sleep with my clients right away. LOL. When I'm interested in him I like to wait. For an escort, being interested in a man romantically or sexually is usually very rare and also takes awhile to develop. If you're curious, we are hesitant to be involved with men for any other reason besides your money, because we don't want you to hurt us. Unfortunately many escorts have been abused by men, sexually or otherwise, so we tend to have hang ups regarding sex and men. Some have been bullied by boys as children (not sexually, but it still effects our feelings about ourselves and also our feelings towards men) We really have to work hard on self awareness and constantly remind ourselves that the bullying isn't a reflection of us, but the way the bullies feel about themselves. Also that not all men are bullies. So if you develop feelings for an escort be kind to us and tread lightly.

Anyway, one of the ladies posted this link [URL]http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/sex/why-women-should-make-men-wait-for-sex/[/URL] in response to the post.

I asked them if they have any questions they'd like to ask men, so if you want to answer go for it. If not no biggie.

1. "At what point does a man feel emotionally invested in a woman? Is it before or after sex?

2. What is the one trait that women commonly have that men hate?

If any of you have questions for women that aren't hobby related post them or pm me and I'll post your questions in the woman's group as well, although I did tell them I'm an escort when I first joined, I'm sure though that the majority of them are not escorts and not at all interested in the hobby, although they ought to be LOL.

If you want to answer any of their questions post here or pm me.

My next post will be advice from me on how a man can get laid without paying for it. .

[QUOTE=Deb4512;2089579]2. What is the one trait that women commonly have that men hate?[/QUOTE]Can't speak for anybody except myself but the one trait that a lot of women have that I loath is an unwillingness to accept responsibility for the consequences of their actions.

They don't want to hear you tell them something is a bad idea before they do it then when the thing goes to shit they EXPECT somebody else to clean up the mess. Worst example? Somebody I used to be close to has an on again off again relationship with this guy that seems to like hitting her. The last time she decided to get back together with him I told her "Honey how can you do this? You know what's going to happen." Her reply "I can't see how that's any of your fucking business.".

Three weeks later, when she called me at 3 am because he was bouncing her head off the walls again screaming for help, THEN it's my business. I hung up and called the cops. She hasn't spoken to me since. I run into this all the time. "I don't need any man telling me what to do." One week, three months, or whenever later "If you were a real man you would help me out.".

What a doozy LOL. You ought to remind her when she tells you it's none of your business that you aren't going to bail her out if things don't work out. I'll go out on a limb and say what I find annoying about men I've met and how to get laid for free.

1. Learn a musical instrument and join a band. If you can sing well that's another option. What guy in a band can't get laid? Seriously, women flock all over them. They generally have too many women! The guitar player is a personal favorite. There's something about a guy strumming and picking guitar cords that really turns me on. I'm wondering what it would be like having them strum on my clit.

2. If you aren't musically inclined, but still like music and can keep a beat, try DJing. Women love Dj's too.

3. Work in a strip club as a bouncer. Obvious, because you will meet lots of strippers, walk them to their car. If they're horny you can meet them after work.

4. Bartend anywhere, except those dive bars where men mostly hang out. Women who like to party are turned on by bartenders. It has something to do with the movie "Cocktails.".

5. Learn to paint, draw or do sculpture, pottery. Women love artists. Picasso had a lot of ladies chasing after him. Plus wasn't the scene where Patrick Swasey and Demi Moore at the pottery wheel sexy as hell in the movie "Ghost?

6. Become a writer or poet. Women will think you are in touch with your sensitive side and romanticize you. Attend a writers group or recite your poetry at a poetry slam.

7. Travel to Montreal. Better yet, move there. French Canadians are notoriously sexually open. Actually my friend Don complained that the French women treated him like a sex object. Even I was hit on by women in Montreal. They also have naked tv and sex work has recently become legal there, unless things have changed. Even if not legal yet, the cops have better fish to fry. Plus only incalls have been illegal in the past (they are called "Bawdy Houses" Outcalls are fine. I think that the escort is the only one who could be tecnically hassled by having an incall. Google prostitution laws in Quebec to be sure. There are tons of strip clubs and Montreal has been on top of the list for having the most beautiful women in the world. Hang out on St. Denis (that's where the french hang out) or St. Laurent (bilingual) Crescent (anglophones and lots of Americans) or St. Catherine Street (strip clubs and everyone hangs out there) You never know who you'll meet. I was taken aback by how friendly the people are when I first visited. The city is all about fun and decadence.

8. Listen to what women are saying. Women love when men listen to them and comment on their convos. No need to brag to impress her, just listen to her!

9. Be real and down to earth. Affection and expressing feelings (not excessively) but be manly enough to be protective of her. And don't kiss her ass. Stand up to her. You're the man after all.

10. Please, Please, Please don't call excessively, text, email..don't stalk her either! Give her some space. She's just living her life and isn't focused on you 24/7. She still likes you. Give us a break!

11. Don't be pushy with sex. Actually don't make a move on her at all. Wait for her to make the first move.

12. PDA. Hold her hand when you are walking down the street.

13. Don't be over controlling. Don't tell her what to wear, what to do, don't cut her meat for her! She's not a child!

14. Keep your promises, end of story.

15. When your undies have holes in them throw them away!

16. I know you guys in MA love sports and like to dress casual. Change it up. Buy some nice dress slacks or casual dockers. Put yourself together. Where some cologne once in awhile. Don't wear a red sox baseball cap on the first date or any date unless it's a baseball game.

17. Always pay for the first date. Actually pay for all the dates until you both are a couple. Or if you want to get laid, pay until you score. Be a gentlemen. Be sensitive in bed. Give her plenty of orgasms and be gentle please. Oh yeah, don't stick your fingers in our pussys. Work on the clit instead. Most women can't cum unless you massage her clit. Also use lots of lube. Women also it like when you use vibrators on their clits.

18. Control your tempers for gosh sakes. On this board wow. You guys can be an angry bunch. Women are generally naturally afraid of men anyway. Best not to approach a woman in a dark alley or parking garage at night.

19. Control your drinking. Drinking excessively doesn't make you charming. It turns a decent guy into a nightmare.

20. Whatever you do, don't send her penis pictures ever! It's not charming or sexy. It's insulting!

21. If you have a dog, take him or her for a walk wherever women hang out. It would help if your dog is really cute. Be sure your dog is groomed and and looks as cute as possible. If you don't own a dog, borrow someone's dog. Women will swarm around you telling you how cute your dog is.

22. Remember her birthday, valentines day, And buy her cards and gifts.

21. Don't expect a woman to wait on you hand and foot. You can cook and clean too. If you don't know how, learn. This isn't the 1950's anymore!

23 When you're in a relationship and you want to have sex with her, woo her a bit. Yes, every damn time. What I mean is don't take off your undies (oh yes, be certain they don't have holes in them! I can't emphasize this enough!) and lay there with your legs spread out and ask her to give you a BJ. You really have to work up to that point. Listen to her, buy her flowers if she likes that sort of thing, take her out to dinner, treat her special. Compliment her a lot! Women love compliments. Try not to fart. LOL. Seriously? If you have to fart loudly can't you do it in the bathroom instead?

24. Women are naturally bi curious or bisexual. Women are sexy and we think so too. Broach the subject with your partners cautiously and discretely. Tell them how hot it would make you if you saw her fooling around with another woman. Damn, my pussy's getting wet writing this. .

25. Don't get into the bad habit of letting her boss you around, nag you and tell you what to do. Although, if you do what I've suggested there will be a lot less nagging you'll have to put up with.

26. If she's totally unreasonable and angry (like my gf in Florida was. Ugg) tell her at the get go you won't tolerate her childish behavior. You have to stand up to her and have good boundaries. Don't let her intimidate you! Let her have a tantrum! And walk away after saying your piece. Don't get involved in an argument that isn't going anywhere. So what she's stressed, so are you! Don't let her take it out on you! If a woman refuses to behave responsibly and adult like, she's a spoiled, entitled princess who will never be happy or satisfied with anything or anyone. Dump her and don't marry her! You deserve to be with a really cool woman who loves you like you are. Watch out how she handles stress. If she freaks out when she breaks a nail and reacts like she's just been hit by lightening, run. You don't owe her any explanation, otherwise you'll be involved in more drama. Leave, dump her... And don't give her any second chances.

27. If she has substance abuse issues you can't change or rescue her. Don't date her. If you are her friend be supportive, but keep your distance. She has to hit rock bottom and want help to be a good friend or lover.

If I can think of anything else I'll let you know. Remember, be kind to her, but don't be a wuss.

If you are intellectual and have a good sense of humor use it. It's a guarantee if you can make a woman laugh a lot you will get laid! Wow, it's like an aphrodisiac!! .