Rants Raves and Stupid Shit in Seattle.

Has anyone noticed that many of the women on SA when you meet and talk to them have had a pretty messed up childhood? So far I have encountered the following.

One who lost their dad at young age and seems to be jumping from guy to guy.

One who started dating her older brothers friend when she was 14 and he 21.

One who started being molested by grandfather at 12, pregnant at 15.

One who had no dad in her life that just likes having sex, she said why not get something in return.

There are others but has anyone met a woman that doesn't have a messed up background?

[QUOTE=BrstMan;5087013]Has anyone noticed that many of the women on SA when you meet and talk to them have had a pretty messed up childhood?

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There are others but has anyone met a woman that doesn't have a messed up background?[/QUOTE]No, not really.

The arrangement world really is the Island of Misfit Toys.

[QUOTE=BrstMan;5087013]Has anyone noticed that many of the women on SA when you meet and talk to them have had a pretty messed up childhood?

There are others but has anyone met a woman that doesn't have a messed up background?[/QUOTE]My preference run toward the more mature ladies. Those seem to have a better balance to their lives. Yes, they are usually divorced, but that is kind of the nature of the beast. Most have children that are somewhat grown, as I do, so we actually have something to talk about after coitus. One was / is a professional (not that way, like a doctor / lawyer).

And to be quite frank, looking in the mirror, my background is not the most Mayberry and Cleavers either. Not that I was abused, but my folks had some pretty old-school ideas, and a certain part of my outlook on life and choosing to play in the world of pay to play has a lot with those puritanical attitudes.

[QUOTE=SugarNuts;5086168]Did you read the 2015 Everett Herald herald DOT net stories? Double Yikes![/QUOTE]Not sure why you guys are acting like wussies. It wasn't her who pulled the trigger. Upon reading the article I feel that she was innocent just doing her provider job and was simply at the wrong place at the wrong time.

[QUOTE=Jonderin;5086963]Yep. Sounds like he didn't realize what an unstable wacko he was dealing with until it was too late.

Looks like they deleted about half the replies on that thread. It appears anyone who questioned her viewpoint had their posts deleted, then they closed the thread.[/QUOTE]Typical. It's why I don't waste my fingertips typing there. They probably did that to any negative reviews that she had too (just like all negative reviews there).

[QUOTE=BrstMan;5087013]Has anyone noticed that many of the women on SA when you meet and talk to them have had a pretty messed up childhood? So far I have encountered the following.

One who lost their dad at young age and seems to be jumping from guy to guy.

One who started dating her older brothers friend when she was 14 and he 21.

One who started being molested by grandfather at 12, pregnant at 15.

One who had no dad in her life that just likes having sex, she said why not get something in return.

There are others but has anyone met a woman that doesn't have a messed up background?[/QUOTE]It's why I avoid the younger ones on there. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than hearing how they were molested by xxxxx or raped by her brother's friend when she was 12. At least the older people have learned to deal with their issues.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;5087263]It's why I avoid the younger ones on there. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than hearing how they were molested by xxxxx or raped by her brother's friend when she was 12. At least the older people have learned to deal with their issues.[/QUOTE]That's always advisable. I've found that avoiding girls under 28 is always the best. Rarely do they have a good level of maturity, but there's also the prowess factor. The women over 28 usually have perfected techniques and developed a real lust for intimacy. Girls 18-28 may have firmer bodies, but 9. 5 times out of ten, they are as sexually interesting as banging your own hand. Hey, at least my hand knows what I like, isn't going to rush me, have a nasty smell of being unclean, or ruin the mood by talking.

Cute little thing; encounter just went south and they both stood their ground. It happens.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;5087263]It's why I avoid the younger ones on there. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than hearing how they were molested by xxxxx or raped by her brother's friend when she was 12. At least the older people have learned to deal with their issues.[/QUOTE]There are no shortage of the older ones with issues as well, though. On the average I prefer them a little older myself but I've ran into plenty of batshit over the years from sugar babies in their thirties.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;5087263]It's why I avoid the younger ones on there. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than hearing how they were molested by xxxxx or raped by her brother's friend when she was 12. At least the older people have learned to deal with their issues.[/QUOTE]75% of the ones with issues I have met or talked to were over 30, there was one who was about 35 and I asked what happened to her bathroom door and her ex-BF had put her head into it, another older one had been raped by and ex-BF, another lost her parents in an accident and had no emotional or financial support so was on SA, when I made the post I was not specifically talking about any age group.

I found 1 right now that is young and seems to have few issues, steady job, own place, close but not too close, doesn't want too much in return and randomly sends me pics and tells me she wants to get together.

[QUOTE=RedHot11;5087253]Not sure why you guys are acting like wussies. It wasn't her who pulled the trigger. Upon reading the article I feel that she was innocent just doing her provider job and was simply at the wrong place at the wrong time.[/QUOTE]She went to the victims house for a session and brought the dude that pulled the trigger along. According to the court reporting, he had the intention of robbing the monger from the jump so even if she didn't know, she's still complicit.

You want to go see her, go for it. Your choice, I don't begrudge anyone for their life choses, apparently you do. As far as being a wussy, multiple combat tours beg to differ, but you do you keyboard warrior.

[QUOTE=RedHot11;5087253]Not sure why you guys are acting like wussies. It wasn't her who pulled the trigger. Upon reading the article I feel that she was innocent just doing her provider job and was simply at the wrong place at the wrong time.[/QUOTE]You maybe right. I mean neither of us know what really happened. But when I read the article. I definitely did not have a similar take as yours. I do not think she was completely innocent. Just doing her job. I definitely feel she either knew the shooter or was in someway involved. Regardless it is sad what happened and she definitely needs to get help.

[QUOTE=TheNovelist;5086187]A lot of guys would have probably done far worse.
[/QUOTE]I think so too. To his credit, applying a little pressure seemed to have worked and he didn't hurt her.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;5087260]Typical. It's why I don't waste my fingertips typing there. They probably did that to any negative reviews that she had too (just like all negative reviews there).[/QUOTE]Exactly. He went from top tier Russian talent to bottom of the barrel trash but didn't know because they delete negative reviews. Everyone there is a unicorn.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;5085719]Yes. I also feel he's telling a majority of the truth also. The fact that the police came and he wasn't arrested is quite telling. The fact that absolutely nothing happened and he took his money and tried to leave and an altercation occurred is also very telling. The fact that after all of that she is complaining that she didn't get paid (for nothing) is also very telling.

Could he have handled it better? Hell, yeah! Unfortunately, the other board seems to think that all hookers are delicate flowers and incapable of launching themselves at men. They believe that even if she did launch herself at him, he has no right to defend himself (and then declare that they are feminists). I think most of us rational people know better.

I look at it as 4 years on the board, 22 reviews, 14 references without a problem, then suddenly he's beating hookers. Doesn't make sense.[/QUOTE]I don't know what happened and who is telling the truth.

I do know that it is likely this is not the end of the situation for the gentleman involved.

Nothing is more dangerous than a hooker scorned. Some of these women are master manipulators.

They lie for a living. They have no problem lying under oath.

This guy should consult with an attorney now and protect himself before it is too late. Keep all communications from her and start screenshoting everything.