Sugar bowl sites and sugar babies

[QUOTE=JRedmond;3549138]Perfect example of why I usually believe about 25-50 % of what they are telling me (until I get to know and trust them).

Said her cell was shut off and she was in St Peters.

I was not going to take off work and make a 40 minute drive in the hopes she MIGHT be the real deal.

Sometimes depends on how interested (or less) they might be in the guy and their financial needs level at that moment.

She offered 75 for a car date. Thats all I know. Saving that contact because she looks good and her FB checked out rather normal.[/QUOTE]Yeah her number worked because she called me. I was at work and did not answer though. She offered 75 to me too which seemed low for how good she looked. Thats part of why I got a little ghosted. Usually girls that look that good want double or these days triple that.

Really hot chicks at really low prices seems too good to be true. And too good to be true seems like a good way to get busted.

Just an FYI. Hope this does not happen to you.

I renewed yesterday for 3 months.

Never that forward or rude when I am messaging new profiles.

Its easier to report profiles now by using the drop down added.

This is the message I just received.

You have committed another violation of our Terms of Service. Your account was flagged for the following reason:

Soliciting sex in exchange for compensation.

You have committed this violation too many times, and as a result, your account has been permanently banned from [URL]SeekingArrangement.com[/URL]. Please read our FAQs for more information: [URL]http://seekingarrangement.com/faq[/URL].

Was not billed to my CC yet. So I will dispute it if it posts to my account.

Fair warning to everyone.

[QUOTE=JRedmond;3552434]Just an FYI. Hope this does not happen to you.

I renewed yesterday for 3 months.

Never that forward or rude when I am messaging new profiles.

Its easier to report profiles now by using the drop down added.

This is the message I just received.

You have committed another violation of our Terms of Service. Your account was flagged for the following reason:

Soliciting sex in exchange for compensation..[/QUOTE]Damn! What the hell?

Like you, I am always polite, and not too forward, but who knows if someone is having a bad day and feels like reporting me.

[QUOTE=JRedmond;3552434]Just an FYI. Hope this does not happen to you.

I renewed yesterday for 3 months.

Never that forward or rude when I am messaging new profiles.

Its easier to report profiles now by using the drop down added.

This is the message I just received.

You have committed another violation of our Terms of Service. Your account was flagged for the following reason:

Soliciting sex in exchange for compensation.

You have committed this violation too many times, and as a result, your account has been permanently banned from [URL]SeekingArrangement.com[/URL]. Please read our FAQs for more information: [URL]http://seekingarrangement.com/faq[/URL].

Was not billed to my CC yet. So I will dispute it if it posts to my account.

Fair warning to everyone.[/QUOTE]I feel like SA caters more to the non paying customers then they do to the paid ones, us. I have had woman tell me there are all sorts of forums telling them what to expect, often with a way overly optimistic view. I think that is a large part of why so many of them are clueless as to what they are realistically going to get out of it.

What other business out there does that.

[QUOTE=JRedmond;3552434]Just an FYI. Hope this does not happen to you.

I renewed yesterday for 3 months.

Never that forward or rude when I am messaging new profiles.

Its easier to report profiles now by using the drop down added.

This is the message I just received.

You have committed another violation of our Terms of Service. Your account was flagged for the following reason:

Soliciting sex in exchange for compensation..[/QUOTE]I've heard of guys losing a month suspension but permanent ban you're the first. So how many times have you been warned? You can always make a new profile the way the girls do but you would probably need to rethink your techniques to keep complaints down and this happening again.

[QUOTE=TylerDurden01;3552726]I feel like SA caters more to the non paying customers then they do to the paid ones, us. I have had woman tell me there are all sorts of forums telling them what to expect, often with a way overly optimistic view. I think that is a large part of why so many of them are clueless as to what they are realistically going to get out of it.

What other business out there does that.[/QUOTE]Biggest problem I encounter is all the scammers (Spammers -fake profiles).

Their description of themselves do NOT match the stolen pictures they post. (example. Busty / curvy blonde in pic, but says she is thin and brunette) Also the foreign scammers post a height of 5'10" and THINK that is normal, then describe themselves as Native American instead of white / Caucasian claiming to have a masters or doctorate degrees, but cannot use proper English / Grammar! (LOL).

I point blank ask if they actually live in my area, (PHX- ask about major cross streets) If they are DTF (but NEVER mention pay for play).

Also if their profile includes their e-mail or phone number, guarantee it's a scammer.

Venture to guess, 75% are fake / scammer profiles.

Does take some time and effort, but had several quality providers and NEVER paid over a bill.

And the hunt continues.

JamesJ.

Going to process this and think about what happened for a few days.

There are a few things that anyone paying them should be concerned about.

1. You pay for a 1, 3 or 6 month membership. 3 days after you pay your account is permanently banned. Your account is gone (can't email them from what use to be your account), your money is gone (no refunds). You are left to call the phone number and good luck with that.

2. What is the "arbitrary" number of complaints before they do this to you? Is it 2, 20 or 200 complaints?

3. How valid are the complaints about you? Anyone can report anyone for anything.

4. You will never receive a warning or notification to any complaint reported against you, before your account is banned and deleted.

2 girls I talked to yesterday wanted cash for a meet and greet. 1 wanted prepayment. I said no thanks and good luck. Did they get mad and report me? Was it a girl that I parted with from the past and didn't like seeing me on the site? Maybe someone didn't like how my profile was worded or the color of my eyes. Anyone can report anyone for anything. There is literally no appeal process when this happens.


If and when I might go back I learned 3 valuable lessons (so far) from this.

1. I will never pay for more than a 1 month membership at a time.

2. Any conversation that leads to a red flag, drama, or possible bad ending I would block them immediately (at least they can't report you once you block them).

3. Be VERY cautious with your wording and what you are proposing in terms of an arrangement. Any girl at any time could be offended if you are offering an allowance for anything beside a platonic arrangement and report you for solicitation.

[QUOTE=TylerDurden01;3552726]I feel like SA caters more to the non paying customers then they do to the paid ones, us. I have had woman tell me there are all sorts of forums telling them what to expect, often with a way overly optimistic view. I think that is a large part of why so many of them are clueless as to what they are realistically going to get out of it.

What other business out there does that.[/QUOTE]

Guess that was a warning to me, just completed my last payment, and it will be the last. Thanks for the warning.

[QUOTE=JRedmond;3552912]Going to process this and think about what happened for a few days.

There are a few things that anyone paying them should be concerned about.

1. You pay for a 1, 3 or 6 month membership. 3 days after you pay your account is permanently banned. Your account is gone (can't email them from what use to be your account), your money is gone (no refunds). You are left to call the phone number and good luck with that.

2. What is the "arbitrary" number of complaints before they do this to you? Is it 2, 20 or 200 complaints?

3. How valid are the complaints about you? Anyone can report anyone for anything.

4. You will never receive a warning or notification to any complaint reported against you, before your account is banned and deleted.

2 girls I talked to yesterday wanted cash for a meet and greet. 1 wanted prepayment. I said no thanks and good luck. Did they get mad and report me? Was it a girl that I parted with from the past and didn't like seeing me on the site? Maybe someone didn't like how my profile was worded or the color of my eyes. Anyone can report anyone for anything. There is literally no appeal process when this happens.


If and when I might go back I learned 3 valuable lessons (so far) from this.

1. I will never pay for more than a 1 month membership at a time.

2. Any conversation that leads to a red flag, drama, or possible bad ending I would block them immediately (at least they can't report you once you block them).

3. Be VERY cautious with your wording and what you are proposing in terms of an arrangement. Any girl at any time could be offended if you are offering an allowance for anything beside a platonic arrangement and report you for solicitation.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JRedmond;3552434]Just an FYI. Hope this does not happen to you.

I renewed yesterday for 3 months.

Never that forward or rude when I am messaging new profiles.

Its easier to report profiles now by using the drop down added.

This is the message I just received.

You have committed another violation of our Terms of Service. Your account was flagged for the following reason:

Soliciting sex in exchange for compensation.

You have committed this violation too many times, and as a result, your account has been permanently banned from [URL]SeekingArrangement.com[/URL]. Please read our FAQs for more information: [URL]http://seekingarrangement.com/faq[/URL].

Was not billed to my CC yet. So I will dispute it if it posts to my account.

Fair warning to everyone.[/QUOTE]Probably work of some vigilante women not happy with SA.

[QUOTE=TylerDurden01;3552726]I feel like SA caters more to the non paying customers then they do to the paid ones, us. I have had woman tell me there are all sorts of forums telling them what to expect, often with a way overly optimistic view. I think that is a large part of why so many of them are clueless as to what they are realistically going to get out of it.

What other business out there does that.[/QUOTE]Paying membership is what makes SA work. Its not for everyone so for the ones not happy with the site its simple, don't send them the $80 monthly.

[QUOTE=JRedmond;3552434]Just an FYI. Hope this does not happen to you.

I renewed yesterday for 3 months.

Never that forward or rude when I am messaging new profiles.

Its easier to report profiles now by using the drop down added.

This is the message I just received.

You have committed another violation of our Terms of Service. Your account was flagged for the following reason:

Soliciting sex in exchange for compensation.

You have committed this violation too many times, and as a result, your account has been permanently banned from [URL]SeekingArrangement.com[/URL]. Please read our FAQs for more information: [URL]http://seekingarrangement.com/faq[/URL].

Was not billed to my CC yet. So I will dispute it if it posts to my account.

Fair warning to everyone.[/QUOTE]Maybe it was also from someone that you saw and did not want to see again, who felt blown off. You know the old saying regarding a women scorned.

Given the number of girls I have seen on there over the 4 + years, certainly a possibility. Like most its necessary to block many over time.

It ended badly when it was over, crazy, flakes, stalkers and just plain pissed off. I probably have / had over 15 pages of blocked profiles (you do this long enough, you will).

My concern going forward (if I chose to) is I never received any notification, warning or email that a complaint was made about me. 1 minute your on the site messaging and they "flip a switch" and your done.

Reading some outrageous, rude messages that girls have shown me from guys when we hang out and talk about the site, I am always respectful and subtle when first messaging and reading the terrain of a new girl. Eventually I will only mention FWB till we start texting off the site.

Since they offer a FWB tab to add to your profile, they certainly can't find that a violation if I mention it in my messaging.

I did email them last night and opened a support ticket regarding my account being banned. Maybe they will investigate and review it, but probably not.

[QUOTE=Koompa;3553541]Maybe it was also from someone that you saw and did not want to see again, who felt blown off. You know the old saying regarding a women scorned.[/QUOTE]

Paying members is the revenue stream.

What makes it work is the volume of young women available to contact in the location you desire looking to make money.

Without the abundance of women, there is no draw and no reason to pay.

Ladies night is the draw for nightclubs (paying customers).

This site is Ladies Night 24/7 365 and never a cost to them. Thats what makes it work.

[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3553512]Paying membership is what makes SA work. Its not for everyone so for the ones not happy with the site its simple, don't send them the $80 monthly.[/QUOTE]

Anyone chatted with nice one??

She wants 3 k just to meet her, LOL.

I have had some real doozies on there lately.

Half of the profiles they don't bother filling out what they want, generic term must get put in now, Just says "let them know your curious" or something like that.

[QUOTE=Koompa;3554261]Anyone chatted with nice one??

She wants 3 k just to meet her, LOL.

I have had some real doozies on there lately.

Half of the profiles they don't bother filling out what they want, generic term must get put in now, Just says "let them know your curious" or something like that.[/QUOTE]I never unlocked my pics and she never asked or read my profile and still kept asking how much. Gave her a few choice words and blocked her. She's not even all that either, I graded her in the $100-150 range at best. That's with a good attitude, this one has lost her mind