Your call, but some random thoughts
[QUOTE=Dugglc;4569148]Well my friends I am forced to stop my mongering hobby. I was diagnosed with throat cancer on Tuesday by my doctor. I still have to go for further testing next Friday to see how far along it is, but my doctor seems to think it is pretty far along and told me that most likely I would need to have my voicebox removed and undergo chemo treatments. I am unwilling to do either, so I plan to spend what time I have left with my friends and family. I have been married for 36 years and in this hobby for 30 of those years. I think the least I can do is to devote the time I have remaining to the wife and kids to make this as easy on them as I possibly can. I am afraid of a few things like leaving my wife and kids on their own, but dying is not one of the things that scares me. I have enjoyed my time on this board and the brotherhood that comes with it. Keep each other informed and safe out there and enjoy the ladies. I will most likely still keep up with the boards some over the next few months reading reviews and living vicariously through you guys LOL. Not how I intended to go out. My plan was to get an outcall one day to my deathbed LOL. Life doesn't always work out the way we plan it to. Live every day as if it is your last because you never know when it might just be.
Peace out my brothers.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Quacktastic;4569208]Very sorry to hear that. You say that you are unwilling to fight it, but why not give it some thought and discuss with your family? I have some renters who have had cancer 3 x! She beat it all 3 times and is enjoying the extra time with her family.
Whatever you decide to do, I wish you well in your journey.
Q.[/QUOTE]I'm inclined to agree with Q, it seems worth it to at least consider the fight. I have had several family members and very close friends that were diagnosed with various forms of cancer, decided to fight it and lived to tell the tales! And, regrettably, I've had some that did NOT live to tell the tales! It is, of course, a very personal decision. As to me, I'd go through the surgery and chemo, all the way until it wasn't worth fighting anymore.
So I plan to spend what time I have left with my friends and family. - Duggic
I'm touched that we are a part of who he is spending remaining time with. I hope you get some more before your time is up, yd.
Same and different outcomes
It's strange how people have different outcomes. Every single person I've known has beaten cancer. Granted, it still might get them in the end. I've had 3 bouts including surgeries and Chemo and beat it each time. I hate people taking care of me but like taking care of my family. My family knows I basically fought because my kids were young and I didn't want them to be fucked up by dying while they were in middle school or high school and end up some goth freaked out tatted kids etc etc. Or one of these girls with daddy issues, You all get where I am going with this. They all knew I would fight until my youngest was 18 and off to college. However, now they are gone, they know if I get sick again, I'm checking out with a corona on some island on my time. I did what I was supposed to do. Just like you, I've set everything up in a trust where they get a certain percentage of the growth each year so it still grows and a percent of the principle for home purchase, and at certain ages etc. They can't just blow it. It will be there for years which means they have to be responsible and not a total free ride but they will not have to worry. The wife will have all debt and house paid off and be good. As men, the first thing that goes through our minds is money and stability for our loved ones. I didn't do the video like you did but that's funny as shit and I might steal that. It's something that they would expect I would do though or like that guy that did it when he was buried and started to ask everyone to let him out. LOL. I want to be cremated because no one is going to visit anyway, what a pain that it is. So what I did was to have them spread me in the water off St barts and make everyone take a 7 day vacation to do it. Figure it would be a great way to go. Good luck!
[QUOTE=Dugglc;4569614]I have had around a dozen friends and family over the last 10 years that have chosen to fight cancer. All of them are now dead and died a very nasty undignified death. I have watched them go through surgeries and chemo only to live the time they had to live in total misery and sickness. A few of them beat their original cancer only to get it somewhere else. All of them had a very miserable existance while fighting it. I still have to go for more testing and if it isn't too far along I may choose to have surgery to have it removed but no way in hell I'm having chemo treatments. I choose to live the time I have left with dignity, not sick and bedridden having to have my family care for me and watch me waste away slowly. I will spend my time enjoying every minute of what there is to enjoy and so will my family. I went today and took my money out of the safe deposit box and set up trust funds for my wife and my kids that they won't know about until after I have passed on. My wife doesn't even know I have the money but they will be very well taken care of when the time comes. The wife will start getting her's as soon as I am gone and the kids will have to wait until they are 18. They will only collect the interest from the funds that I set up but it will be as much or more then they would ever make working. The trust funds that I set up will be around for generations. I feel satisfied with my life and what I am able to do for my family so while they will be upset at first they will always be taken care of by me even long after I am gone. The wife will probably be pissed at first finding out that I had that much money stashed back that she had no idea I had, and I'm sure she would rather have me around then to have the money, but she will never have to worry about anything ever. All of our debt will be paid off the day I pass and she and the kids will always be taken care of. I have already gone and set up my final arrangements also. I am being cremated and my family will be there when they cook my sorry ass LOL. I am going to make a recording to be played when they stick me in the oven with me banging on the door and with my voice asking is anybody else burning up and can somebody please turn on some air conditioning LOL. I will not only live the rest of my life in dignity but I will also get the last laugh and leave them all laughing also. Then when the wife goes to the bank to change bank accounts over to her name only she will find out that she has no debt and a steady income for both her and the kids forever. They will never be able to go nuts and spend the money that I am leaving them and wind up broke in the future and when they pass the money will go to whoever they choose to leave it to. I do not fear death so why fight it and spend a year or two sick and in bed making someone miserable caring for me and wiping my ass. I will just accept it and live life to it's fullest until my last breath. I saved this money over many years so that if things came to this as they have my legacy will live on long after I am gone. I am actually happy to go now rather than growing old and feeble and having to be a burdon on my family. While I didn't plan on it happening this early I am not disappointed or afraid. I will die with a smile on my face knowing that in just a week or so everybody I'm leaving behind will be hitting the lottery.[/QUOTE]
Possible Polk county sting
Does someone know about this one? This looks like the next Grady sting Post. Stay away of Polk county.
[URL]https://orlando.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/lakeland-area/346214367586[/URL]
