Generally you are right but.
[QUOTE=DickHerDown;2191154]I recently chatted with this girl by text. I asked her if she wanted me to come and fuck those big ol' titties and she said of course! We had some back and forth for a couple days, exchanged pics, and she told me how she really wanted to meet me. She said I intrigued her. Wow, I must be special right. I asked her if she had a boyfriend to which she replied that she had a husband. She then said that she's very unhappy with her marriage and looking for something else. When she told me her husband knows what she does, I said well I can see why you're looking for a new guy. She didn't understand this and asked why? I said well any real man doesn't allow his wife to work in this line. This is where things go south. The next text was from her husband. He explained that she was available for incall only and stated her rates. He reminded me that she was his wife and not my girlfriend. He also said that she doesn't enjoy doing this work, but she has to. Makes me wonder if I was ever really chatting with her LOL. I politely declined my invitation for an appt and haven't heard anything since. Seems like a lot of drama there fellas so just a fair warning.[/QUOTE]Most of these girls have relationships of some sort. Their social life is not based on us.
One of my best encounters was with a girl from here who is married. I managed to find out by a slip on their part. I later sit down with him over drinks. I know they are the exception but she had his approval as long as she was having fun. They enjoyed the swingers lifestyle and this was just another avenue that she enjoyed.
In their case it truly was not about money. I make a very good living but I doubt if I earn enough to pay his income tax.
It was a great time for about a year. Then I decided to slow things down. I still have his number as well as hers in my phone. We had lots of play time. Sometimes both of us taking care of her. I felt like I was in a porn movie.
Like the quote you have up there this guy also made it clear "This is my wife not your girlfriend". I understood the rules and all of us had a great time.
Having said this, yes one needs to be careful in these types of situations. Especially since the guy you are talking about stated she does not enjoy this type of work.
Also do not ask me who the married lady is. By their request they do not want this be public knowledge.
Have fun out there.
Fdx.