Money Issues. Two examples
My friend found a provider on the east side recently. He saw her one time. A few days later he wanted to see her again. He told her he could probably make it later that day. She kept emailing him to ask for money to pay bills. He failed to understand why she was suddenly having bill paying problems when she seemed to have been able to pay them months before without help. When he wasn't able to meet her she asked him for a loan. She wanted him to go to her apt and give her the loan money and then she would be available later that night for the second meeting. She told him she had someone staying with her so he would have to come back at night but she needed the money now, you know, to pay that bill. How many here believe she would have answered the phone or emailed later that night? He's getting too old to play games. He will never give out loans.
He found another provider earlier that week. She was new to the business and didn't seem to have a grasp of money issues either. She was offering a topless massage. She offered him two hours for a total of $3. She was firm on that. Massage only. She said she could do a little more if he would buy her an Xbox One. Pay $8 instead of paying $0.8. Sounds reasonable to me. BTW, she sent a pic. A six only.
[QUOTE=Bigbuck73;1959761]I would not call it a loan, but instead giving some extra money to a friend, which I don't expect back as I am helping them out and not looking for something in return.
If you want something in return, then you should spell it out before the money exchange, but even then you may not get what you were hoping for in the end. Just my 2 cents, happy holidays everyone.[/QUOTE]