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Okay so I need a little help someone has stolen my pics and is running a ad on BP or so I have been told numerous times I have looked and can't find the ad.. Has any of you gents seen it?? I would like to have the number on the ad so I can confront the pic thief.. I am a well reviewed provider and don't need any thing to taint my stellar rep so if any one has any Intel please share.. Thanks and love always ff.
[QUOTE=Mrrdfun;1947526]This goes as a cautionary tale for any newbies and a reminder for the rest of you. You CANNOT ever fully trust a provider. No matter how many times you've seen them. Whether you think they like you or not, remember, it's a business to them and you need to treat it the same. There is a highly respected, well reviewed provider on this board (I won't mention her name since it's ultimately my fault) that I brokered a deal with. X $'s in advance for x number of future visits. I had only tried this once before, with a different provider, and it worked out fine. This time, not so much. I paid the money on the initial visit, as planned, and there hasn't been a visit since and it's been over a month. In that time there have been several reasons given but mostly just dead air and no replied. It isn't the money I'm pissed about, it's the loss of a provider that I valued. It's my bad but shit happens. Just remember that they can, and will, flake on you at any given moment![/QUOTE]You can't completely trust a drug addict, regardless of status / reviews.
[QUOTE=Crism0808;1947551]Why don't you mention her name so that others do not make the same mistake?[/QUOTE]I'm kind of amazed he did it once and it worked, honestly. This almost never does. If you want to give a provider extra money because you like her, that's fine. But expecting a loan to be repaid in cash or services is simply not going to happen. You may have to say no to the request, which may hurt the relationship. But the end game is the same either way, and at least by saying no you save the money. It does sound like, in a similar situation months back, RemyLynn made amends. I suspect that may have resulted from the issue being made aired on this board, which is key to her livelihood.
I thought it would be interesting to start a thread about Duo's, current and past, pro's and cons, who do you recommend who to avoid, unlikely duo's that work out and why others didn't. I read a lot of posts about diferent girls but never about the ones that advertize together. I will get things started by asking has any tried this Duo [URL]http://cincinnati.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/let-us-be-your-secret-shhhh-2-girls-and-one-girl-specials-come-see-us-22/16445542[/URL] I know there has to be alot of experienced members who have perfected this aspect of the hobby, allow us newbie's to learn from the great masters.
[blue]More than 30 fiestas including 5 different sets of sisters here.
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Please master let us know about the sisters ( ok actually only I want to know but please details) personally I am working on a supposed set of sisters from the Dayton backpage http://dayton.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/want-the-best-2-girls-in-dayton-20/16593648
tonight i have only been able to negotiate 2.0 for 30 2.5 for 60 for both. Have a greeting planned for 2 of our cincy ladies in the morning at .6 who I have seen before will give you an update. recommendations please.
Gents'.
Seems I've hit my one year mark in this secret double life of mine in the hobby. I would like to first say thank you to Buddha. I am very fortunate that I came across you a year ago. I know it was a rocky start and you thought I was LE, but hey let's admit it, you like having a smart, well educated woman working with you. I can't wait to see what 2014 brings. I would like to also thank every single man that has every seen me or contacted me to just chat. I'm so happy that I know so many good men and they have shared their life stories with me. I will never for each and every single one of you. I've been treated with the utmost respect and have fulfilled so many fantasies of mine and yours. I hope that when my time here comes to an end that I will be able to stay in contact with each of you in someway or another I'm not saying I'm leaving, but school starting back up so I will be shortening my days...
Sasha.
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Buddah thought you were LE because you told him you did undercover work. (or is that under THE cover work?
Glad we met a couple of times. Just wish you were closer to Dayton!
[QUOTE=SashaBlack;1957689]Gents'.
Seems I've hit my one year mark in this secret double life of mine in the hobby. I would like to first say thank you to Buddha. I am very fortunate that I came across you a year ago. I know it was a rocky start and you thought I was LE, but hey let's admit it, you like having a smart, well educated woman working with you. I can't wait to see what 2014 brings. I would like to also thank every single man that has every seen me or contacted me to just chat. I'm so happy that I know so many good men and they have shared their life stories with me. I will never for each and every single one of you. I've been treated with the utmost respect and have fulfilled so many fantasies of mine and yours. I hope that when my time here comes to an end that I will be able to stay in contact with each of you in someway or another I'm not saying I'm leaving, but school starting back up so I will be shortening my days...
Sasha.
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[QUOTE=Mrrdfun;1947526]This goes as a cautionary tale for any newbies and a reminder for the rest of you. You CANNOT ever fully trust a provider. No matter how many times you've seen them. Whether you think they like you or not, remember, it's a business to them and you need to treat it the same. There is a highly respected, well reviewed provider on this board (I won't mention her name since it's ultimately my fault) that I brokered a deal with. X $'s in advance for x number of future visits. I had only tried this once before, with a different provider, and it worked out fine. This time, not so much. I paid the money on the initial visit, as planned, and there hasn't been a visit since and it's been over a month. In that time there have been several reasons given but mostly just dead air and no replied. It isn't the money I'm pissed about, it's the loss of a provider that I valued. It's my bad but shit happens. Just remember that they can, and will, flake on you at any given moment![/QUOTE]I just wanted to say that even tho I am not the provider in question that I am sorry this happened to you. But not all of us providers are like this. I will honestly say that in bad times like this I have had two regulars that have helped me this month because of slow times and the holidays so that I could finish my kids Christmas but I repaid them. But the two Gentlmen that helped me I have been seeing for over a year. It's sad that this happens. Just my two cents tho, it is a very disrespectful thing for the provider in question not to return the faver. Not only does she lose the future business from you but also future business from other members. I would rather pay back the debt and keep the business coming and know that the help is there in the future. I will say tho it takes a great amount of respect, time and trust to lend money to a provider but some of us providers do pay back. Both gentlemen that helped me, loaned me 80 a piece, I repayed them both with each a full hour of my time at the time of their need and want. Let me say tho I have been seeing both these men for over a year. So over time they have come to trust me as I do them. Again sorry this happened to you but please don't think all of us providers are the same.
Yes it is true that we providers are not all the same. There are a few that is is honest and honestly are having a bad time,
When things get rough and business is slow and if the provider happens to have a special guy that she feels would help her and he does then thumbs up to her! My opinion we providers shouldn't ask then men for money when times are bad I just don't think it's cool I mean unless he and the girl had talked and he said in few words he would help on bad times but other then that keep favors exit out of the provider/monger realitionship but like I said that's my opinion.
If the lending borrow does happen to come about I think the provider should tell the monger that she will pay him off either by simply giving him it or giving a date for half price until the dept is paid off that is the only way when dealing with most girls to actually get paid back and not run her off by wanting a free date and in return she get nothing but he'll that's
My 2 cents I'll just keep it my way and say out the drama and not ask:)
SS
[QUOTE=Mrrdfun;1947526]This goes as a cautionary tale for any newbies and a reminder for the rest of you. You CANNOT ever fully trust a provider. No matter how many times you've seen them. Whether you think they like you or not, remember, it's a business to them and you need to treat it the same. There is a highly respected, well reviewed provider on this board (I won't mention her name since it's ultimately my fault) that I brokered a deal with. X $'s in advance for x number of future visits. I had only tried this once before, with a different provider, and it worked out fine. This time, not so much. I paid the money on the initial visit, as planned, and there hasn't been a visit since and it's been over a month. In that time there have been several reasons given but mostly just dead air and no replied. It isn't the money I'm pissed about, it's the loss of a provider that I valued. It's my bad but shit happens. Just remember that they can, and will, flake on you at any given moment![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Mrrdfun;1947526]This goes as a cautionary tale for any newbies and a reminder for the rest of you. You CANNOT ever fully trust a provider. No matter how many times you've seen them. Whether you think they like you or not, remember, it's a business to them and you need to treat it the same. There is a highly respected, well reviewed provider on this board (I won't mention her name since it's ultimately my fault) that I brokered a deal with. X $'s in advance for x number of future visits. I had only tried this once before, with a different provider, and it worked out fine. This time, not so much. I paid the money on the initial visit, as planned, and there hasn't been a visit since and it's been over a month. In that time there have been several reasons given but mostly just dead air and no replied. It isn't the money I'm pissed about, it's the loss of a provider that I valued. It's my bad but shit happens. Just remember that they can, and will, flake on you at any given moment![/QUOTE]Here is my personal take on loaning money not just to a provider but to anyone NEVER LEND MORE THAN YOU CAN AFFORD TO LOSE, as a matter of fact I don't lend money out at all if somebody asks to borrow money from me I'm more inclined to just give them what I can afford to give them and explain to them I don't even want the money back, but I also tell them to never ask me for anymore money period. There is a young lady I've been seeing utr I just gave her a gift card so she can get her kids Christmas plus I bought her 2 gifts I made no mention of payback or arrangements this way when I want to see her there will be no ducking and dodging. I hate to say this but a lot of lady's have been doing the borrowing thing on behalf of their giners for a long time they know the power of pussy and they use it to their advantage. Don't feel to bad man every lesson in life generally cost you something and you learned about this particular provider look at it this way what if she had paid you back? More than likely she would have asked you again but this time for more money than the time before and then stiffed you. Like I said next time someone you like wants to borrow some money and you do want to help them out offer them some of what they want and tell them they don't have to pay you back that keeps everything on the up & up you helped someone you wanted to help and she has no obligation to do anything she doesn't want to do and your relationship can stay cool. Be safe man and don't dwell on this to much, I'm out.
Yea, we have all done it. I JUST did it. I have never been burned. BUT I agree with HL29 not to loan more than you can stand to loose. It really only leads to them asking again, and again. But it is hard to say no sometimes, especially while it is a gal you really enjoy being with. It is easier not to do it, even if it means passing on extra sessions.
I would not call it a loan, but instead giving some extra money to a friend, which I don't expect back as I am helping them out and not looking for something in return.
If you want something in return, then you should spell it out before the money exchange, but even then you may not get what you were hoping for in the end. Just my 2 cents, happy holidays everyone.