Negotiate "everything" up front.
[QUOTE=Lewdnesses;7356602]Near Dutch bros in Sherwood.
First dud experience I've had out of my few attempts. Do people not typically go later at night? I showed up at 9 pm, only an older woman working, wearing jeans and t-shirt.
Went in, asked for HH, undressed, got on table.
She came in, and covered me with the towel. Then gave a 4/10 massage, avoiding the towelled area completely. I've never been good about directly asking for more (under the ever so miniscule chance of 'just in case') but she did not offer anything else. Elsewhere that has never been the case.
I found the place from a listing with scantily clad women so I know it's what I was looking for, maybe just bad timing?
Left unsatisfied and with a lighter wallet.[/QUOTE]I don't understand why you would "leave it to chance" not to get your boom-boom, if that's what you're after.
When I first started watching this site, many of the reviews mentioned paying house fee for the massage and then agreeing to more for FS "at the flip". Seemed too dicey for me. What if you want more, but she demands more $$ than you're willing to spend? And wouldn't it be awkward as hell to have to get up, with a raging boner, and have to rummage through your pockets for the extra cash to make it happen?? And also, what if you don't even *want* the massage, just the "fucky-sucky"?
Screw that noise: negotiate for time and services UP FRONT. If you can't get what you want, turn on a heel and leave. It's really that simple. And it's probably not too far a drive to go to another place where you can get what you want.
Every time for me, it was telling the girl, "(time), with EVERYTHING, OK?" And that was it. One time, I think the girl was in "that time of the month" and I couldn't get boom-boom for any price, and one time, I tried to negotiate for a full hour (after seeing some mongers reporting an hour of FS for what I had been paying for half an hour) and she wanted more than I brought. Every other time, it was game on from that point. I think I'm up to about 10 total visits to AMPs, so 80% success rate with up front negotiation is pretty darned good.