Wish I read this 48 hrs ago
[QUOTE=AbsoluteSavage;3912350]Whenever you are in a situation where the woman declines your offer, just leave.
I know that's easier said than done especially when you're horny but I've been doing this for way too long. There have been plenty of times a woman complained about my offer, and each time I either haggled or caved the experience was sub par at best and awful at worst. The kicked is I always pay a little bit better than the going rate, I use it as an incentive for better performance and repeat business.
Take your situation. A HJ averages. 4, I normally pay .5 or .6 since I take a while and my hands like to roam. She was complaining about .7. Nope. That sort of attitude is a hard turn off for me.[/QUOTE]You are right. Maintain control of the situation. I let the little head take advantage and it costs me 1. 4 for subpar. Leaving would have been cheaper. MDC.
Not in a position to choose right now
You guys make it sound like we have abundant choices in MPs vis-a-vis clothes and grooming. I agree flip-flops are horrible, and I prefer heels and an elegant presentation -- I certainly did in the 2000's. But times are catastrophic right now, and we're lucky if we can find even one mediocre MP at this time -- and even if we do it's probably a shithole of some kind. Not in a position to be choosy. This kind of talk is more appropriate on the Canadian forums, where they have hundreds of choices of all ages and races even now.
Putting some effort into one's appearance pays off
[QUOTE=Dff4580;3947478]Personally, I'd love it if they wore things that were simple. Like yoga pants / leggings and a nice t-shirt or some kind of sports wear. I often intend to enjoy the actual massage almost as much as the ending (which makes finding a good AMP even harder), so it's better if they wear something they can move around in. Also, there's the fantasy of them behaving like "legitimate" CMTs and "oh no, the towel came off!" so them wearing something so blantantly sexual at first kind of kills that. But I know I'm probably a bit weirder than the usual mongers here so take that as you will.[/QUOTE]I like it when providers put some effort into their appearance, even if they're dressed casually. Plenty of providers I've seen in the past have done that, whether they're wearing a nice robe over sexy lingerie and a pair of heels or whether they're wearing a T-shirt, yoga pants and a decent pair of casual sandals. If I show up and a provider is wearing sweat pants and flip-flops, it's probably going to be a boner-killer for me. And I'm at the age where I frankly need all the help I can get!