Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Bran001;5053247][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/07bd146f-2ff0-4167-9bd3-c02ed79ca3df[/URL]

Initiates messaging, hasn't seen photos, wants to meet TODAY. When I tell her I'm very busy with work the next few days, she invites herself over to my place anyway "for lunch and maybe more. ".

If they are super pushy, they have an agenda, and it's rarely in our favor.[/QUOTE]Might have looked like that 75 lbs ago. Got her dwn to 300, wanted a cover on the whole time, wouldn't do BJ even with the cover, finally got a fairly good HJ, though qite pricey, lesson learned. She did contact me also out of the blue, never asked for my picture and was ready to meet ASAP. Thunk with the wrong head.

Reached out to babybetty, and she said it'd be 500 to get physical. I got her down to 350 and setup a coffee date. Met up and she is definitely easy to talk too and looks exactly like her pictures (big plus). But when I offered to get a hotel she went back up to 500. She wouldn't budge so I just covered the coffee and went home.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/be243f34-ebff-4dee-b4cc-310b0a9f1028[/URL]

Now I have a coffee date with browneyedgirl420. She's takes a long time to respond, but eventually got her to meet. Anyone got info on her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/807dbf3d-78bd-4029-814a-caa425998f04[/URL]

[QUOTE=KidZoid;5053394]Supposed to meet her soon. Anyone have a review?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2c63b674-199e-44c0-b2fd-8c16fcc425c7[/URL][/QUOTE]I met her a couple years ago for only 200, she wants way too much now and covered. But she is super hot. Perfect tits, clean, hygienic. Or at least was a couple years ago. What she asking for? I tried talking to get recently and best I could talk her to was 500 covered which I passed on.

[QUOTE=JustFunHere;5053504]Reached out to babybetty, and she said it'd be 500 to get physical. I got her down to 350 and setup a coffee date. Met up and she is definitely easy to talk too and looks exactly like her pictures (big plus). But when I offered to get a hotel she went back up to 500. She wouldn't budge so I just covered the coffee and went home.[/QUOTE]When a girl has a price in mind, and you negotiate her down from it significantly, don't be surprised when she later flakes. You think you've "won" and gotten her to meet you, while she thinks once you see her you'll agree to her original price. If a girl tells me a PPM that's significantly higher than my max, I just tell her so. I don't ask her to take less. Once in a while they come back and say they'll take less, but the rest of the time it ends there, and avoids a bunch of wasted time.

[QUOTE=Bran001;5054017]When a girl has a price in mind, and you negotiate her down from it significantly, don't be surprised when she later flakes. You think you've "won" and gotten her to meet you, while she thinks once you see her you'll agree to her original price. If a girl tells me a PPM that's significantly higher than my max, I just tell her so. I don't ask her to take less. Once in a while they come back and say they'll take less, but the rest of the time it ends there, and avoids a bunch of wasted time.[/QUOTE]Pretty sound advice. I generally don't try to negotiate too much because it just ends up being an overall lackluster time although if a girl gives me a choice of two numbers ill go with the lower one unless I'm trying to impress, sometimes if its something crazy high ill just ask if she's willing to spend a longer portion of time. Either way haggling too much on a number she set on is tough unless you know she's desperate, so many other girls out there to choose from.

[QUOTE=JustFunHere;5053504]Reached out to babybetty, and she said it'd be 500 to get physical. I got her down to 350 and setup a coffee date. Met up and she is definitely easy to talk too and looks exactly like her pictures (big plus). But when I offered to get a hotel she went back up to 500. She wouldn't budge so I just covered the coffee and went home.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/be243f34-ebff-4dee-b4cc-310b0a9f1028[/URL]

Now I have a coffee date with browneyedgirl420. She's takes a long time to respond, but eventually got her to meet. Anyone got info on her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/807dbf3d-78bd-4029-814a-caa425998f04[/URL][/QUOTE]Profile says platonic. Let me know if that's code. She's very sexy.

I made contact with this one and she is ready to go. LOL basically wants 200-300, role play, age play, everything goes, meet now, dtf exact comments from her. Said she needs rent money but can't host. Car or hotel. I took a pass as she is a bit thicker than I like and I read her as she probably right off STG. May be a good one for many however. I didn’t get her number so you will need to reach out to her.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/messages?box=Inbox&requested_profile_id=5554832[/URL]

[QUOTE=Joe1223;5055754]I made contact with this one and she is ready to go. LOL basically wants 200-300, role play, age play, everything goes, meet now, dtf exact comments from her. Said she needs rent money but can't host. Car or hotel. I took a pass as she is a bit thicker than I like and I read her as she probably right off STG. May be a good one for many however. I didnt get her number so you will need to reach out to her.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/messages?box=Inbox&requested_profile_id=5554832[/URL][/QUOTE]I posted about her awhile back and she's been reviewed here. Nikki aka Prettynikki from Saugus / Revere. If she's down to 200 might be worth it. But there are some smell issues, flakey, druggie, liar etc. Stomach is weird.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/22e9c57e-dd8d-400b-ab67-6c166a625ada[/URL]

I recently saw her. It took almost 1. 5 months of coordination to actually see her. Hate the head games and leaving me hanging. Finally, she reached out to me to see me.

Hosting situation. She cannot host.

Body. Thick and curvy getting close to borderline BBW. 6 on 10.

Attitude. Sweet and nice. More like a gal you can go on a date and get to bed on the first date. 8 on 10.

Performance- solid 7 on 10.

BBBJ, BBCIP.

Repeat. Probably no. As she is kinda thick for my preference. Just one BBCIP as she said I wore her out. May be true or not or just really good at reasons.

Note- sorry for this templated review. It's easier to review things this way.

Still on the lookout for that young college pussy. If anyone knows gals in the 200-250 range please let me know. Much appreciated.

[QUOTE=SpicyPrince;5058167][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/22e9c57e-dd8d-400b-ab67-6c166a625ada[/URL]

I recently saw her. It took almost 1. 5 months of coordination to actually see her. Hate the head games and leaving me hanging. Finally, she reached out to me to see me.

Hosting situation. She cannot host.

Body. Thick and curvy getting close to borderline BBW. 6 on 10.

Attitude. Sweet and nice. More like a gal you can go on a date and get to bed on the first date. 8 on 10.

Performance- solid 7 on 10.

BBBJ, BBCIP.

Repeat. Probably no. As she is kinda thick for my preference. Just one BBCIP as she said I wore her out. May be true or not or just really good at reasons.

Note- sorry for this templated review. It's easier to review things this way.

Still on the lookout for that young college pussy. If anyone knows gals in the 200-250 range please let me know. Much appreciated.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the intel, I am on the south shore and was on the fence about reaching out to her. What was she asking and what did you settle on?

Amber692.

This one is a piece of work based on her profile and activity. She is online all the time, seriously like 24/7. Yet she wants to meet a guy who [I]connection with one guy who knows what he wants and isnt online on SA all day and night[/I].

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/394d902d-7c75-4635-8828-346f9e75ff31[/URL]

I have been on SA from the beginning of Oct. For the first time. So I guess that makes me a rookie still, but I am willing to do a little summary on my experiences / thought to share here.

My goal is to find two or three that I can go a little-longer term, and maybe get a handful numbers for ppms. I may not immediately extend my subscription if I reach my goal in another months.

A little statistic:

Girls that:

I sent messages first: 120.

Getting a response from: 80.

Exchanged more than a couple of messages: 35.

Move them off to text: 25 (most of them would be interested in meetups in some form).

Only do ppm: 15 (went with 2). Might go with another 3 or 4. The rest are asking too much for me.

Actual m&g:5 (fucked one so far), these are the ones I try to get into longer term arrangements.

Got stood up at coffee / lunch hotel rooms: 6.

Don't pm me for the girls numbers / info, especially if you don't have an account or cannot get her contact on SA. They are on SA so they can do some screening.

There had been probably 50 girls messaged me first. I think most, if not all, of them are professionals. Nothing wrong with THAT but most of them are very pushy and certainly asking a lot more than their STG prices.

I think there are a few things that can increase the odds that the girls will reply to you. Of course some more work are still needed but if she doesn't reply, there is no game to play.

1) have a picture in your profile. There are ways to greatly mask your identity, but the young generations grew up with social networks and visual cue is a must.

2) I uses canned openers for the first message to the girls, but do read their profile carefully. Especially the long ones. If they put in a 600-word about-me, they won't you to actually read it.

Again I might share which girl (I think) is real but cannot really share the info of those cases here. I worked too hard to give it away. I do / did share bad experiences so others don't have to waste their time.

[QUOTE=SpicyPrince;5058167][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/22e9c57e-dd8d-400b-ab67-6c166a625ada[/URL]

I recently saw her. It took almost 1. 5 months of coordination to actually see her. Hate the head games and leaving me hanging. Finally, she reached out to me to see me.

Hosting situation. She cannot host.

Body. Thick and curvy getting close to borderline BBW. 6 on 10.

Attitude. Sweet and nice. More like a gal you can go on a date and get to bed on the first date. 8 on 10.

Performance- solid 7 on 10.

BBBJ, BBCIP.

Repeat. Probably no. As she is kinda thick for my preference. Just one BBCIP as she said I wore her out. May be true or not or just really good at reasons.

Note- sorry for this templated review. It's easier to review things this way.

Still on the lookout for that young college pussy. If anyone knows gals in the 200-250 range please let me know. Much appreciated.[/QUOTE]Set back for me was 3. BBCIP as well. No rush. I got multiple pops in. We took a shower together. Not the tightest girl on the block but I made it work. Not worth it as a repeat in my books but good for a one off to add to the books.

[QUOTE=Satine;5061169]I have been on SA from the beginning of Oct. For the first time. So I guess that makes me a rookie still, but I am willing to do a little summary on my experiences / thought to share here.

My goal is to find two or three that I can go a little-longer term, and maybe get a handful numbers for ppms. I may not immediately extend my subscription if I reach my goal in another months.

A little statistic:

Girls that:

I sent messages first: 120.

Getting a response from: 80.

Exchanged more than a couple of messages: 35.

Move them off to text: 25 (most of them would be interested in meetups in some form).

Only do ppm: 15 (went with 2). Might go with another 3 or 4. The rest are asking too much for me.

Actual m&g:5 (fucked one so far), these are the ones I try to get into longer term arrangements.

Got stood up at coffee / lunch hotel rooms: 6.

Don't pm me for the girls numbers / info, especially if you don't have an account or cannot get her contact on SA. They are on SA so they can do some screening.

There had been probably 50 girls messaged me first. I think most, if not all, of them are professionals. Nothing wrong with THAT but most of them are very pushy and certainly asking a lot more than their STG prices.

I think there are a few things that can increase the odds that the girls will reply to you. Of course some more work are still needed but if she doesn't reply, there is no game to play.

1) have a picture in your profile. There are ways to greatly mask your identity, but the young generations grew up with social networks and visual cue is a must.

2) I uses canned openers for the first message to the girls, but do read their profile carefully. Especially the long ones. If they put in a 600-word about-me, they won't you to actually read it.

Again I might share which girl (I think) is real but cannot really share the info of those cases here. I worked too hard to give it away. I do / did share bad experiences so others don't have to waste their time.[/QUOTE]Sounds about right. SA requires a lot of work, patience and deeper pockets. Hopefully you find a match that gives you what you are searching for. I don't waste time doing a hotel until they are actually in the parking lot. I can deal with being ghosted but I don't want to pay for it. I am still getting interest but so many are still Covid shy and I keep hearing about the schools threatening to kick them out if They have Covid. We may be in for a long dark winter without a fuck buddy. LOL.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;5061002]Amber692.

This one is a piece of work based on her profile and activity. She is online all the time, seriously like 24/7. Yet she wants to meet a guy who [I]connection with one guy who knows what he wants and isnt online on SA all day and night[/I].

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/394d902d-7c75-4635-8828-346f9e75ff31[/URL][/QUOTE]If they log on to SA with the smartphone app and do not log out, it will show them online all the time.

There's also been a problem if they log on with desktop / laptop / tablet and click away from the site without logging off, SA does not always recognize they're not there anymore and indicates they're still logged on.

These problems have been reported and discussed on other sites.