That type of behavior gives all of us a bad name. If your buddy wasn not happy don't tip and explain why your not tipping, but don't act like a complete buttwipe.
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That type of behavior gives all of us a bad name. If your buddy wasn not happy don't tip and explain why your not tipping, but don't act like a complete buttwipe.
I am actually almost speechless at that post. Basil said it best.
Did he actually think that anything was going to change in a weeks time? And the point now is when some guys complain about how they are treated by some of the girls in different places like they have attitudes or want a lot of money. Well I kind of don't blame them. You treat them like crap why should they treat you any better? And it is the next guy that gets the brunt of it.
Your friend is going to go in some place oneday and instead of oil they'll use some icy hot or friggin tabasco sauce or something for being such an ass.
WTF is wrong with some people? Knowing the girl is 100% legit and goes in and does what he did to her. She had every right to stop the session right then and there. The massage was ok? Still probably better than he deserved, kudos to her for being professional and continuing. She is the one who should be pissed not him. If he want's something guaranteed then make sure he goes with someone who is a guarantee. He couldn't come back in a half hour or something? He couldn't drive another 10 minutes down the road to Rhode Island where it is a given?
Hopefully the girls there know who he is and if he goes back will give him a taste of his own medicine. Maybe they won't change the sheet or towel from the last guy and make him lay in someone's else's jizz. What he did is just wrong on so many levels.
Not that it's right but the next time you get an attitude you can thank schmucks like that.
And I said I had been there more times than most of you not all of you combined. I had been going to both places for years not the last couple of months like many. I didn't say that to beat my chest to say I am cooler than you because I have, it was more to back up my original point that I had somewhat of a clue of what I was talking about and not just making some blind statement. I am not sure who to go see since I haven't been in a very long time so I only know of who works there now by reading here like you all do and quite frankly, I didn't go there for extras so I am not the one to ask.
[QUOTE=Erokejs]Last week he went to Spa B and saw Sasha. He said he had seen her before and she was pretty strict with absolutely no extras. But, he figured after many moons had past, she might be a little more friendly this time around. So, being as though she was the only one available, he took a chance.
Big mistake. He was still pretty pissed about it. He said he was all geared up for an HE and there was absolutely no way she would do anything. He said he pulled the sheet off and she just put it back on. He rubbed her and she moved away. He begged and she just said no. [/QUOTE]These are the a-holes that give us a all a bad rep. I had a massage with Sasha months ago and posted the experience on this board. Sasha is cordial but not overly friendly; it was VERY clear from even her handshake in the lounge area that she was not interested in providing extra services.
The amazing thing about this guy is that he had seen Sasha BEFORE. Why would he go back to her again, with all the other choices available, and given her obvious lack of interest anything but a professional massage? To compound things, he pulls a couple of classless moves to spite her when she doesn't provide what he is looking for. This kind of post does nothing to help any of us. I would hope any providers reading this forum recognize that this 'friend' is the exception and not the rule...
[QUOTE=Momo Epez]Steve,
Getting the AMP all worried and uptight will just result in more "do it yourself"
endings and who wants that. If your not happy with a place, just go elsewhere. If more of us stay away, they'll get the message soon enough.
I actually think that that was happening. Notice how quiet this forum has been about them in the last month.
By the way, this switcharoo that Jeff is complaining about has been Spa A and Spa B's standard operating proceedure. He also says that this has happened to him here, but his experience the first time was not as bad because the lady he got switched over to was nice. So he really is just complaining about the bad service he got from Denise. But because he is not one to thrash the girls here, it's the poor management of the place that he wants us to be aware of. Jeff its ok. You can report a bad experience with a provider. Thats what this forum is for.
Oh yeah, Jeff. The Patriots want those tickets back.[/QUOTE]Seems like a lot of us have had this experience at the alphabet spas in the past. I thought I was being singled out with the bait and switch since I am not a constant regular in either place. I can't believe that the management thinks that if they keep this policy up that the clients will keep coming back. It seems to me based on the posts out here that there are plenty of OTHER places to go to get this type of service including CL which I have never tried before. Anyone have any suggestions?
I wanted to say that Denise/Danielle certainly was not my taste, but as I mentioned, she may very well appeal to other guys. That's why I am choosing to go after management on this one. I agree with Momo that the best way to get them to stop is to just STOP patronizing either place. Someone said it's all about the money and I believe that at the alphabet spas. Once the cash stops rolling in the service will most likely improve.
I tried speaking with the manager (at least that is who she said she was) when this happened the first time and I was told it wouldn't happen again. Since my experience the first time was decent I was just making a point and not trying to be a total dick about it. The question is, now that this has happened again and it seems to happen to others as well, would speaking with the owner or manager be any different this time or will it just fall upon deaf ears? Any other ideas?
I am not wasting anymore breath on discussing this with management, so maybe my posts will not go unnoticed to anyone that matters at the A & B!
BTW Momo, I can't send the Pats tickets back because I sold them to pay for my "massage" habit!
[QUOTE=Pornlover2222]I was always taught "you are judged by the friends you keep"... IMHO I think it's time you find yourself a new "friend". The guy is an absolute a--hole...[/QUOTE]Are youU sure your not talking about yourself doing the deed?
[QUOTE=Erokejs]Ran into a friend/hobbyist today. He shared an experience that I want to pass on to the board.
Last week he went to Spa B and saw Sasha. He said he had seen her before and she was pretty strict with absolutely no extras. But, he figured after many moons had past, she might be a little more friendly this time around. So, being as though she was the only one available, he took a chance.
Big mistake. He was still pretty pissed about it. He said he was all geared up for an HE and there was absolutely no way she would do anything. He said he pulled the sheet off and she just put it back on. He rubbed her and she moved away. He begged and she just said no. He said the massage was okay, nothing great, but not terrible. He said he was so worked up, when she left the room so he could get dressed, he said he jerked off anyway and wiped it on the towel so she had to clean it up. Then, on the way out, she was waiting outside his room and asked for a tip. He said, sure, but asked to use the rest room first. He took out a dollar, wrapped it up real tight, rubbed some left over jizz on it and handed it to her on the way out the door.
He vowed to never go back to either Spa A or B again.
Wanted to share his warning about Sasha.
Personally, I've already sworn both off for a while now. At one time they were at the top of my list, but not anymore.[/QUOTE]Sasha is one of the woman who work there that do not give HE. IF the massage is decent I would give her a tip based on what was done. If the massage was lame and she was rude I would give her zero. I don't like aggressive pushy massage givers "demanding" a tip. I am pretty sure Sasha does not priovide extras. If you go to the Spa A or Spa B make sure you don't ask for Sasha. If they pull the swithc er roo tell them you want your $ back.
Steve
[QUOTE=Erokejs]...He vowed to never go back to either Spa A or B again.
Wanted to share his warning about Sasha.
Personally, I've already sworn both off for a while now. At one time they were at the top of my list, but not anymore.[/QUOTE]
Good riddance, who needs a$$hole$ like that F-ing up a good thing for the rest of us...
I say: We're better off without you.
Guest123
I think this pretty much sums up my thoughts.
[QUOTE=Basil]If I ever met the dude who told you this story I would punch him in his F-ing face, he sounds like a true dick and a god damn idiot, for trying for an HE where he knew there was none and then getting mad about it when turned out the way it had before.[/QUOTE]
JP,
You do provide the most complete reviews, even down to the access, cleanliness and ambience (or lack thereof Kenny G). LOL.
Got up this morning and checked the board as usual for new ideas and inspiration and was intrigued by Jimmy's post. Found the place in the Phoenix, as Jimmy said, called and went over around 10:00.
Scene is exactly as he described--pretty big place, clean bathroom, etc. Nice, relaxing vibe to the place.
Lily greeted me at the door. A little bigger than the typical spinner-type, but a lovely girl nonetheless. Late 20's, maybe 30 YO.
Provided a nice, slow message with long strokes, took her time and didn't watch the clock. No ticking noises from a timer, either.
Heard a little chattering outside the room but not too distracting.
HE was slow and sensual, lots of gentle teasing and touching. Freed both C cups without any prompting from me and held them up to be suckled, which she clearly enjoyed. I had a nice slow build toward a roaring climax. I'm a little slow, but she showed no sign of impatience; got into the rhythm of it and stayed with it.
The desk lady was very friendly.- pretty but a little older. Gave me a hug and encouraged me to return.
Paid. 6 for the house, . 6 to her. Sorry, fellows, but I got carried away and paid. 2 more than the usual standard.
J at WW: Meet your replacement! J was just fine for me for the past few months but as I posted earlier she has hit me with two change-ups over the past three weeks. Had she said she wasn't available, I would have gone over anyway and taken my chances with the other ladies. But I do like to make a choice and do not like BS.
Jimmy: What can I say to you but thanks!
She obviously couldn't have been that bad the previous times to have her again and again right? Couldn't it be her horrible service was brought on by how he treated her? And sorry your friends actions brought on the criticism. If you go into taco bell looking for pizza then you shouldn't be mad time and again if you don't get pizza.common sense! And to be worked up and mad after she repeatedly said no is on him not her.
Just basic human respect.
[QUOTE=Erokejs]
He vowed to never go back to either Spa A or B again.
Wanted to share his warning about Sasha.
Personally, I've already sworn both off for a while now. At one time they were at the top of my list, but not anymore.[/QUOTE]
He wanted to share his warning about Sasha? What warning did he want to share? it has been commented about ad nauseum that most of the therapists at Spa B give great massages and just that. There are indeed a few that will expand a bit to nice respectful gents as happens in most places. This therapist has been documented as one who gives a massage and just that. He KNEW that going in. So he went in there and acted like a freakin a**hole and embarrasses himself and us by insisting on something that she doesn't give and shouldn't give even if she was inclined to since he was acting like a jerk. Then he blames her and the establishment because her was the a**hole. And he isn't going back...aw hell. This place and any others don't need him and to be honest we don't need him on these pages.
And the author (erokejs) even after readying many posts from many on this borad who are known for their honest posts and good wisdom instead of either keeping quiet or admitting that the post was a mistake and the 'friend' was an idiot posts and takes on not just one of the senior members but all of us who have posted the same coments.
[/QUOTE]She is not licensed, provided poor service, had a poor attitude, then waited outside his room and demanded a tip. [/QUOTE]
How do you know she isn't licensed? How is not providing a HE 'poor service" and I believe that the poor attitude was justified.
[/QUOTE]But you wouldn't have the stones to do that. More than likely, you probably are Sasha, we all know SPA A and B monitor this board. And after all, you are acting like a little *****, so it wouldn't surprise me.[/QUOTE]
Yes we do know that the Spa monitors the boards and the girls read the posts. And I happen to know the screen names of those from there. And it isn't the person who you are accusing just because he (and 15 others) called you out. Just admit your 'friend' was an a**hole and let's get onto other business. And I'm not from the spa either.
And BTW to the girls at the spa (and other places) - we apologize for this idiot and others like him and we are not all like him. Please continue to treat us as you have in the past and reward those of us who are gents with the level of service that you do. (although you can cut down on ther B&S please. We do appreciate you and thank-you. From SO and the other gents of the board.
Please give us a review of the beat down when or if it does happen.
We'd like to know all the details.
[QUOTE=Boston Ampfan]
J at WW: Meet your replacement! J was just fine for me for the past few months but as I posted earlier she has hit me with two change-ups over the past three weeks. Had she said she wasn't available, I would have gone over anyway and taken my chances with the other ladies. But I do like to make a choice and do not like BS.
Jimmy: What can I say to you but thanks![/QUOTE]
Exactly what I was thinking - not necessarily replacement for WW, but another, similar option for when they're too busy. I also liked the atmosphere at this place.
Thanks for all the PM's everyone - I'm sure the place will have to start issuing bracelets with numbers on them for all you mongers heading over there this weekend!!! don't forget your lawn chair...
I hope everyone keeps it cool and respectful so they don't get scared off...
JP