Think you missed the point completely
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4915322]I've sent more than one girl home from the FC upon arrival because they weren't to my liking. And if they have been shy or misleading about their pics, I'll tell them exactly why I'm dismissing them.
They are selling their physical attributes, that's the product. Normal rules of politeness and decency don't apply.[/QUOTE]You can't mix multiple things. Perhaps you've not been following the thread so are not aware of the context.
It is one thing if the pic is misleading, in which case all bets are off.
But looking at the girl, you cannot figure out if her boobs are not to your liking.
The only way to find that out is by getting her naked.
Are you going to say to the girl after you've invited inside, gotten naked, to get out because you don't like her boobs for whatever reason?
It has nothing to do with PC society.
[QUOTE=FogHorn1;4915381]Agreed, 1000%.
Call me crude but for me it's no different than ordering the steak at a restaurant and being served fish. I'd send the fish back on the principle that I'm paying, I deserve what I want. If the meal was free I might just eat the fish and be thankful for a free meal. Same applies to this sort of thing. I'm paying. I'm getting what I want. If it's not as advertised it's being sent back like the fish. If it's free, I might just be thankful. That probably sounds terrible in today's PC society but it is what it is.[/QUOTE]It has to do with not being an asshole. No one is saying you can't do it, you can yell at employees who want to make you wear masks, and refuse to tip waiters too, but an asshole is an asshole is an asshole. I prefer to be decent to people. Most of these girls have problems already and often not their faults, they aren't pieces of fish.
(And before you say, that's not what I said, you agreed "1000%" with someone who said rules of common decency don't apply).
Polite, yet firm, is the way to go
[QUOTE=FogHorn1;4915381]Agreed, 1000%.
Call me crude but for me it's no different than ordering the steak at a restaurant and being served fish. I'd send the fish back on the principle that I'm paying, I deserve what I want. If the meal was free I might just eat the fish and be thankful for a free meal. Same applies to this sort of thing. I'm paying. I'm getting what I want. If it's not as advertised it's being sent back like the fish. If it's free, I might just be thankful. That probably sounds terrible in today's PC society but it is what it is.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Pathfinder04;4916016]It has to do with not being an asshole. No one is saying you can't do it, you can yell at employees who want to make you wear masks, and refuse to tip waiters too, but an asshole is an asshole is an asshole. I prefer to be decent to people. Most of these girls have problems already and often not their faults, they aren't pieces of fish.
(And before you say, that's not what I said, you agreed "1000%" with someone who said rules of common decency don't apply).[/QUOTE]I get where both of you are coming from. Personally if an escort or SB isn't as pictured, then they're lying. Period. And in my everyday life and profession, I tend to take it personally when lied to. That said, I wouldn't put them on blast, curse them out, or make a scene. Turning these women away isn't an insult. The real insult is them offering a product / service which didn't measure up to what had been advertised. Nevertheless, Pathfinder04 is right that it doesn't hurt to be a gentleman and remain courteous throughout.
During such unfortunate occasions, I'd politely point out that they haven't been honest with me leading up to that meet before asking what they thought we should do next. Most apologize profusely while claiming to be concerned about their privacy (a couple of the more apologetic ones offered a discount which I never partook). I remember offering one of those women a 20 as she seemed genuinely sorry for wasting our time and was pleasant enough. Maybe it was a "southern thing," but many were very cordial and didn't take offense. Also didn't hurt that they were all incalls, so it was easier to bounce afterwards.
Only one went bat shit crazy. In hindsight, I probably shouldn't have let her in but I also didn't want to talk with her in the hallway. After confronting her about the deception (she weighed 50+ lbs more than the woman in the BP ad) and asking her to leave, she threatened to out me. Problem is she only had my burner number and didn't know where I worked or lived (which was several hours distant). She ranted & raved while I tuned her out for the next several minutes. At some point, she then grabbed my backpack and made for the door. I easily knocked it out of her hands, slammed the door shut, and said I'd have no problem throwing fists if she ever tried that stunt again. Now I don't hit girls and hardly considered a big dude at all, but she got the message and made herself scarce once I reopened the door. Before disappearing from sight at the elevators, she threw in a final "fuck you" and was gone. Management did come calling about the noise complaint, but they left me be and I eventually found someone else later that night. That was one of my very first outcalls in 2013 or 2014. Good times, haha!
I think people are reacting without having the proper context
[QUOTE=Shinshi86;4916477]....
Only one went bat shit crazy. In hindsight, I probably shouldn't have let her in but I also didn't want to talk with her in the hallway. After confronting her about the deception (she weighed 50+ lbs more than the woman in the BP ad) and asking her to leave, she threatened to out me. Problem is she only had my burner number and didn't know where I worked or lived (which was several hours distant). She ranted & raved while I tuned her out for the next several minutes. At some point, she then grabbed my backpack and made for the door. I easily knocked it out of her hands, slammed the door shut, and said I'd have no problem throwing fists if she ever tried that stunt again. Now I don't hit girls and hardly considered a big dude at all, but she got the message and made herself scarce once I reopened the door. Before disappearing from sight at the elevators, she threw in a final "fuck you" and was gone. Management did come calling about the noise complaint, but they left me be and I eventually found someone else later that night. That was one of my very first outcalls in 2013 or 2014. Good times, haha![/QUOTE]No one denies that if pics are misleading then ALL bets are off. No one has to go through the meet in that scenario, Guy has the right to walk out. No doubt. No one should be rewarded for trickery.
The context was that someone found the girl attractive enough to be invited inside, get naked together and then it was found that the lady's boobs were not to the guy's liking.
What do you do in that scenario?
Seems to me that Kevin C jumped in without getting that context and now seems to be doubling down that he would still tell the girl to get out. :p
It is his right, I don't deny his right to do that. Wonder how many would do this in THIS context.
However, in my experience, most of us would have continued and not repeated. Not saying what is right or wrong, I just haven't been comfortable in THIS context (not trickery) to tell the girl to get out because of xyz reason.
This is my LAST post on this topic. Get the context people :D
