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[QUOTE=Gansett]Just my 2¢ but asking a provider "WTF" isn't going to endear you to her. YMMV. Remember respect is a 2 way street.

Regarding 'juicy details'. There's a select number of Sr's on my board that I take them at their word completely and they accept mine. If it's good we say so, if not good we say that too, and only that. Specifics are handled by pm's and email and not published openly. No sense in titillatating the lurkers who never contribute and local leo with details.

Sorry for intruding on your board.

Gansett

I'm a damm yankee btw :)[/QUOTE]You aren't intruding. If you're a member of the forum, I think you're welcome to post on any topic you desire.

As for trusting the Seniors, that, in my opinion, is just really stupid. Look at the criteria for becoming a senior member. It's pretty low and any fool can do it. Were those same people untrustworthy before they made 25 posts? There's nothing magic about becoming a senior member here, certainly not that makes anyone more trustworthy than the next with regard to their experiences.

So why do you do it? Just as you said, you want to keep information AWAY from people who haven't posted anything yet. Why? There are people who lurk on every board. Many of them do so because they simply aren't comfortable jumping into a running conversation. Some of those folks probably come here, find nothing, and then leave the board. That's because folks like you and your "seniors" won't share a damn thing to help them get started. For all you know, they may turn into great contributors if only someone would throw them a bone to get started.

[QUOTE=Sponge Worthy]You aren't intruding. If you're a member of the forum, I think you're welcome to post on any topic you desire.

As for trusting the Seniors, that, in my opinion, is just really stupid. Look at the criteria for becoming a senior member. It's pretty low and any fool can do it. Were those same people untrustworthy before they made 25 posts? There's nothing magic about becoming a senior member here, certainly not that makes anyone more trustworthy than the next with regard to their experiences.

So why do you do it? Just as you said, you want to keep information AWAY from people who haven't posted anything yet. Why? There are people who lurk on every board. Many of them do so because they simply aren't comfortable jumping into a running conversation. Some of those folks probably come here, find nothing, and then leave the board. That's because folks like you and your "seniors" won't share a damn thing to help them get started. For all you know, they may turn into great contributors if only someone would throw them a bone to get started.[/QUOTE]

I didn't use the term trust but ok, it fits. The Sr's I trust have been around for a while, they didn't join 2 weeks ago and have 30 posts, mostly bombarding the board with the who, where, when, $, and other dumb questions. I don't offer info to those who don't contribute info. How do I know that person isn't le or a whacko seeking a victim?

I am not going to be the one responsible for getting a provider arrested, ripped off, hurt, or worse. Yes we did have a guy kill several, 4 or 5, working girls here several years ago.

Maybe that's the reason we don't open our little note pads to anyone until that person has been around a while and posted verifiable info. Call it our own little verification program.

The info most often given to NooB's is to read the forum, it's amazing what can be learned.

Most important is everyone goes home safe. Works for us.

[QUOTE=Gansett]I didn't use the term trust but ok, it fits. The Sr's I trust have been around for a while, they didn't join 2 weeks ago and have 30 posts, mostly bombarding the board with the who, where, when, $, and other dumb questions. I don't offer info to those who don't contribute info. How do I know that person isn't le or a whacko seeking a victim?

I am not going to be the one responsible for getting a provider arrested, ripped off, hurt, or worse. Yes we did have a guy kill several, 4 or 5, working girls here several years ago.

Maybe that's the reason we don't open our little note pads to anyone until that person has been around a while and posted verifiable info. Call it our own little verification program.

The info most often given to NooB's is to read the forum, it's amazing what can be learned.

Most important is everyone goes home safe. Works for us.[/QUOTE]

These are my own rules of mongering (whichever forum). They have worked well for me. They are in no particular order and based upon my experiences. But then again, what do I know?

1. Trust no one on this forum: anyone could be L/E, working with L/E, or trying to ruin our good thing.

2. Treat the ladies with respect: even if you did not get what you expected, try a few more times or find someone new. I have a few "go to" girls that are discreet and caring. I will not ruin that good thing by sharing.

3. Share at your own discretion: if a rookie PMs me with an ignorant question, I usually ignore it. If a senior PMs me with a question asking for details, I usually deny any knowledge of any illegal activity, officer. Intelligent mongers ask the right questions and get the right answers (not necessarily complete answers - you may have to put some brain power to work to figure it out).

4. Trust no one on any forum.

5. Only you have your back: be careful out there. If you get caught doing something illegal or embarassing with another person, that person probably will fold under questioning to avoid prosecution.

I know that #1, 4, and 5 are similar (in fact, they are the same). My point is to use your own wits, be careful, and you might have a great time.

Also, beware of those who insist on you to provide details. I just do not trust people who insist on that much information. Who, on this forum, comes to mind? I don't know. Do you have any thoughts on this topic Sponge Worthy?

[QUOTE=Gansett]I didn't use the term trust but ok, it fits. The Sr's I trust have been around for a while, they didn't join 2 weeks ago and have 30 posts, mostly bombarding the board with the who, where, when, $, and other dumb questions. I don't offer info to those who don't contribute info. How do I know that person isn't le or a whacko seeking a victim?

I am not going to be the one responsible for getting a provider arrested, ripped off, hurt, or worse. Yes we did have a guy kill several, 4 or 5, working girls here several years ago.

Maybe that's the reason we don't open our little note pads to anyone until that person has been around a while and posted verifiable info. Call it our own little verification program.[/QUOTE]While I understand and commend your objectives, I think you're giving too much credence to your verification process. Ted Bundy seemed like a nice, trustworthy guy to most who knew him.

So you may well have been contributing to whackos.

I recently visited with Brooke for one of her "pleasuring experiences." Even though she gives a really nice rub - the oil she uses is way too aromatic for me. I smelled like a French ***** when I left. Why these ladies insist on using scented oils is beyond me.

The entire sessions was quite disappointing, as she would ONLY let you massage her tits through her clothing, and could not even slide my hand under her bra. Everything else was off limits.

If you want a nice "oiled" rub she is a very sweet and friendly lady, but don’t expect additional services.


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[QUOTE=Loving302]I recently visited with Brooke for one of her "pleasuring experiences."

The entire sessions was quite disappointing, as she would ONLY let you massage her tits through her clothing, and could not even slide my hand under her bra. Everything else was off limits.

......don’t expect additional services.

[url]http://orlando.backpage.com/BodyRubs/_magical_hands_by_brooke_27/classifieds/ViewAd?oid=1501640[/url][/QUOTE]That is good to know. I was gonna call her today, since she is close by. Too bad for us. Her pics look pretty cute.

Caesarman

So I recently set up a Google Voice number to use for my extracurricular activities. This allows me to forward all incoming calls to that number directly to voice mail when I don't want to have them ring through (most of the time), and to call out from my GV number to avoid having to carry/pay for a second cell phone. My actual phone bill details are not a concern to me. Just thought I'd share in case anyone out there wants to save a few $. And no, Google's not paying me to shill on USASG. :-p

OP

[QUOTE=Gentleman 100]These are my own rules of mongering (whichever forum). They have worked well for me. They are in no particular order and based upon my experiences. But then again, what do I know?

1. Trust no one on this forum: anyone could be L/E, working with L/E, or trying to ruin our good thing.

2. Treat the ladies with respect: even if you did not get what you expected, try a few more times or find someone new. I have a few "go to" girls that are discreet and caring. I will not ruin that good thing by sharing.

3. Share at your own discretion: if a rookie PMs me with an ignorant question, I usually ignore it. If a senior PMs me with a question asking for details, I usually deny any knowledge of any illegal activity, officer. Intelligent mongers ask the right questions and get the right answers (not necessarily complete answers - you may have to put some brain power to work to figure it out).

4. Trust no one on any forum.

5. Only you have your back: be careful out there. If you get caught doing something illegal or embarassing with another person, that person probably will fold under questioning to avoid prosecution.

I know that #1, 4, and 5 are similar (in fact, they are the same). My point is to use your own wits, be careful, and you might have a great time.

Also, beware of those who insist on you to provide details. I just do not trust people who insist on that much information. Who, on this forum, comes to mind? I don't know. Do you have any thoughts on this topic Sponge Worthy?[/QUOTE]

I've always admired your approach to things Gentleman100. Sometimes it takes me awhile to figure things out. But when I finally "get it", then I appreciate everything my friends have taught me.

You have a good head on your shoulders and a lot of common sense. I've never met you and probably never will. But I like to think that you are a true gentleman in the Cary Grant sense. That is, a lot of class, good manners and respect for women. That is certainly a winning combination that can only serve to increase your popularity and success with the ladies. Great advice!

Regards,
CB

After reviewing the photos on the BP, I decided that Stacy was definitely worth my time. I called and we went through several calls on my way there, and finally arrived. When I walked in was greeted with a big hug and her attire was very casual, shorts and a Tee shirt. However what was under those garments was great.

Stacy brought me into her bedroom, and suggested that I get comfortable. As I did she removed her Tee shirt and shorts revealing a beautiful red nightie, with matching thong. I lay on the bed face down and she started to give a rather good massage with a non-scented lotion which made me happy. My last encounter for a massage was not as good - I can not handle perfumed lotions and oils. She asked that I flip over to massage my front, and I asked if I could untie her top, which she agreed. I asked if I could remove her thong and she said not this time. However she did let me play with her kitty and massage her bare tits which were young and perky and extremely firm. She lotioned up her hands and proceed to give a good HJ. In all it was a nice session. I would have preferred a warm washcloth at the end, but the cold one did the job just as well. LOL


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[QUOTE=Loving302]After reviewing the photos on the BP, I decided that Stacy was definitely worth my time. I called and we went through several calls on my way there, and finally arrived. When I walked in was greeted with a big hug and her attire was very casual, shorts and a Tee shirt. However what was under those garments was great.

Stacy brought me into her bedroom, and suggested that I get comfortable. As I did she removed her Tee shirt and shorts revealing a beautiful red nightie, with matching thong. I lay on the bed face down and she started to give a rather good massage with a non-scented lotion which made me happy. My last encounter for a massage was not as good - I can not handle perfumed lotions and oils. She asked that I flip over to massage my front, and I asked if I could untie her top, which she agreed. I asked if I could remove her thong and she said not this time. However she did let me play with her kitty and massage her bare tits which were young and perky and extremely firm. She lotioned up her hands and proceed to give a good HJ. In all it was a nice session. I would have preferred a warm washcloth at the end, but the cold one did the job just as well. LOL


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Are other services available?

[QUOTE=Clinton Bush]Are other services available?[/QUOTE]

I am certain that no other services are available. She is attractive but perhaps not as attractive as that photo from her posting.

Apparently I must have annoyed someone that posted I was not telling the truth. You may want to look under the Escort Classified Ads and you will find this:

First of all if you check this posting, you will find the photo is what Stacy posted, and that was the photo I chose. I will add a diffent one if you want - see below? Is this her - perhpas not but what I found in person was about as good.

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Secondly, she performed "EXACTLY" as I detailed. Only mentioned her boyfriend once, and had BOTH hands willing and very able. Perhaps we might have just "clicked." Remember everyone's experiences are different based on the two individuals involved.

Sorry you didn't like - I DID!! And for the record I am COMPLETELY HONEST with everything I post. I am NOT like some of the people here that like to make things up.

Which is in response to this:

Originally Posted by Hammer
You have to be kidding. You mad at the members? Fake pics. Heavy. 1 hand due to injury, no clothing removed, talks about marine boyfriend.

Dreamt I picked up jessica for a great BBBJ. MAN could she deep throat. cost .2 plus a lincoln tip. She took it like a champ. She's from NY....this ones a keeper for daytona. Blonde, young, hot, and not too cracked out. Kept rubbing my arm like I was her boyfriend.

Man! I must go to Daytona and dream like that.

Spoke with the beautiful Brooke today. She has been unavailable for a few and should be back in a couple of days. Her phone was messing up so she missed some calls but she got a new one. She wants me to let everyone know she will be back in action soon.

[QUOTE=Nightlife]Man! I must go to Daytona and dream like that.[/QUOTE]When I said a keeper for daytona I meant ME. LOL Jessica was picked up a block off OBT over by the strip club and adult book store by Michigan.

Daytona.

Who on here mentioned they liked oriental?

You guys know the drill Sr. members only,

May have stumble on one through casual enc, even a blind squirell finds a nut now and then!

[QUOTE=Jethrow1]who on here mentioned they liked oriental?

you guys know the drill Sr. members only,

may have stumble on one through casual enc, even a blind squirell finds a nut now and then!@[/QUOTE]Shit man, who doesnt!

I definitely would like you to pm me some info, I have yet to see an oriental provider and would like to add one to my to-do list but there are so many fake pics, scams, and robs in all of the postings.

Does a provider call/text her regulars periodically?

Recently dreamed a lady, who is one of the winners found by a senior.
After that, she texts me per one or two weeks.

Thanks for any comments.

Yes...providers make calls and text to get you to come see them.

They had a good time and got your $$, wouldn't you be calling too?

[QUOTE=Haha99]Does a provider call/text her regulars periodically?

Recently dreamed a lady, who is one of the winners found by a senior.
After that, she texts me per one or two weeks.

Thanks for any comments.[/QUOTE]


If they are in need of money they will text everyone that they have seen. Most people on here recommend using a second phone for cases like this.

[QUOTE=Phatpistol]If they are in need of money they will text everyone that they have seen. Most people on here recommend using a second phone for cases like this.[/QUOTE]It seems to be pretty common, I get at least one text message a week. I welcome it personally.

LD

Yes, providers do call/text people after seeing them. Usually when it is slow or they haven't heard from a guy in awhile. A girl will keep your number programed so she knows, when you call back, that you are cool or a jerk (not wasting time to answer)

I'm driving up to Cincinnati on the 19th coming back on the 25th, if anyone wants to go along and share the driving time (must have a valid drivers license) let me know.

[QUOTE=Haha99]Does a provider call/text her regulars periodically?

Recently dreamed a lady, who is one of the winners found by a senior.
After that, she texts me per one or two weeks.

Thanks for any comments.[/QUOTE]Very common and good business sense. Some chicks do it more often than others. That's why i have a throw away phone and turn it on when in need.

[QUOTE=Michellepdxxx]Yes, providers do call/text people after seeing them. Usually when it is slow or they haven't heard from a guy in awhile. A girl will keep your number programed so she knows, when you call back, that you are cool or a jerk (not wasting time to answer)[/QUOTE]

You will never find a top notch provider calling or texting former clients looking for business. That is an invasion of privacy. If you were in the food court in the mall and a provider came to your table, sat down and started chatting because you had seen her a number of times ,would that be OK, hell no it wouldn't! What if your S.O. was in the bathroom, how do you explain this fox at the table.
If a guy wants to see you he will call, just note all the responses that talk about a separate phone, if it was OK you wouldn't need a separate phone.

I had a girl call me begging me to come and see her, she called on Christmas morning at 9 A.M. and the best part is I had never seen her before, I had called her a week previously. Yes, she was jones-ing. It is never alright----VS

[QUOTE=VerySlowly]You will never find a top notch provider calling or texting former clients looking for business. That is an invasion of privacy. If you were in the food court in the mall and a provider came to your table, sat down and started chatting because you had seen her a number of times ,would that be OK, hell no it wouldn't! What if your S.O. was in the bathroom, how do you explain this fox at the table.
If a guy wants to see you he will call, just note all the responses that talk about a separate phone, if it was OK you wouldn't need a separate phone.

I had a girl call me begging me to come and see her, she called on Christmas morning at 9 A.M. and the best part is I had never seen her before, I had called her a week previously. Yes, she was jones-ing. It is never alright----VS[/QUOTE]

If you tell the provider it is ok to call you, then it is ok. That would be the only exception to the rule.

[QUOTE=VerySlowly]You will never find a top notch provider calling or texting former clients looking for business. That is an invasion of privacy. If you were in the food court in the mall and a provider came to your table, sat down and started chatting because you had seen her a number of times ,would that be OK, hell no it wouldn't! What if your S.O. was in the bathroom, how do you explain this fox at the table.
If a guy wants to see you he will call, just note all the responses that talk about a separate phone, if it was OK you wouldn't need a separate phone.

I had a girl call me begging me to come and see her, she called on Christmas morning at 9 A.M. and the best part is I had never seen her before, I had called her a week previously. Yes, she was jones-ing. It is never alright----VS[/QUOTE]

Its different for all of us. Not all of us are married or whipped. If I were to get a call or a hot young thing came up and gave me a hug in a mall in front of my girl it may bother her a tad but she would only ask who she was, she wouldn't jump on my shit about it.

I have no problem with getting a call from a provider now and then, but if she gets pissed because I won't come see her then I have a problem with her.

Alot of High Quality ladies if you are their regular will call if they haven't heard from you in awhile. I get calls asking how have I been and making sure I am ok now and then. They don't even ask me to come see them, they know they just put themselves back in my thoughts just by checking on me. I also tell a lady I am interested in that she can call me anytime.

So it may be that its never ok for your girls to call you, but for alot of us thats not the case.

BTW if someone is going to say well that call could be a setup, because your girl may have gotten busted. Street meat will do this, quality providers aren't as likely to get busted plus use the same rules you would on the street. If she is relentless on getting to come see her or to say something agains't the outside the car rules, as in talk about money or sex then that will tell you stay away

I am not busting on what you are saying VH, just saying we all have different rules and of course the safest thing would be to have girls never call you, but I like it now and then and am comfortable with the risk. I don't give or tell a low on the sw street scale girl to call me though.

BH

[QUOTE=Blondehound]Its different for all of us. Not all of us are married or whipped. If I were to get a call or a hot young thing came up and gave me a hug in a mall in front of my girl it may bother her a tad but she would only ask who she was, she wouldn't jump on my shit about it.

BH[/QUOTE]First of all, mongers shouldn't be giving providers their personal number if they don't want someone calling them. If you give a number you use outside of mongering, expect it to be called at any hour.

Second, I agree with those that don't think providers should acknowledge their clients if they see them in the mall. They don't know who you're with...could be with nobody, or with a casual acquaintance, or your ***** with the ho radar wife... in any event the provider really isn't going to know. And if they have any sense of decorum and want you to continue as a client, they shouldn't put a guy in a situation where there is a chance he is with his ho-sniffing significant other.

Has anyone had any success finding companionship in the Vero/Stuart area.

Please pm or post if you have any tips.

Thanks

[QUOTE=Java Junkie]Second, I agree with those that don't think providers should acknowledge their clients if they see them in the mall. They don't know who you're with...could be with nobody, or with a casual acquaintance, or your ***** with the ho radar wife...[/QUOTE]I must remember to consider myself fortunate, my wife doesnt give any of it a second though. But personally I done see any problem with a provider acknowledging me in a public place. In fact I would happily engage her in brief conversation just like I would with any other male or female I know.

And for those of you who have wives with Ho radar, the best technique is "hide in plain sight" if the need arises. Very effective, might take some practice.

LD

[QUOTE=Blondehound]Its different for all of us. Not all of us are married or whipped. If I were to get a call or a hot young thing came up and gave me a hug in a mall in front of my girl it may bother her a tad but she would only ask who she was, she wouldn't jump on my shit about it.

I have no problem with getting a call from a provider now and then, but if she gets pissed because I won't come see her then I have a problem with her.

Alot of High Quality ladies if you are their regular will call if they haven't heard from you in awhile. I get calls asking how have I been and making sure I am ok now and then. They don't even ask me to come see them, they know they just put themselves back in my thoughts just by checking on me. I also tell a lady I am interested in that she can call me anytime.

So it may be that its never ok for your girls to call you, but for alot of us thats not the case.[Quote]




There is nothing to be gained from a provider calling you. F.Y.I. several providers call and text me all the time BUT I'm on a different level than you. Trust me on that I'm not going to prove it to you.

It is never appropriate for a normal provider to call a John, even with all the bla, bla from several of you that think it is all right, many of you must be very young, this rule has been in place since Methuselah got his first BBBJCIM. It is there for a reason, this is a business transaction breaking the barrier is not cool they are not your girlfriend , it is almost as bad as you stopping by their place unannounced, try that sometime and see what happens!! Write all you want, it is a stupid way to do business, a girls performance, reviews and web advertising are all that is appropriate and necessary.

Your first paragraph says a lot, she's your GIRL but apparently your not her MAN because you'd just put her in her place if she got insecure and wondered who the hottie was that hugged you in the mall---how immature. Your GIRL has feelings why insult her because your getting a little on the side--are you starting to get the picture why you call the provider, they never call you unless it's to return a call. Why do I think if a stud came up to your girl and gave her a hug and squeeze in the mall you would do more than casually ask her who that was. NO you would go ballistic I know because of your comment about others being "whipped" or married, rather an insult to the rest of us.
I hope you came to the board to contribute and learn and not to run your mouth about what's good for you cause it's all about you. you, you.

These are general rules that work for the majority and not the exception.---VS

Hello fellow board members,

I have pondered this for quite a while. I am a "Nice Guy" and a hobbyist when it comes to gfe hunting. Occasionally when I am feeling adventurous I place a call to a new ad. I typically spend in the $2 plus .50 tip, if I enjoy it, range. I have on three occasions been baited and switched and keep in mind I am very particular, after all if I wanted a 5 I could just go to a bar. I usually just go along with the "new" girl in the situation, to avoid hurting her feelings, give her the $2, no tip but I think from now on it will be a deal breaker. I guess what I want to know is how you fellow hobbyists handle the bait and switch and am I going to be wrong for leaving immediately upon site in the future? What do you all think?

[QUOTE=Gemini407]Hello fellow board members,

I have pondered this for quite a while. I am a "Nice Guy" and a hobbyist when it comes to gfe hunting. Occasionally when I am feeling adventurous I place a call to a new ad. I typically spend in the $2 plus .50 tip, if I enjoy it, range. I have on three occasions been baited and switched and keep in mind I am very particular, after all if I wanted a 5 I could just go to a bar. I usually just go along with the "new" girl in the situation, to avoid hurting her feelings, give her the $2, no tip but I think from now on it will be a deal breaker. I guess what I want to know is how you fellow hobbyists handle the bait and switch and am I going to be wrong for leaving immediately upon site in the future? What do you all think?[/QUOTE]

Do the same thing you would do if you got to "Best Buy" and the Sony 52" TV they advertised for $895 was a floor model and it's "sold out". Now they want you to take the Vizio for $1595, you would be pissed and leave.

This BS is happening all to often because they know most guys will take a shot and feel just as you do.

Occasionally a girl can't put up her own picture for personal reasons and the sharp ones find a girl on the web that is very close to their looks and post that pic and if you like the real girl when you get there then thats fine but all to often they are posting old pics when they were 40 lbs lighter or fakes altogether. The only way to stop it is to turn on your heel and leave, after you do it a couple of times you'll get OK with it, after all they pulled the BS , not you so why should you feel bad.---VS

[QUOTE=VerySlowly]

There is nothing to be gained from a provider calling you. F.Y.I. several providers call and text me all the time BUT I'm on a different level than you. Trust me on that I'm not going to prove it to you.

VS[/QUOTE]

Man who thinks he knows everything has much to learn.

[QUOTE=VerySlowly][QUOTE=Blondehound]Its different for all of us. Not all of us are married or whipped. If I were to get a call or a hot young thing came up and gave me a hug in a mall in front of my girl it may bother her a tad but she would only ask who she was, she wouldn't jump on my shit about it.

I have no problem with getting a call from a provider now and then, but if she gets pissed because I won't come see her then I have a problem with her.

Alot of High Quality ladies if you are their regular will call if they haven't heard from you in awhile. I get calls asking how have I been and making sure I am ok now and then. They don't even ask me to come see them, they know they just put themselves back in my thoughts just by checking on me. I also tell a lady I am interested in that she can call me anytime.

So it may be that its never ok for your girls to call you, but for alot of us thats not the case.[Quote]




There is nothing to be gained from a provider calling you. F.Y.I. several providers call and text me all the time BUT I'm on a different level than you. Trust me on that I'm not going to prove it to you.

It is never appropriate for a normal provider to call a John, even with all the bla, bla from several of you that think it is all right, many of you must be very young, this rule has been in place since Methuselah got his first BBBJCIM. It is there for a reason, this is a business transaction breaking the barrier is not cool they are not your girlfriend , it is almost as bad as you stopping by their place unannounced, try that sometime and see what happens!! Write all you want, it is a stupid way to do business, a girls performance, reviews and web advertising are all that is appropriate and necessary.

Your first paragraph says a lot, she's your GIRL but apparently your not her MAN because you'd just put her in her place if she got insecure and wondered who the hottie was that hugged you in the mall---how immature. Your GIRL has feelings why insult her because your getting a little on the side--are you starting to get the picture why you call the provider, they never call you unless it's to return a call. Why do I think if a stud came up to your girl and gave her a hug and squeeze in the mall you would do more than casually ask her who that was. NO you would go ballistic I know because of your comment about others being "whipped" or married, rather an insult to the rest of us.
I hope you came to the board to contribute and learn and not to run your mouth about what's good for you cause it's all about you. you, you.

These are general rules that work for the majority and not the exception.---VS[/QUOTE]

The married and whipped statement wasn't meant to hurt anyones feelings.

I was stating that not all of us are married.

And its a fact that alot of men are whipped, which means to me they have to walk on egg shells around their ladies. Wasn't trying to state that married means whipped. I should have put them in two different sentences.

As far as the hug goes my girl would have left me a long time ago if that kind of thing bothered either of us. You see I have been hugging women and men as a greeting since I was 13. So my girl has seen me hug people daily for 10 years now.

Of course she would ask me who was that, but she isn't going to be insulted by it. I didn't come to these forums to post all about me and I never stated that. Was just commenting that what works for you doesn't mean we all abide by the same rules.

I don't care how many posts you have or don't have, we all come here to contribute, help and we all learn here as well.

I added my 2 cents to your post, if you don't like then its your option to post a comment about it as well

We have no way to know how old someone is here or if they have been mongering for 32 years and really it doesn't matter. Yes I have come to the boards to share whats been good for me me me. Because whats been good for me can be good for others.

My post wasn't meant to bust on you in any way, sorry you took it that way.

Bully away I am here to stay and I will write my posts my way.

BH

[QUOTE=Gemini407]Hello fellow board members,

I have pondered this for quite a while. I am a "Nice Guy" and a hobbyist when it comes to gfe hunting. Occasionally when I am feeling adventurous I place a call to a new ad. I typically spend in the $2 plus .50 tip, if I enjoy it, range. I have on three occasions been baited and switched and keep in mind I am very particular, after all if I wanted a 5 I could just go to a bar. I usually just go along with the "new" girl in the situation, to avoid hurting her feelings, give her the $2, no tip but I think from now on it will be a deal breaker. I guess what I want to know is how you fellow hobbyists handle the bait and switch and am I going to be wrong for leaving immediately upon site in the future? What do you all think?[/QUOTE]

"Excuse me, I must be in the wrong place" If she says "aren't you Joe who called me for directions 10 minutes ago?" You should lie (after all she did about her description) and say no you were just "passing through"

If you meet her at your hotel or her hotel always say you will meet her in the lobby or if there is a restaurant or bar inside the hotel. This makes it easy to say you have changed your mind without her showing her azzz in public. She might get pissed but who really cares, its your coins not hers.

If you go to a massage parlor I have actually just walked out and either ask for another woman or just say no thanks. I figure why waste coin on something that you are not interested in.

You don't go to a restaurant and order some nasty crap you don't like to begin with, Why hang out with a hooker who doesn't appeal to you.

Order what you want and only pay for the merchandise if its what you wanted to begin with. If you hurt her feelings oh well. You won't be the first guy to disapprove of her. Don't settle for less...

Happy Hunting..


[QUOTE=Gemini407]Hello fellow board members,

I have pondered this for quite a while. I am a "Nice Guy" and a hobbyist when it comes to gfe hunting. Occasionally when I am feeling adventurous I place a call to a new ad. I typically spend in the $2 plus .50 tip, if I enjoy it, range. I have on three occasions been baited and switched and keep in mind I am very particular, after all if I wanted a 5 I could just go to a bar. I usually just go along with the "new" girl in the situation, to avoid hurting her feelings, give her the $2, no tip but I think from now on it will be a deal breaker. I guess what I want to know is how you fellow hobbyists handle the bait and switch and am I going to be wrong for leaving immediately upon site in the future? What do you all think?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Otwist]Man who thinks he knows everything has much to learn.[/QUOTE]


People who get their knowledge from fortune cookies are among the intellectual giants of the world.

Try this: "There are none so blind as those that will not see".--VS

Interesting choice of words. Stabbing ,Hmmmm.

[Quote] My post wasn't meant to bust on you in any way, sorry you took it that way.

Bully away I am here to stay and I will write my posts my way.

BH [Quote]

It seems the two sentences are in conflict, why do you think I'm bullying you? I'm just trying to teach you something, if you have already got it all figured out than good for you!
Stay here and write your posts your way, actually I don't see how you could write them any other way since you are you thus you must write them your way.

The sharp guys on here can separate the wheat from the chaff.--VS