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[QUOTE=TnaStylez;7167269]Didn't they investigate and hear your side of the story? Unless she sent screenshots of your conversations where you admitted you got physical. I never initiate but most cuddlers will let me know extras are available to keep me as a customer.[/QUOTE]There was no investigation, just an email that my profile was deleted. I wasn't that excited by the site, there is a very static roster, so I just deleted everything. I have an active account on seeking just now, that keeps me very busy. And I get contacted by old SBs periodically as well. I have plenty of opps for young women for play, the only question is the price point. The cuddler cost me 300 and she got the room, and I didn't even get FS, I have a SB who will let me come to her apartment for 250.

[QUOTE=StevenWalker;7152020]Guys just give up. This hobby is dead. You can smash this caliber of woman for free on Tinder with minimal effort. "Hey want to hookup?" Literally that easy. I deleted my seeking, humaniplex, whatsyourprices, p411. At least we go to experience the glory days. Time to throw in the towel and grow up.[/QUOTE]I agree with you bud. I was mongering since I was 29 and I was the young gun and would get freebies or more for my money because I looked young and the ladies seemed to like that. I not 44 and have given up since 2 years ago. I go on this forum for fun and entertainment now. LOL Not much has changed except for the pricing LOL inflation at it's finest.

[QUOTE=WhiteCollarGuy;7044691]I know that some have had mixed results from using SecretBenefits, but anyone have recent experience that is helpful one way or another? Prior posts have said some guys have received messages from girls but the girls claim that they never sent a message. Or, that girls are shown as being online but they actually aren't. Seems like a shady operation, even by sugar website standards.[/QUOTE]I agree that there's a scam going on. I posted about this awhile back too. I've had great luck with Seeking Arrangements overall. The goal is to find a fine girl you can fck for a decent rate and some degree of convenience. So it's going to be a niche find anyway, right? Seeking is probably 50% scam and international messages, so disregard those. The about 30% of the girls are not what I'm looking for. Not my type, too expensive, clearly pros, etc. So, with about 20% to choose from, some get back to you, some don't. Most of the real girls, are off the site in a matter of months. So I feel like my best luck has been (and here's the tip, I guess) going for girls who are within a 5 mile radius of my place and who are new on the site. Works pretty good.

Secret Benefits, on the other hand. Yikes. Clearly a TON of fakes on there. I will say that I met 4 girls on there, fck'd them all and only had to pay 2 of them. One of the one's I paid was a Korean girl who is out of the US now and was maybe the best I've been with. BUT other than that, at lot of wasted time and money on Secret. Never again.

[QUOTE=PapitaFrita;7238493]I agree that there's a scam going on. I posted about this awhile back too. I've had great luck with Seeking Arrangements overall. The goal is to find a fine girl you can fck for a decent rate and some degree of convenience. So it's going to be a niche find anyway, right? Seeking is probably 50% scam and international messages, so disregard those. The about 30% of the girls are not what I'm looking for. Not my type, too expensive, clearly pros, etc. So, with about 20% to choose from, some get back to you, some don't. Most of the real girls, are off the site in a matter of months. So I feel like my best luck has been (and here's the tip, I guess) going for girls who are within a 5 mile radius of my place and who are new on the site. Works pretty good.

Secret Benefits, on the other hand. Yikes. Clearly a TON of fakes on there. I will say that I met 4 girls on there, fck'd them all and only had to pay 2 of them. One of the one's I paid was a Korean girl who is out of the US now and was maybe the best I've been with. BUT other than that, at lot of wasted time and money on Secret. Never again.[/QUOTE]Secret Benefits doesn't sound like it's worth the cost and effort.

Speaking of Seeking, I've been able to use a VISA gift card purchased at Ralphs successfully, but the last one that I got hasn't worked for a week. The other ones usually took a few days before they finally worked. Anyone running into issues using gift cards on Seeking recently?

[QUOTE=MrBlueSea;7265079]I gave up with trying to get back on Seeking for the time being. Silver lining being that I am spending less time searching as the numbers I can interact with is limited, so I have been focusing on quality. Don't get me wrong I miss all the action on Seeking, but I have been doing ok with SugarDaddyMeet and SugarLifeNow. Secret Benefits is too pricey as far as messaging, and no girls seem to reply on there as well. Haven't been in contact with this one yet, but she's totally my speed.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/henneessssy/[/URL][/QUOTE]Yeah, for Secret Benefits, one reason you might not be getting a lot responses is "zombie accounts" (basically real profiles that have been abandoned and are run by bots now).

Since you're doing well with SugarDaddyMeet and SugarLifeNow, it sounds like you're not missing Seeking too much.

[QUOTE=WhoWouldKnow;7190601]I agree with you bud. I was mongering since I was 29 and I was the young gun and would get freebies or more for my money because I looked young and the ladies seemed to like that. I not 44 and have given up since 2 years ago. I go on this forum for fun and entertainment now. LOL Not much has changed except for the pricing LOL inflation at it's finest.[/QUOTE]I'm about the same age, and this week I was with one of my regulars, whom I met through SDM. Of course, she's seen a few other guys from the site (she's open about it), anyway, we're talking and she tells me that many of the guys she talks to on the site are in their 20's and 30's. I started on Seeking in my late 30's, and it seems I was one of the younger guys there then.

I wonder what's changed in the last 10 years?

Just wondering if anyone knows these two? I'm usually looking ladies who mention things like "PPM" or "mutually beneficial" in their profiles. I'm going to LA next month for work and though I'd try contacting them. Wondering if anyone has seen them or if they're scammers?

Kayla 24, Fullerton (and Bay Area).

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72660437&nsp=1[/URL]

"mutually beneficial arrangement. Also stay in the Bay Area" (so maybe a professional sugar baby?

SpoiledgF25,25, Lake Forest.

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=63553207&nsp=1[/URL]

"full time mom. Mutually beneficial".

Including pictures in case anybody recognises them from Seeking or SugarLife. I'll update if I hear back from them.

From the new sites posted, is seeking dead?

[QUOTE=JasonVee;7272810]From the new sites posted, is seeking dead?[/QUOTE]I went ahead and got a membership on SugarLifeNow, and so far, the number of profiles is like 100 x less in my area. So there's that.

I have been using WhatsYourPrice, and the main problem is their financial model. You offer a girl 100 to meet (if she was a keeper, I'd have a gift up to that much anyway), you have to give the site 20 credits, which is like $10. There are some on there who ask the max for a meet, 500. If that included FC it could be worth it, but of course YMMV.

My max for the initial meet has been 111, no one has taken me up on that. I have had a few accept at 69 and 99. The most common number I see is 150, that must be the default when a girl sets up her profile. Their credit charging model is weird, $49 'incentive' costs 10 credits, but $50 costs 15 credits, and the same all the way to $99. But $100 is 20 credits.

What I like about WYP is that it would be a decent way to get a date when traveling, which might just be pleasant company, or it could be a FC trip. Not the hassle of setting up and paying for a seeking profile.

I am getting a seeking profile for May, I've been active though my membership is not paid, and just from favoring people locally and where I am traveling, I have like 85 messages (from scratch). I always carpet bomb when I have a profile. I see a lot of the usual suspects on there, and I mostly avoided them. There is always new talent on seeking, some of it actually real.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7273147]I went ahead and got a membership on SugarLifeNow, and so far, the number of profiles is like 100 x less in my area. So there's that.

I have been using WhatsYourPrice, and the main problem is their financial model. You offer a girl 100 to meet (if she was a keeper, I'd have a gift up to that much anyway), you have to give the site 20 credits, which is like $10. There are some on there who ask the max for a meet, 500. If that included FC it could be worth it, but of course YMMV.

My max for the initial meet has been 111, no one has taken me up on that. I have had a few accept at 69 and 99. The most common number I see is 150, that must be the default when a girl sets up her profile. Their credit charging model is weird, $49 'incentive' costs 10 credits, but $50 costs 15 credits, and the same all the way to $99. But $100 is 20 credits.

What I like about WYP is that it would be a decent way to get a date when traveling, which might just be pleasant company, or it could be a FC trip. Not the hassle of setting up and paying for a seeking profile.

I am getting a seeking profile for May, I've been active though my membership is not paid, and just from favoring people locally and where I am traveling, I have like 85 messages (from scratch). I always carpet bomb when I have a profile. I see a lot of the usual suspects on there, and I mostly avoided them. There is always new talent on seeking, some of it actually real.[/QUOTE]What does FC stand for?

[QUOTE=StubbornMule;7275912]What does FC stand for?[/QUOTE]I think he meant to type FS or Fucking. If "FC" was "Football Club", then that sounds like some kind of gang bang LOL.

[QUOTE=BerolLoz;7279751]I think he meant to type FS or Fucking. If "FC" was "Football Club", then that sounds like some kind of gang bang LOL.[/QUOTE]I believe FC stands for Fuck Chamber. Lame term for me but that's what I remember.

I am still seeing women ask me to sign up for their "online for a week then in person meets" with "verified by selfie" profiles. Also implausibly beautiful, some exotic women posted on local dumps of cities. Theres a Brazilian model in stanton? What?. Also maybe its me but it seems like a number of women block as soon as they see my opener. Sometimes I its the same guy fat Russian guy running a network these just cutting his losses and blocking me. Also I have no online in my profile so maybe they just block and move on since they know I won't bite.

[QUOTE=NutritionFacts;7292392]I am still seeing women ask me to sign up for their "online for a week then in person meets" with "verified by selfie" profiles. Also implausibly beautiful, some exotic women posted on local dumps of cities. Theres a Brazilian model in stanton? What?. Also maybe its me but it seems like a number of women block as soon as they see my opener. Sometimes I its the same guy fat Russian guy running a network these just cutting his losses and blocking me. Also I have no online in my profile so maybe they just block and move on since they know I won't bite.[/QUOTE]I mean I usually exercise some common sense and rational analysis.

Like. If it looks like bullshit, sound like bullshit, smell like bullshit. Probably is bullshit LOL.

Doesn't matter if its verified or what not.

[QUOTE=JasonVee;7292409]I mean I usually exercise some common sense and rational analysis.

Like. If it looks like bullshit, sound like bullshit, smell like bullshit. Probably is bullshit LOL.

Doesn't matter if its verified or what not.[/QUOTE]Yeah, my point is its not much better "verified" or not LOL. Its worse now in some ways.

Here you go OC folks.

Claire is sexy, flirty, super sexual, no tatts, large naturals.

Certainly experienced and a little larger than I prefer, but she'll do ANYTHING you like with a smile on her pretty face.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e5e39bee-3990-42f7-946c-56f77747a870[/URL]

Don't be sexual when texting with her, just focus on getting her to show up and you'll be well rewarded.

[QUOTE=RanManCan;7302551]Here you go OC folks.

Claire is sexy, flirty, super sexual, no tatts, large naturals.

Certainly experienced and a little larger than I prefer, but she'll do ANYTHING you like with a smile on her pretty face.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e5e39bee-3990-42f7-946c-56f77747a870[/URL]

Don't be sexual when texting with her, just focus on getting her to show up and you'll be well rewarded.[/QUOTE]She looks great. What was the damage if you don't mind me asking?

Hot new SLN Girl, Alexis 23.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/alexiswynner/[/URL]

New SLN Girl Juliette 27.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Sophiajuliette/[/URL]

Highlight of the weekend was a young Latina from Seeking. Mia, 22 from Newport. Drinks and hotel fun. 5 oo, open to BBFS, 2 rounds of fun. Also no mention of "Don't cum in me" which was a nice bonus.

Hoping to bring some life to this thread, as I prefer the OC Sugar Bowl.

She's 44. IK all about her, for certain people she would be a good match.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7324138]She's 44. IK all about her, for certain people she would be a good match.[/QUOTE]What platforms are these for.

New Beautiful SLN Girl Bliss 19, Loves shopping and restaurants. Submissive and affectionate, loves to kiss while she rides daddy, bare is ok, wants to try a 3 sum MFF.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/babybliss/[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c4d5edb0-15e7-4d02-bac0-a9582935aa29[/URL]

While browsing seeking I come across a profile of a girl I've met in real life. She works at a local business.

So I ask you Sugar Daddy Masters, How do I approach this. LOL.

[QUOTE=Blackfin;7323917]Highlight of the weekend was a young Latina from Seeking. Mia, 22 from Newport. Drinks and hotel fun. 5 oo, open to BBFS, 2 rounds of fun. Also no mention of "Don't cum in me" which was a nice bonus.

Hoping to bring some life to this thread, as I prefer the OC Sugar Bowl.[/QUOTE]Open to sharing a link? PM is fine.

[QUOTE=Chuminh;7332794][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c4d5edb0-15e7-4d02-bac0-a9582935aa29[/URL]

While browsing seeking I come across a profile of a girl I've met in real life. She works at a local business.

So I ask you Sugar Daddy Masters, How do I approach this. LOL.[/QUOTE]I don't think there is much you can do to enhance your efforts with that knowledge. Perhaps you can use info about her to flatter her, or suggest things that you already know she likes. If you are concerned about OpSec, you might have to pass, if she can get your personal info from the business you patronize where she works.

I'd keep the fact you know her secret as long as possible.

[QUOTE=Blackfin;7323917]Highlight of the weekend was a young Latina from Seeking. Mia, 22 from Newport. Drinks and hotel fun. 5 oo, open to BBFS, 2 rounds of fun. Also no mention of "Don't cum in me" which was a nice bonus.

Hoping to bring some life to this thread, as I prefer the OC Sugar Bowl.[/QUOTE]Hook it up with the link?

[QUOTE=Chuminh;7332794][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c4d5edb0-15e7-4d02-bac0-a9582935aa29[/URL]

While browsing seeking I come across a profile of a girl I've met in real life. She works at a local business.

So I ask you Sugar Daddy Masters, How do I approach this. LOL.[/QUOTE]I've has success with this. I met a hostess who I had seen on SA. Told her I noticed her profile on site and what I was looking for. I told her I was having a hard time finding a real connection with genuine chemistry and attraction, someone who enjoys going to nice restaurants, that I am ok helping out financially when needed. This approach works well with most coffee shot / restaurants girls, or retail.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ef972c9f-b667-428e-a7fe-9fd115548f99[/URL]

Anyone ever meet this chick?

[QUOTE=FatEricRain;7364891][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ef972c9f-b667-428e-a7fe-9fd115548f99[/URL]

Anyone ever meet this chick?[/QUOTE]Slow your roll, Bunky. Notice how long she's been on the site? Not the usual recipe for success. Many years means a jaded SB who has heard every line, and will negotiate w / a sharp pencil.

Like a lot of asian girls, she has a preference for younger SDs, w / a cutoff around 50 not uncommon. That is why I wouldn't take a run at her. I mean, she looks delectable, I might have contacted her at some point, but it isn't a high probabiility event for someone like me, an older SD w / budgetary limitations. I mean if I was offering 1000 per meet, there aren't too many who could resist that (along w / my natural charm), but.

Nice girl, got her at around 500, but not a great kisser, a key for me. Odd, very reserved at initial public meetings (yes, multiple required), but then was ready to go to the FC. Hard to figure.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5f2578e4-4b12-401a-8a31-e1e48a6e2869[/URL]

[QUOTE=FatEricRain;7364891][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ef972c9f-b667-428e-a7fe-9fd115548f99[/URL]

Anyone ever meet this chick?[/QUOTE]I've talked to her on multiple websites but she always ghosts early in the convos.

This girl I have seen on a variety of sites. She's 30's, and very clearly submissive. She plies her trade in both OC and San Diego, and sometimes mentions on her profile she has a GF. I am pretty sure I've messaged w / her before, at least a little bit, but never pulled the trigger on more. I am wondering if anyone has any experience w / her to share.

Hey everyone, new SLN girl in Irvine Couldn't get her name, but she goes by Sexi69, and she is 37. She says she likes it rough, likes being spanked in doggy and face slapping in missionary. Loves being f*ed a lot and being called a sl*t while getting pounded. Will do 3 sums MFF + MFM, and also anal. BBFS with recent testing, mid range PPM.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Sexi69/[/URL]

I am in touch with a gal on that site who is smoking hot, likely around 40, and seems very real to talk to. She sent me some pics, and there was a handle on them, and I found she is a big TikTok star. I mean seriously. I am a little concerned about this. She has given me several different names, and phone #s from a variety of area codes.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7381690]I am in touch with a gal on that site who is smoking hot, likely around 40, and seems very real to talk to. She sent me some pics, and there was a handle on them, and I found she is a big TikTok star. I mean seriously. I am a little concerned about this. She has given me several different names, and phone #s from a variety of area codes.[/QUOTE]Be careful! Definitely sounds like a scammer.

Meet this one twice. She was new to the game few months ago, I was 3rd guy to get to her. Great set of tits on her, cute little peach fuzz on her ass. Dorky submissive attitude.

Open menu, BBBJ, CIM, BBFS, CIP just no anal. 4 mario coins for multiple hours and pops.

Only downside was her comms were a little slow so I found someone else.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/bb0c574009a3b03d[/URL]

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7381690]I am in touch with a gal on that site who is smoking hot, likely around 40, and seems very real to talk to. She sent me some pics, and there was a handle on them, and I found she is a big TikTok star. I mean seriously. I am a little concerned about this. She has given me several different names, and phone #s from a variety of area codes.[/QUOTE]I did a M&G w / her. She's not what she seemed. Perhaps the very made up girl on TikTok is her, but in front of me, she wasn't that hot. Sche claimed to have a PhD on her profile, but she doesn't know grammar. And she said she was going to have her electricity cut off if she didn't get 400 from me to pay her bill. I tried to touch her, weird like plastic underneath her clothes. She said she had gastric bypass surgery and had lost a bunch of weight.

I didn't want to take any further chances, and I reported her to What's Your Price. When I declined to meet with / her, she unleashed a stream of profanity about men are liars, etc.

[QUOTE=SugarLifeNow;7374049]Hey everyone, new SLN girl in Irvine Couldn't get her name, but she goes by Sexi69, and she is 37. She says she likes it rough, likes being spanked in doggy and face slapping in missionary. Loves being f*ed a lot and being called a sl*t while getting pounded. Will do 3 sums MFF + MFM, and also anal. BBFS with recent testing, mid range PPM.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Sexi69/[/URL][/QUOTE]Met her when she had a seeking account and she was a hell of a good time. Lost her number and regretted it.

So I provided a possible solution to getting membership on Seeking w / a prepaid card. I have used an Amex gift card I got at Staples and paid for credits on What's your Price, the sister site to seeking. They have the same payment processor so I thought it would fly. However, I used up that old one, I got a new one (that wasn't the same as the old one) and it didn't work.

The perennial problem for us guys w / a warden. I would like to next try their suggestion of a Google Play card on the Android app. However, IDK in advance if I will get the discount, so I am not sure how much $ to put on the card.

Does anyone know what you can do w / Google Play cards other than use it to buy membership in dating site?

BTW, on WYP, they don't have an Android app or allow Google Play. They will take payment through Google Pay, which is different. It is effectively like PayPal. You have to enter a card into your account. As I have a burner google account, I tried this w / my prepaid card. Didn't work.